Wow, didn't take long for all the girls to jump in and defend their judgmental attitudes. Sure, some nice guys really aren't that nice, but all of them?
Let me ask, how many guy have you girls asked out? Why don't you walk a mile in our shoes before giving us all shit about it.
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Studies have shown that women do not value kindness. What i mean by this is kindness while is nice does not increase or decrease your value in a woman's eyes. Women value: Looks, money and social status above all else.
On the flip side for men a woman being kind actually increases here attractiveness. It must be linked to nurturing aspect and children that a man is looking for in a potential mate.
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Oh by the way you ever wonder why women and men aren't up in arms race shaming "NICE GIRLS" and yet "NICE GUYS" are public enemy no.1 ?
It's because our society has sympathy for when the roles are reverse and the women gives unrequited love. While for men thanks to feminist nice guys are looked at as monsters.
Respectful, kind hearted, genuinely sweet guys will always be able to get girls. It's the guys who act like real assholes, but believe they are "nice guys" just because they haven't robbed a bank that have the problem. Blaming everyone else for that problem is actually a huge part of it.
@Carefuloutthere if that were true, then those guys wouldn't be mostly left out in dating, and there wouldn't be an entire cottage industry devoted to teaching sweet guys how to shed that image so they can actually get a girl. I just think most guys are given mixed signals, with polite elders teaching us to be gentlemanly, and girls rejecting us for being that way.
guys that whine and moan about how no women like them are the ones that don't even get a date, much less get laid. Tell me how that is supposed to be a turn on to a women.
@thecd1979 same goes for you I don't know why you fucking people have to make a mess out of things all I'm trying to do is fix it but you end up making it worse then it already is
@CancerianMan81 I'm just living my life and the way I want to live it right now and if a good women happens to come along I 'm all game, but if not, I'm more than ok with that. I have plenty of other things going on in my life right now to occupy my time. Your behaviors, your mannerisms, the way you carry your self and lack of confidence have nothing to do with me or any other guys, we are not the ones raining on your parade. You are the one doing that. You need to stop blaming your problems on everyone else.
That's what all the bitter "nice guys" say, go grow some balls and then get back in the game when you're done whining like a little bitch. You're a grown man for Christ sake, it's pathetic.
@ShaeNielson No I'm not. If you dumb ass lttle simpletons wouldn't run off with Thugboy, we wouldn't be having this conversation. Don't argue with me little girl, you will lose very badly.
if you want to get down to brass taxes in reality when you don't give what the person wants your not only screwing that person over but your also screwing yourself over for what you want cause the LAWS OF ATTRACTION ARE ALWAYS MATCHING WHAT YOU PUT YOU GET BACK!!!
and what I see here what is going to happen to her is she's going to be screwed over way to many times than she can count and another thing at least I'm man enough that I can admit that i'm a victim and don't have to sweep my problems under the rug I can just let it all hang out for everybody to see and if they like it good and if they don't like it even better at least that's one person that i don't have to worry about
I've been screwed over so many times that I care to admit but at least it's made me a better person and if nobody believes that then that's their problem not mine
@CancerianMan81 Just because a girl does not think you're attractive doesn't make you a victim. You're not a victim of anything... And if you believe that, then you're delusional. And their are no such thing as the laws of attraction! Every relationship is different and their is no such thing as a book of laws to follow.
and boy ain't you fucking dumb cause there is LAWS of ATTRACTION and i'm not talking about a fucking book for your information and I never said anything about being attractive okay yeah i'm not a victim okay and how the fuck do you know that i'm not a victim have been in my fucking life to know that i'm not a victim huh I know what fucking works in life cause i've been through my trials and tribulations and one thing I have learned from my experiences
@CancerianMan81 I honestly care less about the laws of attraction! If we find each other physically and mentally attractive, then that's good enough for me. You probably overthink everything, and assuming you have troubles with women, that may be one of the causes!
regardless for the way you are the so called "NICE GUY" is going to take you for the way you are as long as you accept him for the way he is I can't stress that enough
oh how fucking original block me @Smmyskittles and it further shows how weak you are by blocking me and it also proves my point that you are delusional
furthermore I think it's manipulation and control cause why else would the women want you to be sweet to them all the time when it's impossible to be sweet all the time you might fool all of the other people but you fooling this ole guy right here
Yeah, I guess you're right about some of these points.
