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I'm single because I'm a failure, if I had money women would like me, I'm poor, so I'll die alone and unloved.
While poverty is one of the highest risk factors for divorce, money isn't what attracts women to men. As long as you have ambition and can cover all of your living expenses, you will be able to attract a woman
I'm broke, I can't afford a house, or even a flat. My mother always hated my father for earning less than the men who married her sister and her friends. Life today is more expensive than it was then. House prices have risen dramatically, I'm disabled. I had to write a check and an envelope yesterday. The tablets the psychiatrist gives me make my hands shake so much I can barely use a biro. Government cuts to the NHS mean life's not worth living unless you can afford private medecin.
Well if you feel like being broke is your main setback, then you should try to find a job you're physically capable of doing. There's a lot of desk jobs that disabled people can do
I did not choose to be single why?
I did not choose to be Indian.
I did not choose to be 5ft 7
I did not choose to not have the physical attributes that women want in men, it is beyond my control.
So I am not single by choice but I am single because women are racist, shallow and biased.
Being Indian doesn't give you any less chance at finding love
Plenty of girls who are five feet tall like me don't think you're short
Women who want committed relationships don't care about physical attributes
Your insecurities are keeping you single because it is a choice you make. And you're the sexist, shallow racist for believing it
It's not my fault women especially white women disparage my race and people say Indians are ugly and we're never portrayed positively or portrayed as six pack ab heroes on tv we're always portrayed as a middle aged taxi driver or a convenience store clerk or a nerd who talk in that "Indian" accent".
And my insecurities are the result of women and people in general disparaging my race. How can I be positive about myself when everyone is negative about my race?
Also ask any girl and they will all say they will never date a Indian guy because we're associated with that accent, rapes, telemarketers, call centers, arranged marriages, online harassment etc none of which I partake in or condone. I am just me an individual not a stereotype.
I also forgot to mention that people especially white people associate Indians with muslims/middle easterners and with what you see in the news about attacks etc they think we're "one of them" even though most Indians are hindu and I am an Atheist
Then you need to put yourself out there without buying into those stereotypes. If people have an incorrect preconceived notion about you, that's your job to prove them wrong. Blaming them won't of you any good
Been there done that. Not going to be called a "white hating racist" for telling people they are wrong. And why do I have to prove myself? Also I have no other choice , i've tried and tried but all I get is deleted accounts, accusations of being "anti white troll who is jealous of whites", etc so I have given up.
I can't force white women to stop being racist.
Also I refuse to talk to women especially white women because they/you are racist and only want to be approached by white guys and black guys.
Plus I am ugly, I have a belly, and I have a cooked nose.
crooked.
Lol. Women aren't racist just because they don't like you. And most white women do not like being approached by black guys, so you've got some pretty twisted thinking. I personally have nothing against Indian guys. I prefer European accents, but if the Indian accent isn't too strong, I don't see how it would be a problem. You're fat because you don't take care of your health, that has nothing to do with being Indian
And my ex had a crooked nose. I really liked it because it suited him well
IM NOT FAT AND I DON'T HAVE AN INDIAN ACCENT. I AM FROM AFRICA I WENT TO PRIVATE SCHOOL, SPEAK WITH A SOUTH African ACCENT YOU STEREOTYPING BITCH!!!
My legs, my arms, most of my body is muscle just my belly is fat.
Also women say Indian men smell bad, our culture is bad and sexist, we all harass women online, we all have arranged marriages, we're inferior because we don't have the "physique" of white men and black men meaning you think we're all skinny.
I know all the negative things women say about Indian men.
Well that's even less of an excuse. I love the South African accent. One of my favorite bands is from there. And don't call me a bitch. You said you were Indian, so anybody would infer you have an Indian accent from that. It's clear why you're single if you get offended so easily by information you've misconstrued
Guys of all races smell bad. The best thing you can do for that is shower regularly and brush your teeth often. If you're from Africa, then why do you bring up Indian culture? It doesn't apply to you
I personally like skinny guys, so I don't know what you're ranting about. You're incorrect on most of it
There's a lot of negativity in the world you're choosing to dwell on it
I don't say those things WOMEN say those things. I bring up culture because YOU racist white women like to bring up culture when talking about Indian men.
