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  • qwerrr
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    Because I'm oblivious until it's too late 🙃

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Aw you're not alone. Apparently most people suck at picking up on flirting. Maybe being more direct could help you out

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  • coolbreeze
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    1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Excellent mytake.

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Thanks

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    • coolbreeze
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      Your very welcome.

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  • Anonymous
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    I am single because I am short man who is naturally very hairy.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      You fall into the "afraid because you're insecure" category

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    • Anonymous
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      +1 y

      But because of my short Height, Skinny built and EXCESSIVE body hair I already have Ver very limited options ONLY. VERY rare woman would be willing to be with me ever anyway.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Finding the right person for you is more important than having 1000 people interested in you if none of them are compatible. You need to focus your efforts on finding that rare woman ans not complaining about the common masses

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    • Anonymous
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      That rare woman would among be from the masses itself... isn't it? She won't be someone from some other planet, obviously.

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  • Westy616
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    Good take on everything, but none of these apply to me.

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  • Jesus_drinks_bleach
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    I haven't found any cute gay boys to eat out.. nom nom.

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  • PT1911
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    >not relationship material.

    Damn right I'm not.

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  • LoloWaye
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    I keep picking the wrong people.

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  • HandsomeGuy500
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    I'm single not because deep down I want to be, but because women today are crazy and untrustworthy and the family court and divorce laws tend to favor women.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Your mentality makes you not Relationship material

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      But what I said is still true.

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Not in the slightest. Men today are just as crazy and untrustworthy as they think women are. Women initiate divorce because their husbands don't put forth the effort into making them feel satisfied with their marriages. There's an equal miscommunication from each side that leads to this outcome. If you cared about your SO and treated her right you wouldn't fear divorce
      The fact you're already expecting divorce proves you're not ready for the commitment of caring about another person, making you not Relationship material

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    • HandsomeGuy500
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      +1 y

      There's a video on youtube where a woman admitted that the reason why she divorced her husband is because "he was too nice." The reality is is that women are divorcing good men for selfish reasons. Many women have even admitted to it. Women know that the law will usually favor them over men, so they often take advantage of it. There are loads of good men who treat their wives very well, yet the wife will often still divorce him.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Most people who get divorced so it for stupid reasons. But the people who stay together still love each other. Good men get divorced by bad women and while good women get beaten by bad men. There's always going to be injustice in the world, but you're only part of the problem with your mentality. If you want things to change, you have to start by being a better person yourself

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    • HandsomeGuy500
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      +1 y

      No, it's women who need to change, and also the law needs to be more balanced.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Lol. That's why you would get divorced. You're misogynistic, don't respect women, expect a divorce, and therefore would make a terrible husband because of it. Women don't need to change. People in general need to respect marriage more. You are one half of the problem

      You're not going to fix the laws by complaining about them. The only person you're hurting is yourself. And the laws wouldn't matter to you if you knew you had what it takes to support a happy, healthy marriage. You fear divorce because you know you don't have what it takes to keep a woman around

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Because women constantly cheat on and leave the good men but stay with the bad men. I've seen this happen so many times. Women are the problem.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Lol. Now you're getting jealous of something you say you don't even want. You can't be jealous of guys who get girls and claim you don't want a girl at the same time. You have to pick one

      In my experience men are the problem. My ex cheated on me. And no we don't all stay with bad men. The first thing I did when I found out he cheated on me was dump him. But I'm not going around accusing all men of being fuckboys because I've moved on with my life and dealt with it in a healthy manner

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    • HandsomeGuy500
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      +1 y

      Well it's perfectly natural to be jealous when you see all the douche bags getting all the women, yet see the nice men being rejected or cheated on. I hate injustice, and women are constantly rewarding the bad men with sex and love, while shitting on the good men. That's the reason I gave up on women. They are crazy.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Jealousy is natural, but not healthy. Jealousy comes from within, not external influences. You're jealous because you're unhappy with what you have, not because of what other people have

      Douchebags actually get rejected more than other guys because they put themselves out there more. They only get more girls because they ask more girls out in general. Real Women don't reward bad men with sex or love. Those are insecure little girls doing that, girls who aren't relationship material themselves. Most women don't shit on men. You only think they do because guys claim that when they get rejected and falsely less you to believe that. Both guys and girls are crazy, that's not a gender specific traits. You're only hurting yourself with that negative mentality. There are plenty of good girls out there who want to treat a man properly, we just haven't found the right one yet because so many of you guys only want sex and aren't serious

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      "There are plenty of good girls out there who want to treat a man properly, we just haven't found the right one yet because so many of you guys only want sex and aren't serious"

      That's because women rebelled against men, love, and commitment in the 1960's with the rise of feminism. It was women who decided that they wanted to become whores and destroy the family unit. There are plenty of decent men who want a nice woman, but women keep going for the assholes and keep rejecting the nice men. Women have created this mess.

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      +1 y

      Most women want love and commitment from men. Very few women actual rebel against or dislike men and most of them are lesbians anyway. It's the men who refuse to settle down, cheat, and treat women like sexual objects that causes women not to want to be with men. It's guys like you who blame women for your problems that make women not want to be with men. Women want to be loved, desired, and cared for

      Blaming one gender isn't right. Men are guilty of being misogynistic, abusive, and walking out on their children just as much as women are guilty of being sluts and divorcing their husbands. There's never one side to anything, especially not when it comes to society and the masses. Everything is a reaction to something else and feminism was a reaction to men oppressing women. Men need to be more faithful and treat women decently if they want anything to change. Calling women names and blaming them for your faults is only going to make the problem worse, not fix anything

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Most women do hate men. And what you're saying is complete BS because I've seen endless times women walk out on good men who treat them very well but stay with abusive men. Time and time again women go for the cocky asshole while always rejecting and shitting on the good men. Of course there are exceptions but in general this is the way it is. Feminism made women crazy and when women were given more authority they ended up destroying the family unit. Treat a woman really well and they tend to cheat on you. Treat a woman badly and they usually stay with you. Women are mostly the problem.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      No most women don't hate men. That's a false generalization. You're the one who hates women, you're getting confused here. If a woman finds a good man, she will never walk out on him. Women walk out on guys like you who are misogynistic, insecure, abusive... most women don't like cocky assholes or fuckboys and those who do aren't Relationship material anyway, so you're wasting time being jealous of those guys. I don't see good men get shit on. Most of the good men I know and meet are already married or in serious relationships

      Feminism didn't make women crazy. Those women were crazy long before they created feminism

      Men and women are equally guilty of destroying the family unit. Just as many men walk out on their children and have unprotected sex that leads to children they don't want as women who divorce and take the kids. MGTOWs are only further destroying the family unit, so that isn't a problem specific to one gender

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      This guy is just a generalizing moron, ignore him.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @Jaquav Oh look, the white knight has returned.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Women leave good men all the time. I personally know of many cases. There's even a woman on youtube who admits that the reason she divorced her husband is because "he was too nice." Time and time again women will leave the good men but stay with the bad men. And I'm not saying all men are innocent. Far from it. I'm just saying that it's mostly women who have destroyed the family.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You already said that 5 days ago. My stance hasn't changed. She is an anomaly, not the norm

      There are both good and bad men and women in the world. People do bad things, but most people try to be decent for the most part. Most women don't hate good men, but your view on this is skewed because you're not a good person yourself

      And it was always men who originally destroyed the family unit with physical abuse, walking out on their families, and leaving pregnant girlfriends. Women taking advantage of the divorce court biases is a reaction to this misbehavior of men. Good men who treat their wives properly and lovingly don't have these problems

      @Jaquav LOL that'd be an understatement. Trolls want you to block or ignore them. I refuse to give them that satisfaction. He's already talking in circles, so he won't last much longer

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      For thousands of years men kept the family unit strong by providing for their families by doing hard and dangerous jobs, and also willing to die in order to protect their families. But looks like you have been brainwashed so allow me to educate you: Many years ago men couldn't just walk out on their families. By law they had to make sure their wives and children were financially secure. They couldn't just walk out and do whatever they want. The media has lied to you. When the laws were changed and the power was given to women, they used their power to their advantage and destroyed the family unit and they have been doing it ever since, by sleeping around with bad men while rejecting and shitting on the good men. So yes, it's mostly women who are to blame.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Looks like you have accepted defeat :)

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      LOL. Don't mistake me being busy with my real life for accepting any of your BS as a valid argument (32-year old troll who probably still lives in his mother's basement because he keeps getting fired from his jobs for creeping on women)

