Women fact: They are the meanest creatures!

[BumbleSuperBee]

I've always been the kind of person that doesn't enjoy the company of a girl as much as that of a guy. The truth about girls is that they are very competitive with each other, they enjoy gossiping about each other, they always want to be and look the best, and they are very dramatic. And that's the difference between girls and guys. Guys seem to actually care and love each other more than girls do. They could care less about who looks better, who's more stylish, about who did what, what somebody lied about, or about what others are hiding.

Guys tend to be more chill, they hate dealing with dramatic situations, and that, my friends, is what makes their lives a better place to live in.

I'm saying that girls are generally mean from my personal experience. I have NEVER had a true girl friend. Over the years, the girls who I thought were my friends turned out to be fake. And their motives to being "my friends" were the following:

- Most of them pretended to be my friends cause I was the smartest one in class and I used to be the only one who understood what the teachers said and the only one who did the homework. So basically, they just were using me to get their homework done and to be able to copy the test from me.

- When I finally thought I had a best friend who got me so well and who actually appreciated the kind of person I am, it turned out that she was just my bff in order to keep an eye on me since her boyfriend was in my class and since him and I were really good friends.

- One of my "good friends" turned out to be pretending to be nice to me just because her crush and I used to get each other and get along with each other too well and we used to have so many things in common.

I also had "freinds" who were jealous because of my likeable personality (I don't mean to boast) and because I used to get a lot of attention from guys (now seriously, i'm really not trying to boast about it or anything). I'd rather call them frenemies not friends. So usually, those girls used to be incredibly nice to my face that they used to kiss and hug me whenever we saw each other, but then they used to talk about me behind my back.

Another demonstration to how mean and awful girls are:
I was once sick and missed a couple of courses. We later had an exam on what they did then. So before that, I asked one of the girls (nicely and adorable-ly) to send me what the professor gave them. At first, she gave me an awkward ugly look and said okay. But she didn't send me anything. I then reminded her about them and she said she was gonna do it when she gets home. But she didn't. That girl was obviously doing it on purpose for some reason since she wasn't such a busy girl to forget about what I asked her for. I then asked a guy that I have barely spoken to during classes and so he nicely and immediately agreed to help me. So, I still don't get what that girl's deal was since she didn't have any good reason to not wanna help me. I never did anything bad to her. Cause I'm a VERY nice person.

To conclude:

I wanna say that every girl has this mean and cruel side no matter how close she is to her girlfriend. Women tend to even be nicer and willing to help a guy than a girl. Maybe that's cause they like to impress the dudes around them. But I still don't get why they have to be mean. Okay, I admit some of them are the same with guys. And I'm on the guy's side this time cause I know that girls can be unbelievable and their actions don't make any sense most of the time. I'd choose a guy best friend over a girl best friend any day since you can never be 100% sure that your girlfriend will always be on your side, but I kinda know that the guy can be more loyal to me than a girl ever was.
From my personal experiences, my guy friends never let me down. They seemed to be more trustworthy and understanding. I have never met a girl who wasn't at least a bit judgmental.
It's pretty sad actually since I'm a girl. But I have NEVER disappointed anyone. I have NEVER betrayed anyone. I have NEVER insulted anyone. I have NEVER hurt anyone. I have NEVER made anyone feel inferior to me. I have NEVER showed anyone that I didn't like them. And I sure have NEVER been mean to anyone.

I am always there for anyone who needs me. I always help others whether they asked for my help or not. It simply makes me feel happy and satisfied. I always make people feel loved. And I'm always nice to everyone even to the meanest of girls.

I'm sorry if you guys think I exaggerated but this is just how I always felt towards my girl friends. And I mean no offence to the girls on G@G since I've met really nice girls around here. And that's a thing that doesn't happen everyday in my world.

As much as it makes me angry when guys think that I'm just like the other girls, i'm actually glad I'm not a dude cause I don't have to put up with all the girly stuff when it comes to being in a relationship.

Once again, I'm really sorry girls, but you can't blame me. That's probably just my bad luck for having had such horrible girlfriends.

Thanks for understanding!

