3 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

To start, you read the questions on here and the first thing you can see is bitterness, bitterness everywhere with men attacking women for rejecting them, well in this my take I am going to cover 3 mistakes men make.

1. Being a "nice guy"

A lot of guys on here and in real life tend to believe that being nice is a guarantee for women, that women should feel flattered that a guy is actually being nice to her, and that should automatically entitle him to a date with said girl. Well that's not exactly how it works. Being nice and opening doors isn't alone going to get you a girlfriend. Women want confidence and adventure and being a monotonous boring nice guy will get pretty old. Change things up and be adventurous. Go take trips or spice the relationship up, there are so many activities that one can do. Women just don't want nice talk about your hobbies or your likes it leads to boring conversation and women love interesting men.

3 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

2. Being a pushover

Men, while it's nice to buy a girl flowers, pull out her seat, or ask her what she wants to do, it gets kind of pathetic after a while. Women don't want a man that's a pushover, show dominance at times even the most feminist of women will dump a pushover. They don't want a slave, they want a significant other. Say that you want to do this or go there, speak up for yourself. Do not get your girlfriend flowers all the damn time, it gets monotonous after a while. Just grow a damn set of balls and just stop being a doormat. Be assertive. No, that does NOT mean be aggressive or a dick but insert your opinion into a matter and don't just agree with what a woman says. Women DO NOT LIKE this, I don't know how many times I have to repeat this.

3 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

3. Bitterness

A girl rejects you in a nasty way and now all women are dirty sluts...... really? I feel like men have this notion that all women are saints or are nice, well that's not the case. Women poop just like men do and women get just as pissed off as men do. Just like a lot of men are thieves, scumbags, and bullies, many women are thieves, scumbags and bullies and you have to accept that not every woman you ask out is going to reject you nicely or pump up your ego. Asking one woman out is not enough. A lot of guys ask one woman out then wait another year sometimes 5 years to ask another woman out. Dude get out there, take a college class, get involved in activities, and yes you can ask women out at the mall or the grocery store BUT only if you can get their attention or make small talk. Once you make small talk and make women laugh it can be really easy to go from there. It's obvious if they are interested. If they aren't, end the conversation on a positive note and move on. And to restate, before you approach a woman do not just ask her out, make some small talk or watch for signs that she wants to be approached I think it's easy to tell if someone is a jerk, etc

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3 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

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3 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

Here are some more tips, groom yourself, women look at your fingernails, your face-facial hair, and your clothes ESPECIALLY your shoes. Your car is important, by that it should not look like a pigs pen, yes women think that is disgusting. And smile, smiling can defuse even the most tense situations and if she says no or is rude plenty of more women out there. I hope this mytake helps out and if anybody has any input please respond, thank you.


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  • "A lot of guys on here and in real life tend to believe that being nice is a guarantee for women, that women should feel flattered that a guy is actually being nice to her, and that should automatically entitle him to a date with said girl. Well that's not exactly how it works." THANK YOU FOR THIS. You'd think that's pretty fucking obvious but unfortunately a ton of guys can't understand that.

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    • Guys can't understand that because, on the whole, guys are decent, rational people, raised with decent, honourable values, and the male mind has difficulty understanding that women dont value decency, and prefer to sleep with cunts. So no, its not 'fucking obvious' to many of us actually. Many of us have been raised with the -bullshit- fiction of chivalry, being a gentleman, sacrifice, and heroism. Its not an enormous leap to suggest that a boy or teenager raised with these values and fictional heroes, would think that being a good person would get him laid. In fact, its perfectly rational - 'be nice to people, theyll be nice to you'.

      Unfortunately, women dont work like that, and there are lovely, talented boys and guys on here who have got much less pussy than Goebbels, Hitler, Blair, Bush, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mussolini, Milosevic, and the rest of them, ALL of whom had women while they committed their worst atrocities - which, agreed, should be hard to consolidate with how we're raised.

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    • you're very judgmental. Ask yourself: what is 'being nice'? Is it not 'helping someone with something they need' more often than not? It is typical of some women, such as yourself, to feel entitled to favourable treatment. The answer to unrequited kindness, is to stop being nice to people in the first place. Why should men be nice to you anyway? And are you under the illusion that they do the same to other guys, and that it has nothing to do with their hopes for sex? You are not special, and the answer is for guys to stop giving when those they give to do not give back. Of course, thats a sad state of affairs, and what women SHOULD do, is to reply with a similarly positive attitude, so that we can all get along and enjoy eachother. Women today, however, have a very self-entitled attitude, and think that they are exempt from kindness and being nice to other people.

    • @DonRomeo I don't think I'm entitled to being treated well, you can be as rude as you want, I don't really care. The point in discussion is that men like you think that treating someone with the least amount of decency automatically means they deserve sex when it is absolutely not the case. When you are nice to someone your expectation should be that they are nice to you too and not that they give you sex. It's actually funny how fucked up your logic is.

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  • Way too many of these posts spewing the same ol same ol... good info but I've read it a hundred times. Be more unique in your topics... try and write about something no one else has covered or at least covered in a while.

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  • 1st mistake; He approaches a whore
    2nd mistake; He goes on a date to spend money on a whore
    3rd mistake; Whore then takes everything baught and paid for her by the nice guy then she says see ya later without anything in return but a wave.

    An the process keeps on repeating all the time until you ran out of money in bank or have to make more by doing overtime or finding a new job that pays more.

    MGTOW

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  • Trash post. Stop regurgitating the same script for attention

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    • How is it trash

  • Sigh. Don't care. Can't make them happy anyway. Why bother doing shit?

    Ya don't like nice guys because there are too many of them. Well, we don't like to do shit for pussy when you shove it in our faces. So, ya got yourself a conundrum.

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  • "Your car is important"

    What car? I don't have a car or a drivers license.

    Yay! At least I am immune to gold diggers!

    Got it!

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  • ESPECIALLY number 3 (bitterness), that one is the worst. Women sniff those vibes quickly and they stink.

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  • Women are not nice-coin operated sex machines.

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  • Simple solution... don't date !!

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    • Most American men wouldn't date if prositution was legal in their country. They just dont have an outlet because theyre controlled by a feminist regime that favours women. Women know they lose power when her only tool (sex) she has over men becomes obsolete. Dating then will become equal in terms of the female having to invest instead of sitting at home on tinder being fat and demanding a tall rich good looking guy.

  • Ok then

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  • That big dick surgery was a mistake from me.

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  • This post has been done a thalson times

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  • women hate men anyways they don't desire us. they just want a guy they can use and get rid of when they are done. that's why women don't like nice guys who want to treat her right.

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  • And is worth the effort?

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  • Being nice is merely a basic trait everyone should have, so it isn't attractive at all.

    However, you then formed the false equivalence that "being nice" means you're boring, and that you could fix it by being more interesting and monotonous. You need to realize that it's possible to simultaneously be nice and interesting. Overall, that first segment about "being nice" is poorly written and misunderstood.

    Nice =/= uninteresting

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