myTakes: Break Up & Divorce

Am I the only one on the planet who doesn't believe that "It's not you, it's me" is an excuse? Have you been on one side or the other of this line in a break up situation? Does anyone buy this explanation? After it...

1. "Forget him, there are lots of guys around you" Of course there are but her eyes won't see them. 2. "You did the right thing, he was even trying to flirt with me" Why didn't you say so before? 3. "He wasn't handsome,...

Many of the questions/myTakes regarding sexuality and female promiscuity have had at least one guy point out, "MEN DON'T WANT WOMEN WHO HAVE SLEPT WITH A LOT OF WOMEN" (totally fair if that's a requirement for you, you...

1. Some things don’t have a promising future Some relationships and friendships don’t end happily. You can understand that at the beginning, and you understand that you have some people in your life just to have an...

Heartbreak is excruciatingly painful. It can have a detrimental affect on your emotional,physical and mental state. It is a sad and disorientating time. When couples part the pain can be profound because it represents the...

Don't delay You don't need a permission or a really good reason to break up. Talk face-to-face If you are in a long term relationship then your partner deserves a face-to-face talk. Don't forget to use the word...

1. Going berserk It's one of the most common quick responses. You deactivate your logic and let your imprinting come out. 2. ATTACK It's a way of the anger coming out of you. It's better for the duper to disappear for a...

1. The first message after the breakup You usually receive it when you go out to have fun with your friends. And suddenly your phone vibrates. What's up? :) 2. When you hear his/her favorite song You keep messaging as...

1. "See what you have lost" They ask to meet one last time to show what he is missing. 2. "Life is over for me" They are the ones who make their boyfriend the center of their life. They may even get into depression. 3....

1. It really is too soon If you really liked your ex, and you dated for a long time, and you're wondering why a month later, you haven't moved on yet, it might literally be too soon. You can't force yourself to just be...

So I know you may be thinking this is impossible . And trust me, I know why you're thinking this. My first love made it almost impossible for me to get over him as well. It was horrible. I thought about him every day and...

I miss you. I miss your smile. I miss your laugh. I miss our late night conversations. I miss the way your arms felt around me. I miss how you playfully teased me. I miss sleeping in your bed, my nose buried in the...