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And they say girls mature before boys.
Take your lesson from this boys. Just be an asshole in your 20's. It's what the girls will go for. Then you too can get layed. Then in your 30's you can switch back to your true self. That's what chicks like so give it to them. Waiting on the sidelines for girls to wise up is a waist of time. Give them what they want and have fun doing it.
I just wish females were more straightforward in what they wanted instead of being so complex I also wish that females wouldn't lead a guy on when they didn't have genuine interest in a guy.. but fuck I always been single and not by choice so what do I know?
trust me men are the same way, human beings in general are complex, indecisive, and confusing.
Well, I don't know I've always been single and I've harbored bitterness because of mistreatment so every time a female approaches me I can just tell them to fuck off or every time one gives me eye contact I can flick them off.. hate people
if you were really being this tough towards girls I doubt you would be single right now.
I think one of the issues with the whole idea that "women are so complex" is that sometimes men forget that we're just not all the same... of course "women" seem complex if you're expecting us to all want the same things and have the same expectations, and so on. We're individuals. We all want different things...
Thank you. Everybody seriously needs to shut the fuck up with all this "girls don't like nice guys" bullshit. It's 2015; come up with a new excuse for being a fuckboy.
And sometimes you fall for someone for their good qualities and you're naive enough to ignore the bad ones. The really really bad ones.
why would a guy want to date an older women? dudes just take the lessons you learn and date younger women. no need to entertain women past a certain age. that's just I don't know disrespectful to yourself.
you actually said let the assholes fuck the girl first work on your career and money than an old lady will want you for your money later. wtf is wrong with you to actually think this is anything. I pity the man that ends up with you.
LOL, I love you man. No homo. I agree with you.
@ GiveMeSexPlease no homo taken. I think you will find most men with options agree with me. I speak the truth.
@dudeman you sound really retarded and no better than a girl who chases assholes (a girl who dates guys for the wrong reasons). you're dating girls for the wrong reasons too. I only date nice, mature guy and stay far away from guys like you. you're the type of guy who would be just like an asshole hot guy if you had the option. but because you're probably unattractive, all you can do is be bitter since your personality sucks.
@Pampered you realize she insulted every man in this post right? how in any way was my response not valid. read other mens opinions its a common one to mine.
@dudeman because it's rude and makes you look like more of an asshole than "the hot jerk" types. it would make me feel like if I dated someone like you, you'd leave me as soon as you didn't consider me sexually attractive anymore. so why should I date someone like you? I wouldn't. I only date nice, mature guys who aren't pigs like you. you're the same as most guys and you try to seem different, you're not. you're just as bad and girls should stay far away from you.
@Pampered no see the idea is to meet a girl and grow old together not to marry an old women. I don't see how anything I said would make me a pig or not mature.
"you actually said let the assholes fuck the girl first work on your career and money than an old lady will want you for your money later. wtf is wrong with you to actually think this is anything."
Um, but no I didn't... I didn't say anything like that! lol but whatevs.
you said it with more words. its really insulting to decent men out there to accept a women whos been like this.
What I said was that people are naive when they're younger and a lot of those "asshole" traits are misread.. and that as we get older we become better at seeing through that shit. But I'm writing this from a woman's perspective and based on my own experiences.
and how that translates to men is that women are going to fuck losers while young and want a decent man to pay full price for used goods. I am not the only man that has read this that way.
Its that whole appeal of a bad boy/player thing that makes some girls attracted or overlook a guy that isn't nice to them or is using them
What?
Good take. Keep it up!!
Thanks!
Lol even the girls opinions on this Take go against the point you're trying to make.
Also, you didn't exactly give the best advice to guys by telling them to not date women in their younger years and wait till they get older.
Well some of us really had no choice, regardless of the countless things we tried (i. e. asking girls out, attempting to forge connections with girls, using online dating sites, etc).
Great. You're absolutely right. The things you described, help us getting laid with different girls.
I'll just put this here
Thats roughly two minutes of my life I wish I had back.
Young girls are the best for sex. I refuse to marry older women unless they can cook or throw money at me.
It was a joke, but okay girls. :D I honestly don't care about age. I don't even care about looks either. I just like girls who are receptive to my existence. By the way, I lost my virginity last week to a prostitute. I've seen prostitutes three times now. I feel good for the first time in my life. It's not fair that girls kept me waiting for sex. My entire brain was locked up for 26 years. My OCD, depression, anxiety and ADD are almost gone now. I plan on banging one more prostitute so my brain completely heals, then I'm giving up on girls. I'm going to unlock the human genome in one month. Then, I'm leaving this planet. I'd rather chase girls in other benevolent planets than the evil girls on this planet. Let's see what humans are capable of through true freedom. Peace.
assholes spike a woman's sex drive a lot. by how they act and look. so it's had to care about anything else, except wanting to fuck them.
All this proves is that women value looks just as much as men AND if you look good it really doesn't matter.
You didn't know that?
I wasn't trying to "prove" anything. I was sharing what I have learned in hopes that it might help other people who are struggling with this stuff.
So basically if I look good, I can treat women like crap?
Way to miss the whole point dude. What a waste of space.
So. Much. Bitterness...
but that is the truth. That is what you said
It doesn't even matter, I'm done with people, they're cruel and I hate them
There are good ones out there. It's a pain in the ass to find them, but its worth it.
This is actually pretty good.. Well done!
What i have confirmed from this take; girls put looks and charm before niceness.
"Niceness" isn't the be all end all.. plenty of people are "nice" for their own ulterior purposes...
A guy who is genuine in his kindness is far more attractive than "nice".
Then let me reword that:
Girls put looks and charm before genuine kindness.
I'd have to disagree. If I can choose between two guys, both of whom are confident and funny, but one of whom is kind of dickish and the other is genuinely kind, I'll choose the kind dude every damn time. Now, if the kind dude is insecure and unsure of himself, while the kinda dickish dude is confident and self-assured, I'll probably find the confident dude more attractive, because even though he's kind of dickish, at least I know I'm not gonna have to coddle his feelings all the time, and if I'm confident around him as well, chances are he'll respect that confidence (whereas he won't be respectful to someone who's insecure).
I see what you mean. That makes sense :)
Now, if a guy is a genuine asshole, it don't matter HOW cool and confident he is. I'm not interested.
Now i am going to mention the lovely Anon man down a ways. The one who says that the fantasy that women have of a hot guy should be gone within the first few encounters. I think he's right. Why can't women notice what the guy really is faster than she should?
A lot of times, guys that really are assholes will play on women's feelings too and play up the idea that they really are a great guy for a while.
Look, I'm not saying that no women ever actually find assholes attractive, just that, generally speaking, what we really WANT are certain qualities that sometimes the types of guys other guys consider "assholes" tend to exhibit.
Good take.
Thanks :)
I dated an idiot for a year without realising he was an idiot. He treated me nicely sometimes and then horribly the rest of the time but I was too caught up to notice the bad, and that's my fault. I always try and see the good, and sometimes I think that's dangerous. That relationship endless horribly, but the good thing is, now I know what to avoid and red flags now appear. Sometimes it's just about experiencing it and learning.
This is a really good take!
You can't have it all just get over it already.
Too bad I'm an asshole and loser
so are most guys on here. they'd use girls if they were given the opportunity..
I don't know that most guys on here are. With the "use" thing girls do that also look at the gold diggers using rich man for their vanity
your wrong pampered. Most guys on GAG have problems... that's why they are on here (me included). I would even go far to say that most guys on GAG are "nice guys". True assholes are out getting laid as we speak. They don't need "support".
True that