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Women Seeking Financially Secure Men Are Not Gold Diggers (Page 4)
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And let me guess - you'd really love it if answers justified your obvious intent here?
Or is there a question behind it - as in, if I go for a guy because of his money - can I somehow avoid being a gold digger?
Unlikely - that's the definition of the term, right?
Agreed!😊 As I get older, I realize that I want someone financially stable, has a car, moved out of his moms house, loves his family and is good with mine. I learned a lot from my past realationship, and I just feel like my views are maturing and I'm getting to a point where I'm looking far into the future now and I don't want to be with someone who isn't all around stable and secure. Doesn't make me a gold digger.
I think i won't get married if i got money. Because all women caring about money. And i dont want a money based relationship.
Dont get me wrong. I red your take and i understand what you're saying. But you know that kinda "money" talk just... Uhhh disgusting. If i got money i can't trust any women on this planet after ALL those experiences. After seeing peoples relationships ending/starting because of money. I absolutely hate it...
I absolutely second that!
With the exception that I plan to never get married. Still money is what runs quite increasingly relationships now.
You can't trust anybody these days anymore.
@Unit1 all women are gold diggers. I've never been friends or date anybody (no matter male of female) because of their money. But even i have girls around me doing that. Just because money and they saying "nooo he's cute, i love him" well if you're doing that... Be honest for gods sake!
When i got money a few years later. I wouldn't be able to trust girls anymore. Because of all those lies. When you show them those green papers you're god and they are your servants. For example Dan Bilzerian, that famous rich guy.
And once you're down for whatever reason, your girl you thought would love you for your personality suddenly disappears like the bank balance you once had.
Where were the girls when you were powerless and not having much money and in times where you felt you could have somebody by your side at times, then suddenly they all start to appear in waves once you get financially stable, the spotlight is all on you! By that time you are used to it and see no point in getting one of those leeches.
In that case it's better to be off single for all eternity rather than jump into a relationmoney.
@Unit1 if you have money all you gotta do is show them money, let them try to have it, dont give anything and fck them all.
Bad idea! You only attract the wrong kind of attention and then people will know, that you are rich (which will spread the rumor) and then you will always be "wanted". It's easier to just ghost out altogether.
You just keep telling yourself whatever helps you sleep at night. Sure, you're not a gold digger. You can't help it if the only men you're 'attracted' to make six figures, can you? Certainly not!
Please don't speak for all women. I, for one want to make my own money and make as much or higher than my partner. I'm not a leech and I don't need his money.
I'm Only speaking for women who are seeking financially stable partners.
Independent woman who don't need no man
Oh F-off.
If these women aren't gold diggers, let them ALL sign pre-nups.
Problem solved.
Except they won't EVER do that, will they?
I actually hear more about men getting piss about prenups and women are the ones who want prenups unless you can proof a stat on how many women wanting no prenups.
@NatashaJ Right... because so many people hear about GUYS marrying for money. That's why guys feel the need to justify marrying for money...
Don't be stupid. You can claim you hear anything you like - fact is, there's a ready made solution if you don't want to be called a gold digging whore. It's up to women to take it.
It's not up to us to try and find reasons why they won't.
First of all you act like all women want to screw over men and stated a fact that you can't prove that all women don't sign prenups. Second of all someone wanted a relationship where a guy is stable is not a gold digger whore sorry but not everyone wants to date a guy with no job who keeps asking you for money. It doesn't in case one person in a marriage loses their job the other one can support the family in the mean time.
I'm going to guess and say you are the same woman who thinks men should pay for your tampons.
If you have a decent degree and job by all means your wants are valid. If not then you may be looking for a while. You need to offer something more than being a stay at home mom or a minimum wage job to get what you are seeking. After all nobody likes a free loader.
Women are allowed to have their preferences and so does men. Although a lot of men would love to date stay-at- home moms because there are tons of stay-at-home moms.
Nobody is saying you can't have preferences. But they also need to be realistic. A neanderthal looking man working at walmart may have a preference for women who is a 9 or above. It's his preference but is highly unlikely to be achieved. The same can be said for a woman making 25000 a year as a receptionist at a hair salon looking for a man making 6 figures for financial security. She needs to take a good hard look at what she brings to the table to be able to get her "security". If that's all she brings then a gold digger title fits.