I don't have a "culture".
by the way tell me whats it like seeing your race on TV being portrayed as beautiful and rich people? I too wish that Indians were portrayed like that but unfortunately white people who control the media choose to portray us as ugly taxi drivers, convenience store clerks, tech support etc.
And I did not say I smell bad I said WHITE WOMEN THINK ALL INDIAN MEN AUTOMATICALLY SMELL BAD BECAUSE YOU THINK WE ALL EAT CURRY!!!
Also tell me when last did you see a movie or a tv show with a pretty white girl and a muscular Indian guy? Like how 90% of movies and tv shows are?
I didn't say anything related to race in this MyTake and I didn't stereotype anybody's culture, nor did I bring up anything about Indian men good or bad. You're the one bringing it up because it's too difficult for you to accept your own faults in having a poor personality
I don't watch shows about rich people because those shows bore me and I don't have cable. I prefer to watch sci-fi and fantasy shows that have nothing to do with reality and include made-up races such as aliens
I never said Indians smell bad, although the last Indian guy I met did have horrible breath (now that you mention it)
Again I don't watch a lot of TV, but I'm pretty sure Slumdog Millionaire was about s rich Indian guy
Nope that was about a poor boy who won who wants to be a millionaire.
You refuse to answer why Indians are negatively portrayed in the media. I've met white people who smell bad too.
Indians are negatively portrayed in the media because no prominent Indians have changed that stereotype. Where I live taxi drivers are mostly of Indian decent or black, so part of it is also due to the demographics a lot of ethnic groups fall into in America
So because X amount are like that it is fair to portray them as such on TV? But there are many negative stereotypes that a lot of white people meet but I don't see the media portraying white people negatively? And you're implying that the majority of white people are rich celebrities who live in hollywood? cause "demographics".
It's not right and it is not fair.
ROFLMAO! White people are portrayed as terrible people on TV as well. The Fighter was a true story about a white guy who was a junkyard. All those homicide shows depict all the white serial killers (Ted Bundy, Charles Manson, Countess Bathary). You're being too selective here and not realizing white people get stereotyped too (Jersey Shore, Swamp People...) Not all so glamorous. White people get portrayed negatively more than any other races because there's more white people to play those characters
Right and are women saying "eww white guys are creepy serial killers"? Nope but one headline in the news about a rape in India and suddenly "eww Indian guys are all rapists their culture is bad they don't know how to treat women".
gotta agree with this guy. He didn't choose to be single. The creator of this mytake is only seeing this from a woman's side.
Actually yes I do point out guys who look like serial killers or give off a serial killer vibe all the time who are white. That's a behavioral thing and I know white guys age 25-35 have the highest likelihood of becoming serial killers. Blacks are most likely to be involved with a shooting, but one that's an isolated incident or gang-related. Different cranial abnormalities related to race determine these factors. I've never accused nor seen a girl accuse an Indian guy of being a rapist or serious killer except for one guy who tried to lure my friends and I to his car with free vodka--it's suspicious behavior that makes you seem suspicious, not race
you're retarded
@razor97
No, that would be you. You're the offensive, ignorant, ill-mannered kid here, not me
no, that's you you're an arrogant crazy adult, your belief that anyone is ugly no matter the genes, is fully retarded, you went full retard
you believe that anyone has the perfect genes is flawless and retarded, get the fuck off this website stupid bitch
@razor97
ar·ro·gant
ˈerəɡənt
adjective
having or revealing an exaggerated sense of one's own importance or abilities
"he's arrogant and opinionated"
synonyms: haughty, conceited, self-important, egotistic, full of oneself, superior
I know the exact extent of my abilities and neither under nor overestimate them. I always put forth my best effort to achieve best results
Ugly personality begets ugliness. It doesn't matter where you start if you're a terrible person
re·tard
verb: retard; 3rd person present: retards; past tense: retarded; past participle: retarded; gerund or present participle: retarding
riˈtärd
delay or hold back in terms of progress, development, or accomplishment
"his progress was retarded by his limp"
synonyms: delay, slow down, slow up, hold back, hold up, set back, postpone, put back, detain, decelerate
noun informal offensive
rēˌtärd
a mentally handicapped person
Again, not even close to me. I am neither mentally nor physically handicapped
get the fuck off stupid bitch
@razor97