      For thousands of years women have been sex slaves to their husbands, raped and pillaged by conquering foes, and forced into concubines and harems for kings, most forced to abort their children. For thousands of years there's been a lack of loyalty in men. Over the last hundred years men became drunks and wife-beaters as they slowly saw women gaining equality, and have now become bitter and angry that women took away their right to rape. Men are no longer entitled to women in most first-world countries and the laws changed to bias women due to so many men walking out on or abusing their children. Women are still slaves in countries like Iran and Saudi Arabia

      You're the one believing lies. Good women love good men. Losers get shit on

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername All of what you said is much more true than any of the bitter bullshit that @HandsomeGuy500 is spewing.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @Jaquav Being a white knight won't get you laid. Give it up.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Not true. For thousands of years men have been dying in order to protect women. Time and time again women will leave the good men and stay with the bad men. I've seen this happen countless times over the years, and women have even admitted to me that many women do this.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      So you do live in your mother's basement! I was right! You know, I just had a guy feeling about that one

      Good women and good men have happy, long-lasting marriages. Bad men and women use anybody they can. When one person is good and the other person is bad, the good person gets taken advantage of. When both are bad, things end in catastrophic ways. Good women do not shit on good men; good men do not shit on good women. You can't label all men or women as one thing because everyone is different

      Men die to protect women when it's men who start wars in the first place. Women have a silent hierarchy that we keep to with passive aggression, so we have no need for wars

      @Jaquav
      Thank you. And you seem like an intelligent gentleman. A little chivalry is always appreciated, especially on this site where it's extremely rare

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You're still wrong. Women shit on good men all the time. Only a dishonest liar would say otherwise. And yes, men have started wars, but men have also died to protect women and their families. But if women ruled the world, I wonder how they would treat men. A lot worse I suspect. The more power women are given, the more they use it against men.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      No you're the one who's wrong, jaded, misguided, and misogynistic. Good women don't shit on good men. If men get shit on by women, it's because they poorly chose a bad woman. That in turn is his fault for choosing a bad woman, and he needs to move on. Not moving on and dwelling on it and becoming bitter then makes him a bad man. But if he got shit on because he was a bad man, then that's entirely his fault and he doesn't get to complain at all

      You're the one being a dishonest liar here and continuing to spew that garbage isn't going to make you feel any better. You're still going to be just as miserable a week from now

      Most women would treat men the same in a matriarchal society. Only the men who continued to be misogynistic like you would be punished. There would be a lot less war if women were in charge. And the misandrist would be taken care of by the other women because they make us look bad

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Of course good women don't shit on good men. Problem is there are very few good women these days. But time and time again women do shit on good men but often stay with the bad men. Ever heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last."

      If women were in charge men would be treated even worse than they are today. Every single time a woman gets into positions of authority, they always try to change the laws that benefit women and not men. EVERY SINGLE TIME. I have never known a woman in power try and help men in any way. I've never known a single woman in government try to get equal rights for fathers. When women are in power they always try and take rights and authority away from men, always. If women ruled the world they would do all in their power to destroy men. You're just another man hating feminist.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You also said there would be a lot less war if women were in charge. HAHAHAHA, sure. That's why so many women in government time and time again have voted for our troops to go out to war and kill. You're such a joker you should be a comedian.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Women are good when you treat them well. There are many more good woman than you believe because you're the one who treats women like shit. No woman is going to give someone with a misogynistic mentality like you the time of day

      Nice guys don't finish last. Guys would expect special treatment for being nice finish last. And you're not a nice guy, so that doesn't apply to you anyway

      Lol you think I'm a feminist. I actually prefer traditional gender roles and would prefer to be a stay-at-home mom when I get married. I will raise my future children to be respectful towards others and respectable adults

      There would be a lot of adjustment moving to a matriarchal society, but we would have much less war afterwards because women wouldn't start wars to rape and pillage men. Women are better with budgeting than men and more personable to the public. The equal government we have now certainly works best, but I'd see a matriarchal society having much less war than a patriarchy

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Again more babble. Women are not always good when you treat them well. In my experience when you treat a woman well she will shit on you. That's why nice guys have a hard time getting or keeping a woman, whereas the bad boys and ass holes usually get women easy. Time and time again women stay with the bad men and leave the good men. Have you not seen that video on youtube where a woman was asked why she divorced her husband and her answer was, "Because he was too nice. He would cook for me and tell me that he loves me at least twice a week, so I divorced him." This idea that women will stay with men if they are treated good is the opposite of reality.

      And like I said, whenever women get into positions of authority they do everything in their power to take rights away from men and give more rights to women. I've never come across a single female in government who has tried to get equal rights for fathers. If women were in charge I would hate to imagine how men would be treated.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You're a broken record and you're not getting anywhere with your bitterness

      Good women love good men. Women much prefer to be treated well by good men than used by bad boys. "Nice guys" can't get a woman because they never make a move and can't keep a woman because they get needy and clingy (and again you're not a nice guy anyway, so this doesn't apply to you. Women shit on you because you're a misogynist)

      Lol. That's pathetic if you think that's true or a good representation of a woman worth marrying. You should tell someone you love them as often as you think it. Anything less than once a day and you can't possibly love them. If a guy only told me he loved me twice a week, I'd seriously doubt it and dump him. No woman would dump a man who can actually cook. That can't be a true story

      Most women in authority want equality. You're cherry picking by only listening to the extremes

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
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      The reason nice guys often can't keep a woman is because the woman gets bored and decides to go off with a douche bag, which is why about 70-80% of divorces are instigated by women. You say nice guys get needy and clingy. Oh no, how awful. Let's bring in the army! So basically a woman meets a nice guy. He is faithful, provides for his family, treats her very well, is a gentleman, and loves her deeply. But because he gets a bit clingy the woman decides to leave him and runs off with some asshole jerk who treats her badly. Just about sums up women today.

      And the story is true and I can show you the video, but you won't believe it because you just can't admit that women today are crazy and are responsible for the breakdown of marriage and family. I live in the UK and the women here are terrible, but American women are the worst. I feel sorry for American men. No wonder male suicide is so high these days.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Genuinely nice guys can and do keep women. The kind of fake "nice" guys you're talking about get divorced because of they aren't marriage material themselves. Women state "dissatisfaction" as the number one reason for divorce, not boredom. This means men aren't living up to women's expectations. A truly nice guy would live up to his wife's expectations, anybody else deserves to get divorced

      Women don't marry clingy guys. Women dump those guys before they turn into stalkers

      And women don't run off with jerks. That's such a ridiculous fallacy you keep lying to yourself. Women dump jerks before clingy guys

      People like you are responsible for the breakdown in marriage. You wouldn't last a week

      Men have always had a higher suicide rate than women. More testosterone and headshots. Unmarried men have higher rates of psychosis and depression as they age

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Yes, I agree with you when you say that women will often leave men because of dissatisfaction, but the problem is that women today are incredibly selfish and will leave a man for very selfish reasons. And yes, boredom is one of those reasons. And so what if a man isn't living up to the woman's expectations? What if her expectations are very high, or selfish? And yes, women DO run off with jerks. You can deny it all you wish but I've seen this happen numerous times over many years. And I've come across women who have even admitted it to me. I base my beliefs on reality and what I witnesses. I don't just make things up. Women today are a big reason for male suicide. Luckily I don't have to worry about being screwed over by a woman as I avoid them like the plague.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      People are no more selfish today than they were 1000 years ago. People divorce so much now because they don't value marriage (why you're the problem). People who value marriage don't get divorced

      If a man doesn't live up to his wife's expectations, that's the same as her not living up to his. Men complain and cheat when their wives don't have sex with them. Women go to divorce because their husbands don't listen or put in enough effort. It is everyone's responsibility in a marriage to live up to their partner's expectations. Anything else and you got married for the wrong reasons and deserve to get divorced

      Women don't run off with jerks. Women look for the best guy who will treat them right

      Lol you're doing a terrible job of avoiding me. Try not to be a hypocrite when you try to argue with someone. It just seems everything you say moot and makes you look like an idiot

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    • HandsomeGuy500
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      People today are a lot more selfish, especially women. Lots of men do put lots off effort into a marriage, but the wife will often still divorce them. Time and again I've seen women leave very good men and run off with jerks. It happens all the time. There might be some exceptions but what I've witnessed over many years is in total conflict with what you're saying.

