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Why Girls Only Like Muscular Guys (Page 2)
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Oddly enough I know some skinny ass guys who are in relationships and stuff, I know a short guy who us the biggest man-whore in my town. Girls like a guy with a good body, but if that's all you have going for you - well, it's not gonna be much.
Just keep fit, try to have a decent enough body, have good hair, make her laugh and be confident and you'll succeed. All of you MGTOW/Incel weirdos have such interesting theories about the way girls think yet you're fat, short guys in your Mom's basement.
Enough said.
Do you agree with me @tonicandgin @turnmypainintopower1 ?
You're calling me an Incel?
Sorry, but I like swimmer's build. Muscular guys in these photos aren't my type at all. Of course, personality is more important than anything, but if I had to choose, I'd pick swimmer's build every time.
Eh. I'd say swimmers body can classify as a muscular body. They may not be the body builder type but they are kind of that Hollywood built type. At least the swimmers I've seen.
Google "Muscular" in images and swimmer's build does not come up. Swimmer's build isn't necessarily equated with muscles.
If you google "swimmers body" then you'll see that a lot of he guys are pretty ripped.
Not all though. That's why I used the phrase 'isn't necessarily equated with muscles' because it's not.
Oh. Never mind then
Your right OP. They do have very good physiques. Girls seem to think bodies like that can be achieved in a year naturally. I'm going to start going to the gym.
@Jamesol1 exactly. It takes time.
@Jamesol1 My boyfriend achieved it in like...6 months. So it's highly possible. Depends on your dedication.
It depends on your body type. If he was already kinda built to start with then of course it'll take 6 months to become a god, but for skinny people like me it takes years.
He wasn't built at all. He was slim, but like fat slim. His stomach was really fatty and the only definition in his arms was his biceps but his triceps didn't exist. Overall, he was average for a guy. But then he went to the gym twice a day for an hour each time and only ate protein then BAM, turned into Hercules.
And I'm not complaining lol
Well there it is. He was skinny fat. It'll be easier for him. I'm talking about guys who are sticks and have barely any meat on them. Guys who weight 110 pounds or 123 pounds (like me).
Wow you just confirmed what i said. You can't... unless you have very good genetics... you can't get jacked in 6 months... it doesn't matter how dedicated you are. Unless taking steroids. Women are so annoying... they think they know a mans body more then we do.
Also just eating protein is not a good way of gaining muscle.. you need all sorts of other foods to help with muscle/recovery rates. You're either making shit up or he was.
@Jamesol1 exactly. That only makes sense if he was already born with some muscle (mesomorph).
I bet he just cut weight. Girls don't realize that guys that are jacked mostly just have very low body fat.
I'll be honest, yes I have dated, and slept with many more women since I started going to the gym and lifting. But it has nothing to do with my physique. Dudes care about my delts, and v-taper, women care about who I am. It's not that I am necessarily more physically attractive, it is that I have learnt to love myself, be open, and fun around not just women, but people in general. It's the personality man, and being confident in who you are. Confidence is key, and that begins with loving thyself. Afore a woman will love you 100% man, you have to love yourself 100%, and she will come, I promise you.
Alright dude I agree with what u said. I used to be skinny and now I am 18 in first year university. The difference is day and night. Women touch me and say they want to fuck me and it's really cool. Looks are everything. However, the stuff u said about u not being able to gain weight and waiting till college is complete bullshit. You just simply have no idea how to train or eat. Go to this website called IIFYM. com and it will tell u how many calories you need to eat to gain weight. If you are not gaining weight then eat more calories. Then for training, look up Jason Blaha 5x5 Novice Program. Focus on using good form and add weight to the bar each week. The only way you will gain muscle is if you get stronger (strength=size). Once you bench 225, squat 315, deadlift 405, and overhead press 155 you'll look good (this will take about a year).
another dude that found the "ONE cause that makes him unattractive to us" (height, money, muscles, jaw angles). Bro, my sister is a 10/10 looks, natural big boobs, slim endless legs, 2 meters tall "model", and she dates a beerbelly, patchy bearded metalhead. with mild baldness too. if he can pull that off, you have no arguments or excuses lol.
Couldn't care less about who your sister dates, that is not the majority of attractive women.
