Acting innocent around guys who are good, attractive and like you. Acting less innocent around guys who are less attractive and thus rewarding the wrong people.
@Winrey700 you mean do i think its a bad thing? no not really i mean iam picky for a reason i dont want to end up investing in a destructive relationship that leaves me with much less than i started with, its better to take it easy and find someone worth it than jumping on every single girl in sight, sure some will claim that its experience and experience is good, not gonna argue with that... but from what i see rarely do i find a man who randomly dates girls who happen to be pretty and quality as well, usually the girls are low quality or really unattractive and thats why some jump from one to another.
how does being open minded get u a gf? u go to a lot of liberal speed dating clubs or something? what other catch phrases are u going to drop? i have rarely seen a chick say i want a guy that is open minded... actions speak louder than words. show them, dont tell them.
@NexAngelus Um, fuck yourself. I was referring specifically to the article. I am none of these things, and I don't have a girlfriend that' s all I said, fuck up.
This mytake is bull shit, this is a mytake obviously bias against single people. These are all stereotypes of single people and these are not actually valid points. What was the point of this mytake?
ur a guy, ur 19. the average age of sex is 18 for a white male. so if u are white u are within the normal range. ur generation is fucked up also. a new survey showed chicks are basically scared of sex and/or more likely to get fullfilled from social media than sex. im not even joking... thats fucked up huu. so a kiss might be all u do get :( . im sorry my friend.
@NexAngelus actually in my environment people usually do it first time at the age of 15-16. and I am literally the only one I know who never had a kiss (and I know A LOT of people, all ages). Also the first kiss here happens between the age of 10 and 14 (official statistics). So yeah, its not others its me. Im fucked up
lol never seen kiss statistics ;) but i had my first kiss as a very young kid. though it was... weird. i was on a bus with a girl and the bus turned to fast and we slammed into each other... we ended up kissing. awkward right? we were friends so it was even odder. we were just like ooook that happened and moved on. most people do things as experiments. i have done plenty of things as tests ;) this is why people keep boys and girls away from each other. they start trying to figure out what goes in what holes and what feels good if u give them two minutes alone for sciences sake lol. but i was a curious little fucker anyway. i wouldn't rush it. u are who u are, just focus on who u are. if this is something that interests u now, start looking into it. if u are in decent shape at ur age it won't be hard to find some chick who will think ur cute.
@NexAngelus this is something i've been wanting to do for 7 years (kiss) and yet never had a chance to do it, no girl ever found me attractive. and as for my looks and lifestyle, i explained in detail on a take I wrote like a week ago, maybe more. long story short, i did more sports, activities and hobbies than most people. no girl ever gave a fuck.
i mean if u really care that much, get a stripper of hooker/ escort. they really are worth the more u spend the better u get. then u can get this part out of the way and go back to just looking for a normal girl with some experience under ur belt. i would call that a win win.
@NexAngelus yes, you are right, and that is what I plan to do, since girls aren't interested in me, I decided to pay for a prostitute. Im saving money for that. Luckily I have a well paid job so I should be able to afford them quite often.
"escort" and want a fun trip? pattaya thailand just stay away from boystown. most expensive part is the plan ticket and everything is so cheap once u are there. its like vegas but nothing costs 100 dollars a soda.
finale advice ;) if u get two girls to "show u around town ;)" u pick the hot one u like then after done with dealing with the mamasong, u ask her to get her friends. u pick the friend u like the most. u NEVER pick two random chicks. NEVER... worst idea ever. just trust me, no they will not be proffesionals lol. works even better if they go get their best friend ;) and she is at least cute :) or better. then u are going to be in heaven. when u are exploring the city of course ;P lol but u know what i mean anyway. u have short times and long times. long times is basically like having a girlfriend. u take them out, buy them things its weird and fun at the same time. obviously different culture so u can't judge people either... and if u wanted to actually explore they usually know the town very well also BONUS. as long as u dont try to go cheap as fuck, most the normal girls are tested all the time, so they are clean. but bring American condoms. Asian condoms dont fit some guys so well if u know
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Acting innocent around guys who are good, attractive and like you.
Acting less innocent around guys who are less attractive and thus rewarding the wrong people.
I'm single cause I want to be. I got no room for a SO at the moment. The only point I can agree with is the being too picky part... I am pretty picky.
I'm curious what are you picky about?
@akadatank44 it's quite the list :p
Oh I can change that for you my friend. Oh yes yes yes I can! Let me be your boyfriend from now on
Tell me some of it in your next message 😛
@akadatank44 I'm soooo lazy :p it should be around here in my older comments :p
Lmao 😛 lazy bum!!! your lucky I wasn't there to ake you up his morning 😝 ok I'm on a stalking mission
I'm single because I'm not cute enough and I'm a weird piece of shit
I'm single because I got RBF and a low tolerance for dumb people.
Lol nope sorry but those are none of the reasons ^^.
1 and 6. pretty much come hand in hand in my situation
Agree with 1-4. I have absolutely no idea what I'm truly looking for and want.
iam just picky and i dont have a big dating pool to start with thats really it
Do you care that you're picky? or do you want to change that?