[Rainie_]

Oh my this is so stereotypical I can't even... Smh 😐 First off, guys are not always "dramaless", heck some of my guy friends go through so much drama I don't even know how they deal 😂 (hooking up with some dudes girlfriend or ex, real bad tensions and fights). I also had a problem with a guy who I told a lot of my secrets to, thinking he wouldn't tell anyone but yeah he told all his guy friends in his clique 😕 then again I can't complain, usually I tell my best friends others secrets because that's just what we do and we keep it in our group.
I do understand you why you may think girls have so much drama, and well I can't deny the most dramatic/difficult person I know is a girl friend of mine. Doesn't mean guys aren't any better though, honestly I've had "personally" way more problems and drama with her overly dramatic brother than her 😅 And he looooves drama so much, we'd constantly argue day in day out in class, drained so much of my energy... 😑 Chill, my ass.
I don't know maybe we've just come across completely opposite people. I mean, I know a lot of dudes that love to gossip...
I just wanted to say, you can't put genders in two boxes when you're discussing social situations, everyone is different, humans are so complex. I have my best girl friend whom I trust more than my family, and we know so much about each other and been through so much together that our bond is so strong and loyal, I legit consider her my other half.
And also, you can't say you've never disappointed anyone or never hurt anyone, you don't know how they feel... Sometimes I get disappointed in people but I just don't tell them. And everyone is judgmental. That's just a fact, some are just more than others and it is definitely NOT a gender thing at all. You are being judgmental right now of other girls. Just saying...

[BumbleSuperBee]

That's another point of view..

[jormungand]

I think I remember OP saying this was purely from her experience. Just saying...

[GirlsLie]

@jormungan What is the point in writing something completely stereotyping and generalizing an entire gender based off of your personal experience, if in your head you know not everyone has had the same experiences as you or if you know that your opinion doesn't speak for everyone.

Also claiming in your title "Women fact" and then saying "but oh it's just my experience" is ridiculous lol

[GirlsLie]

I meant @jormungand *

I have to smash the hell out of my D key on this laptop to get it to work lol

[jormungand]

@GirlsLie I get your point. But you can never spezk fora whole population though, aiways a part of it. That's why people generalise. The same goes for you, you use an example out if your life, which could easily be an exception to the rule. The OP was talking about how she experienced less drama with boys compared to girls (and i think this is generally the truth), so ofcourse this is 'stereotypical', but what's the big deal? Again, i understand where you at coming from

[jormungand]

@GirlsLie aaand don't get me wrong, girls are wonderful creatures and I couldn't live without them. But i do think they make more (unnecessary) drama (in general), but saying every single girl is a dramaqueen, is just not right. 😊

[GirlsLie]

lol well I understand that people stereotype and judge but I just think it's a little hypocritical to list all of the things that you hate based on your experience, yet participate in those very same traits just to make a point about why you think women are mean.

"omg I hate girls they cause so much drama" = Write a take with the most dramatic examples, full of drama about why I think women are mean"

"Fact: women are so mean, i've never been mean to anyone" = Writes a take generalizing women, in one of the meanest ways possible.

"Guy friends won't hit on the guys I find cute"= like, omg I just hate drama

I mean give me a break, you can't take part in exactly what you dislike and what you generalize and then complain about it.

[GirlsLie]

@jormungand

[GirlsLie]

That was also for @R3d_Anonymous and @Transigence

Guess it would have be easier to put it all in one place from the start, sorry lol

[jormungand]

@GirlsLie hahaha yeah, that's kinda true

[Riggers]

Im sorry but you made me think of it xD

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[udolipixie]

Meh different experiences I tend to find hetero guys are the most mean hateful bitter creature. I find gals to be way less judgmental, hypocritical, and far more understanding. My only disappointment in life is that I am unfortunately heterosexual rather than homosexual or bisexual.

I prefer female friends as there is:
- no drama
I find guys tend to be half-hearted friends with their real intention being to f*ck

- they won't spread my secrets
I find guys tend to put on a front when gals are around and when it is all males their true self comes out.

- they consider me a sister
I find guys tend to have severe difficulties seeing gals as human beings much less nonsexual persons. With my gal pals I am like a sister. With guys I find at best I am the friend they want to f*ck nothing sisterly about that to me.

- they protect me
I find guys are prone to assault, harassment, and rape. Most gals are raped by guys they know. While a guy friend may try to get me drunk/high to f*ck me while I am unconscious or incapacitated my gal pals will 'cockblock'

- they can introduce me to their friends
I find guys tend to be put off on a gal pal f*cking his friends because he wants to f*ck her.

