Lets face it, girls really do not like nice guys. Any nice guys. Because nice guys can't turn girls on. There is nothing exciting or sexy about being nice. Because people are usually nice because its socially acceptable. Which kinda means you wanna fit in. Thats for pussies. You wanna know whats really sexy? A guy who lives by his own rules and speaks his mind
You know you can have your own rules and speak your mind, and still be nice, right? You're just thinking of the idea of a nice guy that the internet has painted. Just because you're a nice person doesn't mean you're boring, have no ambition, no sense of humor or need for adventure. Being nice is just the way you treat others, and you can still turn a girl on if you're a nice person.
@AleDeEurope you can't really speak your mind and be nice. because it is not in our nature to be nice. we do that, as i said, because we feel its socially acceptable. the natural way is to lead with your balls, and never apologize if they get in someones face. we only want to be nice to the people that deserve it. and thats a very small number of people.
@abcdgg I don't watch baseball, so I googled the guy. But you can't seriously consider famous guys for this? Any guy who is a celebrity/has money can fuck 99% of the girls nowadays, even if he was the ugliest and the most boring guy in the world
@abcdgg yeah, but as I said, if you are rich and famous there are no rules. You can even be missing a limb and still get laid more than average guys. So you didn't prove anything really.
Well if you're nice alone and have nothing else going for you then yeah being nice won't get you anywhere.
But if you're interesting, confident, and have a lot of things going for you then being nice enhances it.
It's not like every guy becomes a dick or asshole once they get a date or get laid.
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What is wrong with people nowadays? I don't give a crap what anyone looks like, how much money you have, or anything like that! I don't care what race, weight or anything like that. What I do care about is your personality. You could be the hottest, richest man on earth, but if your a jerk it doesn't matter! I love the nice guys, I would never choose looks over personality. And I think everyone should think like this.
If a girl is not interested in me, i just thank her and move on. Being nice isn't a reason at all a girl would not be interested in you, unless you're push-over and you agree with everything. However i will say there are girls who do like the douch-bag guys for whatever reason but most girls do like nice guys.
It may be just me but I find girls attractive if they are nice and have a good personality. Add intelligence to it and physical attraction matters minimum.
It's because men find kindness/nice and good personality attractive due to it's relation with child raising. You would want a kind woman to raise your child. While for women they don't necessarily care if you are kind as a man as they can fill that role in the relationship and even use the fact of you not being so nice to their advantage when it comes to raising a kid; good cop/bad cop.
@LovemesomeBumbleBee I'm living a childfree lifestyle. The reason why I prefer nice girls is because I personally find it attractive having a good person caring for me and being there for me, not because of the children. Because she would love me.
And quite a noticeable amount of women care about money more than we think they do. I do not want a gold digger or a whore or an abusive and controlling bitch, who is crazed.
Girls like nice guys. But girls more like hot bad guys than ugly nice guys. And i have seen those who "call themselves nice guys" became MGOW and hate women and misogynist. they naver been a nice guy actually.
The MGTOW started out liking women and wanting a relationship with a woman, but the way that women treated them cured them of that and sent them MGTOW. MGTOW do not usually 'hate women', they just do not want anything to do with them. Too much legal liability and expense for far too little benefit. If you kick a dog often enough, it learns to stay away from the source of the pain.
@HarrisonWells I dont think it really matters who you are as a guy as long as you are sexually attractive to the opposite sex, women will reward you with sex simple as that.
Even notorious bad people like Adolf Hitler, Charles Manson, OJ Simpson, El Chapo and Pablo Escobar as such could attract beautiful women. Although you great people with a good heart like Ghandi that women would never touch with a barge pole.
It just shows how good the world would be if women were attracted to good men rather than toxic qualities like money, status, power and violent men.
Feminism says masculinity is toxic... but maybe its female sexuality thats the problem and what women choose in a man? After all women are the gatekeepers to sex, maybe we should be monitoring female sexuality as the root cause?
Maybe we can rewire or manipulate the gene program of the female anatomy or being so they choose men based on logic/rationality rather than emotions? The world can be a beautiful place to live for our future generations of children.
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Lets face it, girls really do not like nice guys. Any nice guys. Because nice guys can't turn girls on. There is nothing exciting or sexy about being nice. Because people are usually nice because its socially acceptable. Which kinda means you wanna fit in. Thats for pussies. You wanna know whats really sexy? A guy who lives by his own rules and speaks his mind
You know you can have your own rules and speak your mind, and still be nice, right?
You're just thinking of the idea of a nice guy that the internet has painted. Just because you're a nice person doesn't mean you're boring, have no ambition, no sense of humor or need for adventure. Being nice is just the way you treat others, and you can still turn a girl on if you're a nice person.
@AleDeEurope you can't really speak your mind and be nice. because it is not in our nature to be nice. we do that, as i said, because we feel its socially acceptable. the natural way is to lead with your balls, and never apologize if they get in someones face. we only want to be nice to the people that deserve it. and thats a very small number of people.