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I'm not nice and girls don't like me. I don't know why.
Who are these nice guys you're talking about? Are they in the chess club? What do you think they're lacking?
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I dunno man, just it seems like the "nice guy" people describe is someone who is patient and knows how to use his damn brain. After awhile guys just back off and dont give a sh*t anymore.
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Wow, didn't take long for all the girls to jump in and defend their judgmental attitudes. Sure, some nice guys really aren't that nice, but all of them?
Let me ask, how many guy have you girls asked out? Why don't you walk a mile in our shoes before giving us all shit about it.
Studies have shown that women do not value kindness. What i mean by this is kindness while is nice does not increase or decrease your value in a woman's eyes. Women value: Looks, money and social status above all else.
On the flip side for men a woman being kind actually increases here attractiveness. It must be linked to nurturing aspect and children that a man is looking for in a potential mate.
Oh by the way you ever wonder why women and men aren't up in arms race shaming "NICE GIRLS" and yet "NICE GUYS" are public enemy no.1 ?
https://youtu.be/a9XDb0nxSO4
It's because our society has sympathy for when the roles are reverse and the women gives unrequited love. While for men thanks to feminist nice guys are looked at as monsters.
I have read some of those studies, they seem to be correct.
Very true. I think our world is fucked when young guys are told they'll never get laid if they're respectful and kind-hearted.
Respectful, kind hearted, genuinely sweet guys will always be able to get girls. It's the guys who act like real assholes, but believe they are "nice guys" just because they haven't robbed a bank that have the problem.
Blaming everyone else for that problem is actually a huge part of it.
@Carefuloutthere if that were true, then those guys wouldn't be mostly left out in dating, and there wouldn't be an entire cottage industry devoted to teaching sweet guys how to shed that image so they can actually get a girl. I just think most guys are given mixed signals, with polite elders teaching us to be gentlemanly, and girls rejecting us for being that way.
Its the truth though :(
@BigJake if that's the case then that means that these girls don't care for the elderly
guys that whine and moan about how no women like them are the ones that don't even get a date, much less get laid. Tell me how that is supposed to be a turn on to a women.
@thecd1979 same goes for you I don't know why you fucking people have to make a mess out of things all I'm trying to do is fix it but you end up making it worse then it already is
@CancerianMan81 I'm just living my life and the way I want to live it right now and if a good women happens to come along I 'm all game, but if not, I'm more than ok with that. I have plenty of other things going on in my life right now to occupy my time. Your behaviors, your mannerisms, the way you carry your self and lack of confidence have nothing to do with me or any other guys, we are not the ones raining on your parade. You are the one doing that. You need to stop blaming your problems on everyone else.
@thecd1979 and what your not getting Is I don't have problems alright people have a problem with me there is a difference
and do I give a shit no
Humans damn it humans!!! XD so fucking complicated.
So much bitterness in this post. How attractive.
Yes, no reason for bitterness... chuckle...
Holy fucking shit. I can't believe how exacerbated I am from those damn threads.
"Nice guys!" "Chubby guys!" "Shy girls" "Fit guys" "Fit girls"
THE WORST PART IS THEY ALL SAY THE SAME FUCKING THINGS!
Yeah yeah this is the world we live in. People are going to judge you for anything. We just have to deal with it.
If nice guys aren't nice then I am neither a jerk nor a nice guy.
Then I'm my very own kind.
But so what.
We are living in a world where nice us shame
And slut is freedom
I don't regret being kind anti social and isolated
Why would I stuck with such people
Feminsim is the problem in our society and is very toxic. check out the video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDkgYjRMCyw"Nice guys" are cringe af.
>waiting for a girlfriend
There's your problem m8
Maybe because you nice giys keeps chasing after the bad girls that don't even want nor appreciate an actual nice guy.