- they are good listeners and give good advice
I rarely find a guy that isn't a trained professional who can do this. Instead I find most guys just hear what they want to hear or let a gal speak long enough so he can talk.

I find guys also have a tendency to be polite/nice in front of their female friends and talk about them behind their back. Take for instance a guy who is nice to his gal pal yet calls her stuckup, stupid, slutty, a b*tch for putting him in the friendzone.

Plus guys seem to have such a sexist yet victimhood mindset. Seemingly guys are oh so much better than gals who are evil (insert negatives) but the poor menz are downtrodden by society because only males have issues... any issues gals have don't compare. Gals on the other hand seem to be quite empathetic and play down their troubles just to be liked.

[GirlsLie]

Meh, I really dislike when girl's refuse to be friends with other girls, they're always the ones saying "girls are too much drama" "girls turn on you" "girls are catty". Well wtf are you when you refuse to be friends with anyone from an entire gender based on your experience with a few. That's pretty damn catty to me.

And if you've managed to only ever encounter bad girl friends, then maybe it's you?

I don't have guy friends, I only have girl friends because guys who approach me and want to be friends with me start by asking me if i'm single, I have no interest in being friends with someone who would stick their dick in me if I let them, it's just a weird situation for me and uncomfortable. I'm not opposed to the idea of a guy friend but i'm not becoming friends with someone who started the conversation by asking if I was single lol

And of course i've had bad experiences with girls but I also have a few best friends who are really amazing and we would do anything in the world for each other.

[Transigence]

I don't think she ever said she would never be friends with any girl -- in fact she has recounted her experiences with them.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Yes exactly @Transigence

And I sure didn't say that I'm never gonna talk to girls or befriend them. I just stated the fact that I would much rather prefer the friendship with a guy than that of a girl.

[R3d_Anonymous]

But there's nothing wrong with a girl for the most part having guy friends if that's what she prefers. Some people just like it better that way. I have seen guys like that, that have mostly girl friends. Some people just connect better with the opposite sex even on a platonic level.

[GirlsLie]

I just think when you single out and generalize a gender based on past experiences and your solution to the problem with that gender, is to act just like them, then maybe you need to rethink your logic.

[GirlsLie]

I also never meant that it was wrong of someone to have to prefer one over the other but why do you have to call your opinion a "fact".

And then some of the reasons you listed seemed just like the typical girl attitude that you dislike.

"They don't hit on the guys I find cute" lol i'm sorry but that's "dramatic" to me and if drama is what you dislike, then don't list dramatic reasons and write a dramatic take based on your most dramatic experiences.

[Usaname]

Maybe it proves her point?

[GirlsLie]

lol, that's very true. I just think it's hypocritical.

[Mycatseth]

Hey, I am friends with two girls and one guy. We are like a tiny little group of friends. We all hate rumours, being the subject of many, thanks to the whole girls being friends with guys!! May I point out we are JUST FRIENDS!! Yes that is possible!! Anyway, I don't think I'm bitchy. At least I try not to be. I don't mither, in fact I rarely speak!! I'm like you that everyone always comes to me for homework help. So I try to be as kind as I can to everyone. I don't even respond to rumours. So I'm sorry, but I disagree. Girls aren't all mean, its just certain aspects of their lives that make them mean. Different girls are going to be more vunrable to peer pressure.
Sorry for any spelling mistakes. I can completely understand why you feel that way but I don't agree. Not all girls are mean. There are a lot that aren't. You sound like one of us. Sorry that this was so long!!! Loved the 'why I rather have a guy best friend thing' I totally agree!! Girls are a little bit more emotional than guys!! :-) :-) :-) :-)

[BumbleSuperBee]

I see where you're come from, and thanks for commenting! :)

[Hopefuldreamer8]

Sounds like you've hung out with the wrong girls. I've had that experience too, but I have some loyal girl friends. It's hard sometimes and I've noticed I have more guy friends than girl friends.

One thing I've noticed is that it was always girls who were rude to me about my looks. I'm ugly and I've been told that most of my life. Guys have said it too, but it was mainly girls who have said it. One woman who had to have been older than me barked at me a few weeks ago.

Right now I work with all men. They've always all taken care of me, even the one who hates me will go out of his way to help me. Before I moved to that line, I worked with mostly women. Threw of the older women did everything to try and sabotage me and this other girl around my age. We were both in our early 20s at that point. Her and I stuck together and we are still friends. These older women for some reason hated us. Her and I are both shy. We just worked. We didn't do anything to them.