No, I think I'll stay a while. It's clear people like you need me to help spread the truth about reality, physical attraction, and what people need to know about committed and healthy relationships. The more I write here, the more chance I have of breaking through to all of the jaded and misguided people here
go fuck yourself stupid bitch
@razor97
I don't masturbate, so that's never going to happen. Maybe you should get help for your porn addiction rather than force it onto others
i don't have any porn addiction, lying whore
@razor97
Sure you don't 😉
Again I'm a virgin, not a whore. I've told less lies in my entire life than you have on this thread
sure you're stupid. you're a bitch by the definition, "whinny female"
@razor97
"Whinny" is the sound a horse makes. "Bitch" refers to a female dog or otter, not a horse
As I am neither a dog or otter or horse, and neither can I whinny like one (let alone would I), I by definition am not a whinny female or bitch
The sound that a horse makes is called a neigh. you prove again your stupidity, you are a whinny female. so you are a whore
@razor97
ROFLMAO. Horses neighbor and whinny. They're not the same thing but are both sounds horses make. Go read a dictionary or pay attention in school
I can't whinny since I'm not a horse. Being a female isn't an insult. And I'm a virgin, not a whore
you are so retarded, you can't even understand some simple words, that's sad
@razor97
ROFLMAO! Really I'm going to pee my pants laughing if you keep this up
(I meant "neigh" and my phone autocorrected to "neighbor," but an educated person would be able to figure it out.)
"Whinny" is a verb and sound that horses make and cannot be applied to humans. You're really not going to get anywhere continuing this ridiculousness
Thank you for enlightening me to how difficult it is to understand these simple words that apparently aren't being taught in school anymore. (Seriously you should show this to your English teacher). I am eternally grateful for my preschool education that taught me what sounds horses make
shut up whore
@razor97
I don't know any whores, so I can't help you with shutting them up
shut up whore
@razor 97
Whore
In This Moment
I’m the girl you’ve been thinking about
The one thing you can’t live without
I’m the girl you’ve been waiting for
I’ll have you down on your knees
I’ll have you begging for more
You probably thought I wouldn’t get this far
You thought I’d end up in the back of a car
You probably thought that I’d never escape
I’d be a rat in a cage, I’d be a slave to this place
You don’t know how hard I fought to survive
Waking up alone when I was left to die
You don’t know about this life I’ve led
All these roads I’ve walked
All these tears I’ve bled
So how can this be?
You’re praying to me
As I look in your eyes
I know just what that means
I can be, I can be your everything
I can be your whore
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
And your whore
But let me tell you something baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
I’m the one that you need and fear
Now that you’re hooked, it’s all becoming clear
That all your judgments that you placed on me
@razor97
Was a reflection of discovery
So maybe next time when you cast your stones
From the shadows of the dark unknown
You will crawl up from your hiding place
Take a look in the mirror
See the truth in your face
So how can this be?
You’re praying to me
As I look in your eyes
I know just what that means
I can be, I can be your everything
I can be your whore
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
And your whore
But let me tell you something baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
I am the dirt you created
I am your sinner
And your whore
But let me tell you something baby
You love me, you want me, you need me
Well I can be your whore
I am the dirt you created
I am the sinner
And your whore
But let me tell you something baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
Let me tell you something baby
You love me for everything you hate me for
You love me for everything you hate me for
shut the fuck up
whore
@razor97
Well I've been watching while you've been coughing
And I've been drinking life while you've been nauseous
So I'll drink to health while you kill yourself
whore
@razor97
I'm not a martyr. I'm not a profet
And I won't preach to you, but here's a caution
You better understand that I won't hold your hand
But if it helps you mend then I won't stop it
I know you are not my slave. That is an odd way to put it. You are a program
@razor97
No I'm not your slave, but you are. You're a slave to the people who mock you and you're a slave to the media that convinces you ugly people have nothing going for them in life. You're a slave to your own insecurities by giving into them. You're a slave to the internet. You're a slave to my username by harassing me so much when you have the option to just leave
Well I am half right there and half right here. And completely over there. You are a bot. Clever precisely.
@razor97
You are wrong on all accounts
Well people are not as aggressive as you are. I think you are way too self defensive.
