That's because dating is easier for women than men and actually studies have shown that men attraction for women actually goes up if she is nice. The case for men however doesn't hold true with women.
Men tend to want to be nice because men think logically and want to show women that he cares about her. It's logical if something is precious to you then you would want to show it that you care about it and take care of it.
However, men make a mistake in thinking women think along the same wave lengths as us. When women see a man act nice towards her, the female brain doesn't think these thoughts. Firs question comes to mine is why is he being so nice to me? Men are clueless in realizing that a lot of women act of being nice is fake nice and a lot of girls aren't really nice. So when they see a guy acting nice they get suspicious and many girls think the only reason he is doing it is to get into her pants.
The other thing is perceived value. Women perceive being nice to them as indicating to them they have more value than you and because of hypergamy they would not consider you because they don't date down. Women date up.
Guys who are assholes or indifferent to women do not give indicators to the woman that she is of higher value but signal to her that he is better than her, and hence his disrespect comes from a place of power that she is beneath him.
The female brain lights up that this male is of higher value than her and therefore chases him because women date up (hypergamy).
@JustheretoChill yeah i do think women want to maintain a 'nice girl' image. i also think that due to female empowerment some women think its ok to be a bitch and even take pride in it. i think that women are constantly evaluating men and they spy on them always, women will know the pass of your cellphone and pc, they will go in your browser history, messages, etc. i think that is normal because they have the womb, once they are pregnant the man can run away (although difficult nowadays) women dont want to be 'used' as they say. sometimes some women think they have a monopoly on dating and sex and they think its the only thing a man wants and that they can have sex whenever they want with whoever they want. they think they are omnipotent in dating and sex, and if they dont get what they want then its all like 'ARE YOU GAY? YOU MUST BE GAY'. some women underestimate men and their humanness. they think you are a sex robot, but you are just human.
It's true. The only reason most women settle with boring old nice guy is because he has money and is stable. After a while she'll divorce him take his assets and fuck the hot bad boy in his house. It's painful to see but it is what it is.
Honestly why is so inconceivable to guys that women are capable of making their own money? When you get a job, Mr brave anonymous poster, there will be women there. This may shock you, but we do actually have them.
@EmiliaB Women are capable of making their own money but studies show women work less hours than men, less bold in asking for raises, and often have to sacrifice their career a bit when the baby comes. Hence, they need a guy around.
And even though women still make their own money like women are preaching. Women by in large still date up when it comes to wealth. The vast majority of women always seem to want a partner who makes more or equal bu never less. And research pattern of marriages do show that the husband makes more than the wife often.
@BubbleBoy69 I have little boy, and although I have had some help from my family, it's my job that puts food in his mouth. His dad is around and he does spend time with him, but I've never asked him for child support. Partly because he hasn't had his job for very long and I'd rather see him stay securely on his feet, and partly because I don't want him to see me as that bitch who asked him for money. It's quite ironic, because the whole reason he got that job was so that would be able to support my son, but it's just a delicate subject.
We ( women) aren't interested in bleeding men dry. We'll be Ok. That's not why we like having guys around.
@EmiliaB And tell me how easy is it being a single mother being the sole provider for your son? Like you said you've had some help from you family. This wouldn't be the case if you had a reliable male partner who helped brought in income.
The point being sure there are single mothers out there who can support their kids but that doesn't change the fact having another adult contributing wouldn't make it easier and despite what women say in their "i'm an independent and strong women" speech they do want a man who can support a family and them.
My comment has nothing to do with women not having jobs. Although some of them don't, It has to do with the countless amount of women who intentionally screw men over by ignoring the good men in her 20s then in her 30s when her biological clock tells her to settle down she looks for the same man she rejected all her life just because he's got resources she can leech off of. The 75% divorce rate initiated by women isn't just one big coincidence.
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i find that there is a lot talk about nice guys, but not about nice women.
That's because dating is easier for women than men and actually studies have shown that men attraction for women actually goes up if she is nice. The case for men however doesn't hold true with women.
@JustheretoChill then why would we be nice guys? there is no reason to do so.
Men tend to want to be nice because men think logically and want to show women that he cares about her. It's logical if something is precious to you then you would want to show it that you care about it and take care of it.