*guys
Do another one on the 5 stupid things women say about over confident guys.
And they wonder why they get knocked up and dumped by Thugboy. Then have the unmitigated gall to want a good man? Kiss my ass on both cheeks !
You think you're nice, too, don't you?
@ShaeNielson I am nice. I speak the truth. Which most people can't take.
Not really, you're basically calling all women whores with bad judgement. You're not nice, you're bitter.
@ShaeNielson You wouldn't know. If I'm bitter it's because I have the right to be.
That's what all the bitter "nice guys" say, go grow some balls and then get back in the game when you're done whining like a little bitch. You're a grown man for Christ sake, it's pathetic.
@ShaeNielson No I'm not. If you dumb ass lttle simpletons wouldn't run off with Thugboy, we wouldn't be having this conversation. Don't argue with me little girl, you will lose very badly.
Maybe thugboy isn't a whiney bitch who believes the world owes him everything because he's a special snowflake.
@ShaeNielson your to young to understand
@CancerianMan81 I agree with her! Why would a girl want a whiney nice guy who acts like a victim? In what way does that appeal to anyone?
@Baumber I don't cause it's an overcompensation
nobody has any power over anybody
and i sure in the hell can tell when a person is fake
if you want to get down to brass taxes in reality when you don't give what the person wants your not only screwing that person over but your also screwing yourself over for what you want cause the LAWS OF ATTRACTION ARE ALWAYS MATCHING WHAT YOU PUT YOU GET BACK!!!
@CancerianMan81 Don't forget Karma.
that's where I was going
@CancerianMan81 I thought so.
and what I see here what is going to happen to her is she's going to be screwed over way to many times than she can count and another thing at least I'm man enough that I can admit that i'm a victim and don't have to sweep my problems under the rug I can just let it all hang out for everybody to see and if they like it good and if they don't like it even better at least that's one person that i don't have to worry about
I've been screwed over so many times that I care to admit but at least it's made me a better person and if nobody believes that then that's their problem not mine
@CancerianMan81 Just because a girl does not think you're attractive doesn't make you a victim. You're not a victim of anything... And if you believe that, then you're delusional. And their are no such thing as the laws of attraction! Every relationship is different and their is no such thing as a book of laws to follow.
Lol PLEASE explain how I'm being fake! I need a good laugh!!
@Baumber I wasn't talk about you I was talking about her
and boy ain't you fucking dumb cause there is LAWS of ATTRACTION and i'm not talking about a fucking book for your information and I never said anything about being attractive okay yeah i'm not a victim okay and how the fuck do you know that i'm not a victim have been in my fucking life to know that i'm not a victim huh I know what fucking works in life cause i've been through my trials and tribulations and one thing I have learned from my experiences
@CancerianMan81 I honestly care less about the laws of attraction! If we find each other physically and mentally attractive, then that's good enough for me. You probably overthink everything, and assuming you have troubles with women, that may be one of the causes!
@Baumber I don't have a problem with women l the women has a problem with me that's what I'm trying to point out there's a difference
why do you think I make claims that their delusional cause their saying that I hate them when I don't their trying to bait people into believing that
the problem I think is that the women want to have the privilege and men not have the privilege because they think that their more special then you
regardless for the way you are the so called "NICE GUY" is going to take you for the way you are as long as you accept him for the way he is I can't stress that enough
oh how fucking original block me @Smmyskittles and it further shows how weak you are by blocking me and it also proves my point that you are delusional
furthermore I think it's manipulation and control cause why else would the women want you to be sweet to them all the time when it's impossible to be sweet all the time you might fool all of the other people but you fooling this ole guy right here
another thing @Smmyskittles I can see your fakeness showing
Yeah, I guess you're right about some of these points.
I'm not nice and girls don't like me. I don't know why.
Who are these nice guys you're talking about? Are they in the chess club? What do you think they're lacking?
I dunno man, just it seems like the "nice guy" people describe is someone who is patient and knows how to use his damn brain. After awhile guys just back off and dont give a sh*t anymore.
Lmao what a joke