@razor97
I'm not aggressive. I simply have conviction in backing up my opinions. That's not something you've ever done, so I can see why it's hard for you to understand
Speak. Its is more of a conversation, rather than an exchange of messages. It is rude to communicate that a person is, in total, a liar, if there is a misunderstanding at the heart of the conflict.
@razor97
There is no misunderstanding. You are a misogynist, a liar, an instigator, and disrespectful. If you don't understand something, it's far better to ask for clarification rather than jump straight to insult
I fail to see what this has to do with out previous conversation, but I'll humor you. I am able to compare them bitch
@razor97
You fail to amuse me and only manage to bemuse me. You're only further promoting hypocrisy by wrongfully calling me a bitch in a feeble attempt to claim you're not a misogynist
No I'm not. You have lots of friends. Aren't there a lot of robots in the world?
@razor97
Lol. That's like a toddler with cake on his face claiming he didn't eat the cake
I do have plenty of friends, (we went to a movie, a restaurant, and a club yesterday and all three were enjoyable, and I have similar plans with a different friend next weekend), but robots are not my friends (there's actually one at work that sets its alarm off constantly when I'm in charge, and it acts up and breaks things)
I am thinking about justice. I have the freedom to think the wrong things and I have the freedom to survive :)
I'm picky and hold on to past negative experiences
Acknowledging the problem is the first step to fixing it
I know but I still struggle with it haha self sabatoger
Also, some people are single because they have mental disorders and nobody wants to give them a chance.
this whole article is such bogus. you realize their is an internet group that call themselves incels (involuntary celibates) which are usually men. they actively try to pursue relationships and romance but have had no takers regardless how low their standards are. They dont choose to be that way. saying they do is extremely derogatory
I'm perfectly aware of it and that is a problem with their personalities, mentalities, and the way they approach women. They make women feel put off or uncomfortable by the way they approach them, never approach women themselves and blame being single on women rather than their own failure to take action, and/or have nothing to offer to a relationship. They dwell in self-pity all day on the internet which only further reenforces their negativity and causes them to become more desperate around women which releases a hormone that repels women. They're locked into a vicious cycle of self pity and blaming women for not being attracted to them that makes women less attracted to them and therefore more lonely and self-pitying. I do not subscribe to bogus ideologies such as those of incels and MGTOWS
So then I must not be relationship material by your definition, but Im not understanding how having certain attributes which you may have no ability to change causes you to still remain single by choice.
Women can have all sorts of crap wrong with them and still be relationship material but yet if a man has the same negative attributes he is disqualified because women have a much broader range of options because of what men are willing to put up with. You obviously only see this from a woman's side of the debate. Its not womens fault for turning certain men down, but If a guy gets turned down by EVERYONE its not his choice
You're certainly not Relationship material due to the way you conduct yourself. People who insult others over opposing viewpoints aren't relationship material. You're far too aggressive, narrow-minded, and have too inflated an opinion of yourself to be in a relationship with an attitude like that. Being single is certainly your choose because you choose to be that way. You certainly could've chosen to disagree with me in a polite way or kept your opinion to yourself to avoid a disagreement. That's important because you're very likely to hurt a girl if you ever have a disagreement being quick to argue like that. No girl wants to be in a relationship with someone who will insult her if they have s disagreement
I am a female so yes I mainly see this from s female perspective, but I also have plenty of conversations with men about their own failures and successes, so I understand the basics in relation to men
You certainly seem to have it all figured out for a 22 year old.
Your whole set of opinions is one giant insult to everyone who isn't single by choice.
I have enough figured out to be happy with my life and know when I need to change something. I also have enough figured out that people come to see me when they're having difficulty figuring out their own lives. Rude people on the internet like you are too innocuous to change any of that. You're only hurting yourself with that kind of behavior
I don't intend to insult people. If they feel insulted it's because they're unhappy with themselves and their lives and their own choices. Everyone chooses to be single because everyone has the choice to compromise and settle with someone if they truly want a relationship above all else. People who aren't willing to change themselves, compromise for their loved ones, and put forth the effort needed for the sake of a relationship are choosing to be single
so how about an older woman who was hit by a drunk driver and became a parapalegic only to have her husband eventually leave her over it, and then become unwanted by the opposite sex, even though she wanted to stay married? did she choose to be single?