You’re missing her point. The distinction is primarily about dating vs hookups. You are very hookup minded at the moment. 70% or more of all women aren’t into hookups and they probably aren’t what you have in mind either.
If you took all the time added up trying to hookup when you could have dated one girl, how many girls could you have had sex with in that time frame? Think about this. I am 25. Because I have been trying to hookup only since 21 I have had 1 sexual partner. You know how many girls I turned down that wanted to date me in that same time frame? 8 girls.
It’s been 4 years. 4 years can be enough time to have 2 or 3 great relationships, or 2 great relationships or even better just 1 and find someone you truly love.
My dumb ass hooked up twice with an 18 year old. That’s it. That’s the extent of all my sexual experience of my life. Two times and they sucked because we were inexperienced.
If I dated someone my life today would be totally different. I would have support and someone to motivate me to not be lazy and to make good decisions. I would become skillful in sex and build a deep bond with someone who cares about me. Hookup games are foolish my dude. The cards are not in your favor.
With that said, it is possible to do them. But in that case you do need to get in tip top shape and work out your fears. Even then, word will spread about you and eventually you get a reputation.
Hey op. For most guys, they can't get bigger because they're too weak to lift heavy weights. Work on your lower body. Squats, deadlifts, step ups, lunges, etc. Work on your core. When you have the strong base to work with, you will be able to lift more with the upper body. Feel free to pm me
There are a lot of people who are skinny and can lift heavy weights. I'm 123 pounds and I can dumbbell bench press 40 pound dumbbells and at my school, that's a decent amount. It's not the heaviest but it isn't externally light.
I don't think you're wrong per se, but I would also just like to add that there is the evolutionary factor. Muscles are a sign of good health, which means he's more likely to be fertile, and his offspring are more likely to survive into adulthood, and carry on their genes.
Number 4 is funny.
Most muscular guys are horrible in bed. Guys who are fit are generally self absorbed meat heads and have no idea how to do it properly or care to learn.
They are generally in it for themselves or are to overly aggressive and cause pain as a means of getting a response from us.
I like the physical look for a fit guy but I avoid them now.
HAHAHAAHHAHAHAAHAH, this comment will only encourage muscular men and make beta males feel inferior if you can infer the lines to any degree.
I know some musclar guys are bad in bed but a lot of girls just assume they are good in bed.
A girls I know assume if a guy looks good he must be good in bed, but sadly this is a very opposing stereotype.
The rule should be that if he looks full of himself... he is, and therefore us girls are the last thing they care about in the bedroom.
Physically fit guys have better endurance are much more equipped for cardiovascular challenges that involve any type of strength. Sexual performance is literally within the embodiment of that. Physically fit guys are also able to maintain better and stronger erections as well. These are well researched facts that have been around for a very long time.
www.nationalmalemedicalclinics.com/.../
This sounds very personal on your end but you can't deny that logic.
@Chico_brah that's logical and true...
Fatter guys have less endurance and stamina as for skinny guys are weaker.
@Chico_brah Having endurance doesn't make you better in bed, it just means you can suck at it longer.
and No one was talking about fat males compared to fit males.
@Chico_brah it is a very obvious frustrated bitch. she probably only used to get fucked by fit guys and always got pumped and dumped and now got bitter and wants an "average nice guy" to settle down lol. It's always the same shit.
Who would be into a fat dude other than fat chicks? Unless the person was masochistic, who wants to be crushed by a whale you can't manuever from especially when you can't wrap your legs around them and have to opt for a butterfly hook for a way to escape?
Girls do not only like muscular guys a lot of girls like dad bods. I had an extremely muscular build and still have the muscle but went from a muscular look to dad bod to a little fatter than dad bod. I never got more interest than when I had my dad bod.
The HELL?
I am a woman, an attractive one at that. As long as he's healthy and not overweight I couldn't give two fucks if he looks like Dwayne Johnson or not. I have never met a single woman in my entire life who said "I will not date a guy if he doesn't have a six pack!!" It's attractive to some, sure, but by no means a requirement. Get outta here with this personal bias- you're giving men a bad rep.
True, well sort of... roughly... But don't expect to hear it from a lady! they lie like MAD! I guess looking good is better than honesty and virtue signalling that women aren't that shallow is wrong think... Its not even shallow though... Its just a silly virtue signal.