I think sometimes it's jealously and insecurity. However I'm also insecure because of How ugly I am, and I've never tried to betray anyone. I just keep to myself. I have anxiety. Sometimes I can't even talk around people and girls intimidate me more than guys.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Yes exactly... screw those women. They're not even worth thinking about.

[Chantel77]

OMG that happens to me!!! Actually recently: girl in my class who I'm kind of cool with says she'll send me the pictures of what's on the board because my phone died at the time so I put my number in.
Nothing over the weekend and I didn't have her number so I had to wait til Monday. I ask her why she didn't send it and she said she did... turns out it was a random # because she 'forgot' I put my number in her phone so I laugh and she said she'll send it. I thought she was gonna send it right there in class but Nope! And it's been 2 days but she told the other girl (who's she's closer to) that she'll send it to her

Then last semester this girl told me to write down my email so she could send me the practice test (idk why she didn't just put it in her phone). She was taking too long so I assumed she forgot and since I barely knew her I didn't wanna ask so I ask the professor (which I should have done in the first place) and then a few hours after the professor sends it the girl does! Like really but I still told her thanks

****Anyways I wouldn't give up on female friends. Guy friends are nice but they don't last long unless maybe hehe's gay. The friendship is always nice in the beginning but then there's usually tension of someone liking the other.

I'm a nice girl but I'm pretty shy so most of the good female friends I've made are ones with similar personalities to me. It's pretty hard to find a true friend but they're awesome

[BumbleSuperBee]

Oh my god, wow. I felt so good after reading this, thank you! >:D<

[Chantel77]

Lol ya I thought I was the only one!
But now it gets worse the girl was in class and acted like nothing happened and I think I found out the reason why she doesn't like me... turns out she has her eye on the guy who's my lab partner. Well he was kinda flirty with me but I had no reaction and we're kind of friends since he's the nicest to me in the group.
I think they exchanged numbers today so she got what she wanted but he still talks to me more but Not as much as before since I'm not flirty I guess

[Possible_Mate]

i kinda get where you're coming from. i think you've just had pretty terrible friends so far. i find i usually end up with more male friends than females, just due to my interests and personality. ex) one good female friend in highschool, with 3-4 good male friends. i was just happy to get friends period. i do think young girls can be a lot more bitchy though. i speak from the experience of myself and my younger sisters in elementary school. when we moved there i ended up with one girl friend, mostly because she was a bit of a loner. and most of the other girls were pretty nasty. in the second to last year i mostly hung out with the boys and her. my second youngest sister was just treated poorly by the kids in her grade. most of them were little shits. but she was hurt the most by the girls calling her a "friend" and being bitchy behind her back. the same thing is and has been happening with my youngest sister. most of the girls in her class are terrible. and she's outed because of it. and she's still at that age where being best friends with a boy is taboo, and she would probably be further outed by those nasty little girls. so would i say that generally it easier to be friends with guys? yes. because i know how bad girls can be. not that i'm saying ill never be or don't want to be friends with girls, but it just seems less likely.

[DeflectedAileron]

It seems that women who love drama feed off other people's misery. Any achievements will resolve them into writhing, jealous and gossiping women. It happens a lot in my family, where my aunts become jealous of my success and that my cousins aren't doing any better. They focus on my negative things and even slander to the rest of the family. Men tend to stay away from drama and from what I have gathered, they hate gossiping and talking negative about other's the same way women do. I wish women would stop being so competitive and jealous. I have lost a lot of male friends to their girlfriends, deluded in their mind that I don't respect boundaries and that I am going to take them away despite that I have no desire to destroy their relationship. I am too focused on my career to care about relationships and these women don't see it. I don't even dress provocatively of wear makeup when I am hanging out with their partners, so I have no idea as to why they restrict my friends from seeing me. I never flirt and even if their boyfriends flirt with me, I would remind them of their girlfriends and try to state the positive things I can think of them. I am tired of women being insecure and running up to drag their boyfriends away when they come up to speak to be about perfectly normal things.