Or a person who was born physically handicapped who desperately wants to find someone but can't because no one would ever be attracted to them? do they choose to be single?
No to the woman hit by a drunk driver, but this MyTake was addressed to never-married singles, not widows, widowers, and divorced people. And those people know why their marriages didn't work out, so they don't need any help figuring it out
Yes to the person born physically handicapped. Amputated and missing limbs are highly fetishized by a select community, so it's incorrect to assume nobody would be attracted when that's all some people are attracted to (some girls love it when guys shove their prosthetics and nubs up inside them). I once watched a documentary on people with no arms. One guy had a normal wife and two kids and another woman was married. She has her own successful YouTube channel where she shows people how to do things with no arms and he had a semisuccessful music career
HAA! did not see that response coming. Thats so messed up that you would go there just because you dont want to admit your wrong! That was screenshot worthy.
There's nothing wrong with my views, I didn't go anywhere, and I'm not going to change my views because some random troll on the internet disagrees with me
@Idonthaveausername shut the fuck up stupid bitch
@razor97
Keep harassing me like this and you're going to get a lot of other people to report you for being rude, offensive, and instigating misconduct. I'm not going to stop writing posts on this site simply because you disagree with me. You're welcome to ignore me and block my profile so you don't have to see any of my content if I upset you so much, but harassing me and commenting on all of my posts only shows your true nasty character. You can't keep bullying people like this without consequence and it won't make you happy
shut up bitch, even your name is a contradiction. you're stupid as fuck
@razor97
If you don't want to communicate with me anymore, then stop replying to my posts. You're welcome to block me if you wish to avoid any future content I post
My name is not a contradiction and has nothing to do with you. It actually coincides with my views in life and the way I deal with people
I'm intelligent as fuck thanks to my fantastic IQ and exceptional EQ
no, you should stop replying to mine, after all, you started this bitch
your iq is very low. only stupid people claim that they're smart, real intelligent people prove it, and i see no proof of your intelligence, only your stupidity
@razor97
I'm going to reply as long as you keep harassing me because someone needs to stand up to you. You're a bully and you can't blame this on me
I am very intelligent. I regularly test above 130 on IQ tests. The more you wrongfully accuse me of being stupid, the more you emphasize the difference between how smart I am and how much you fall into the category you're trying to force on me. If you want proof of my intelligence, you can read MyTakes. In case you didn't know, all of the ones I've written have been promoted and featured on this site and a lot of people give me very positive feedback
i am never going to stop, fuck you bitch
If 2 people think your a dumbshit its probably true..
you Dumbshit
If 28 people liked this MyTake and it was featured and promoted on this site and they made me an influencer for it, then you're incorrect and people do think I'm smart and helpful
It's clear you think I'm brilliant or you wouldn't question my intelligence so much and because you read and comment on all of my content now and further bump my threads by replying so much. I really aught to Thank you for giving me so much publicity on this site and I encourage you to keep going as long g as my account is active
you're not smart, you are a whore, who hates people because of their opinion, which proves that you're not smart, you're unable to make moral decisions, all you do is hate and claim that you're smarter, fuck you
you don't deserve to be called a influencer, you're manipulating people who have different opinions. your stats are fake, just site algorithm, that proves nothing
@razor97
Lol you should've posted that to yourself, not me as it all applies to you and not to me. I'm very intelligent, a virgin, and don't hate people for their opinions but rather their act
actions
My stats are very real. This site is the determination for who deserves to be an influencer, not you. This site has determined I deserve to be an influencer, but that you do not. This is because I "consistently give helpful advice" and you threaten to punch people in the face for denying your pathetic trolling attempt... and also because you don't understand anything about women or relationships
eat a dick, fucking bitch
you're not an influencer, you're a troll, you're manipulating people, you don't deserve the title influncer because you're not one, you're a stupid bitch, fuck you
@razor97 ^this guy. razor tells it how it is
This guy is just a bitter, whiny little boy who's upset that I'm a threat to everything the self-loathing and misogynistic ideology MGTOW stands for. He knows he can't prove me wrong, so he panders to people like you whom he knows already disagree with me to try and get back up. Real men fight their own fights... and lol he's even doing it online instead of real life
