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Men, you are the catch not women! (Page 2)
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Are you kidding me? As if you really need to boost their egos even more than what it already is? Men already act like they're the prize. Women go through so much to try to look as good as possible because that's what our worth is primarily based off of. Afraid that if they don't look good enough they're gonna get passed over for a girl who DOES. And the catch is that the girl who DOES is afraid of the same thing! Meanwhile a man can be average looking as can be, or out of shape, and dress like crap, and still get women. Men don't HAVE to try as hard, and a lot of them don't!
But yeah sure, let's make a Take about how amazing men are to remind them how much better and deserving they are than/of women. Because that's a good idea. Meanwhile women are constantly bombarded with reminders that they're not good enough. Thanks for reaffirming the idea.
Side note, you sound so ridiculous complaining about makeup while insulting a bare-faced woman in the same breath. You say she's too unattractive without makeup, then insult her when she puts makeup on to make herself look better? Newsflash, you can't control your genetics. If a woman hasn't been blessed in the genetics department do you just expect her to live life looking homely and feeling undesirable? When there's so many cheap accessible products out here that can make her look and feel better?
We aare the prize because we give and are the leader (servants)
Women treat us like disposables. What do u mean we're already up high on ourselves?
Women won't date someone who is less capable than them men always do.
Women are insecure and unsure of themselves which is why they do a lot of bs. U tolerate it, u win her heart
I think anon is right. I see lots of guys say thy really only care how a girl looks. Guys have lots of different things that grt judged for.
"Men, you are the catch not women!" LOL #finally somebody said it. I mean from a traditional standpoint, the man had everything in the R-ship, right? Yet he was the "bowing down" to a woman begging "her" to be "his" girl even though he's going to be the 1 working 12 hour shifts, making her laugh, to approach her, give her a place to lay her head at night, protect her, feed her, eating her coochie at night, driving her here or there etc. So with all of the being said, shouldn't the "female" have been the 1 having to #prove herself to the man? Not the other way around?
I mean to this day I've never gotten how things worked back then...
nice take man/would read again LOL
Lol I heard the shrieks and screams and shaming language from the pink section even before I got half way down the take. Maintaining the status quo in relationships is pretty important to the people who get to sit back and wait to be impressed by a guy's song and dance. When a guy says he's not gonna dance anymore, OH THE HUMANITY.
Tell the truth. Did you even bother to read the pink responses?
@ArtDent The ones that were up when I posted, yeah, such as:
"you aren't getting any attention from the opposite sex"
"How sad and pathetic"
"shame on any man who feels like HE is the prize"
"he will end up alone"
"You're a special snowflake"
"hope writing this made you feel better about your empty life"
"all that whining you do"
"men don't have to try as hard"
"You're a disgrace"
"you sir are no prize at all"
Along with loads of sarcasm meant to shame, along with an angrily worded full page about how easy men have it. Did you?
I don't need to. They are a broken record.
It's never "hey maybe these men have a point" "maybe we are a bit self centered" lol
@ArtDent Lol for sure. To be fair there were a couple who said they agreed. They were very much the minority though. But yeah, the knee-jerk is defensive mode.
1. A date shouldn't be a way to win someone over, it should be to get to know each other better. It shouldn't be a way of showing: "look I have money and a nice car and i can entertain you, you like me now?", it rather SHOULD be "hey, we actually have quite a lot in common, i think i like you".
In the first situation you focus too much on looks (or social status) in a girl alone, in the second, you really want to get to know a girl. To find out whether she is right for you.
And to be honest, you should be glad if she DEMANDS you to pay, because then you know she isn't worth dating anyway. A good woman will always offer to pay, no matter what. And you want those women, because they don't reject someone based on status or money, they seek for someone with a good personality, not a bank account of 6 numbers
I disagree with everything you say. So I can't wear make-up because I am lying how I look. And I can't be 200lbs because its not acceptable. You try begin a women with social pressures to be pretty, to advance in career, to deal with pains and traumas, to be indpendent. Its just not fair for someone to think the only value I have is my appearance! I will get an education and when i get a job and have a place to call my own I see myself as valueable. I am literally upset and crying. Its just riducles that people believe this crap.