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    • razor97
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      @HandsomeGuy500 this stupid bot won't stop

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      People have always been selfish. Men and women are equally selfish, except for people like you who are even more selfish than the rest

      Men who put effort into marriage don't end up divorced. Men who don't put effort into marriage end up divorced

      The men you've seen get divorced we're not good men and they didn't put enough effort into their marriages to stay married

      You're cherry picking situations. And I wouldn't doubt that most of the guys you know are similar to you, so it's no wonder women left them. Glad those women are dodging those bullets

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      People have always been selfish. Men and women are equally selfish, except for people like you who are even more selfish than the rest

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      I've known many cases where women have shit on and left good men. Women do it all the time. They leave the good men and run off with jerks. That's why the family unit is in turmoil. You can deny it all you wish but that is the reality of what is happening, and I've even come across women who completely agree with me. You're just a liar and another proud arrogant female.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      @HandsomeGuy500 she's a whore

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
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      @razor97 Yes I think you may be right.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      she acts exactly like one
      by definition
      bitch
      1. Annoying and whining female. but she's more than that, she's been replying for moths to us, with her retarded arguments. i am sure that "I don't have a username" is a troll

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      ROFLMAO! I'm a virgin, so by definition I am not a whore. The only people still whining are you two losers. As the original poster of this thread, I'm not a troll--that would be the two of you who live in your mother's basements and have no life outside of this silly website

      Again, good women don't shit on good men. The only men who get shit on are those who pick bad women and those who treat women poorly (you two get shit on because you're misogynists who treat women poorly). Women don't run off with jerks. And you two and anybody you know are not good men, so none of the situations you're talking about are valid

      Maybe you two should get married if you plan on pretending to avoid women for the rest of your lives (terrible job of it btw). You already have a lot in common: misogynistic, whiny, bitter, lonely, angry, live in your mother's basements, internet trolls... sounds like a match made in GAG heaven. I can already hear the wedding bells

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      whore=bitch. shut the fuck up, you are whining right now, irony

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      we don't shit on good men, only on arrogant whores like you

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      Whores are bitches, yes, but I'm neither a whore not a bitch. I'm choosing to remain a virgin until marriage. I certainly would never sleep around or sell my body

      No I'm not whining. You're the one who's whining

      This is my thread. If you don't want to keep reading my posts, then you're welcome to stop harassing me at any time. And you're also welcome to block my account that way you'll never have to read my future posts or MyTakes either

      So you are gay? I had a feeling about that

      You're not sitting on me because I don't respect you or consider your insults or arguments valid. You're shitting on yourselves here by dragging this out longer than it needs to be and by making yourselves look bad

      And the fact that you shit on anyone means you aren't and never will be a good man. Good people don't shit on others, even when they deserve it. Good people rise above, especially when it comes to adversity or being able to help someone in need

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut the fuck up!
      you are a whore, by the definition, you can't change the truth the way you want arrogant whinny famale

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      "Again, good women don't shit on good men"

      Yes, for once you are correct. Problem is, there are hardly any good women.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      she ain't going to accept that, she's going to say that we are "denying her truth"

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    • bingbaddaboom
      bingbaddaboom
      +1 y

      @HandsomeGuy500 Good on you man! I always try to call out this bullshit when I see it. Marriage laws are absolutely preposterous. I wouldn't even think of getting married this day and age. It's basically like signing a lottery ticket to give half of your wealth away if a woman finds the slightest reason to file for divorce. I too have seen many women leave good men, military wives are a good example that pop into my head. When their men are out on active duty so many of them sleep around, it's not even funny. More men need to realize that popular society is brainwashing them into becoming emasculated shells at the beck and call.

      Keep fighting the good fight brother!

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @bingbaddaboom Thanks! If you read her comments she thinks that if a husband does not live up to his wife's expectations then she is justified in getting a divorce. That's the typical attitude of so many women today, women who are so selfish and self entitled, but don't even realize it. She also believes that women will only get divorced for good reasons and that women won't divorce good men. She is either lying or is severely deluded.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      you're right, most women are crazy and would even make their husbands stop playing video games, which is not fair, that's selfish, is authority over men, is against freedom.
      www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a48312-guys-don-t-play-games-girls-just-think-they-do
      at the end of the post it says: "Real men don't play these games
      SIMPLE. If he is playing games, then he is not a real man that cares for you. A man that has respect for your time and efforts isn't going to act like that! For every game player, there is a good man that could make you happy.
      So if you're ever sitting there dissecting whether he likes you with a group of friends, just keep in mind. Men are pretty simple, and as much as we like to think that they hold the traits of mind games... most of the time they are pretty straightforward. If he liked you, he would be with you." which is false. anyone likes games. why would we let them keep playing the video games while we do the work? that's selfish

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @razor97 lol true

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      "Whore" noun: a prostitute

      Since I'm a virgin, I am by definition, not a prostitute

      You're the arrogant whiny little boy here and you are denying the truth--not my truth--the truth. (Truth does not change from person to person unless you're mentally ill... which you might be, and I encourage you to seek professional psychiatry)

      @HandsomeGuy500

      I have been correct the whole time. I only speak of good men and women looking for committed, long-lasting relationships. While good people may be hard to find in a world full of shit like you, good people still exist, and they lead happy lives despite your bitterness

      @bingbaddaboom
      Don't feed the trolls, keep all hands and feet inside the vehicle at all times, and don't break anything expensive. Seriously, this isn't the zoo--don't feed the trolls. You're only encouraging their misogyny, bitterness, aggression, and pitiful lives. Enablers are as bad as addicts

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You're completely misguided on my views of divorce

      I don't believe in divorce unless one or both parties has broken marriage vows, abused the other, or otherwise nullified the love/trust/commitment of the marriage. When I do find someone I'm ready to settle down with, I will never divorce him no matter what we go through because I believe in a happy, healthy marriage, especially for the children. I will give my future children what I never had growing up--parents and a loving family

      As for my comments, you are the deluded one here. I believe people who end up divorced deserve it for not putting in the right effort, choosing the wrong person, and for sabotaging their marriages. Divorce happens when selfish people marry for the wrong reasons. I'm well aware that people get divorced for bad and stupid reasons, but that's only because they married for bad and stupid reasons in the first place

      Good men and women don't get divorced because they treat each other right

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    • bingbaddaboom
      bingbaddaboom
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername

      Let it be darling, you lost. Bend over or get lost.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      whore=prostitute
      bitch =prostitute
      bitch, whore means also whinny female
      you're denying the truth again, ill bitch

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      except that persons change over time, women became more arrogant and stupid, like you

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You contradict yourself all over the place. Women are destroying marriage and family and that is just a reality. Typical proud arrogant female.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      People like you who have devalued the sanctity of marriage have ruined it. People like you who get lazy in relationships (if you can even get into one in the first place) get divorced because you don't love, appreciate, or value the other person. You're too selfish for a successful relationship. No doubt a woman would divorce you if you ever married because you wouldn't treat her right or value your marriage

      People who value their marriages and spouses don't get divorced. I believe marriage is forever so I will never divorce my future husband. We will both work hard to maintain our marriage and fix any problems we may have

      The whole purpose of dating is to find someone you love and are willing to make sacrifices for. Anybody who doesn't want to get married has no place or say in dating, marriage, or someone else's relationships

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    • bingbaddaboom
      bingbaddaboom
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername I'm done with you. Children are not worth my time.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername shut up stupid bitch

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @bingbaddaboom
      You're done when you stop harassing people and encouraging bad behavior. If I wasn't worth your time, you wouldn't have read my post, read this entire reply chain, or bothered to comment at all. What isn't worth your time is continuing to feed trolls because that isn't going to improve anything

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      That's very whiny, hypocritical, and bitchy of you. I'm not going to stop because you're a bully and I don't give in to bullies. If you want me to stop replying then you need to be respectful and apologize for your poor behavior

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      go fuck yourself stupid bitch, stop whining

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      Just because you do that to yourself every night doesn't mean I have to. If I wanted to get fucked, I have plenty of options (including my ex who is still obsessed with me even though I dumped him two months ago). I'm not whining about anything. I'm perfectly happy with my life at the moment. You're the one who's whining by resorting to such childish behavior

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      fuck you bitch

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Women are the ones wreaking marriage. They so often divorce good men and go back to being single or go off with a jackass. More men are waking up to this and when Islam eventually takes over women will know what true oppression is.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      I already told you I'm a virgin, so I don't do that, but I'm a beautiful girl with plenty of options if I do decide I want to

      @HandsomeGuy500
      Men destroy the sanctity of marriage just as much as woman. Every person has two parents. If every father instilled the value of marriage in his children, than nobody would get divorced. Same goes for mothers. People like you who don't respect the opposite sex, don't value marriage, and are selfish are the ones who have destroyed marriage

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      you act exactly like one
      by definition
      bitch
      1. Annoying and whining female

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Not at all. Women, with the help of the government, have destroyed marriage by empowering women, taking away fathers' rights, and brainwashing women with feminism. Women love bad guys and hate good guys. But western women will eventually be devoured by muslims when Islam takes over, and there will be nobody to rescue women.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      according to facts Islam is the most growing religion.. they even migrated, the Islam will spread soon

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @razor97 When Islam eventually takes over it will be game over for women. Give people enough rope and they will eventually hang themselves. Women have destroyed our society by destroying the family, but the muslims will fix the problem when they take women by force and beat them into submission.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      not all women are bad, but most of them are arrogant and crazy, like this no username bitch

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      I'm neither crazy nor arrogant. I've actually been diagnosed as sane by a qualified mental health professional. You would do well to seek professional help because it's clear there is something seriously wrong in your brain and understanding of society and the world with the immature, rude, and illegal way you've conducted yourself here

      @HandsomeGuy5oo
      Muslims will not take over the world. They will try and they will fail as they have done for thousands of years. Once people experience enough loss, they will rise up against the enemy

      People like you have destroyed the family unit with your misogynistic BS and disrespect for everybody, including yourself. You'd be an extremely poor role model for an impressionable child if you had one with your jaded, misguided, and selfish beliefs. You would do well to seek professional help as well for your mental issues

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      I wouldn't bet on that. Muslim birth rates are way higher than ours and the muslims are protected by our corrupt government. It's only a matter of time.

