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How did you finally move on from your previous relationship?

I escaped an abusive relationship almost 2yrs ago. I don't miss him. I miss and still grieving the future and dreams he promised of us together, grieving my effort and the genuine love I had for that man and how much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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If someone breaks up with you, do they really love you?

If your SO breaks up with you, would you trust them again to give them a second chance or feel that they don't really love you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If your SO breaks up with you, would you trust them again to give them a second chance or feel that they don't really love you?

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What is the likelihood of my ex coming back when we were serious before the breakup?

I wanted to know this since I wanted to know a man's mentality behind it. My relationship lasted almost 5 years with my ex. He left because he said he needed to "find himself" since he was unsure of what he wanted from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What are you supposed to say when an ex is calling to let you know he's moving to a different state?

My 4 and half-relationship ended a couple of weeks ago, and the breakup did blindside me a little bit. I knew prior to the breakup that he wanted to move to this state since most of his relatives were there, and he wanted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Is the ex's mom ruining the no-contact rule post-breakup and the likelihood of reconciliation?

My 4.5-year relationship ended a couple of weeks ago due to him saying that he felt like the "bad guy," wanting to work on himself, and a couple of other reasons that weren't too serious. He said that he didn't mind us...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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I always end up hating men I get in relationships with, why?

Every man i have dated ends up having red flags or flaws and i always remember the good and the bad so I can’t break up but I end up having strong feelings of hatred towards them. Until we break up it obvious and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What is the likelihood that he will come back after a breakup?

He and I had a 4.5-year relationship that was mainly long-distance (3 hours away). We had usual issues throughout our time together. Around year 2 of the relationship, he said he wanted to break up since he felt like the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How do people move on from someone they actually love?

Anonymous

(25-29)

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My ex and I got into a physical dispute last month and he moved on quickly into a new relationship. Was this his intention to date this person?

Last month my ex and I got into a huge fight, and he physically assaulted me. This fight was our biggest fight we ever had. I ended up with bruises on my arms and legs with scratch marks on my arms and a bloody...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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I told my boyfriend to unfriend his ex and he dumped me?

I told my boyfriend to unfriend his ex on Facebook. I sent him a message saying. "Please unfriend her, you know how nasty she was to you, I don't think you should have her as someone you talk to and you shouldn't even let...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Do you think you would fully heal if your ex apologised years later?

Just a thought…I’m wondering if you have an ex that really hurt you in the past. And if they came back into your life and you finally gave you that ‘closure’ - except years have gone by now and you can talk about it with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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What would you do if u and ur partner of six months ‘were on a break’ and on that ‘break’ he went on a a date while you were working to fix it?

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Should I Consider Doing Once a Week face time Again with my EX?

We Were in a Nearly Four Year LDR and We had Face Time Nearly Every Day. I Broke it Off Months ago But it Seems we are Getting along a Bit Better. I stopped Venting. Should I Google Chat Cam with him (We do Google Chat...

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Why did my ex text me after 1 month of no contact to blame me?

after the breakup (im the dumper because he disrespected me) i kept begging and texting him for 2 months to give us a chance to fix our relationship and get back together but he always respond with no we should cut off...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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What’s the best way to break up with someone?

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How to know if he is being genuine when he says he is working on himself? If he is, will he come back?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

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I usually don’t ask questions on here but I can’t make sense of this? What was his motive?

I was dating a man for a month when all of sudden he started acting strange and distance. When I questioned him about it he said I was being toxic and manipulative and I needed to heal so he was dumping me. It was super...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Is there a number of heartbreaks before you find ‘the one’?

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Ex told me to delete shared photos on instagram so there would be like he never spoke to me?

He told me he’s seeing someone and has all these plans now in life and he’s happy in life and is afraid I would ruin it one day on him so he’s blocked me completely after tormenting & playing cruel mind games with me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Is Domestic Abuse?

I’ve been talking to this guy for 3 months he seemed really nice but he was very clingy fast. When I say clingy I mean he held my hand on the first date and had me meet his mom on the second date. I quickly notice his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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