[DeflectedAileron]

What you have said above is very true. The same thing has also happened to me, and I am saying this because I currently study in a male dominated career. Once, I was sick for an exam. I asked the girls around me what the professor had said, which were hi to he gave before the exam. They all stated that they forgot, mocked me or gave me dirty looks. And they were my friends! However, I asked a guy I had no relations with whatsoever and I was so surprised he told me everything, even advice how to succeed in my exam! It makes me wish that I was a guy sometimes, so I would get away from all this drama. Men tend to be aggressive and women are passive aggressive, which is the worst form of aggression in my opinion. Men will never be mean to each other in the way women do. I can't understand why women can't lift each other up as a community and support each other through success. Being happy for each other is conserving positive energy, and you feel better about yourself than being insecure.

[DeflectedAileron]

*hints

[BumbleSuperBee]

Finally someone who understands! Thanks!

[GirlsLie]

You do realize that you're actually saying that some men aren't loyal friends in the end. You're saying men are better friends than women but as soon as a male friends gets a girl friend he stops talking to you because you're female. That's something disloyal friends do, regardless of who instigated it.

Also i've guy friends from work who did the same thing. The were nice, friendly, we went out after work and as soon as they got a girl friend, they stopped doing that. But the entire time we were friends, they were flirting with me, wanting to go out with me etc. The thing is they found someone to fuck now and don't need to pursue/be friends with you anymore. They weren't your friend to start with, they just wanted to fuck you. You never know someone's intentions.

[XRabbitHeartX]

" The truth about girls is that they are very competitive with each other, they enjoy gossiping about each other, they always want to be and look the best, and they are very dramatic"

"I wanna say that every girl has this mean and cruel side no matter how close she is to her girlfriend. "

Assumptions much? Do you realize this information is based off completely generalizations and not facts? This is why we can't have nice things. People assuming things about others just based off whether they have a vagina or not. I'm sorry but you don't know anything about me (I'm not competitive, don't enjoy gossip and I'm certainly not very dramatic and I'm actually a fucking good friend) and neither do you know all other women on this planet.

Sure we've all had bad experiences with people sometimes. Heck my best friend of 15 years left my side at the beginning of this year and hurt me tons. Majority of the female friends I had went with her and left me. I know the feels... I really do. But not once has that made me think all women are somehow bitchy and terrible. That's like me saying because I've been treated like shit by most guys in real life it somehow means they are all assholes. No... they're not. I just happened to make some bad choices or in some cases it was a situation beyond my control that I didn't anticipate.

Here's the key... people should start separating your gender from your personality traits. Some PEOPLE have mean personality traits and are simply no good. That doesn't make a entire gender mean by default.

Also if you think guys don't get competitive then I have some bad news for you...

[BumbleSuperBee]

1. I didn't say guys are perfect
2. I did say there are exceptions for women
3. Those were based on MY experiences so nothing u can say can change my views on this unless I actually see it.
4. I understand what u just said, I really do, but oh well..

[XRabbitHeartX]

Saying it's a "exception" for a woman to not be mean is quite a statement. I guess you could say it's a "exception" then for men to be loving and nice considering how many non-loving nice guys I've dealt with...

See how irrational that is to think that way.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Then I guess that means we've both been through completely different experiences. I can't change ur opinion and u can't change mine. Thats the life each one of us was meant to have. Bam. Problem solved.

[XRabbitHeartX]

How do you know you'll never find good female friends at the age of 18?

[BumbleSuperBee]

I don't know that. And I never said I would never meet nice girls. I'm sure I would. At some point.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Well when you said life was meant to be that way for us I thought you were implying you think you are somehow cut out for not having decent female friends which is not true. There are many females who would enjoy a lasting healthy friendship with you. Don't lose hope. I know I'll someday find good friends too and one should never lose hope.

[BumbleSuperBee]

I'm not gonna lose hope..

[loveisbeautiful]

I get what you're saying and I know how you feel to some extent. I just find it REALLY hard to relate to girls, because I'm just not like most girls and that makes things difficult because there's no common ground. So, I get it.

Also, I'm sorry you've had such crappy friends. I can relate to that, my friend track record isn't that great and I even went 5 years without any friends at all. It wasn't until I came on here and met one of my two best friends, that I finally understood what friendship was and what being a best friend is all about. Now, I have two really wonderful (guy) best friends. Granted I met them both online but, that doesn't matter to me.

So, I get a lot of what you're saying here. I truly get it.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Thanks! I appreciate it

[loveisbeautiful]

You're welcome.

