Well lucky in your case in my case i liked a giy we made out he gave signs he was interested or maybe i misread the signs i only text him once a week and for some reason he then text me while in Europe that sorry things are not working
This isn't exactly true either. You're proposing that it has to mean a guy is shy because he doesn't respond to her, when it could be because he's taken aback by such women, since they're not common. A woman like that is usually going to make a guy wonder why, like she could be trying to use him, especially if it has to do with something like getting back at her ex.
It all depends on the approach. If she gives me her phone number and Facebook right away, then lets me do research on her before going further, then I appreciate that greatly. I want to know what she stands for before I go spending all sorts of time and money on her. Plus, knowing where she stands on issues helps us avoid a big fight over values later on.
@ManOnFire literally, you just want to disagree. I did say they don't respond well. I'm not saying it's solely because they're shy. I don't know the reason why. I don't assume to know why because I'm not a man. I can't answer on the behalf of men, hell, I can't even answer on the behalf of women. Doesn't matter if I'm an outsider or insider. Because all I can do is make assumptions as to why based on what people tell me.
I said they don't respond well.
You said that's not true and then proceed to say it's not common or makes him wonder why, or if she might be trying to use him like to get back at her ex.
And you tell me what that is because apparently you know everything and have so much to teach? Is that not responding well? Which was my original statement?
You said men "especially shy ones." And I was saying it isn't necessarily because he's shy. It's not a matter of wanting to disagree for me, it's a matter of showing another side to the situation. And that happens to be disagreement to you.
Now, is that responding well or not? @ManOnFire because that's all I said. I only specified shy men because those are the types I've asked out. I don't go for extroverted types. So maybe they'd respond better. Maybe not. Like I said, I'm basing this on my experiences.
Because it's such a shock to receive female attention , most guys haven't a clue how to respond. You are correct , the vast majority of men NEVER receive any female attention. I think your " rejections " are simply you catching these guys " off guard " ...& they react with stupid " bravado "
@FatherJack you make sense. if she only goes for shy and inexperienced, they get stuck. they are mentally frozen at the moment and don't know how to respond.
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The problem is - some guys are too shy, even if we make the first move, I mean, what are we supposed to do, rape them, lol :P
Epic take. You are awesome.
The world would be a better place with more women like you in it.
No it wouldn't. But thanks.
@BuchitaBuchys Never self-depricate.
Approaching shows me she's a strong confident woman and that's what I want.
Well lucky in your case in my case i liked a giy we made out he gave signs he was interested or maybe i misread the signs i only text him once a week and for some reason he then text me while in Europe that sorry things are not working
@kitty71 Well don't judge all guys by one asshole.
but then for Christmas and new years eve he was glad i sent him good wishes and told me it was nice to hear from me again
Strange. You sound like a conservative type though. They usually prefer submissive women.
I'm a centrist not a conservative.
I want an equal not a sidekick.
The only women I've come across who approach a stranger they've never seen before are strippers and intoxicated females.
I'm not a stripper and I don't drink.
It's probably well known that I agree.
I don't know who you are.
Why you hurt Tyber's feelings like dees?
Lol I'm sorry.
I can tell dis gotta get a lot of support from male community
I'm more likely to fall in love with a girl who's confident enough to approach me.
Most ladies don't want to lose the rejection card..
Wow your the female version of Watermelonoma :)
Lol I take that as a compliment because he's a good guym
*guy.
You two should date. :P
I WANT TOO FUCK YOU SO BAD RIGHT NOW I LOVED THIS
Thanks?
Fantastic Take, I agree 100% :D
why do you have 100% failure rate?
Because men, especially shy ones, don't respond well to forward and direct women.
This isn't exactly true either. You're proposing that it has to mean a guy is shy because he doesn't respond to her, when it could be because he's taken aback by such women, since they're not common. A woman like that is usually going to make a guy wonder why, like she could be trying to use him, especially if it has to do with something like getting back at her ex.
@ManOnFire yes, you just know everything. I know, I know.
It all depends on the approach. If she gives me her phone number and Facebook right away, then lets me do research on her before going further, then I appreciate that greatly. I want to know what she stands for before I go spending all sorts of time and money on her. Plus, knowing where she stands on issues helps us avoid a big fight over values later on.
I'm not saying I know everything. Maybe you just still need to learn more - and I honestly don't mean that in a rude way.
@ManOnFire literally, you just want to disagree. I did say they don't respond well. I'm not saying it's solely because they're shy. I don't know the reason why. I don't assume to know why because I'm not a man. I can't answer on the behalf of men, hell, I can't even answer on the behalf of women. Doesn't matter if I'm an outsider or insider. Because all I can do is make assumptions as to why based on what people tell me.
I said they don't respond well.
You said that's not true and then proceed to say it's not common or makes him wonder why, or if she might be trying to use him like to get back at her ex.
And you tell me what that is because apparently you know everything and have so much to teach? Is that not responding well? Which was my original statement?
You said men "especially shy ones." And I was saying it isn't necessarily because he's shy. It's not a matter of wanting to disagree for me, it's a matter of showing another side to the situation. And that happens to be disagreement to you.
Now, is that responding well or not? @ManOnFire because that's all I said. I only specified shy men because those are the types I've asked out. I don't go for extroverted types. So maybe they'd respond better. Maybe not.
Like I said, I'm basing this on my experiences.
So you don't go for extroverted types, yet approach shy guys and have issues with it. That could be a problem, yeah.
Because it's such a shock to receive female attention , most guys haven't a clue how to respond. You are correct , the vast majority of men NEVER receive any female attention. I think your " rejections " are simply you catching these guys " off guard " ...& they react with stupid " bravado "
@FatherJack you make sense. if she only goes for shy and inexperienced, they get stuck. they are mentally frozen at the moment and don't know how to respond.
@FatherJack so they rejected just because of shock? I don't think so.
They probably weren't attracted to me.
I'm all for it