A bit of a gay take that one. I don't give a shit how I look or present myself that's why I only care about how the women I want look and present themselves. Trying to better your appearance to draw the opposite sex twists your sexuality. Your brain interprets it as you liking your own sex and the feelings follow. That's why so many good looking people are gay. Too vain. I'd never rate another man or myself, that's a woman's job. Just like rating women is a man's job. You think a tiger practises it's scary face before hunting? It knows what it is and what it wants. That's all that matters
I know I am.
While women act like we're disposables, we hold the key to marriage.
We chase you but we're the one giving away our money so we can work, so the family can eat
WERE HELD TO A MUCH HIGHER STANDARD AND ARE NOT TOLERATED.
You females won't every carry the weight of dating down but men do it all the time. Who is the one living love?
Females today like to make themselves on a pedastal without realising that attraction may get the guy but your substance (character) will keep him. At the end of the day, women aren't the ones holding the keys as someone so dependent.
Men jsut pretend to give you power because we know ur less capable... and need things to feel secure like control. Even tolerating ur shit makes u feel secure.
How arrogant do you have to be to believe that you are a prize? Relationships are about loving and appreciating the other person. Both are a catch and should work to get each other
Always on point darling.
@Tdieseler thanks!
Omg... yeah. We totally suck. I bow naked before your godlike perfection and will perform any act you choose, oh master, for the joy of seeing the candlelight glowing off your perfect body, hearing your moans of pleasure, and tasting your sex. Your thoughts are above my thoughts. Your ways are above my ways. Beat me, for I deserve it. I am imperfect. You are perfection Itself.
Awwww.. i just loved it <3
even it is full of sarcasm ;) :D
Pfft. Tell that to Mr. spider
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Some of this is legit for some individuals, but not all of us. Both men and women are supposed to prove themselves to the person they want. It's not about getting someone, it's about keeping them. If you can't maintain a relationship because of whatever reason, then you've got some things to think about, As human beings, it's only natural that when we see something we want, we do whatever we can to get it, and once we get it, we stop appreciating it after a while, and once we lose it, we realize what we had and go running after again, thus continuing that cycle. But I say all of that to say that at the end of the day, a bunch a BS might separate us as genders, but what think about what it would be like if men/women didn't exist. What do you think we would all do? There is no better gender. If you see someone who you think is worth your time, you're going to want them. Case closed.
The world really got you to bend over, huh? Sad. It's okay to blame women for your problems, weak people tend to do that. You're a special snowflake and the world is just against you, you should be appreciated with all that whining you do, just like those who actually work hard to be acknowledged.
I really hope writing this made you feel better about your empty life.
that's funny... Because a lot of girls believe everything you just said about this dude they "whine" .. Are generally emotionally weak, the world tends to bend them over, they usually blame guys for their problems , usually think of themselves as some sort of "special snowflake?"... And generally think they deserve to be appreciated, even when they don't.. And weirdly don't have to try all that hard to be acknowledged... Your whole paragraph is riddled with double standards and contradictions..
@UhDopeDude Whatever makes you feel less pathetic ;)
That's a pretty convenient way to ignore your own naivety, turn it around on someone else. Your 17 hahaha there's sooooo much time left for you to feel darkness... Wish I could be there for it.. To say HA! Feels good don't it?
@UhDopeDude Your so right. Women accuse men of the very same things that they guilty of. Hypocrisy and double standards at their finest.
@Careless_Whisper yea, and they say we can't admit when we are wrong... HA! They are just as stubborn lol
@UhDopeDude @Careless_Whisper At least I know your from you're..
You know guys, the world is not against you you both just really suck at life. Deal with it like literally everyone else. Neither of you are great catches so just continue your sad-and-lonely belittled mens club.
Go away feminist, you're annoying
@Careless_Whisper This is my post, so you go away.
Feminist troll
@Careless_Whisper... Am I supposed to be offended? You're doing a really bad job tbh
I don't really give a rats ass whether you're offended or not. Sad feminist with no life.
@Careless_Whisper Uh okay? .. Does your mummy know you're online this late? You definitely can't be 31 with those sick burns.
yawn
@Careless_Whisper You do know you aren't obligated to reply, right?
yawn!!
@Careless_Whisper Uh okay?
