In case you do not feel like answering here is the best I can do given my current knowledge. DO NOT MARRY HIM!!! Not because he is a cheater but instead because you are young. Cheaters can change so that is an issue for my questions above. If he cheated recently there is no excuse even if you were not showing interest. What do you want him cheating in 5 years because you are busy with work and kids? So do not let him off with that as an excuse. But also if you were ignoring him on purpose just because he wasn't supporting you that is super childish on your end as well. It sounds like you both have a lot of growing up to do, so do not get married!! Just be happy and be together. What is the point of marriage if you are happy dating? Its just a title and shouldn't be needed in the first place. Just keep dating and my advice work on your communication with each other.
He cheated on you means he doesn't love you. A person who is in love can't feel and cheat on his loved one for anyone else. If he cheats, it means ho doesn't love. This can't be "love".
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no one has the right to cheat. there's no "pass" that lets you cheat. i think you need to be a little smarter and leave for obvious reasons.
Your life is going to be a series of emotional train wrecks each more devastating then the last.
You both sound stupid
go get married but dont cry when either one of you wants a divorce or is unfaithful
Can I ask how long its been since you know for sure he last cheated? Also have you suspected it any since then?
In case you do not feel like answering here is the best I can do given my current knowledge. DO NOT MARRY HIM!!! Not because he is a cheater but instead because you are young. Cheaters can change so that is an issue for my questions above. If he cheated recently there is no excuse even if you were not showing interest. What do you want him cheating in 5 years because you are busy with work and kids? So do not let him off with that as an excuse. But also if you were ignoring him on purpose just because he wasn't supporting you that is super childish on your end as well. It sounds like you both have a lot of growing up to do, so do not get married!! Just be happy and be together. What is the point of marriage if you are happy dating? Its just a title and shouldn't be needed in the first place. Just keep dating and my advice work on your communication with each other.
After 6 years u r asking this question?
I would have dumped him the first time he did that.
I don't think it's a good idea to marry him after he cheated on you.
I think you need to consider the possibility of him cheating again! If you have any feeling that he will then you need to end things
He cheated on you means he doesn't love you. A person who is in love can't feel and cheat on his loved one for anyone else. If he cheats, it means ho doesn't love. This can't be "love".
why is this a take? lol anyway break up with him i know it's hard but you deserve better.
He's not going to stop so just dump him
Lady, you are screwed.
He cheated on you several times, leave him.
all trust is gone
''lightly''?