Two words. Tim Tebow
@abcdgg I don't watch baseball, so I googled the guy. But you can't seriously consider famous guys for this? Any guy who is a celebrity/has money can fuck 99% of the girls nowadays, even if he was the ugliest and the most boring guy in the world
Just responding to anonymous's reply," Lets face it, girls really do not like nice guys. Any nice guys. Because nice guys can't turn girls on. "
@abcdgg yeah, but as I said, if you are rich and famous there are no rules. You can even be missing a limb and still get laid more than average guys. So you didn't prove anything really.
Well if you're nice alone and have nothing else going for you then yeah being nice won't get you anywhere.
But if you're interesting, confident, and have a lot of things going for you then being nice enhances it.
It's not like every guy becomes a dick or asshole once they get a date or get laid.
What is wrong with people nowadays? I don't give a crap what anyone looks like, how much money you have, or anything like that! I don't care what race, weight or anything like that. What I do care about is your personality. You could be the hottest, richest man on earth, but if your a jerk it doesn't matter! I love the nice guys, I would never choose looks over personality. And I think everyone should think like this.
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god bless u
If a girl is not interested in me, i just thank her and move on. Being nice isn't a reason at all a girl would not be interested in you, unless you're push-over and you agree with everything. However i will say there are girls who do like the douch-bag guys for whatever reason but most girls do like nice guys.
And i do agree with your take somewhat.
Very accurate take, most of the negative opinions from guys are because they're ugly and this ironically applies to them, and the truth hurts so...
Well, Some nice guy can be bored or square or turned nasty later. Some of my friends did that. Go away! *BOOT!*
Girls prefer bad boys like wild on motorcycle like Marlon Brandon on Viva Zapata.
It may be just me but I find girls attractive if they are nice and have a good personality. Add intelligence to it and physical attraction matters minimum.
It's because men find kindness/nice and good personality attractive due to it's relation with child raising. You would want a kind woman to raise your child. While for women they don't necessarily care if you are kind as a man as they can fill that role in the relationship and even use the fact of you not being so nice to their advantage when it comes to raising a kid; good cop/bad cop.
@LovemesomeBumbleBee I'm living a childfree lifestyle. The reason why I prefer nice girls is because I personally find it attractive having a good person caring for me and being there for me, not because of the children. Because she would love me.
And quite a noticeable amount of women care about money more than we think they do. I do not want a gold digger or a whore or an abusive and controlling bitch, who is crazed.
Even if you don't want kids your choice in mates is often linked to kids in mind for both genders on a subconscious level.
@LovemesomeBumbleBee No offense but I don't believe you.
Girls like nice guys. But girls more like hot bad guys than ugly nice guys.
And i have seen those who "call themselves nice guys" became MGOW and hate women and misogynist. they naver been a nice guy actually.
The MGTOW started out liking women and wanting a relationship with a woman, but the way that women treated them cured them of that and sent them MGTOW.
MGTOW do not usually 'hate women', they just do not want anything to do with them.
Too much legal liability and expense for far too little benefit.
If you kick a dog often enough, it learns to stay away from the source of the pain.
What about "hot nice guys" versus "ugly bad guys"?
@EnglishArtsteacher
I severely doubt someone is going to choose an ugly douchebag
@HarrisonWells I dont think it really matters who you are as a guy as long as you are sexually attractive to the opposite sex, women will reward you with sex simple as that.
Even notorious bad people like Adolf Hitler, Charles Manson, OJ Simpson, El Chapo and Pablo Escobar as such could attract beautiful women. Although you great people with a good heart like Ghandi that women would never touch with a barge pole.
It just shows how good the world would be if women were attracted to good men rather than toxic qualities like money, status, power and violent men.
Feminism says masculinity is toxic... but maybe its female sexuality thats the problem and what women choose in a man? After all women are the gatekeepers to sex, maybe we should be monitoring female sexuality as the root cause?
@cth96190 Humanity has come along way and we can
Maybe we can rewire or manipulate the gene program of the female anatomy or being so they choose men based on logic/rationality rather than emotions? The world can be a beautiful place to live for our future generations of children.
@Mrwoo99
Hitler, one of the 'notorious bad people'? (clutches heart)
@cth96190 Well that's what they taught me in school. Why what you mean?
I disagree. Women do like nice guys as friends, but they prefer bad boy ass holes as boyfriends.
thank you for writing the truth. :) keep up the good work
I would rather date a nice guy. Why would somebody want a guy that treats them bad? As long as he's respectful and caring!
A nice guy what a nice female who has respect.
Girls dont like boys girls like cars and money
Always. Why date a decent, secure man when I can have an asshole with wads of cash and a porsche? /s
@eyeslikeflame I kno right!
/s - sarcasm.
Its not a myth you %!&#@∞#%
yeah you are right
Ok then