@Winrey700 you mean do i think its a bad thing? no not really i mean iam picky for a reason i dont want to end up investing in a destructive relationship that leaves me with much less than i started with, its better to take it easy and find someone worth it than jumping on every single girl in sight, sure some will claim that its experience and experience is good, not gonna argue with that... but from what i see rarely do i find a man who randomly dates girls who happen to be pretty and quality as well, usually the girls are low quality or really unattractive and thats why some jump from one to another.
I don't know, I'm pretty open minded and still don't have a girlfriend. I feel like I'm missing something.
how does being open minded get u a gf? u go to a lot of liberal speed dating clubs or something? what other catch phrases are u going to drop? i have rarely seen a chick say i want a guy that is open minded... actions speak louder than words. show them, dont tell them.
@NexAngelus Um, fuck yourself. I was referring specifically to the article. I am none of these things, and I don't have a girlfriend that' s all I said, fuck up.
after the ass hole part i did actually give some advice ;) but its all good. dont see where u were coming from but guess it was about number one.
I think I am picky because the last guy I dated, I realized I didn't have any standards which led to all kinds of problems...
8. Get rejected by every person you ever like
9. choice
i feel this way because i hate how i have to be the confident assertive one
while rare, there are aggressive chicks that will rape u... lol go get her tiger
This mytake is bull shit, this is a mytake obviously bias against single people. These are all stereotypes of single people and these are not actually valid points. What was the point of this mytake?
I don't fulfill any of these yet I have been single all my life. Not even a kiss
ur a guy, ur 19. the average age of sex is 18 for a white male. so if u are white u are within the normal range. ur generation is fucked up also. a new survey showed chicks are basically scared of sex and/or more likely to get fullfilled from social media than sex. im not even joking... thats fucked up huu. so a kiss might be all u do get :( . im sorry my friend.
@NexAngelus actually in my environment people usually do it first time at the age of 15-16. and I am literally the only one I know who never had a kiss (and I know A LOT of people, all ages). Also the first kiss here happens between the age of 10 and 14 (official statistics). So yeah, its not others its me. Im fucked up
lol never seen kiss statistics ;) but i had my first kiss as a very young kid. though it was... weird. i was on a bus with a girl and the bus turned to fast and we slammed into each other... we ended up kissing. awkward right? we were friends so it was even odder. we were just like ooook that happened and moved on. most people do things as experiments. i have done plenty of things as tests ;) this is why people keep boys and girls away from each other. they start trying to figure out what goes in what holes and what feels good if u give them two minutes alone for sciences sake lol. but i was a curious little fucker anyway. i wouldn't rush it. u are who u are, just focus on who u are. if this is something that interests u now, start looking into it. if u are in decent shape at ur age it won't be hard to find some chick who will think ur cute.
@NexAngelus this is something i've been wanting to do for 7 years (kiss) and yet never had a chance to do it, no girl ever found me attractive. and as for my looks and lifestyle, i explained in detail on a take I wrote like a week ago, maybe more. long story short, i did more sports, activities and hobbies than most people. no girl ever gave a fuck.
i mean if u really care that much, get a stripper of hooker/ escort. they really are worth the more u spend the better u get. then u can get this part out of the way and go back to just looking for a normal girl with some experience under ur belt. i would call that a win win.
@NexAngelus yes, you are right, and that is what I plan to do, since girls aren't interested in me, I decided to pay for a prostitute. Im saving money for that. Luckily I have a well paid job so I should be able to afford them quite often.
"escort" and want a fun trip? pattaya thailand just stay away from boystown. most expensive part is the plan ticket and everything is so cheap once u are there. its like vegas but nothing costs 100 dollars a soda.
@NexAngelus I will look it up, thanks!
finale advice ;) if u get two girls to "show u around town ;)" u pick the hot one u like then after done with dealing with the mamasong, u ask her to get her friends. u pick the friend u like the most. u NEVER pick two random chicks. NEVER... worst idea ever. just trust me, no they will not be proffesionals lol. works even better if they go get their best friend ;) and she is at least cute :) or better. then u are going to be in heaven. when u are exploring the city of course ;P lol but u know what i mean anyway. u have short times and long times. long times is basically like having a girlfriend. u take them out, buy them things its weird and fun at the same time. obviously different culture so u can't judge people either... and if u wanted to actually explore they usually know the town very well also BONUS. as long as u dont try to go cheap as fuck, most the normal girls are tested all the time, so they are clean. but bring American condoms. Asian condoms dont fit some guys so well if u know
@NexAngelus Haha ok, sounds great!
I'm guilty of #3. It's better to at least try than do nothing.
WRONG!
How about "Because I'd rather be alone than miserable?"
1. Travels too much
2. Too many options
3. Overly educated
4. Ecletic
5. Competitive
6. Always right
no
yep
yep
yep
no
never crushed on anyone
obvious answer
im single because of that one time in bangkok and now i have to get treatment for it
8th reason: Single and celibate by choice