This is mainly for younger guys on here who are more interested in getting the sexiest and/or prettiest girl that they can get. Whether it be casual or very serious, here are five checklist qualities that if the girl you're talking to has--you should consider taking seriously becuase doing so can make relationships which are filled with stress jealousy and anxiety into peace trust hope and happiness.
Honesty
Honesty is big because communication is big. It doesn't matter if you have good intentions or if you actually do care if you don't show/communicate it. By her being honest, you always know where she stands and even if it's not where you want it to be you'll come to appreciate that she lets you know clearly instead of the many guessing games you'll have to play as you attempt relationships with women throughout your life.
Emotional Bravery
Not sure how important physical bravery is for a girl, but a girl who isn't emotionally brave will pull away from you at critical moments in your relationship. This is where you can actually be punished for doing nothing wrong and in fact her thinking you could be the one might fill her with such nerves that she's so petrified of that she may fly from you because she's just not brave enough to potentially get hurt. While we all feel for these girls, you are lucky if you find one who doesn't live a life of avoidance and subsequent lonliness enough to take a leap with you. Not as common as you'd think.
Manners/Code/Class
A girl who was raised well by her parents is generally someone you can trust because they are bound by their moral and ethical values not to be so much of a jerk to you. Certain behavior is considered so against how she views herself and her own moral standard that her class actually prevents her from acting on pure instinct--something a girl who wasn't raised very well isn't always inclined to do.
Independent Thinker
I know...you think this will backfire as she will always choose to disagree with you if only to prove that she can. But consider the fact that a girl who doesn't like to think for herself will always be subject to the opinions of her friends who could dislike you for any number of reasons out of your control. This goes doubly for parents and other familial relationships. Let's say your girlfriend's sister has trust issues and so when you forget to call because your boss is yelling at you she tells your girlfriend you're cheating and that she needs a better boyfriend and your girlfriend listens. You don't want nor need htat.
Loyal
Ah, the one that brough Chris Brown back to the head of hip hop. Loyalty is the cliche value for either gender but it can't be ignored because someone who is loyal in this day and age where it is so incredibly easy to cheat and have a multitude of relationships that all don't know of each other, a person who is completly loyal and never thinks to stray even if you are in a fight is the gem to hold onto. Luckly for you, most guys are fighting over the girl with the best ass instead of the girl who is the most loyal. You should opt for the latter.
To end, it's important to be sexually attracted and satisfied, but these five things are choices you make in terms of the girls you accept into that part of your life because you really and truly want to be happy in the long term not just the short.
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