@razor97
You can deny my Influencer status all you want, but I really am one and this little purple badge under my username that says Influencer was really given to me by this site. I've helped more people on this site handle you will in your entire life because I actually help people and all you do is complain about non-
i am not bitter or whinny you are. stupid whore. i am not denying your status, you're achieving it by trolling, fuck off bitch
@razor97 K
You are bitter about no woman being attracted to you and are taking it out on me rather than taking the helpful advice from MyTake on Improving Attractiveness To The Opposite Sex. You are bitter in turning into a bully because you're too afraid to stand up to them at schoo
I am not bitter and this week I've actually gotten completely over my ex to the point where I don't think about him anymore or miss him at all or think about he betrayed. e. I spent the entire holiday weekend having fun and not dwelling on him anymore. One can not be a "whinny" as that is a verb and not a noun. Again, I am a virgin, not a whore
I achieve my status by being helpful and respecting people. I am not trolling. I don't go around commenting on your threads or tagging your username like you do to me. Neither have I threatened to punch you as you did so to me. I am explaining my viewpoint and the truth to you because you continue to harass me and can't accept the truth
shut up stupid bitch
@razor97
If you quit harassing me, then you won't get anymore notifications from my responses
shut up whore
@razor97
One, two, three, four; I declare a thumb war
shut up whore
@razor97
Five, six, seven, eight; try to keep your thumb straight
shut the fuck up
@razor97
Ba, ba, black sheep, have you any wool?
whore
@razor97
Yes sir, yes sir. Three bags full
One for the master and one for the dane.
@razor97
Wrong. It's:
One for my master, one for my dame
Flanking through the forest, caught on fire with me. FIRE FIRE.
@razor9
Lame
Yes, you are indeed lame.
@razor97
I've already explained to you that I'm not lame or retarded. I am a perfectly functional human being
Zero times, you're just throwing pre-programmed responses at me. refresh
@razor97
Plenty of times. It appears you're the one in need of a SIM card for your brain
'No' what? If you're going to outsmart me at least try to follow some sort of logic.#.
@razor97
I'm not trying to "outsmart" you; you have "outdumbed" me on many occasions already
Don't say I do not have a heart, because you are the one who DOESN'T! you hurt me, you gurt me really bad, for moths. and you keep replying, i told you to STOP!!ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
@razor97
Don't mistake who has hurt you. I understand you're in pain, but you've been in pain for a long time, since before you first ca. e across my username. You have hurt yourself by treating me with disrespect
Stopping is your choice and I gave you many outs, all of which you chose to refuse. I can help you if you wish, but you're only further hurting yourself by clinging onto the pain and suffering others endure you for through judgment you allow. I have told you since the start I will not allow you to bully me and I'm a person who actually makes good on my promises
People often confuse me as not having a heart. I do have a heart, but it has been tortured enough that I learned how to stop using it for undeserving people such as yourself. I reserve love for people who treat me with respect. You have not treated me with respect, so you do not deserve my heart
Do you think that it is weird that I am a twin and that I like a twin?
Im still single because no girls are attracted to me and no girl wants to a date a misfit like me :(
Either you're being too picky and not interested in the girls who do like you or you're doing something to make yourself unattractive and not relationship material
Im not being picky, no girls look at me or show interest. I am a misfit because Im weird, socially awkward, and dont fit in. I dont think any girls would want to date a loser and social reject like me :(
Besides why would any girl be attracted to me, I dont have an attractive face, my nose is crooked, my eyebrows are too thick, my eyes are a weird colour, they are bluegreen, and, Im a ginger.
Girls aren't interested in you because you mop around, are insecure, and don't believe you have anything to offer to a relationship
My ex's face was scarred and deformed from an explosion. His nose was crooked, his right eye didn't open all the way, and he had scars all over his body. And I didn't even realize that for the first month after we met because I thought he was attractive. I didn't realize until I saw a picture of him. So stop complaining because girls really don't care about that shit if they actually like you
Blue and green eyes are my favorite and I'm a ginger myself. Stop knocking things other people like. You don't get to choose other people's preferences for them
Thanks, I needed that and wasn't trying to knock what others like, I was just knocking what, I dont like about myself.
You're welcome. Don't ever knock anything about yourself without complimenting something else. Yes we all have flaws because we're human, but we all have good attributes to outweigh the bad
Perhaps you just haven't found the right person yet.