Shae, make a valid argument instead of attempting to insult me and correct my grammar, you have yet to do anything but repeat yourself since you started speaking
And conjuring fake facts from nothing to make me feel some type of way, good luck lol.
Basically shae, you sound more idiotic and less like someeone worth arguing with, with each sentance.
@UhDopeDude I could say the same to you, half your argument is the word "HA!"
Basically my point is, that if you really can't see this from a mans perspective and understand how we can get behind this, you are honestly one of the most absent minded, naive and stubborn people I've ever had the misfortune to know... Grow up, open your mind.
And you seem oh so very desperate to belittle me in any way possible because you claim half of my arugment was "HA!" When in fact I've only used it twice along with a single "hahaha" so I mean yea your definatley showing signs of desperation. Why don't you go try to fit in at school some more you angsty, hormonal teen, conformist, feminazi. Your an absolute moron, and I'm purely here for my entertainment at this point... Please say something interesting.. Bahaha... Or will you continue to come with the pathetic attempts to insult me? I've heard it all little lady... You can't hurt me :)
I feel terrible for the guy who asks you out lol... Hopefully your body makes up for your amazing stupidity. You probabably couldn't even manage setting up a date all by yourself. LOL, just to switch it up a bit.. Rebuddle?
@UhDopeDude Oh write me a novel please..
It's quite amazing how you think me seeing this from a mans perspective, is gonna make me agree that my gender is inferior and downright horrible in every aspect.
I've not actually tried to insult you thus far because I just don't care enough, but if you've been insulted by something I've said then that's not really my problem. Neither is it my problem that you're as creative as cardboard with your cliche "insults" that due to their silliness are more insulting to the intelligence of mankind than to me personally.
Dude you are so overly dramatic it's pathetic... No one ever said your gender is "inferior or downright horrible in every aspect" where the fuck do you get this shit? Like what? You stupid girls steady put fake ass words and thoughts in your own heads and just run with it... WHAT? Gtfoh you noodle.. And "pathetic, suck at life, sad and lonely" sorry but those are definitly attempted insults by anyone's standards... Stop trying to justify yourself yo... Just admit when your wrong. Or keep lying to yourself I don't fucking care, but don't try to convince me that the lies you keep telling yourself are facts... Nah... I will poop in your mouth to express my distaste for your opinions
@UhDopeDude I don't really want to further this discussion in this manner, I've started feeling kind of sorry for you and I don't think it's nice of me to keep going as I have been thus far.
I will, however, try to respond in a respectful, more objective matter:
If we just analyse the title of this take "Men, you are the catch not women" it does nothing but encourage males to feel superior, which neither of the genders should. From then on it's just a crapfest of "110 reasons to hate women and why you're the ultimate prize" as presented by someone whos only encounter with females must've been his mom and the ones he met online, which have led him to become bitter and alone.
Im not sure of which lies you are speaking but if you care elaborate then please do so.
i mean, u can have ur typical gag male empowerment if u want but ill just say this: if ur a straight male desiring female companionship at some point, fixate less on shitting on the opposite gender and focus more on making urself a catch but being humble about it. a catch is a catch regardless of gender. good luck
well i like your take it does make sesne and explains important stuff.
Women expect more from men while men expect a woman to look beautiful, i personally when i see an attractive girl i consider the amount of make up she's wearing and her personality , looks are important but if she's a bitch iam turned off, i've learned through the years to not put a woman on a pedestal or treat her like a queen until way later cause otherwise she won't respect me if i do that.
These behaviours had led me to truly look differently at life and women and realize some things.
As much as I completely agree with you... and then some.
I believe more in equality.
A man would be arrogant to think he's a catch regardless of how well off he is, and woman would be an ignorant bitch if they think they are quite the catch regardless of how "independent" they may be.
Baseline, once you find each other... the 50/50 rule applies. you find your other half in them none you is better than the other, you just complete each other.
How sad and pathetic this take... neither person is 'the prize' and shame on any man who feels like HE is the prize. Surely he will end up alone. Relationships are about loving and appreciating each other - not having one worship the other. Dumb.
Right all these men worshipping women out there just need to start a religion already. Oh, its called facebook and the United States Judicial System. Men are becoming obsolete, except to fight muslims and other shit jobs, but soon technology will replace those jobs as well. You don't need a man to help raise kids, the state, media and education will do that, hell you don't need a man to get pregnant. These guys are idiots, I agree.