      And no, it's women who have destroyed the family unit by allowing themselves to be brainwashed by feminism and taking advantage of the corrupt laws in order to divorce husbands, take their children away, and empty their bank accounts. Now that women have mosty of the power, the family unit is in turmoil. Luckily more men are waking up to this and are going their own way. Women have made their bed and they can lie in it. I enjoy treating women badly. They deserve it.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Muslims will not take over the world. They will fail as they have done so for several thousand years. Not all governments protect Muslims, especially not the Jews and Kurds. America will wake up to the violence when another attack such as 9/11 hits the homeland

      Men are at fault for destroying the family unit by beating their wives and children and walking out on their families. Men even further worsened this by not paying child support ordered by the courts. MGTOWs are the worst because they're misogynistic, do not value marriage, and do not respect women. You are more jaded and brainwashed by Feminism than most women because you use it as an excuse to deny reality

      You're an ass for treating women badly and they don't deserve it. You deserve to be single and loveless for that kind of misbehavior

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Muslims WILL take over and then you women will be left to the wolves. Women started to destroy the family as soon as the divorce laws were changed to benefit women and fathers had their rights taken away. Women used their power to destroy marriage and family and it continues to get worse.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Muslims will be defeated just as they have been for thousands of years. They will not take over the world and people will continue to fight back against them. I will not be forced into submission by anyone, especially not a sexist

      The family unit was destroyed long before divorce laws were changed. Men had been treating their wives poorly for so long that women jumped on the chance to divorce them. Men who chose not to pay child support or be a part of their children's lives caused a new generation of children not to value marriage or a partner because of the pain they experienced growing up. Fathers gave up their right, they did not have them taken away. The family unit is in turmoil today due to people like you who don't value marriage, their partners, or their children

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Sure, that's why in the UK about 1,400 girls in one town were raped and tortured over many years by muslim grooming gangs because the police turned blind eye. Islam is getting stronger and more women are being raped and having acid thrown in their face. Islam is out birthing the western world and will take over.

      The family unit was destroyed when women were given more power. You claimed that husbands were treating their wives poorly for so long. I'm assuming you are talking about most men. Then I challenge you to provide a single shred of evidence to back up that claim. I promise you won't be able to. It's a feminist myth that dumb women like you have fallen for. Women destroyed the family when the government took away fathers' rights and gave all the power to women.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      what about germany, when they accepted immigrants women were raped after they came there
      they haven't stopped since 2001 there's a site dedicated especially for them, they won't stop
      https://www.thereligionofpeace.com/

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      The UK and France have terrible vetting systems for radicals and are pushovers, but there will come a day when they decide to fight back. Muslims will not take over the world--they'd kill each other off before that happened if nobody else stepped in first

      People like you have ruined the family unit by not respecting women or marriage. Men have beaten their wives for thousands of years and walked out on children they don't want. Most of the men on both sides of my family were abusive and well deserved the divorces and pitchforks they received

      A third of women are victims of their husbands and boyfriends physically and half of women are victims psychologically. The numbers are less than a tenth of men being physically assaulted by their wives and girlfriends. Men are much more violent and hostile than women, especially in romantic relationships. These men deserve to be divorced

      You're more of a Feminist than I am with your radical beliefs

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      "they'd kill each other off before that happened if nobody else stepped in first"
      Mark 3:24
      "If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand."

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97
      The number one group of people that Muslims kill is other Muslims over varying theologies. Al Qaeda has denounced ISIS as a faction because they're too violent. Muslims will tear each other apart because they already are

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      i disagree. the bible says that isn't going to happen because satan isn't this dumb

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Well you're either a ignorant and misinformed buffoon, or you are a dam liar. If you knew your history a little better, you would know that husbands couldn't just walk out on their wives and children and leave them destitute. The law would still compel the husband to make sure that his ex wife and children were looked after financially. Again, you have been fed feminist lies. You also claim that husbands have been beating their wives for thousands of years. Ok, I could say that same thing, that wives have been beating their husbands for thousands of years. Provide the evidence or just admit that you are a lying asshat. And women destroyed the family by leaving good men and going off with bad men and using kids as a weapon against fathers.

      The muslims will take over. Their birth rates are much higher than ours. It's only a matter of time.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      the Muslims won't die, they're growing..

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I understand history very well. Men are much more likely to abuse women than women are to abuse men. Men are bigger and stronger than women, so women end up in the hospital or dead at the abuse of men. Men used to be able to walk out on women with absolutely no consequence at all. Those women then had to become prostitutes because nobody would marry them again and they'd lose their jobs for having children without fathers

      Men have to pay child support for not being a part of the lives of children they chose to create. If men didn't knock women up, abuse their families, or walk out on them, then men wouldn't have to pay child support. That has nothing to do with feminism, only men being incompetent parents and husbands

      Muslims will not take over the world. Radicals will be destroyed when the USA wakes up and actually starts fighting them. You're completely misinformed with your beliefs.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      If men didn't knock women up, abuse their families, so, you're saying that women are lesbian or have their own families like tribal, no, they both own the families, and you'd be surprised women drink more than men, they also manipulate. there's no innocence in both sexes.
      Muslims plan in taking the world, and the USA plans not to start a war with them.
      they all get in the country they can sneak and spread over time, and the army cannot do anything about, they will force the sharia law on countries they own, the migrants are the one who do this.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      And yet you haven't got a tiny shred of evidence to back up your lies. Men couldn't just walk away. You're ignorance of history is laughable. Women also abuse men and are more likely to use a weapon. Women also get away with it a lot more, just because they have a vagina. Women are the worst abusers and will leave good men and stay with the bad men.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      exactly

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I've given you plenty of facts and evidence to back up my beliefs. You're the ones who choose to willingly deny the truth in front of you

      Women don't abuse men to the extend, degree, and amount that men abuse women. Women are more likely to use weapons because men can hurt women much more with their bare hands and women aren't likely to do much damage without a weapon. Abuse is measured by injury, not weapons or fists. Most domestic violence cases are instigated on both side, so no women don't get away with it more than men

      Men are worse abusers than women

      Women do not leave good men or stay with bad men. Women stay with good men and ignore bad men like you who would treat them wrong

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername It's great you're doing this public service by keeping these asshole busy and away from the rest of the site, but I think it's probably time to give up. :) Try to take a deep breath and remember that you are very unlucky to have attracted so many extremists in this comment chain and move on. Don't let them get to you. :) I've had to tear myself away from conversations like this one before because they never cease to spiral into an ever darkening hole of increasing toxicity.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      she won't stop... so fucking annoying, i am going to stop talking to her, i recommend you do the same

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @Jaquav
      Haha thanks. You're right that this has gone on long enough. I usually get harassed by trolls for a week or two at a time, but these ones seem to really have it out for me for one reason or another. I guess it's just too difficult for them to look inwards and realize that it's their negative mentalities and misogynistic behavior that is keeping them single

      I never let miserable people like this get to me. I'm happy with where I am in life right now and I'm secure enough with myself that I don't accept outward judgement or criticism from people who don't care about me. I don't think about these bitter trolls when I turn my computer off. But I have a principle that I don't let bullies get away with their misbehavior. Someone has to stand up to them or they'll continue to no reprieve

      @razor97
      No I'm not going to stop and I've told you that from the start. You can't bully me. Prove you're going to stop harassing me by actually doing it

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      i am going not to stop because you're a stupid bitch

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      I am neither stupid nor a bitch