[Sara413]

I used to think the same thing, but honestly, if you have never gotten along with other girls/women the problem is most likely with YOU, not THEM. You've internalized a long of the societal messaging about women to the point where you judge every female you meet through that lens. I used to do the same thing. I've always had more guy friends than girl friends and that is actually still true today, because I tend to share more interests with them, but what I've realized with a bit of age is that women aren't all the catty bitches I long let myself assume they all are - most of them are genuinely decent people when you give them a chance.

Honestly, I think a lot of women who say they don't like other women don't WANT to see other women as fun, chill, funny, cool people because THEY are the ones who are competitive. Speaking as someone who use to be this girl, they're more comfortable being THE cool chick in the guy group than being one among a group of cool chicks...

[skeptic007]

im a guy what she says is true 100%

listen too music
and just stand around one day and listen too them talk, also studies show that women are less trust worthy than men so she's stating facts

[Sara413]

There's plenty of music out there made by men that's about how they've got the biggest balls in the room / the most cash / whatever.

I'm not denying that there are women out there who are highly competitive and catty - I know first hand they exist. But I also know first hand that there are some seriously shitty, mean men out there as well. It's not a gender thing - it's an ass hole thing. Some people are ass holes and some aren't. There are definitely some differences in the ways that men and women are cruel to one another and each other, but I wouldn't say one gender is mean and one is nice. That's just not true.

[Sara413]

It was really hard for me to finally admit to myself after years of thinking other women/girls were the problem that, really, I just wanted to feel like I was better than them. I liked thinking that other women, in general, were superficial and petty and mean and annoying and all these other things because that meant that I was special simply for not being those things (or so I thought). But you know what? I'm much happier with my life now than I ever was when I was convinced I was better than other women.

[Sara413]

And you know, I see the Take Owner even saying here that some of the girls she's met on GAG aren't like that... and I'm willing to bet there are a couple of women or girls in her real life that she views as "exceptions". That's the thing when you internalize negative generalizations - you see everyone of that group who doesn't fit the stereotype as an exception to the otherwise "true" rule. Well, how many exceptions does it take before it's no longer a "rule"? When I finally realized what was really going on, it was when my guy friends started dating and marrying really cool chicks and, eventually, I realized that they were all exceptions to the stereotype... and that maybe the stereotype was wrong after all...

[ManOnFire]

@Sara413 The problem isn't with them, that's just the easy answer. Women who don't like being friends with other women or can't trust them feel that way for a reason. It's why a lot of women do prefer to have male friends over female friends, and it isn't gonna change. Do you know how many females have tried doing what you said and they still got burned by their own gender? As I said, they feel the way they do for a reason.

[Sara413]

@ManOnFire

Didn't realize you have so much experience being a woman...

[ManOnFire]

@Sara413 I have experience knowing female friends, family, and associates who tell me from a woman's perspective why they prefer me and other men over having other women around them.

[Sara413]

@ManOnFire

Ah, so you mostly have catty bitches in your life.. that sucks but they're not the norm dude. What I've found in life is that we tend to find and attract what we expect from people. When I was convinced women were all catty bitches it was a self perpetuating perspective. However, now that my expectation is that they're mostly cool, surprise! Most women I meet are cool!

[ManOnFire]

@Sara413 Answers like yours are generally told to make yourself feel better about it. If the women I know or hang with were catty, then I wouldn't hang with them. It's the opposite: they choose men over friendships with women beCAUSE they're not catty like the other ones. It's funny cuz I've always thought you seemed somewhat catty.

[Sara413]

@ManOnFire

Catty to think grown women are worth being friends with?

Ok.

I'm down here. You decided to try to start an argument with me on a very old thread and I can't be bothered with it. You wanna go through life believing women just can't get along, it's no skin off my back.

I'm happy I learned to be a better person than I used to be and I can only hope these female friends of your eventually do the same. They'll be much happier for it.

[ManOnFire]

@Sara413 Your cattiness has nothing to do with whether or not you think women should be friends. I'm talking about ways I've seen you act here.

[Sara413]

@ManOnFire

Dismissive of bullshit? Guilty!

[ManOnFire]

@Sara413 It's about a kind of defensiveness you jump to I think. That being said, maybe catty isn't really the word to use.

[DivaMonae]

All I can say is I understand what you're referring to but I completely disagree. Yes there are some girls that are rather petty however I've always had nothing but female best friends and we don't let things like this get in the way of our friendship.