Yeah that's the obvious one, so I didn't feel like it was necessary
Well what causes a guy to be single is different than from what causes a girl to be single
Yes there are differences, but it's mainly the actions from each gender that causes this. The actions we choose are derived from our emotions and most people experience the same emotions
Well women can be passive and get a date or a boyfriend but not so much the other way around
I'm not single, but I like this article
Thank you. I did address this to singles, but everyone is welcome to read it. I personally read things that don't apply to me all the time because I'm curious
On some level, I agree with you
Haha, well I'm not asking everyone to completely agree with me, only hoping that something I've said will resonate
Because I keep getting played..
Unfortunately that means you're not picky enough. Regrettably my first boyfriend pulled that crap on me, so I know how you feel. But it's important to learn from these mistake and figure out what to do better next time
I'm VERY selective.. One in particular just found me and left without explanation or warning.
I live alone, I train alone and I will tthe title alone
The guys i like don't like me back
Unfortunately that's not something we can control and this MyTake focuses on things we can
Ah i see
I'm a virgin because I am a member eminently of the second group.
Thanks for your kind inspirational words.
You're welcome. I think this site needs a lot more positivity and honesty so that it can actually help people rather than be a platform for people to rant about negative things
I am at 21 and still single. But I will surely consider your points. Thank You So Much
I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was almost 22, so you're not really lagging behind. There's never a wrong time to start or wait to start dating
thanks for your kind words, I will do
Too long winded. But good take.
Lol thank you
I only write MyTakes when I have WiFi I can use my computer on, so I try to cram as much into them as I can in those couple of hours
this my take is super excellent
Thank you
This is a well written Take. Thanks
Because I live in Saudi Arabia
Lmao...
Unfortunately that's not something you can control unless you find the means to relocate. This MyTake was about things we can control, so I'm not sure if it can help with that one
The Problem is I don't want to marry one of theSaudi Monekies yet the country is controlling every move.
Specially my horrible mom.
So I'm dead.. yeah I can't control
So say I asked out 100 different women. From all different looks and places and personalities in this last month alone. None of them went out with me. Am I still "choosing" to be single?
Yes because no girl owes you a date just for asking her out. You have to be interesting and respectable and respectful if you want a girl to go. out with you. If you're going up to girls and making them feel uncomfortable, used, or in danger, you're not going to get anywhere
How is any of that me "choosing" to be single.
I never said they owe me. I never said anything that even hints at that. Please don't make baseless assumptions or project your own issues on me thank you.
You're not consciously choosing to be single, it's a subconscious mentality. By blaming so many women for not being interested in you, you're giving off a desperation hormone (because science proves women can smell desperation) that makes them less attracted to you. You're getting turned down because women don't like your personality. If you genuinely asked out 100 and you weren't coming off completely wrong, you would have had at least one date
I'm not blaming women for anything. Again, stop projecting.
Lol. The irony is rich here
Yes you are blaming women. By deflecting blame from yourself, you are pinning it on the women who don't want to go out with you. If the common denominator between you and a hundred women is you still not getting anyone to go out with you, that's because you're doing something wrong to put women off or make them uneasy around you. You are certainly still choosing to be single by not correcting your poor behavior or personality
What blame am I deflecting? I'm not saying it's not my fault I'm single. I'm asking how though it's a choice. People don't just "choose" to fail. They make the choice to try and succeed and they fail at it. Your will to succeed won't always change that.
Quote me. Quote me where I blamed women. Quote me where I said they owe me.
You're deflecting blame by claiming you've asked out 100 women like that makes a difference. If someone comes off as a rapist or murderer, he's going to get a lot more than 100 rejects and they would entirely be his fault for choosing to act that way
You are subconsciously choosing to be single by consciously defending your actions and pinning the blame on women because you feel like you put in all the effort that's required to find a committed Relationship
I had no idea I said I put in all the effort that is required. The lack of me saying anything about the effort required is probably why...
Lol I'm kind of looking forward to the next thing you're going to claim I said that I never came close to saying. The rapist and murderer card have already been thrown out at me.
