I've always been the kind of person that doesn't enjoy the company of a girl as much as that of a guy. The truth about girls is that they are very competitive with each other, they enjoy gossiping about each other, they always want to be and look the best, and they are very dramatic. And that's the difference between girls and guys. Guys seem to actually care and love each other more than girls do. They could care less about who looks better, who's more stylish, about who did what, what somebody lied about, or about what others are hiding.
Guys tend to be more chill, they hate dealing with dramatic situations, and that, my friends, is what makes their lives a better place to live in.
I'm saying that girls are generally mean from my personal experience. I have NEVER had a true girl friend. Over the years, the girls who I thought were my friends turned out to be fake. And their motives to being "my friends" were the following:
- Most of them pretended to be my friends cause I was the smartest one in class and I used to be the only one who understood what the teachers said and the only one who did the homework. So basically, they just were using me to get their homework done and to be able to copy the test from me.
- When I finally thought I had a best friend who got me so well and who actually appreciated the kind of person I am, it turned out that she was just my bff in order to keep an eye on me since her boyfriend was in my class and since him and I were really good friends.
- One of my "good friends" turned out to be pretending to be nice to me just because her crush and I used to get each other and get along with each other too well and we used to have so many things in common.
I also had "freinds" who were jealous because of my likeable personality (I don't mean to boast) and because I used to get a lot of attention from guys (now seriously, i'm really not trying to boast about it or anything). I'd rather call them frenemies not friends. So usually, those girls used to be incredibly nice to my face that they used to kiss and hug me whenever we saw each other, but then they used to talk about me behind my back.
Another demonstration to how mean and awful girls are:
I was once sick and missed a couple of courses. We later had an exam on what they did then. So before that, I asked one of the girls (nicely and adorable-ly) to send me what the professor gave them. At first, she gave me an awkward ugly look and said okay. But she didn't send me anything. I then reminded her about them and she said she was gonna do it when she gets home. But she didn't. That girl was obviously doing it on purpose for some reason since she wasn't such a busy girl to forget about what I asked her for. I then asked a guy that I have barely spoken to during classes and so he nicely and immediately agreed to help me. So, I still don't get what that girl's deal was since she didn't have any good reason to not wanna help me. I never did anything bad to her. Cause I'm a VERY nice person.
I wanna say that every girl has this mean and cruel side no matter how close she is to her girlfriend. Women tend to even be nicer and willing to help a guy than a girl. Maybe that's cause they like to impress the dudes around them. But I still don't get why they have to be mean. Okay, I admit some of them are the same with guys. And I'm on the guy's side this time cause I know that girls can be unbelievable and their actions don't make any sense most of the time. I'd choose a guy best friend over a girl best friend any day since you can never be 100% sure that your girlfriend will always be on your side, but I kinda know that the guy can be more loyal to me than a girl ever was.
From my personal experiences, my guy friends never let me down. They seemed to be more trustworthy and understanding. I have never met a girl who wasn't at least a bit judgmental.
It's pretty sad actually since I'm a girl. But I have NEVER disappointed anyone. I have NEVER betrayed anyone. I have NEVER insulted anyone. I have NEVER hurt anyone. I have NEVER made anyone feel inferior to me. I have NEVER showed anyone that I didn't like them. And I sure have NEVER been mean to anyone.
I am always there for anyone who needs me. I always help others whether they asked for my help or not. It simply makes me feel happy and satisfied. I always make people feel loved. And I'm always nice to everyone even to the meanest of girls.
I'm sorry if you guys think I exaggerated but this is just how I always felt towards my girl friends. And I mean no offence to the girls on G@G since I've met really nice girls around here. And that's a thing that doesn't happen everyday in my world.
As much as it makes me angry when guys think that I'm just like the other girls, i'm actually glad I'm not a dude cause I don't have to put up with all the girly stuff when it comes to being in a relationship.
Once again, I'm really sorry girls, but you can't blame me. That's probably just my bad luck for having had such horrible girlfriends.
Thanks for understanding!
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Oh my this is so stereotypical I can't even... Smh 😐 First off, guys are not always "dramaless", heck some of my guy friends go through so much drama I don't even know how they deal 😂 (hooking up with some dudes girlfriend or ex, real bad tensions and fights). I also had a problem with a guy who I told a lot of my secrets to, thinking he wouldn't tell anyone but yeah he told all his guy friends in his clique 😕 then again I can't complain, usually I tell my best friends others secrets because that's just what we do and we keep it in our group.
I do understand you why you may think girls have so much drama, and well I can't deny the most dramatic/difficult person I know is a girl friend of mine. Doesn't mean guys aren't any better though, honestly I've had "personally" way more problems and drama with her overly dramatic brother than her 😅 And he looooves drama so much, we'd constantly argue day in day out in class, drained so much of my energy... 😑 Chill, my ass.
I don't know maybe we've just come across completely opposite people. I mean, I know a lot of dudes that love to gossip...
I just wanted to say, you can't put genders in two boxes when you're discussing social situations, everyone is different, humans are so complex. I have my best girl friend whom I trust more than my family, and we know so much about each other and been through so much together that our bond is so strong and loyal, I legit consider her my other half.
And also, you can't say you've never disappointed anyone or never hurt anyone, you don't know how they feel... Sometimes I get disappointed in people but I just don't tell them. And everyone is judgmental. That's just a fact, some are just more than others and it is definitely NOT a gender thing at all. You are being judgmental right now of other girls. Just saying...
That's another point of view..
I think I remember OP saying this was purely from her experience. Just saying...
@jormungan What is the point in writing something completely stereotyping and generalizing an entire gender based off of your personal experience, if in your head you know not everyone has had the same experiences as you or if you know that your opinion doesn't speak for everyone.
Also claiming in your title "Women fact" and then saying "but oh it's just my experience" is ridiculous lol
I meant @jormungand *
I have to smash the hell out of my D key on this laptop to get it to work lol
@GirlsLie I get your point. But you can never spezk fora whole population though, aiways a part of it. That's why people generalise. The same goes for you, you use an example out if your life, which could easily be an exception to the rule. The OP was talking about how she experienced less drama with boys compared to girls (and i think this is generally the truth), so ofcourse this is 'stereotypical', but what's the big deal? Again, i understand where you at coming from
@GirlsLie aaand don't get me wrong, girls are wonderful creatures and I couldn't live without them. But i do think they make more (unnecessary) drama (in general), but saying every single girl is a dramaqueen, is just not right. 😊
lol well I understand that people stereotype and judge but I just think it's a little hypocritical to list all of the things that you hate based on your experience, yet participate in those very same traits just to make a point about why you think women are mean.
"omg I hate girls they cause so much drama" = Write a take with the most dramatic examples, full of drama about why I think women are mean"
"Fact: women are so mean, i've never been mean to anyone" = Writes a take generalizing women, in one of the meanest ways possible.
"Guy friends won't hit on the guys I find cute"= like, omg I just hate drama
I mean give me a break, you can't take part in exactly what you dislike and what you generalize and then complain about it.
That was also for @R3d_Anonymous and @Transigence
Guess it would have be easier to put it all in one place from the start, sorry lol
@GirlsLie hahaha yeah, that's kinda true