I guyfriends as well but I wouldn't call them my best friends. And everything that was lited about why you rather have a guy friend are the same things characteristics my female friends possess.

It doesn't depend on the sex depends on how loyal your friends are andi just happen to fins loyalty in girls more than guys.

[Minyamo9]

While I can agree that a lot of women are like this, I have personally experienced worse things from men. I have been abused by men, bullied by them, had male friends steal from me, and spread rumours just like women do. I have also dealt with bitchy women, don't get me wrong, but I think the majority of people in general are just assholes. It doesn't really have anything to do with gender. I personally have more male friends because I just have similar interests to them but putting all other women down is catty and bitchy, just like you claim all other women are. It's kind of hypocritical, really.

[R3d_Anonymous]

This is true. Although on the surface it may seem that most women are very compassionate, the reality is they're more emotionally "abusive" on average.

Guys don't care too much about that shit and we usually don't like to put each other down, except when it's in fun and we're just joking around.

This is why contrary to popular belief, guys are if anything more emotional than girls. We don't have the emotional intelligence you girls do nor do we have the capibility to inflict so much emotional damage, simply because we don't think it's cool.

[lumos]

I'm actually sad that you think this is true. I thought you were better than that, more critical than that.

[Minxxie]

Honestly don't pretend guys are not just as conniving and mean, I've literally only been bullied and backstabbed by boys. If you don't like a boy back when he has a crush on you there is nothing worse he will do everything in his power to make you regret not feeling the same way. This is something I have learned the hard way. Guys are usually only nice to you when they think there is chance they can fuck you at some point. Once you reject a guy he gets more vindictive and and nasty than the meanest mean girl.

[DeflectedAileron]

I think there is a downside to both genders. Girls can be mean because they are catty, competitive and insecure. Guys can be mean because they think just by being nice to you, they deserve sex from you.

[Roostah]

Funny thing is:
"Most of them pretended to be my friends cause I was the smartest one in class and I used to be the only one who understood what the teachers said and the only one who did the homework. So basically, they just were using me to get their homework done and to be able to copy the test from me."

Girl's using you because they think you fulfill some capacity for them also spills over in their attitude towards men in general.

So your saying. Girls have fake personalities. When add in general that they wear makeup (fake face) and often have push up bras and other things to give them fake ass, and tits. Then overall women are quite fake then.

However, then DEMAND honest from MEN.

[BumbleSuperBee]

Um. ok..

[Roostah]

So you agree with me. GOOD.

[YusiBear]

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Girls are scary, they have psychological brain manipulative powers that mess with you!

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[Duryodhan]

Evolutionarily the reason is that in ancient times a man's job was to go out and hunt big game for food or protect his clan against other preditors and rival clans... and you can't do that if you dont trust the guy next to you. So men are by nature more cooperative and perhaps they dont get so emotional but the comradary runs deep.

Whereas a woman's role was more limited to the immidiate family hence she needed to be a little selfish to ensure that her mans and hers blood line survives. Women dont cooperate because they dont need to.

[Nik1hil]

Hehe, first I thought it was a guys take, now I am glad, that I am guy, means being a girl is kind of a loneranger stuff, you will be back stabbed and cannot count on same gender friendship.
Very funny that we guys if get were given a 50 page project in a class same topic to each of us all boys X numbers of us, each of us did just few pages after dividing the project in X number of parts, then pooled the stuff we made and then modified and copied it! Completed a insane project of one month in a couple of days. Funny part teacher knew this, but our stuff was above average! They didn't like that we copied stuff but, they appreciated the teamwork... And time management.

Really glad to be a dick now..

[pineappleshortcare]

Sorry to disagree, but I've always had awesome female friends and relatives who were there for me through thick and thin. My male friendships have been more complex due to sexual tensions, but some of them have been pretty good too. I've never ever understood these kinds of posts.

[spuitkaas]

Unfortunatly I've had similar experiences with girls. I never understood the seeking for drama. I also have about 3 female friends and 7 male. If I can give you a tip, you can find the best female friends among a group of guys. Think about it, you hang out with guys because they're less drama. There are more girls like you and also hang out with guys. That's how I met my female friends, through my male friends and my female friends are one of the least dramatic people I know. I hope you'll find a nice female friend and learn that there are enough nice girls in this world.