I personally think that whether or not you have a treks too ship to someone should be based entirely on their personality, and your attraction to them
If you think that not being financially stable would then make them the sort of person you wouldn't want to date, fair enough
But I find I kinda sad that people could be passing up their perfect matches just because at the time they had less money
I will add this: if the woman is not financially secure herself and seeking a financially secure man, I would say she is in fact a bit of a gold digger. Same goes for a financially insecure dude seeking a secure women.
This MyTake is very misinformed and untrue. Look at Donald Trump born with a silver spoon in his mouth went in to bankruptcy multiple times had to get his daddy to bail him out a few times and overspends on has bankrupted a ton of businesses. Also just because a guy is rich doesn't mean he would be ok with a women munching off his money. Lastly none of these things are things that a middle class income family can't afford if two parents have stable jobs.
donald trump never went bankrupt. some of his businesses did there is a huge difference. elon musks businesses should have went bankrupt too but he got bailed out.
facebook has failed to turn one dollar of profit out of all these years same with google.
@dudeman the point isn't great with money and that doesn't count all the times he had to close a business without filing for bankruptcy.
www.nytimes.com/.../...ving-on-450000-a-month.html
the point is he's great with money and has an amazing success rate. i wouldn't expect libs to understand since they are bad at math
@dudeman www.realclearpolitics.com/.../...s_stein-5952.html
www.realclearpolitics.com/.../..._college_map.html
and?
@dudeman Clinton is winning in all the polls and loser Donald doesn't understand the constitution, the United States laws, foreign policy the governments divisions or its inter workings. also he keeps shooting himself in the foot ever since Hilery got her post convention bump he's been saying one stupid thing after another forcing the media to cover him and not give as much coverage to Hillary when she messes up. Now Hillary has a terrible record especially in foreign policy, but she could still do the job.
Financially secure and rich aren't the same thing.
Youd better be financially stable yourself. And for your own food on dates for fucks sake.
"And for your own food on dates for fucks sake."
How chivalrous of you.
@lokilauren i only date independent women.
Trust me, they don't want you with that attitude.
@lokilauren good that cancels out all the shitty women like you.
upvoted
@lokilauren got entitlement? with your attitude, you'd be one annoying pain in the ass, not worth a 2nd date. just so you know
Yea and I'm not a shallow pig for refusing to commit to anything without nice tits and a phat ass.
The sex is better.
If it's better I'm more likely to put up with her bullshit.
The more kids we have
Lol asker didn't agree with you😂
You're allowed to be attracted to those physical traits.
This is actually dead on. I don't have a problem with women wanting financial stability, because that equals life stability. I'm much more of a traditionalist when it comes to family, so that assumes the wife will have the option not to work. No money, no options.
Gold digging whores, however, have been covered in depth already by others.
You left some important info out... whats your number? What does like you cost these days?
60,000?
70,000
80,000
100,000
250,000
500,000
10,000,000
1,000,000,000
Pick a number tuts. What do you need?
That's so true it hurts , except one thing. The gold digging part. There's a lot of differnt variables and facets involved when considering allowing woman along with you. They don't pick me , I pick them just for that reason alone. I do the offering only if I feel accredited to the arrangement therefor. To seek what you mentioned , thats deserving of your self , although the arrangement is achievable in a sacrificial way. I believe in this method , I doing this now as we speak.
Your first mistake easy our anon ehich doe'nt allow you oppertunity in such
Not necessarily,
I have a good paying job and end up working 60 hours a week... So I have little time for other activities and even dating...
If I worked a lot less, I would make a lot less... but would have time to date and have fun.. So it's kind of a catch 22...
too much generalization because one week men complain that girls only want bad boys and another week men complain that girls only want men with money it's all contradictions.
it seriously depends on the individual preference
Translation: "I want a guy to make all the money because I'm a woman with a vagina and even though I done nothing to deserve what I want I should still get it anyway because my pussy says so"
Typical female.
I agree. In fact i think its smart of women to go for secure, wealthy men. And i want to be such a guy. However, it does make me question, wether a girl would leave, if they get broke at one time.
If she's hard working and married a rich guy I don't think she's a gold digger.
If she's a couch potato or dreams at working at McDonald's for the rest of her life then she's a gold digger.