My husband is acting like a dog in heat, chasing all girls around. What to do?

[daisymoore105]

I found out about my husband's weird behavior online, on his secret FB account. I installed a key logger and went into this FB account he made and I read all the messages. He has ALL women, no men, in there. He listed himself as single and interested in women, and he was hitting on all of them, especially the 17-22 year olds (slutty types on bikini and duck face shots). He's a manager at Waffle House, just got the job, and he's hitting on the waitresses from another store he was training at, offering to buy them dinners, flowers, etc, and he's also going after another manager in Orlando who has slutty poses, bikini shots, etc. He was also telling all of them how horrible I am, that he can't have his freedom with female friends, that I don't let him hang out with them, how he wants our marriage to end. Most of them know me because I pick him up/ take him to work. I feel like a total clown because he's been badmouthing me around and hitting on these girls big time. I am a good wife, we've been married for 11 yrs, no kids. I'm going through nursing school full time, I take care of the house, thrifty type of person, never deny him sex, and overall a cheerful person. So what's wrong with me? Is his behavior normal? He told me if I "interfere" with his female friends again, he will throw me out of the house and, according to him, I am not entitled to anything. He said either I am out of here or he moves out and lets the house go back to the bank (mortgage). I have no family nearby and I don't have a job now because of my full time nursing school schedule. He won't go to counseling w me. What to do?

[Mtsmith]

This really is your call. He is being a real jerk (trying not to get censored).

You need to get through school, so that comes first. You don't need to put up with him proving everyday he is divorce material, but you might think over having sex with him, just to remind him what he can miss (guys,in late 30s sometimes try to be teens, act accordingly, meaning dumb).

If you have a friend, someone you can stay with, take a "vacation", (figure no school) leave him on his own, come back. If he decides this is his life, leave. It will be,hard. Talk to a teacher, someone in authority at,school so you can keep going. I am sure you will get some help, and nurses are in demand.

Get as much stuff in your name, like a credit card. Let him have the house.

Keep in mind, he keeps this up, a waitress is going to complain, he will be in deeper sh*t.

Take care of you. And be thankful no kids are getting messed up

[Joedog]

very well put! Don't waste any more time with the loser!

[AlessandraRossa]

OMG I couldn't be able to stay with him and not killing him! he sounds like totally a**hole!

It's nothing wrong with you but with him , I can't even believe he behaves like this..

I would divorce him , you must have any friend someone in which home you could stay for some time and who could help you . Don't stay with him because he doesn't appreciate you, and is disrespectful.Don't be his "victim " please..

You should leave and he will see then what he lost.. and what this girls can give him ..

[SuttonHoward58]

"I installed a key logger and went into this FB account he made and I read all the messages."
That was really awesome :)
You did the best job so that now I can keep my eye on my boyfriend.
Now, one of my gag friend suggest me
I will use for sure :D