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If you want to be more interesting to him, you've got to peak his curiosity about you. Right now he probably feels like he's got you on a string wrapped around his finger (and he does!) but for the love of all that is holy, you CANNOT let him know this! While he does, you'll just be the girl on the shelf who (he knows) will always be there WHEN he wants you. Now you're wondering when that will be? Well, I 'll tell you when... when you show him signs that you're moving on. You've got to put that fear of losing you (for good) in him to bring him into action with you! Unfortunately, nothing else is going to work! No nasty pics, or displays of gushing affection for him will do! Although, the thought of losing you to another man will put a fire under his ass! I know how hard it is, as I'm in a similar situation myself. We have to bite our lips though and show ourselves to be the attractive, desirable, sexy women that we are... who doesn't need THEM to be happy! So, FORGET ABOUT HIM for now (I know you can't but at least make him think so!) and do all the things that make you feel good about yourself (workout, do your makeup and hair, buy a new sexy outfit) and get out there and mingle (in front of him, if possible!) Not so much flirting as to offend him but just enough to wanna tighten his rein on you will get him to come around. Show him (or at least make him think) he's NOT the center of your attention and I guarantee he'll be knocking on your door soon thereafter! Good luck and as tough as the withdrawals may be, try and have fun... in this dance of seduction, lol.