Wow... Just wow... Can't let us just have this one thing can you? Lol damn dude... Get over yourself... Please... Shame on you... I bet you consider yourself a prize.. Yet you say I should shame myself for having a shred of hope for having confidence one day? Yea some of us are pathetic.. Because we constsnty have people like you making us feel inferior... And here you are just piling it on even more.. I guess I'll just people people like you back up on the pedestal..
Its usually women who often end up alone solely because they believe that they are the prize when in reality they werent even close to as good as they thought.
This mytake sounds very umm, female hating, im guessing you aren't getting any attention from the opposite sex.
Or he's fed up with their bs. Girls do it too so im guessibg the people who do it are fed up.
Hi, I get plenty of attention from the opposite sex.
Most of you women are trouble. Bye.
@UtopianLobotomy All that trouble pestering you constantly, you must just wish they'd all leave you alone and bother some other guy...
@UtopianLobotomy women are trouble , hmm.. how so?
@LiveFreeorDieHard and you sound angry as well. your 19 you ha ent experienced being with opposite long enough to be so sour
Yes I do, I wasted my time with fast or psycho women, have kids I love but can't raise or even see. A heart thats fucked up a mind thats insane and a personality uglier than if sloth was the joker.
Women I respect that Im attracted to I dont deserve and aren't going to date a guy like me because my past and my current intimidating demeanor
@UtopianLobotomy o. k. so you blame women but you aren't working on yourself. You realize the type of women your attracting and you realise the type of women you want to attract. your obviously not dumb, but you aren't changing yourself to get want you want, you can do that.
They kind of deserve it, a lot of them are pretty damn heartless
Men should avoid western women like the plague. They are too much trouble and are very dangerous.
@Careless_Whisper Lol, have you been overseas? You've got it easy trust me.
@UhDopeDude.. women and heartless generally don't go together. but if your basing that off the few women you have been with and your painting an entire sex with one brush then...
Western women are by far the worst.
@Careless_Whisper.. lol, ok. You haven't been o overseas
Actually I have.
No I'm definitly basing it on a lot of what most girls say... You ever hear how strippers talk about people? It's like their all satanist willing to sacrifice you to dark lord chuckles or some shit... Yea girls have a very vicious tounge
Holy hate people. Fun fact people suck! There's always going to be women out there that are bitches and crazy and hurt men for fun just like there will always be men out there that will hurt you for fun and be asshole. But here some fun information not every person you meet is going to be the same so stop generalizing all people!
Of course we get sick of the opposite genders bullshit! We don't have the same brain function. We're going to bitch about each other. Dulcedulcexoxo if venting on here makes him feel better whats the harm doesn't mean he doesn't get attention maybe he just got hurt and he's upset.
Utopian don't blame all women for your problems your old enough to know better so if you keep going for the same girl and not use protection don't blame every female of course there's crazy ass ones but you control your own life.
Careless because European girls aren't any trouble at all good luck with that.
@CrazynKinky Yea, I bet they blame wars on women too
Well besides religion it's the second biggest reason for going to war.
Holy shit so many girls R mad on this. Want to know why mytakeowner? Because U mentioned the makeup part! Lots of girls R sensitive about it, because it really can dramatically change how U look. I've met girls who refuse to go outside w/o makeup on. It can really add to a woman's confidence.
And I disagree with the other girls that men R too hard on women. Women wear makeup for themselves mostly. The avg guy has no idea if she has on a lot of makeup or not.
And fashion too. Guys don't really care how women look... but it is kind of expected for guys to workout at the gym.
Women have a much harder burden than men, giving birth.
It's expected to at least be supportive for that. We aren't slaves though, the guy on the video had a choice, he didn't have to make her walk to all the way to a restaurant only to talk? Actually he's pretty cool for a self centered guy. Gave me some laughs, didn't think anyone could end up like him.
Scott works out so he's pretty buff, but there is a lot more to him than a nice body. I work out too, & fitness is something we enjoy sharing together.
We have a love relationship, so we connect in many ways - emotionally & spiritually, not simply physically & sexually.