Girls, it is ok to have high standards! (Page 4)
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So your take is basically , never date a poor guy.
A gold digging whore said the same thing to me yesterday when I was giving her a $100 tip for a rimjob she did on me. What a coincidence.
No dumb ass. Read before you get triggered. But the fact that you seem to fuck up this simple task says more about you than me.
What my take basically said was that girls are better off single than dating a guy who lIves off their income. Bitch please.
And you dated a woman to do a sexual act on you? Don't get me started. If you are so concerned about gold digging hoes, you are just feeding the problem my friend.
***paid a woman
Why do you have to pay women to do sexual favors for you and to have sex with you? That's pathetic
@princesssangre That's what I thought, I shouldn't had paid her.
Lady, if you want a high standard guy, first of all, make sure you meet his standards. I'd rather dedicate my life in following my own path with my own conviction than live upto somebody's standards. Maybe you should follow this up with 'Guys Don't Lower Your Standards'.
I totally agree with u on this good take I won't lower my standards eather I'm not the smartest but I am in grate shape and make more money then any one I went to school with ill always keep workin on my self I'm really pickie though I want a girl that won't fuck me over like the other ones have I learned if they ask u to fuck them in the school bathroom or they will blow u if u ditch class with them when u have only seen them around school a few times they arnt that loyal ( always said no cause I was focusing on a girl that considerd to be weird or to shy to talk to) sorry for the shitty story
With that attitude, you will never find true love.
My fiancée met me when I worked in retail and she made more than me. She didn't care. I now make more than her as a technical writer. She is down to earth and not materialistic. She cares about ME, not about my money.
How did you become an Editor?
Nobody deserves anything, you earn it, looks and success are part of the equation, but straight up thinking you're better than people is a huge strike against your character. Why are you sitting here trying to convince us that you deserve only the greatest 1% men can offer? Are you trying to convince us? or yourself?
Yeah its ok to have standards, but the sun doesn't rise and set outta your crack.
So turn down the ego some, lady.
This.
And why shouldn't I and other females feel worthy boo boo? Nah you salty.
Naw, you just have a sever narcissistic personality order and have one sad ass princess entitlement complex.
*Severe and *disorder, can't type this late sorry.
Yep... can't type and probably can't do much else.
Yep, you are are about as deep (and intelligent) as a piss puddle. You are not fierce as you think you are lol
AWWWWWWWWWW you really told me!
Girl power and all that, you low rent diva :)
Please stop, you're an old man who is embarrassing himself and you sound like the very type of person I described. Tell me and please be truthful, what do you do for work.
I work, thats all you need to know. We are not friends and i'm not asking you out.
And the minute you started hurling irrelevant insults, you lost the argument by default. Now you i need my ensure and adult diapers, because the sheer volume of your self -deluded nonsense makes me want to piss myself!
I lost? OK, I will give you that. Bye felipe.
Ugh... really? You are just a sad little man. *Facepalm*
Yeah a sad little man with a bad case of dontgiveafuckitis :D
Thanks for noticing someone so far beneath you, your freaking highness.
Carry on.
couldnt have said it better
Having high standards is fine on 2 conditions.
1. Those standards are not ridiculously unrealistic that would not be met by a significant number of the population.
2. The girls/guys who have these high standards are also measuring up themselves. Otherwise it's just hypocritical.
of course it is totally okay , you can do whatever you want , i dont even know u ; p
hahahahahaha
I work in retail and my girlfriend works in the medical field as an x-ray technician. She also does computerized Tomography, Mammography. The difference is I help pay bills, groceries hen things need to be fixed around the house. She elps out with the bills and other stuff as well.
Also we both make sure each other is satisfied. I am also looking for a better job with creativity and such.
Well this is a great relationship and I would have stayed with him if he waslike you
You deserve someone who will treat you right and be there for you through the bad and good times as you will be for him.
Yes! This was awesome! Some of these guys on GAG not only refuse to spoil their girls but also refuse the thought of pulling out the girls chair. A free gesture they even refuse to do. Just like you wrote one of my friends said "A lot of women are in relationships and all they're getting out of it is dick". Same can be said for guys in reverse.
Alotta gurls are gettin' into relationship eventho they aren't attracted to him? Thats news ;P
I believe that insisting your so be gainfully employed or in pursuit of a career isn't an unreasonable standard at all.
Your wording in your take makes it less likely that people will listen to you, however.
ok.. I have some legit questions...
"He was a supermarket worker, didn't have a dollar to his name, had no ambition, sex was terrible and he was a selfish lover."
What if.. he worked in a bar?
What if.. The sex was amazing?
What if.. He was all of this, but had a trust fund?
What if.. his ambition was like, surfing or being a rock star?
He didn't have any of that hahaha... my main point of annoyance was that he was starting to live off my income.
but I'm asking.. if just one of those things change.. would he have been ok?
Like.. I dated this guy for awhile.. when we started seeing each other, he was basically homeless.. crashing on peoples couches or sleeping in the bands van.
So, he was living off of me... but.. he was chasing his dream of being a rock star.
When we eventually broke up.. it was because he was never around anymore and wouldn't make time for me.
Of course no one should lower their standards.
This my_take just exemplifies the same BS that women should always be cared for by men, not the other way around, I am sick of the ridiculous expectations placed on guys, while women can go around dressed like whores acting like love is a game. Yeah I said it.
I hated this because you talk about yourself constantly.
I've always been one for dating within your own league. Thing is, it's usually men dating DOWN with women always looking to date UP. I'm sorry you ended up paying for the guy but understand that lots of MEN feel uncomfortable in this way also. It's not fair for men OR women to be expected to downgrade, that's why everyone should stick to their league roughly speaking.
All I want is a dude who can support himself. Main thing. That's it. Everything else is gravy.
People will often shame you for having allegedly "high standards", when all you do is just holding others to the same standards you hold yourself to. You do you.
It's a give and take situation. If a girl expects a high-quality man, then she needs to be a high-quality women. Or else she'll continue to be surrounded by the total opposite, which would then lead her to "complain" about men to being manly.
@starfishlover
Pretty ironic that it's you that's coming across as bitter :D :D :D
probably bitter that her 'amazing' self can only end up with a guy like 'that' lmao
I'm not bitter at all. You seem to be the bitter one and honestly I really think this is a bunch of nonsense you wrote because you are bitter. I get bitter towards the girl that hurt me, I will admit that, but not towards every single freaking girl because I know they all are different, just like us guys believe it or not.
I get ya, ya seem a bit entitled sounding, but I get ya.
The venom in the take killed my interest to say anything meaningful though, I happen to like people, rich or poor, but not the hateful ones, I don't have any interest in them.
I will wish ya the best, and leave it there. : )