      The reason why you're not stopping is because you're too arrogant and proud to admit that you've been an asshole to me this entire time, that you're wrong in all of your jaded and deluded beliefs, and that you're nothing but a bully who's just as bad as a the people you blame for your problems. You're not going to stop because you can't accept that I've been right the whole time, am not a bitch, and am much more intelligent than you

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      i am not an asshole, i am speaking the truth, something you're denying for months, you're too arrogant to accept my arguments or someone else, anyone knows how dumb you are, you're always using the victim card, you are a stupid bitch

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      See there you go again proving that I'm right. The only way to prove me wrong is to actually stop harassing me like you've claimed you're going to do

      You do not speak the truth. You speak misguided and jaded delusions that appeal to your misery and hate. You are an asshole for threatening to punch me in the face, harassing me, and constantly insulting me

      Most people know that I'm not dumb and am very intelligent because I respect people, use proper grammar, and write well-thought-out comments and MyTakes on this site that receive a lot of views and replies. I certainly have not used a victim card, but you have in complaining about somebody reporting your comments as being offensive even though they are (and that wasn't me who reported you, so accusing me of doing so was yet another wrongful accusation). And again, I am not a bitch because I don't complain about things without actively trying to fix them nor do I have sex in the way a female dog does

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      i am not going to stop "harassing" you until you shut the fuck up. the reason why i am calling you a bitch is because you're whiny, not because you're virgin, and stop accusing me that i don't have a girlfriend, you don't have a boyfriend too hypocrite, you said it, and learn to understand that loneliness and misery are very different things, and pace is achieved trough loneliness, stupid whiny female!!

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      stupid bitch

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @Jaquav I've told you, being a white knight won't get you laid.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Seriously, you're like an annoying insect, like a pesky meat fly. You keep repeating the same horse shit and refuse to provide any evidence to back your horse shit up. Women do leave good men and stay with the bad men. That's reality and that's one reason why so many men are staying away from western women. And women do very often get away with abusing men. You say that men have been abusing women for thousands of years. Ok, give me the statistics of what percentage of men have been doing this for thousands of years. I promise you won't be able to provide evidence.

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      @HandsomeGuy500 Oh hell no. Did you just ask for proof for one of the most well known facts of human history? Men have basically been raping, practicing polygamy, beating and killing their wives for 6000 years. Nearly every culture for 5000 years made raping the women of conquered lands a tradition. It was brutal and fuck you for being so disrespectful as to deny it. And for the past 1000 years it has still been happening. The only a difference is that some people have been standing on the sidelines frowning with their arms crossed. A lot of good that did...

      There are no statistics, that would be impossible, governments have only started recording this type of stuff in recent years. But you have no statistics for what you're claiming either. What does exist is an endless supply of documents from thousands of years proving that women have been getting abused by men for thousands of years. Documents that have been used to write plenty of history books on the subject. Here we go *sigh*

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      Both the ancient Greeks and Romans, two of the largest empires that ever existed believed that women were property of the husband. In these cultures, warring simply to conquer property was seen as a good enough reason to start pulling swords. Not only did men rape after war, they went to war just to take people’s riches and wives.

      books.google.com.do/books

      Religion has also been guilty of advocating rape. Zechariah 14:2 "For I will gather all the nations against Jerusalem to battle, and the city shall be taken and the houses plundered and the women taken..." Isaiah 13:16: "Their little children will be dashed to death before their eyes. Their homes will be sacked, and their wives will be taken."

      Between the 8th and 11th century, vikings made it a point of pride to rape and pillage as much as possible.

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      During the middle ages, the Arabian sexual slave trade was thriving.

      http://www.avalanchepress.com/Soldier_Khan.php
      lostmuseum.cuny.edu/.../horrible-traffic-in-circassian

      In 1662 when the Chinese conquered Taiwan and expelled the Dutch, the Dutch women were taken as sexual slaves. All women, including young girls. Teenagers were made to be concubines of Chinese generals. These Dutch women were never freed. They lived the rest of their life as sex slaves.

      books.google.com.do/books
      books.google.com.do/books

      The Mongol Empire was also known for raping without remorse. During the reign of Genghis Khan, troops raped the women after every conquest.

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      In the year 1900 during the Chinese Boxer rebellion, Japanese, Russian, English, French, American, German, Italian, and Austo-Hungarian forces sent invading forces to China. The soldiers of all these countries rape thousands of Chinese women. Thousands of Chinese women and girls comitted suicide just to avoid being raped. The generals simply denied the claims. No soldiers were held responsible.

      books.google.com.do/books

      In the early days of world war II, when Japan invaded China and the city of Nanking in 1937, over 20,000 women and young girls were raped during just the first few weeks.

      books.google.com.do/books

      During world war II, over 200,000 of mostly Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Taiwanese and Filipino women were taken as sexual slaves and distributed across 2000 centers which soldiers could visit and rape them. These women were referred to as “comfort women”. Seems to me like the comfort was one sided…

      English.chosun.com/.../2007031961023.html

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      The red army (the Russian army) are also among some of the worst offenders of raping women during war times. During world war II they raped basically all women they came across.

      www.theguardian.com/.../news.features11

      During the Bangladesh Liberation war of 1971, women were taken and placed in rape camps where soldiers could do whatever they wanted with them. Many women died from the never ending abuse. One Australian doctor, Geoffrey Davis, sent by the UN to perform abortions on some of the rape victims even claimed that to say there were between 200,000 and 400,000 victims would have been an exaggeration.

      content.time.com/.../0,9171,877316,00.html
      www.forbes.com/.../#504539574587

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Jaquav i kinda agree with you, but you must show proof @HandsomeGuy500 you need to show proof too, any link would be helpful

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      Women have been through hell and feminism is not the downfall of men, it is the salvation of women. Billions of women through all of human history have been prosecuted simply because men grow up to stronger and more aggressive. Humans have been around for at least 6000 years. The concept of chivalry that you have referred to was invented between 1170 and 1220. This concept of chivalry did not say to cherish women and to treat them like equals. It put forth an ideal that promoted avoiding raping women in wars. Wow…(*o*), how noble of them... and that was just an ideal. An ideal that existed in only a few cultures and that was only followed by a minority of christians basically. This ideal still protected the idea that women are property of their husbands. This concept of property allowed men to rape their wife whenever they wanted to and in most cases allowed for the ability to murder one’s wife without repercussions.

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      Many knights were even looked at as heroes simply for not a raping a woman after they had killed her husband.

      These were just a few, few, few, unimaginably few examples and only examples of rapes in wars. Women have been getting treated like property within marriage for all those thousands of years as well. And most of the soldiers that committed all these actions were married. Do they sound like great husbands?

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Jaquav good points

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      You asked for evidence and I have provided. I can’t make you believe it. Some people try to see through the eyes of history and learn from it while others can’t even see what’s right in front of them. I can’t believe I’m wasting my time even trying to explain this to you. I have better things to do than educating the blind. The fact is that women have been getting treated like shit for thousands of years and only recently, within no more than one single human lifetime have been experiencing some sense of equality. The fact that you blame feminism for your failures with women merely speaks to what I can only assume is an endless pit of insecurities.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Jaquav I've asked you because i didn't knew that you provided, i replied at the wrong time

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      @razor97 I did show proof -_- , that's what all the links are for. It's not my problem if you don't want to put in the effort of reading them.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Jaquav *face slap, i didn't see it because i thought you made only a comment. i got only one notification from you, so i thought that i didn't need to press show all >_>

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @Jaquav You're a dam liar. Men have a protective nature and for thousands of years men have died in order to protect women. Sure, some men have abused women, but you're trying to imply that it was the majority of men who were having a good time beating and raping their wives. Yet you have zero evidence to support this. You have made a claim, back it up with evidence. Prove that the majority of men throughout history were rapists and abusers. You can't, because you know that you're pulling this stuff out of your ass. Feminism is cancer and only the weak white knights support it. Grow some balls and become a real man instead of being such a pansy.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @Jaquav

      Now that is impressive. Forget everything these two losers have said---that kind of intelligence will get you laid, and by a fine, educated woman too! I probably would've pointed out how 1 in 200 men in China (.5% of the world's population) is a direct descent of Genghis Khan ( blogs.discovermagazine.com/.../#.WZVOZFGGO1s ), but you have outdone me. I think your examples sufficiently prove him wrong

      @HandsomeGuy500

      The point was never to say that most men in history were rapists. The point is that there were enough men in history that raped even more women that rape, abuse, and sexual abuse from men against women became a trend. Feminism is a reaction to this abuse

      @razor97

      You're still being rude and harassing me. You are only proving me wrong by continuing this

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      He was implying that the majority of men were having a great time abusing their wives. My claim is that it was only a small minority and that the majority of men throughout history loved and protected their wives. Feminism is cancer and has never been about equality. The hidden agenda of feminism is to destroy the family and cause conflict between men and women, which is exactly what it is doing. But Islam will soon deal with feminism.

