so, my ex-gf wished me a happy birthday, but I don’t know if I should respond and here’s why. After we broke up and she threw me out of the house we didn’t speak for a month. After we met again after a month she told me that she has been seeing somebody for at least a couple weeks and gave me enough information to see that she was, at least, emotionally cheating on me for about a month prior to the breakup. I also found out that her new guy had spent the night before I even moved out which was 4 days after we broke up. It’s obvious that she was seeing him behind my back from her social network interactions between them before we broke up. She said they have been “friends” on Facebook for a while. So, she cheated on me, left me for him AND, at the time of the breakup, blamed everything on me without any remorse or empathy. I sent her a text saying that I don’t want to be friends and only want a romantic relationship and if she feels the same then we can discuss it. She never replied; she just ghosted me. 3 months later she texts me happy birthday. Should I respond?
Damn man, sounds like you're well rid of that girl. Cheating on you and then running off with the other dude so fast? Cold blooded. I wouldn't even waste my time responding to her birthday text, just leave her on read. She broke your trust in the worst way and doesn't deserve any of your energy now. You were right to cut her off completely after that mess.
I'd just forget about her dude. She's clearly shown you who she is - an untrustworthy, selfish person who'll drop you the second someone "better" comes along. You deserve way better treatment from any girl you date. Don't give her the satisfaction of thinking she can come back and mess with your head whenever it's convenient for her feels. Just keep it moving and find a girl who appreciates you for real. Happy birthday to YOU, not her drama! Next year will be even better without that baggage, trust.
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DO NOT RESPOND. She does not deserve your time.
No dont respond. If anything keep her blocked.
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