If women are calling you a rapist or murderer, then you're doing something wrong with your actions
You may feel like you're putting all the effort required, but you're not if you're still single after asking out 100 women. The result proves you haven't put effort into the right things. That means there's something you're overlooking or refusing to address. It isn't the women's fault for rejecting you because it's obvious there's a consensus that something's wrong with you or the way you approach women
Well so far you're the only person who's called me a rapist or a murderer. I guess we're back to claiming I said I put or feel like i put all the effort required. I'm still hunting to find where I actually said anything close to that.
I haven't called you a rapist or a murderer. I was using a hypothetical scenario to explain a point because you haven't given any examples for me to use
Well if you're acknowledging that you haven't put forth enough effort, then you're choosing to be single by not putting in enough effort
Just because I didn't put all the effort required doesn't mean I didn't "choose" to TRY and do it.
If you're not putting forth the required effort, you're choosing to be single. Putting forth half the effort is the same as no effort because you're still going to be single at the end of the day. If you're going to try at all, it only makes sense to do it right
Let me ask you this. If a team is playing basketball and they lose. Did they choose to lose?
They chose to open themselves up to the possibility of failure by playing against another team. If they aren't good enough to win, then they need to work together, practice harder, workout more, and eat healthier to be able to win next time
There is always a winner and loser in sports. Dating isn't the same. I've gone out with every guy I wanted to because I've only liked one guy and I made him want to take me out. You could say I won because he wanted to be my boyfriend or you could say I lost because he cheated on me and I had to break things off. Dating isn't about winning or losing, it's about finding someone you respect enough to share the rest of your life with them
And I'm saying you can try and you can fail. It's not a choice to fail. It just means you weren't good enough.
Not being good enough is a choice in dating. In the sports world one team has to win and one team has to lose no matter how good or bad they are. But in dating there is no win or lose, only not being compatible with someone. If 100 women find you incompatible, that means you're not Relationship material and it won't matter how many more women you ask out because you're not doing anything different to improve your chances of "winning". That would be like a basketball team who doesn't practice losing 100 times and then blaming other teams for practicing too much. At a certain point you have a bad team
Women aren't interested in you. If you want them to be interested in you, then you have to change. By not changing you choosing to be single because you're choosing to not be relationship material
What's the specific default that I need to change or thing I'm not already doing?
by the way I gave you a scenario I NEVER said I asked out 100 women. That's Like the other half-dozen things you've accused me of is just you projecting and forcing words into my mouth.
Lol. You haven't given me any information or clue as to what that problem is other than deflecting blame and accusing people of assuming things they haven't or you led them to believe
If you haven't asked out s hundred women, then don't act like you have. You suggested that you had in your wording "say I had asked out 100 women" rather than "say a guy had asked out 100." Since you're anonymous, this takes away any hypothetical and makes it sound like you're speaking from personal experience. You have to be more specific and clear if you don't want people to infer things incorrectly
And your first response was a defensive "How is that me choosing to be single?" Without clarifying you weren't talking about yourself. There's no point in getting defensive if it didn't apply to you in the first place
You should know you're the only one projecting here if you really understand the term
If you're not projecting then I'll ask AGAIN since you keep ignoring or sidestepping the request.
Please quote me where I said they owe me. Please quote me where I said I blame them. Please quote me where I deflected blame away from me. Please quote me where I said I put in all the effort required to get a date. That's four separate things you've accused me of doing yet you can't seem to actually show where I did them.
So yes unless you show me where I did any of those things you are, in fact, by definition, projecting. One of us definitely doesn't understand what that word means. And it's not me...
I was trying to help you with the limited information you gave me and all of your responses supported my original assumption. Until you give me anything different to prove my assumptions wrong, my answers aren't going to change
By claiming to have asked out 100 women and saying none of them went out with you, you're claim you put enough effort into asking women out that one should've gone out with you, blaming them for not going out with you, and deflecting the blame of not being relationship material. But then now you claim that wasn't true which also makes you a liar. Honest in a relationship is incredibly important or nobody will be able to trust you
"By claiming to have asked out 100 women and saying none of them went out with you, you're claim you put enough effort into asking women out that one should've gone out with you, blaming them for not going out with you, and deflecting the blame of not being relationship material."
Wow. To call that a stretch is an understatement...
To say you're going to find anyone anytime soon with an attitude like that would be a stretch of the imagination
Bam got me!