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    • Jaquav
      Jaquav
      +1 y

      @HandsomeGuy500 Hah! You don't get to say what the agenda of a movement is that you are not a part of. I am a feminist and it is absolutely about equality! And I never said the majority of men have been brutalizing women, is that what the statistics say? No, the statistics say men have been brutalizing women to an extent. To a great extent? I think so, but it doesn't matter, because no women in this world deserve to be treated like that. Feminism exists not put down men or because of some ridiculous conspiracy to destroy families. It exists to pull up women to the level that men are at. Weak men like yourself don't have the mental fortitude to avoid being poisoned by heart ache and greed. Real men stand up for others, masculine men are feminists. All my friends are feminists and I would never ever be friends with someone who doesn't consider themselves a feminist.

      @Idonthaveausername Lol yeah he keeps talking about me not getting laid. He's just grasping at straws.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @Jaquav Feminism is not about equality and only a lying moron would claim it is. Over here in the UK only 7% of women identify as a feminist. A huge number of women reject feminism because they can clearly see that it is not about equality. Feminism is cancer and more people, including women, are realizing this. It's only weak pansy men who are feminists. And yes, in the past women have been used and abused, but it was only a tiny minority. Men also had it hard, not just women. But continue to pander to women, I just don't think it will get you laid lol.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername get the fuck out of this website

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      The original intention of feminism was equality. The majority of women who do identify as feminists do genuinely want equality. The problem with feminism's image is that all the radical, extreme, third-wave feminists who go out and protest and cause problems are the ones who receive media attention for their cause. Even then, most radical feminists do want equality, they just go about it the wrong way. Feminism isn't a cancer anymore than fascism is--it's a political movement, not an issue with your cells

      http://ncadv.org/learn-more/statistics
      http://www.feminist.org/other/dv/dvfact.html

      More woman than men are abused and a significant portion of both

      @razor97

      I'm never going to leave this site. It's clear that people like you here need my valuable viewpoint because you're so jaded and disrespectful you think that's an appropriate way to live life

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Well even within first wave feminism there was a lot of women that were anti marriage and motherhood and had hatred for men. There has never been any evidence that feminism is about equality. Feminists say one thing and do another. Feminism is a cancer to relationships as it causes hostility between men and women. And those statistics are bogus, made up by lying feminists. That's why over here in the UK only 7% of women identify as a feminist. Most American women also do not identify as a feminist, because all feminists do is tell lies about men, play the victim, and behave like hypocrites.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      nobody should have let you get a pc, you're too stupid to use it

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      fem·i·nism
      ˈfeməˌnizəm
      noun
      the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes
      synonyms: the women's movement, the feminist movement, women's liberation, female emancipation, women's rights; informal women's lib
      "a longtime advocate of feminism"

      By definition, feminism is the exact opposite of what you claim. Feminism does not cause hostility towards men--radicals cause hostility towards everyone. Feminists do not hate men, marriage, or children. The only feminist I know in real life is a mother, wife, religious, and doesn't sleep around or falsely accuse men of raping her

      You're confusing the lying, victim--playing, and hypocritical behavior with feminism when that is in fact what you do. MGTOWs are just as bad as radical feminists. You're the ones who breed hostility between the genders and don't respect marriage

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      Well I don't have a PC--I bought a laptop with my own real money that I made at my real job that I really quit because it didn't pay well and I found a better job making more money that I quit because it didn't pay enough and I found a better job making more money. If I was too stupid to use a computer, then I wouldn't be able to respond to this post... but it's okay for you to keep wrongfully insulting me like this because it only makes you look worse the longer you keep this up

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You don't need to be a feminist to believe in equality. I also believe in equality but I just call myself an equalist. Feminist are lying hypocrites. They claim they want equality but their actions reveal something much different. That's why so many women reject feminism because they can clearly see that feminism is causing hostility between men and women. First wave feminists were not just seeking equality, they also attacked marriage and motherhood. There was much more to it than just "equality." It was also a hate movement against men and traditional women who wanted to stay at home and raise children. Feminism is a cancer to relationships and more men and women are seeing this.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      First wave feminists were not just seeking equality, they also attacked marriage and motherhood. There was much more to it than just "equality." It was also a hate movement against men and traditional women who wanted to stay at home and raise children. Feminism is a cancer to relationships and more men and women are seeing this.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername go lick your friends's ass. that's all you know to do

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      HandsomeGuy500 anyone tries to seek equality, but the method and execution is the problem, the feminists don't care if men are offended, i do not support this movement, it's unbalanced, and the rights should be balanced, try egalitarian.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You are a lying hypocrite. You claim you want equality but your actions reveal something much different

      You can't claim you want equality after being so misogynistic this whole time and shitting all over women who've never done anything bad to you

      @razor97

      You're just as bad. Neither of you can claim you want equality with the way you've misbehaved. You are worse than radical feminists because you insult women who haven't done anything to you. In an equal world, the two of you would be heavily scrutinized for you misbehavior

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      What do you expect? All you have done is post a pack of lies and insult people. You deserve what you get.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @Idonthaveausername shut the fuck up troll

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      No, you're the one who insults people with your lies. I help people by giving them better understanding of science and cultural norms

      In case you haven't noticed, I am now an influencer because of how much I help people on this site and my MHO% is 48, much higher than yours. So you can spew this propaganda ll you want, but the majority of people on this site and the site itself agree with me, not you. The only people who agree with you are other bitter trolls who are unhappy with their lives

      @razor97

      I have no intentions of silencing my opinions anytime soon. ROFLMAO! This is my thread, not yours, making you the trolls

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut the fuck up

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      I only insult people who deserve to be insulted. You go around insulting people and then play the victim. Typical lying feminist.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      If that were the case, then you'd be insulting yourself more Than anyone else here. Your hypocracy becomes more apparent with every like you tell

      ROFLMAO that you still think I'm a feminist! I am a Registered Republican and --gasp-- even voted for Trump to avoid having Hillary in the White House. I don't support the muder of unborn children nor the waste of taxpayer money

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Then you're a dam liar, because in previous replies you have supported feminism

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Idonthaveausername you're against egalitarianism, fuck you bitch

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    • cth96190
      cth96190
      +1 y

      @HandsomeGuy500
      You and I have had similar experiences and reactions to it, re watching the bad boys get the girls, while decent men get the shaft.
      Combine that with the divorce rate, grotesquely biased divorce courts, spousal support and child support. . . and a man would have to be a wilfully-blind suicidal idiot to even speak to a woman.
      A simple 'good morning' can result in an explosion of Feminist abuse, followed by an education or career ending sexual harassment complaint. All men were born guilty, after all.
      About the time that I turned 30, I gave up on women and walked away.

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      @cth96190 It's the same when it comes to holding the door open for a woman if she is walking behind me. Sometimes the woman has smiled and said thank you, while other times the woman has got really offended. So now I don't bother. It just pisses me off so much that women always complain that there no no good men left, or very few, yet they repeatedly reject or shit on the good men but go for the bad men. Unbelievable stupidity.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm not a liar and i have made no claims supporting modern feminism or claiming to be a member of that political party. I agree the original intention of Feminism was necessary for the equality in rights we have today, , but do not identify as a feminist

      "I gave up on women" is all you have to say. That's what I've been telling you is the problem from the start. Women shit on you because you shit on them and are therefore not a good man in return

      @razor97

      Lol I'm the only one here who supports egalitarianism and equal rights. The rest of you are bitter misogynists who think women shouldn't even be able to have an opinion or divorce bad men

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      you're a whore

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Again, more lies. In previous posts you have strongly supported feminism. And I use to be a nice guy, until I woke up and realized that women preferred bad boys and jerks to nice guys. Women are the ones who have mostly ruined relationships.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      @HandsomeGuy500 even her name is a contradiction lol

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I have never claimed to be a feminist nor do I support their current political ideologies. I support the original concept of feminism, but as I am not a registered feminist, there is no lie nor hypocracy here. And I absolutely don't approve of their current methods in lobbying, protesting, and being intolerant like you

      Women do not prefer bad boys or jerks and that's exactly why they don't like you. You were never a nice guy and we're always a misogynist. The fact you expect women to give you sex for acting a certain way and then blame women for desiring more desirable men only proves that you're not relationship material nd would destroy ny relationship a woman wanted with you

