She wants you back.
She's thinking he hasn't contacted since we split...his moving on to better things I want him back. And she regrets her decision.
Question is do you want her back?
If so play it cool and don't text her back until the next day in the afternoon..it doesn't show your keen or desperate. When you text her send her a short reply not requiring an answer from her. For example you reply '' I'm great thanks, things are very good ". Make it a positive happy response showing you can live a good life without her.
She dumped you let her do the work to get you back. And don't fully commit because she could be toying with you.Once she realizes you want her back, she will take advantage. Keep control at all times and don't let her play you.
Remember she dumped you...so she needs to work it if you want her back.
But for sure she's thinking about you.
Your ex girlfriend probably regrets the relationship ending and misses you and is thinking about it and couldn't bear the thought of being without you that's why she sent that text. She wants to catch up maybe or fix things. Maybe she realized that she just lost a wonderful boyfriend and no one can ever compare to him and realized it was a mistake. Who knows. She's the type that don't appreciate things until its gone. Her motive is to get back together, be just friends, maybe even hookup, or wants you to be the guy she can come and vent to about things.
Don't reply to her. It's over for a reason so keep on doing what you do after you two broke up, not contacting her. Straight up no contact.
DO NOT JUMP TO ANY CONCLUSIONS. While it is possible that she regrets her decision and wants you back, she might also actually just have been genuinely wondering how you were, trying to stay friends maybe? I did this exact same thing with one of my past boyfriends just because I didn't want to like never talk to him again, you know? It just felt weird, it went from him being such a big part of my life and us talking every day, to never talking to him. (we ended on very good terms) He didn't answer me. I was kinda hurt, but of course I can understand why he didn't. If you still like her, maybe it's a better idea to do the same and not answer. If you think you can handle it and maybe try and still be friends though, go for it. Good luck!
Option 1: she wants to become a friend or have a FWB situation. If that's the case and you still like her a lot, do not accept any of those options.
Option 2: she might be reconsidering. In this case you should fully understand what happened. Why did she left first and she wants to reconnect now. Girls like to pour their hearts if your open to hear, so make her speak (and she will, if she loves you).
How do you find out which one it is? By asking her. In a chilled out way, no drama, but let her know you need to understand what she wants.
If not you might misunderstand her signs because girls sometimes think they're beign obvious, but they're just being overly subtle :p
Anything could be from being bored, to wanting to boost her confidence, or even wanting you back. If you do reply, reply simply: Why are you texting me?
Don't try to humor her bullsh*t mixed messages she will surely send, if you let yourself fall for it. This is where the friendzone starts. Be a man and say what you have to say to her, not us.
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Run fast! it wouldn't have ended if it was meant to last. and it will keep you from moving on to bigger and better things! Trust me! & 2 weeks after "Ending the relationship' and she is already hittin you up, it's just gonna start a whirlwind cycle of the same old $hit eventually. But if you DO want to try again with her then you should hit her back up with a reply, but if you DO NOT want to then just let it go. Move on with your life, no response to her. Just leave it alone.
I think that you were on her mind. Obviously she couldn't forget about you and there's a chance that she feels she made a mistake. Another option would be that she wasn't completely satisfied with how things ended and wants to get some closure. She could possibly want to just be friends now.
Usually when a girl dumps you, she wants to be sure that your 'feelings' are okay and that you are not 'angry' with her or 'upset' with your 'failings'. Or it could be that she really cares.
She could be taking the road less traveled and is being nice and trying to still be friends - the benefits are optional (in the air - at the moment).
Motive would depend on the type of person that she is, as you tell us nothing about her - we have no clue...less then evenn you.
She might want you back, but if I were you I wouldn't hold my breath.
Personally, I think it might be guilt. It may not seem like it when you're the one who was dumped, but being the person responsible for the current sadness for someone you used to love really sucks. She probably still cares about you to some degree and wants to make sure that she didn't hurt you too badly.
i think she might be regretting leaving, or might be attempting to still be friends. iam still friends with my ex now, even though she knows iam with someone else now. we still talk, but don't think id ever want to hang out with her. just be weird with me dating someone else and all.
She regrets her decision. LIke PrettyMaMi2 said, I'd advise running the other direction...and quickly.
Probably either trying to get back with you, become friends, or hookup.
She wants to stay friends perhaps?
Sure go ahead
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