Her birthday is tomorrow, we were madly in love, should I send her a text? We haven't spoken for almost a year, it ended badly and I even blocked her on Facebook.
I’ve tried to move on, but I can’t help it that I still have feelings for her. She is also keeping a picture from our relationship as her profile pic she has had it there for the past year, either to remind me of the relationship or to mind-f*** me. I’m not sure why, but it’s really weird.
She did me wrong but I’m kind of tired of staying mad at her so should I send her text and congratulate her?
A part of me wants to show her I still care but the other part is like saying it will only boost her ego and make me feel bad about it.
So if I am going to do it, why should I be doing it?
And if not why shoulden't i?
What do you think? I might let the votes decide.
- Congratulate her after all you did love her.Vote A
- Don't do it, she doesn’t deserve it!Vote B
- Don't know/ Just wanted to see the resultsVote C
And wrote the following
It's been a long time, Happy Birthday, hope you had a great day today.
I did it because I was scared not to do it, I was scared to unblock her, I challenged myself, we'll see what kind of response I get, I'm not going to focus so much on that.
And honestly it felt good dissing her and having her blocked, so I don't know how I will feel after this, perhaps keeping the lines of communcation is good than closed?
Most Helpful Girl
I say A, for a few reasons.
If she hurt it has been a year now, and she still has that profile pic, which definitely means she still cares about you.
Whether you want to let her know you care or just be friends, wishing her happy birthday, may just smooth the tension and it will make you feel better, because it sounds like you are torturing yourself.
Life is too short to be mad forever, anyway its not getting you anywhere because you still care for her. She made a mistake and hurt you clearly, but she has already paid the price, she lost you as a boyfriend.
Just go for it, what's the worst that could happen. You never know you may regain a friend.