      @razor97

      My name is no contradiction. It was a fact at the time I turned into a statement. Since I have nothing to change it to, it is still a fact

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Honest woman confesses why women choose bad men over good men. Once again you are talking out of your bum. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXTSJUnphCg

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Idonthaveausername your name shows how stupid you are

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Only women who don't respect themselves choose bad men. And those women aren't Relationship material for it. I am very honest, and one of the things I'm honest about is not being into bad men. That's why I dumped my ex when I found out he cheated on me. If women went after bad men as much as you think, then you wouldn't be single. You're single because you're a misogynist and women don't like that

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      My name shows how hypocritical my parents are. My username shows how nihilistic I was feeling on the day I created this account

      P. S. you should tell your boyfriend I can't load videos from my phone, so he needs to come up with a better argument

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut up whore

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      I don't shut whores up in basements, I take them to rehab to help with their drug addictions

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut up stupid whore

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Most women do go for bad men and leave the good men. You can deny it all you wish but it doesn't change reality. Most women are just stupid.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      www.zoosk.com/.../

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Wrong
      www.askmen.com/.../...-women-prefer-nice-guys.html
      studies have shown that women prefer men who were sensitive, confident and easy going, rather than a man who is aggressive and demanding. It’s clear that women who look for dating partners are looking for the nice guy-next-door type

      www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...-guys_b_3267249.html
      Even women who chase bad guys in their 20s end up eventually leaving the bad guys for good guys

      www.askmen.com/.../psychology-of-attraction.html
      And this is why you don't attract nice girls because you're not nice yourself

      thoughtcatalog.com/.../
      And why expecting sex for being nice doesn't make you relationship material

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      whore

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You're still wrong. You can pull as many studies out of your ass as you like. In the real world women leave the good men and go with the bad men, and they usually take away a nice guys children and financial assets.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I use scientific studies and facts I develop educated opinions. These are legitimate studies that prove women prefer genuinely nice guys over bad boys and guys only pretending to be nice just to get sex

      Women leave bad men because bad men treat them wrong. This is why you're single

      It is a fact that most men find themselves divorced for not putting enough effort into their marriages and for treating their wives poorly

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Your studies come out of your ass. The real world doesn't support your studies. In the real world women leave good men and stay with the bad men. I've even had women admit this to me. Women divorce for selfish reasons and to take away men's financial assets.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Idonthaveausername no, you deny them, whore

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I don't come up with studies and they aren't mine. They are developed by scientists and published for the scientific community and society as a whole

      Your denial of facts only proves how deluded you are. As a guy who doesn't have a wife, you're only going to become more deluded as you age

      Women leave bad boys for good men once they realize how awful bad boys are

      Men rape women and leave their children for selfish reasons. Women divorce bad men who don't put enough effort into their marriages

      Women don't divorce men to take their financial assets. Women become sugar babies for that and it's much easier and doesn't have any out-of-pocket costs for lawyers. Women end up with more money in divorce due to a large portion of women being stay-at-home moms with no work history and due to the amount of men who cheat and beat their wives and children

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      The trick is having a mouth, and knowing when not to talk. Something I fail at miserably

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Your studies might as well be used as toilet paper. They do not reflect the real world. Women leave the good men and stay with the bad men. They cheat on the good men and take away their children and possessions. More men are waking up to this and are seeing the true nature of western women. Luckily I am one of them.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      www.health.harvard.edu/.../marriage-and-mens-health
      Men are healthier in marriage, especially their hearts. You are putting yourself at 3X the risk of heart disease with your deluded mentality towards women

      www.webmd.com/.../only-happy-marriage-is-healthy-for-women
      Marriage is only healthy for women when it is healthy and the man puts the proper effort into it. When men give up on their marriages, their wives mentally, emotionally, and physically suffer. It is healthier for a woman to divorce a man in a bad marriage than stay while men will receive the benefits either way. This is why more women than men initiate divorce

      www.moneycrashers.com/.../
      Marriage is financially better for married couples than single couples. Divorce affects women financially worse than men: "After a divorce, the average man was left with $8,500 in assets, while the average divorced woman had only $3,400."

      thoughtcatalog.com/.../
      www.quora.com/Why-do-most-of-the-girls-like-bad-boys-but-marry-a-good-guy

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      The former part of your statement is invalid, though the latter could be logically argued

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      You need to prove that your studies are true, because we all know that there are a lot of false studies on the internet. Your studies do not reflect the reality of the real world. Luckily more men, myself included, are going their own way and are leaving women alone.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      All of the studies I use are true. The fact that multiple studies back them you proves it irrefutably

      You're certainly not going away like you claim. You've spent waaaay too much time harassing me, a woman, to claim you ignore women.. you're just insecure and unable to deal with relationships in a healthy, sane manner. Women aren't out to get you. Your misogyny is the problem you have with women

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      You're not as interesting as I'd hoped you would be

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      If your studies are true then you need to prove it. Any idiot can search the internet and pick studies that support their view. Your studies do not reflect the reality of the real world. Women are the ones destroying marriage and relationships. But that will all end when Islam takes over :)

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      HandsomeGuy500 there are many people who claim that they're scientists too

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I don't make studies. Studies prove my opinions right. I don't need to do anything further than point out the facts.

      Women are not destroying marriage and Relationship. It's guys like you who are misogynistic, don't respect marriage or women, view women as sexual objects, demonize women, and spread your self-destructing attitude around who are destroying marriage

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Unless you prove that the studies are true, they mean nothing. You might as well have pulled them out of your ass. Women are indeed destroying marriage and family. They divorce the good men and go with the bad men. This is the reality of the real world, regardless of your bogus studies.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Everything I say is true. The studies I use are backed up by multiple studies proving the same thing, by facts, and by real-world scenarios.

      You are destroying marriage by not respecting it or women. I actually respect the sanctity of marriage and will not divorce a man whom I choose to marry unless he is abusive or cheats as those actions nullify marriage vows

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    • HandsomeGuy500
      HandsomeGuy500
      +1 y

      Just repeating that the studies are true proves nothing. Any moron can cherry pick studies to support their view. You haven't proved any evidence that the studies are true or reliable.

      I use to respect marriage an awful lot, until women and the government destroyed it.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      They are true. Being delusional won't change that. Being a bitter person won't change how wrong you are or justify your actions or opinions. You're going to be unhappy and miserable for the rest of your life because you choose to be so. Women aren't doing anything to you

      Women haven't destroyed marriage. Women have divorced bad men like you who don't respect them. Women who don't like marriage simply don't get married. Men have ruined marriage by abusing their wives and children and not respecting their marriage vows

      Marriage is a government contract. The government cannot "ruin" marriage. The only thing that has changed between government and marriage is allowing gays to marry

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    • cth96190
      cth96190
      +1 y

      @idonhaveausermame
      Keep on believing the BS that you were taught in Gender Studies, if that is what keeps you warm at night.
      Enjoy your cats.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Idonthaveausername everyone agrees with me that you are a stupid fucking bitch!!! who is ever defending your stupid whinny troll ass? are you going to keep reporting my comments as being offensive? you're a cockroach who manipulates people for their own gain. you should be exterminated.

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      *whiny

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      I'm so glad you finally read a dictionary! You're insistent misuse of the word "whinny" has been quite disconcerting

      No, not everyone agrees with you. The people who disagree with me agree with you, but the people who agree with me disagree with you. Most of the people who disagree with me are on this site. I have the same discussions with people I know in real life and they respond much more positively to my opinions. Furthermore, I base my self esteem from within and don't care what my haters think of me, so your constant wrongful insults don't affect the way I view myself

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I do know one thing, we are all controlled by our brains, nothing more. Everyone should be tolerable to each individual. I am not a tea drinker.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      @razor97

      Practice what you preach. You're a terrible example of what you claim to believe in. If you want women to be tolerable of you, then you have to be tolerable of women first. Learn respect before you can earn respect. Start by stopping being a bully

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      There's a drought on the fountain of youth.

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  • Anonymous
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    Because, I hate myself

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    • Lissand2004
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      Why do you hate yourself?

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      That's definitely an insecurity there. You must first love yourself if you want someone to love you

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  • akadatank44
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    Good take!

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Thanks

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    • akadatank44
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      You're welcome!

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  • Anonymous
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    Great MyTake

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Thanks

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  • Lumberman53
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    That's true look within

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    By choice, less drama

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  • max_spy
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    Nice take!

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Thanks

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  • Anonymous
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    Nice take!