Long as your head doesn't look smaller than your body, arms, and legs like the hulk? then it's good. You don't have to be muscular with me, just healthy and not obese. I don't mind a man with a bit of weight long as he helps me to keep in shape as well. Can help each other as all couples should. Partners in crime and best friends... not just lovers.
Muscular or athletic looks healthy. Such man can protect from dangers. Better sex. His children should be able to be more healthy as well and stronger to be able to survive etc... in short, biology end evolution at work. All this stuff makes male more attractive.
I didn't read the comments from women yet, but I guess that "they're not into muscles", or even better, "looks don't matter". This is going out of fashion. A good developed athletic body will make women's eyes glow like Christmas tree. Combine this with handsome face and you're good to go for a sex machine.
For these kinds of discussions a distinction needs to be made between casual sex and friends with benefits and relationships.
Most guys don’t actually look for relationships per say. The whole thing about companionship is almost certainly sexually or visually motivated.
No physical attraction = no desire. A heart of gold can’t change that really.
So it’s important to state what you mean by ‘girls wanting’ a built guy. In which capacity are you thinking?
By that, I mean sexual attraction. They want a built guy because that is what is going to peak their sexual attraction the most
In this case I think all the girls unanimously agree with you. The issue is that for girls the default mindset is relationship, not hookup. I know lots of guys just want hookups. Look at the poll I made asking about girl’s sexual encounters and you’ll see the results with a sample size of about 30. I think they were being very honest, which I respected. I made it a very non-judgmental non threatening poll intended to help guys by getting as honest and accurate information as possible straight from the source (since there’s a lot of random info out on the web that may or may not be accurate).
Even for casual sex, muscles aren't really mandatory. Face and height are way more important.
I mean, holy fuck, do you guys even live in the same universe as me?
@mrnobody2 We do not. We live in the ‘we never have sex’ universe.
I’m 5’8” and white. 🤷🏻♂️
@mrnobody2 I’ve also been in colleges non stop since 18 so I don’t really understand the way things work after college.
It seems impossible to meet girls though. How do you continue to meet guys at 25?
@mrnobody2 Well w/e. I have childhood trauma I’m working through anyway so I’m not even mentally in the right frame of mind for casual sex anyway. I still shit my pants at the thought of approaching people randomly.
I don't need muscular but I prefer slightly strong. He doesn't have to look the part, but secretly I like it if a guy is stronger than me.
As muscular as that first pic is just unhealthy, that's not attractive to me. I like guys to be healthy and fit, not obsessed gym rats. Bonus points if he's fit because of hobbies like swimming or dancing, instead of from boring fitness training.
Although they might be more (physically) attractive, girls who (only) wants muscular guys are not looking for LTR (same for guys with the girls).
I am a chub myself and not ashamed of being one, in fact, I find that most people who are 'muscular' are more cocky (not a good thing), but I am not saying that none of chub/fat people are cocky either.
Cocky can sometimes get girls too
Yes, but not good girls. I avoid being cocky at all cost and do not think it is a good way to get girls or make friends.
If you're going to invest that much time and effort in the gym, do it for yourself. You gotta want that change. Don't transform your body for the potential that someone else may be attracted to you in the future. You'll be much more satisfied if you set a goal and achieve it because you decided to hold yourself to a higher standard. If you bulk up and get ripped you'll find plenty of women that aren't into you because they like skinny guys.
But a larger majority like musclar men because they feel like they can break the skinny guy.
Bahaha, this is pretty dumb. The guy I like is basically a stick. Sure men like Chris Pratt are attractive but he was attracted in Parks and Rec too.
Ok, but the majority of women get their panties soaking wet over Chris Pratt in Hollywood movies.
I first liked him in Parks and Rec, he was a little chubby but he was still hella good looking. It's all about the face in my opinion.
Look, if you want to become a lifter that's great. There are countless benefits in doing that, from being less prone to injury in paralell sports to preventing Alzheimer. But do yourself a favor and do it for yourself, not because women like it.
People's preferences are so varied and instable that you'll go crazy trying to catch up with every trend.
Who's to say that I am doing it for women? I'm saying that women like this type of man.