10 Signs He's A Player (Page 3)

[Kauto_Star]

Don't you realize how BILLIONS of men rich in diversity that populate. Then you base your generalisation about a gender that YOU'RE NOT. You run the risk of meting out these prejudices and misconceptions to innocent man who is nieve about women. Can you see why some young men are depressed and in despair that he "can't" get a girlfriend, you've seen it in gAg. The reason is because of the barricades that women put up. I guess the reason for your fortification was based on your ex.

[Kauto_Star]

Girls take this with a pinch of salt. This is NOT a definitive guide of idenfying a cheat. This article is potentially dangerous and disempowering to GENUINE guys. Some them display these traits and will be FALSELY accused of being a cheat. A woman would need have a doctorate in Andropsychology and spent decades meeting the diversity of men. What I find annoying that women talk like they are experts on men. When they don't know what they are talking about.

[Kauto_Star]

This clearly written by woman who's been burnt. It looks to me (when you revisit points 8 - 10) that this guy wanted out. And is letting you down "easy". Each of the ten points can be nullified in some legitmate way. The ONLY sign of player is CATCH him at it. What you've got to remember is that YOU CHOSE HIM, you ALLOWED him inside your knickers, or was it rape? Now you have to identify and learn from your mistakes. So you can move on from this.

[Verimas]

Well as for #2 I've never been friends with other guys all my friends were girls and I'm far from a player not that I can get a girlfriend I guess being a nice shy guy isn't helping if this is how girls feel

[Luvthemplayas]

I have to disagree with 5 because I've been around players who are jerks from the start. They can be hot and cold. Go from being sweet to being a complete asshole and saying things like "your kids will come out retarded" Also look out for them criticizing girls by saying that girls want to act like the songs that are out and degrade themselves but all along the criticizer is trying to get into your pants.

[Nee-Cee2]

Whoever wrote this article seems very bitter and unhappy!! I feel like this, as an adult you should know within the first few weeks if that person is someone you would like to continue on with or if you need to drop them quicker than Kim K. did Chris Humphreys!!

[Kirru]

I can't agree with this article at all. I'm 20 and still a virgin. I have a lot of girl friends but never dated any of them. Don't have a lot of guy friends as they tend to be a little annoying and like to itemize their women and growing up with two sisters, I can't stand that.

Sounds like you have had a couple bad run ins and had similar instances with both. But I do agree with some of the points but 97% I dont.

[camietter]

I. Just love how all of the guys disagree and are offended.

And Kuato star, do the world a favor and learn how to spell.

Generally, this article is true for players. She didn't say THE ENTIRE MALE POPULATION.

It actually is most of the signs of a player. Sooo yeah.

[Careless_Whisper]

All these "signs" could also apply to nice guys who don't cheat. Why are women so easily brainwashed by this nonsense?

[LuvBiddy]

#1-8 applied to one of the people I used to know. Too bad when I saw the signs I didn't act on them. Thanks for the article, I'm sure it will benefit a lot of people.

[ladyangel]

Sociopaths, abusers, like the player, they have no guilt or shame using other people and many of them lie so easily that its hard for a victim to know what she/he is dealing with.

My boyfriend doesn't text me or call me anymore except when he is coming over. I am afraid he may be a player or abuser.

[anynymoooooose]

Yeah the testing and not caring stuff could be right. But most of these qualities just point to a guy who has experience with women and knows how to treat them.

[flirtygirlx3]

I completely agree with this article and it most def. describes a player. I'm dealing with a guy now and he fits every single criteria here on the dot.

[sammy539400]

i have been in hiding from a guy I clicked with 6 wks ago.. lovely older sports car own house no kids not married. I vanished on him as we had sex one time and then after 3 weeks he tracked me down. we have clicked wildly as freinds and I really like him. we met up after he tracked me down and once again I found myself having sex with him in his spare room, not in his main 'special' bedroom but always the spare room. all the gilrs at his gym club swish past us whenever we meet for coffee.

[Killfest400]

Some of the article is true and applicable, but not all of it. I fit #2, #3, and #5, and I'm anything but a player. Good article, but it should be taken with a grain of salt.

[Da-One-n-Only-]

Most of girls of the back can tell what kind of guy they are dealing with.these are signs that players I'VE delte with shown ME...compared to question I've read on here it's pretty similar.

[sirrius2]

Is he for You?

What feeling do you get when you look into his eyes? Does he get the same feeling when he looks into your eyes? Does your heart skip a beat when you seem him? Doe his? Do you feel deep down inside that this is your true soulmate? If not, then don't give 100% of your self until you are certain that you are getting 100% from him.

Voila to find out how get your man and keep him.

[Chillkid]

So many of those things are just not true, so you telling me every guy that asks a girl how her day been doesn't care? And if the guy calls are text late at night he just want some? whoah I understand the acts differently with you in public but if the dude shows you his sweet side in public and when you guys are alone how is he showing his friend your the next "victim"? This article is bias and written in one point of view obviously by a female who got their heart broken, all I'm saying is not

[read87]

I don't agree with number three. what's wrong with a guy knowing what to say to make a girl feel better. That's a trait that helps marriages work.

Everything else seems to be right on.

[keboses]

This is all BS. Seriously.

A guy is a player if he wins your affections. If he plays the game of getting chicks well.

A player does NOT equal a d***.

[tiny_me]

exactly like my ex -_- , but i was in love with him so i didn't notice but not anymore