My ex and I broke up about a month ago. Since then, he's been in contact. He is very angry, although I'm not 100% why, and he's not really saying. Apparently, if he can get over being angry, there's a chance that things will be okay with he and I (his words). In truth, I don't feel like I did anything wrong. I feel like he's taking his stress out on me, since a friend of mine told me that he's been working two full time jobs since a few days before he and I broke up.
I was thinking of sending him a care package, with some of his favorite candy, and maybe a movie or something like that, just to maybe give him something to smile about. But I'm also worried that he'd open it and be angry that I sent it.
What do you think? Would it be a bad idea? He's emailed me a few times this week, so we're speaking -- just things are very very odd.
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Why did you guys break up? Was it mutual?
It seems like he's really not happy about it, I'm not sure why he would be keeping in contact with you though unless he's hoping for things to get better between you two.
Sending him a care package just to make him smile sounds.. unnecessary. It might sound mean but right now it doesn't seem like it's your job to make him smile or feel happy. You are either going to start sending false, confusing signals or maybe just upset him further.1