However, men make a mistake in thinking women think along the same wave lengths as us. When women see a man act nice towards her, the female brain doesn't think these thoughts. Firs question comes to mine is why is he being so nice to me? Men are clueless in realizing that a lot of women act of being nice is fake nice and a lot of girls aren't really nice. So when they see a guy acting nice they get suspicious and many girls think the only reason he is doing it is to get into her pants.
The other thing is perceived value. Women perceive being nice to them as indicating to them they have more value than you and because of hypergamy they would not consider you because they don't date down. Women date up.
Guys who are assholes or indifferent to women do not give indicators to the woman that she is of higher value but signal to her that he is better than her, and hence his disrespect comes from a place of power that she is beneath him.
The female brain lights up that this male is of higher value than her and therefore chases him because women date up (hypergamy).
@JustheretoChill yeah i do think women want to maintain a 'nice girl' image. i also think that due to female empowerment some women think its ok to be a bitch and even take pride in it. i think that women are constantly evaluating men and they spy on them always, women will know the pass of your cellphone and pc, they will go in your browser history, messages, etc. i think that is normal because they have the womb, once they are pregnant the man can run away (although difficult nowadays) women dont want to be 'used' as they say. sometimes some women think they have a monopoly on dating and sex and they think its the only thing a man wants and that they can have sex whenever they want with whoever they want. they think they are omnipotent in dating and sex, and if they dont get what they want then its all like 'ARE YOU GAY? YOU MUST BE GAY'. some women underestimate men and their humanness. they think you are a sex robot, but you are just human.
No, women aren't killing "life-long marriage" MGTOW is destroying marriage completely.
A brief study states 75% of men are bachelors and 35% are divorced.
It's true. The only reason most women settle with boring old nice guy is because he has money and is stable. After a while she'll divorce him take his assets and fuck the hot bad boy in his house. It's painful to see but it is what it is.
Honestly why is so inconceivable to guys that women are capable of making their own money?
When you get a job, Mr brave anonymous poster, there will be women there. This may shock you, but we do actually have them.
@EmiliaB Women are capable of making their own money but studies show women work less hours than men, less bold in asking for raises, and often have to sacrifice their career a bit when the baby comes. Hence, they need a guy around.
And even though women still make their own money like women are preaching. Women by in large still date up when it comes to wealth. The vast majority of women always seem to want a partner who makes more or equal bu never less. And research pattern of marriages do show that the husband makes more than the wife often.
@BubbleBoy69 I have little boy, and although I have had some help from my family, it's my job that puts food in his mouth.
His dad is around and he does spend time with him, but I've never asked him for child support. Partly because he hasn't had his job for very long and I'd rather see him stay securely on his feet, and partly because I don't want him to see me as that bitch who asked him for money.
It's quite ironic, because the whole reason he got that job was so that would be able to support my son, but it's just a delicate subject.
We ( women) aren't interested in bleeding men dry. We'll be Ok.
That's not why we like having guys around.
@EmiliaB And tell me how easy is it being a single mother being the sole provider for your son? Like you said you've had some help from you family. This wouldn't be the case if you had a reliable male partner who helped brought in income.
The point being sure there are single mothers out there who can support their kids but that doesn't change the fact having another adult contributing wouldn't make it easier and despite what women say in their "i'm an independent and strong women" speech they do want a man who can support a family and them.
My comment has nothing to do with women not having jobs. Although some of them don't, It has to do with the countless amount of women who intentionally screw men over by ignoring the good men in her 20s then in her 30s when her biological clock tells her to settle down she looks for the same man she rejected all her life just because he's got resources she can leech off of. The 75% divorce rate initiated by women isn't just one big coincidence.
Yeah, now she'd be bored and screwing the pool guy.
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The only way men can be free is to end this abusive relationship with women she is one of the worst things that have happened to the planet.
Maybe it needed to go?
awesome, tell me more
OK then stop dating western women
Yes, sadly it is true.
Dr Helen Smith explains it exactly right.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gs82rCR-yro
Glad to see the back of it. You reap what you sow.
more like American women
Both sides, actually