To start, you read the questions on here and the first thing you can see is bitterness, bitterness everywhere with men attacking women for rejecting them, well in this my take I am going to cover 3 mistakes men make.
1. Being a "nice guy"
A lot of guys on here and in real life tend to believe that being nice is a guarantee for women, that women should feel flattered that a guy is actually being nice to her, and that should automatically entitle him to a date with said girl. Well that's not exactly how it works. Being nice and opening doors isn't alone going to get you a girlfriend. Women want confidence and adventure and being a monotonous boring nice guy will get pretty old. Change things up and be adventurous. Go take trips or spice the relationship up, there are so many activities that one can do. Women just don't want nice talk about your hobbies or your likes it leads to boring conversation and women love interesting men.
2. Being a pushover
Men, while it's nice to buy a girl flowers, pull out her seat, or ask her what she wants to do, it gets kind of pathetic after a while. Women don't want a man that's a pushover, show dominance at times even the most feminist of women will dump a pushover. They don't want a slave, they want a significant other. Say that you want to do this or go there, speak up for yourself. Do not get your girlfriend flowers all the damn time, it gets monotonous after a while. Just grow a damn set of balls and just stop being a doormat. Be assertive. No, that does NOT mean be aggressive or a dick but insert your opinion into a matter and don't just agree with what a woman says. Women DO NOT LIKE this, I don't know how many times I have to repeat this.
3. Bitterness
A girl rejects you in a nasty way and now all women are dirty sluts...... really? I feel like men have this notion that all women are saints or are nice, well that's not the case. Women poop just like men do and women get just as pissed off as men do. Just like a lot of men are thieves, scumbags, and bullies, many women are thieves, scumbags and bullies and you have to accept that not every woman you ask out is going to reject you nicely or pump up your ego. Asking one woman out is not enough. A lot of guys ask one woman out then wait another year sometimes 5 years to ask another woman out. Dude get out there, take a college class, get involved in activities, and yes you can ask women out at the mall or the grocery store BUT only if you can get their attention or make small talk. Once you make small talk and make women laugh it can be really easy to go from there. It's obvious if they are interested. If they aren't, end the conversation on a positive note and move on. And to restate, before you approach a woman do not just ask her out, make some small talk or watch for signs that she wants to be approached I think it's easy to tell if someone is a jerk, etc
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Here are some more tips, groom yourself, women look at your fingernails, your face-facial hair, and your clothes ESPECIALLY your shoes. Your car is important, by that it should not look like a pigs pen, yes women think that is disgusting. And smile, smiling can defuse even the most tense situations and if she says no or is rude plenty of more women out there. I hope this mytake helps out and if anybody has any input please respond, thank you.
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