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Why Women Actually Go for Looks Instead of Personality (Page 4)
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Ah yes, middle school, where most relationships begin and where you get your first kiss
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'Sobs quietly in the corner with my zero relationships and kisses' 😰😔💔
That's cute. I'm 21 over here and still a virgin :P :(
I just want looooove man š
Me too, brother!
@Unit1 at least you aren't a lip virgin.
It's not that women care more about looks than personality, it's just that your personality isn't that great but you think the reason girls are rejecting you is because of your looks.
No, if you cold approach a girl and she turns you down right away that is because you are unattractive, not because of your personality.
How soon is "right away"? A girls attraction to a guy is mostly based on his personality, so if you asked a girl out right away and she turned you down, then you can't say she wasn't attracted to you when she doesn't even know your personality.
Right away as in between the first 1-5 seconds of meeting her. If she turns you down then, as in ignores you, then she isn't into your looks.
It's SSsniperwolf & Emily Ratajkowski
Looks attract them, personality keeps them. So, yeah. It all starts with looks.
Yep!
I wrote a take on sniperwolf
@RainbowFanGirl link please
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28907-how-did-the-ugly-guy-get-the-hot-girl
I go for personality.. bonus if he's good looking. Who wants to be with someone who you don't get along with?
If a guy you think is highly unattractive walks up to you would you let him talk?
to not talk to someone because of the way they look is a bit harsh, I would talk to anyone as long as their not a physco haha
It's a bit harsh, but it's reality
Give it up, brother. This site is not a space for "majority" view. This is the site of the underdog, the invisible man or woman. They don't want to hear what you're saying
Exactly, so it is time to awaken the truth and stop this fairytale bullshit.
"Might as well go gay"-------Is that the reason why more and more people turn gay because they get frustrated if they cannot get good girls?
No, but the internet's logic is, if you say something that is against women then you "might as well go gay"
Thanks for your opinion. I just want to hear more comments from others on this topic because this is a serious aspect that needs utmost attention.
Can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. If not then thanks!
No No.
both men and women are the visual sex. appearance really does matter. personality also matters.
Exactly my point.
so by that logic both sexes are the emotional sex too?
why bother to label either as either in that case? why not just, we're all human beings that like looks and personality? that's not what people mean when they say one sex is the visual and the other the emotional :).
@noModifierNeeded that's another great way of putting it šø
Guys care more about looks than women that's why they cheat... by the way why would a girl go for a unattractive guy and be disrespected when she can be with a better looking guy who's gonna treat her the same...
Actually it is the opposite, girls care more about looks than guys and that is why girls cheat. When it comes to cheating i'd say that guys and girls are about 50/50, maybe girls cheating a little bit more. And you've proved exactly my point. Why would a girl go for a guy who's unattractive and treats her like shit when she can go for a more attractive guy who will do the same. It's because looks trumps personality.
If their personality suck obviously we'd go for the better looking one... if the ugly one has a better personality we'd go fo him... but guess what 99% of the men are the same so why settle for lesd
Less**
BS A guy would date an ugly chick when tyere is a big variety of goid looking women
wouldn't date an ugly chick**
I said in my take that this can really go both ways, however women tend to do it more than guys.
I've know more guys than girls who do it... i grew up with boys...
Most of the girls where i live date ugly guys while guys reject Any unattractive female or just use them for one night stands when drunk
I don't think that they do. Men are more visually stimulated. Women are stimulated by touch, which can only be accomplished after laying down some kind of relationship.
Women are more visually stimulated actually. Women get to chose who they want and who they don't want based off looks just as guys do the same.
No, scientifically there have been studies. Women are naturally stimulated by touch men by visual. That's why on dates girls always find a reason to make physical contact with you. Touching your arm or brushing up against you.
But in order to get on that date and for her to touch you she needs to be physically attracted to you.
True, but attraction and actual stimulation are two different things.
lol. i think the title of the take should be -Why men actually go for looks instead of personality- 😂.
It can go both ways, however women tend to do it more.
Don't worry, right now you're only thinking like that cuz your young and only focus on the negative, soon you'll realize that there are more than one type of girl
No the majority of girls go after looks first then personality second.
You forgot the obvious reason: You can't tell someone's personality by seeing them across a crowded room. You can tell if they're hot.
Exactly!
Women can't go for anything, since it takes a man asking a woman out, not vice-versa. Which means that women can't choose who they date. Whe
When good-looking men don't ask them out, at one point they take what they can get, that is the men who constantly ask them out, hit on them, even though they don't find these men attractive. At some point women even believe that they can't do better than dating these kind of unattractive men.
In other words, if good-looking men, that is White men, don't ask out White women, but unattractive, ugly Black and Brown men constantly hit on White women and ask them out, at some point White women believe that they can't do better, or are not attractive enough for White men and they've to settle down with ugly, unattractive Black and Brown men. And then they do just that. They settle down, broken, with no self-esteem or self-image, destroyed by their own White men.
if you're a White man you HAVE to hit on White girls and ask them out. Otherwise more and more White girls are broken and dead inside, and settle down with ugly, disgusting non-White "men".
Wow. I'm mixed so with your logic I guess i'm pretty screwed.
Looks get you in the door; personality keeps you there. It's true for both genders.
Yep, however girls tend to do it more than guys
Attraction matters SOME, but is worthless if his social skills are wack.
Yes, you must have the personality to backup your looks, but looks are what brings you in.
dude you are retarded , I have good looks, and its extremely hard for me to even get a number. so don't come up with this bullshit. I guess many women are perfectionists.
Then you must not have good looks...
Said the anonymous.
not true, messege me and I can send you my profile for you t osee
I'm not concerned, I have an average face and decent body and I get plenty of attention until women realize I'm not as well off as I'm able to present myself.
Was reading and should've stopped at ,"Women care about looks." But then came across, "I am 17..." and then stopped reading.
Well Iām 19 now and the same stuff still happens.
You're exactly right 100% and I agree with all you've said. Also I'm in the same boat so maybe I might be based
Thank you! Much appreciated!
This is not entirely true. Confidence, a good sense of humour and believing in yourself will go a long way. If you doubt yourself, it shows
You need the looks in order to show that you have confidence and a sense of humor.
I can't find the lie in this statement lol. Especially online dating lol. Let's all be real here
Exactly my point.