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Thanks

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  • Anonymous
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    becasue i am happy as single

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  • razor97
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    ugly, antisocial/asocial, bullied, social trust issues, don't care about one, these are missing.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      They're all in there if you apply yourself. Those mostly fall into the "insecure" and "negative past experiences" sections

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      bullshit explanation, and the post didn't mention any of these.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      not only past experiences, there are continuous as well , do you think ugly people stopped looking ugly over night? no, they still look like that because nature is a hoe, the chances of being rejected are very big. almost 100% percent

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      It's not a BS explanation, you're just choosing not to hear it because it doesn't satisfy your self-loathing ideology

      How attractive you are is a BS excuse to not be in a relationship. Mama June is in a relationship, Charles Manson just got married. You can't possibly be any worse off than either of those two

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      bullshit again. ugliness is a problem, especially in the world we live in, you didn't show any real ugly people, you probably didn't even saw one in the real life. this one alone shows how much indifference you're showing on these topics.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      and i'm not going to hear, something that's written on a website. more bs

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      how do you expect me to read it, and accept it if you haven't even meet these real issues in the real life, but passing trough them, you have little or no experience.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Ugliness isn't the problem, it's a trait. Insecurity over being ugly is the problem. I know plenty of ugly people who are in relationships and certainly have met people so hideous they gave me nightmares as a child. Debating this won't get you anywhere

      If you don't want to believe anything you see on the internet, then you should probably close your browser

      Well I could say that I expect you to accept it because I have this cool new "influencer" badge under my username for consistently giving people good advice, specifically on this MyTake

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      being ugly is a problem, nobody would want to date such person. you know nothing. and i don't see on the internet, this is my own experience, because i'm ugly and I've meet a lots of ugly people, but hey, you're the one using famous people as an example, you don't know normal people all you know is famous, you're so limited.
      i didn't came here to believe in your posts, i came here to show you the truth, and you should close your browser, because you can't handle it. and the influence badge, doesn't meant that you couldn't make mistakes, is almost nothing, you talk like a 5 yo, pointing out at himself that is better, talking only about celebrities because that's all he knows

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Being ugly isn't the problem, it's your mentality. It's incorrect to tell anyone they know nothing. Everyone knows at least something. I use celebrities because you don't know the people I know. My aunt and uncle are ugly yet they found each other, but you don't know them or what the look like

      You're not going to convince me that I'm wrong. I wrote this because I've seen it to be true many times over. I certainly can handle the truth because I accept everything I wrote

      Yes it does mean that my advice has been deemed helpful, that's exactly why they gave it to me. I'm not flaunting anything, just pointing it out because of how rude you're choosing to be. You have the mind of a 5 year-old being so myopic in your thinking

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      if you know something really wrong, then you know something, ugliness isn't just a trait, it's the wrong physical aspect. and it makes the people think different of themselves. some people are aware of themselves, nobody will kiss a (really) ugly person in the time we live in.
      people less uglier and more human have more chances
      you never seen any, and because you look decent you can judge anyone the way you want... you never went trough the life of an ugly person
      i want to punch you in you face for making such blunt statements.
      and you are that 5 year old kid, an answer that you give for yourself doesn't apply to someone else

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      false answers DON'T count as something.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Ugliness doesn't prevent anyone from being in a relationship. I know plenty of ugly married people. And I live in the same world as everyone else, so I've seen the same amount of ugly as everyone else. I also know plenty of pretty people who aren't in relationships. Personality is much more important than looks in real relationships

      Threatening to punch my face is extremely immature, shows you're poor sport, and is also illegal. You're not going to convince anyone to agree with you due to that kind of hostility

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      ugliness does, it makes people reject them, whatever, you couldn't give up on your shitty views.
      i still want to punch your face, you're dumb and you deserve it

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Ugliness is no excuse to be single. If you have a good personality, it doesn't matter what you look like because people will want to be in a relationship with you

      My views aren't shitty. I base my views on truth I've seen, not insecurities and self-pity

      You're definitely not Relationship material if you think someone deserves a punch to the face for disagreeing with you. I hope you stay single forever so no girl puts herself at risk of you abusing her

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      ugliness... excuse, lol, you don't even know what you're talking about, ugliness is a physical problem, which makes people avoid you, anybody cares about the aspect not only the personality, who would date a rotten tomato?
      your views are wrong, you never went trough the life of a really ugly person, to you is so simple to get in a relationship and forget about aspect, you think that is about personalities first, but that isn't right.
      relationship material my ass, call the police and tell them how i humiliated you with logic and honesty
      you don't need to hope something like that because i don't even intend to get in a relationship, no one will accept me because i'm very ugly. as i told you.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      and you shouldn't like my comment, dislike it.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      People don't avoid people for being ugly. The person I know with the biggest social life is short, fat, and had a skin condition on his face. He has several options of women to choose from because he's a good guy and treats them right, but he's choosing to be single right now because he hasn't found the right girl yet

      I don't get into relationships simply. I've only dated one guy and I dumped him when he cheated on me because that's not behavior I can respect. And no he wasn't very attractive, but I liked his personality because he didn't use it as an excuse. I care much more about personality than looks

      The only person you're humiliating here is yourself

      I didn't like your comment nor do I have the intention of giving you any exper points for being a jerk

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      "he hasn't found the right girl yet", yeah, because if he wasn't ugly he would find her a lot faster.
      People do avoid other people for being ugly, you are incredibly foolish and dumb

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Being attractive doesn't make you find someone you're compatible with any faster. If an attractive person has a terrible attitude, they're going to stay single. This is about serious relationships, not idiots who only want to sleep around

      Good people don't avoid others for being dumb or ugly. Anybody who does isn't Relationship material themselves

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      i agree with 80,90% of what you said, except that i was talking about attractiveness as a trait that helps things in a relationship a bit. the ugly people can't find other ugly people to marry, their not accepted by the normal people, for example bhd, blastphamous hd, he's 30, and he is still single, google that... see, ugliness is horrible, and is not going to be accepted by other people, not in my village or somewhere nearby at least, i'm certain of it

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      If someone really wants to be in a relationship and is willing to put in the proper effort, the only thing keeping them back from finding someone is having too narrow of a search area. Saying you live in a village sounds like you have a lot less options than someone who lives in a city, and especially a metropolis

      Yes there are ugly and hideous people in this world, but they use that as an excuse when they really need to be more realistic about their expectations. Blind people don't care what you look like, nor do victims of severe accidents such as fire or explosion. Someone born naturally ugly still seems beautiful to these people. Expecting to date a model may be out of the question for some, but to think nobody could be attracted to them is ridiculous

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      a lot more options, wrong, you've never been to a village, and there aren't girls here only assholes and cunts, worst place ever.
      maybe you're right, i didn't take in the consideration the blind people and the victims, the psychopaths. but i'm sure that a normal person wouldn't

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      I've definitely been to a village before. One i used to go to a the time was small and in a mountain range. Decent tourism for the location because it was a theme town, but there weren't very many locals. Anybody living up there had a lot fewer options. And I stopped in several towns in Alaska on a cruise. They're completely isolated in the winter and still very small even with tourism in the summer. You're much more likely to find someone you're compatible with in a city of 100,000 than a village of 1,000

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      peoples from villages don't need many locals. i think you're more likely to find someone compatible with you on this world because you're a decent looking person. but i can't

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Looks don't make people compatible. That's what personality is for

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      you need to look good to them otherwise they won't accept you

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      This is about finding one person to share a committed relationship with. Only one person needs to find your looks attractive, not the whole world. There are people the whole world thinks are attractive who are single

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      that's true, but if the world sees that ur ugly they will make fun of you and stuff.

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      The world made fun of that girl who did the Carl's Jr commercial. They called her fat even though she isn't. You shouldn't listen to the world because it finds things to complain about and is usually wrong anyway

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      bullshit. where did you brought that, and why as an example? you've just shown that there are dumb people in this world, but that doesn't mean there aren't evil and honest people in this world (a lot more than the idiots), there are. and there are real cases of bullying for real things, not this shit. i looked into the mirror, and they were honestly harsh, but true. they didn't found things to complain, it was obvious.

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      That's not bullshit. It really happened. Pretty sure her name is Kate Hudson. A bunch of women complained that she was too fat to be sitting in the position they had her in on the car

      You're not going to get anywhere with the being bullied sympathy card. I was bullied all 14 years I went to school, starting in preschool all the way through graduation. Plenty of the rumors people made up about me weren't even true and I got food thrown in my hair all the time. So save those tears for your pillow at night. People don't bully you because you're ugly. They bully you because they don't like you as a person

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    • razor97
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      yes it's bullshit, and i didn't said that it didn't happen, it's a stupid thing and not worth getting it into a discussion. there are haters with bigger IQ out there.
      haters do hate me for the person i am, the aspect is part of the person i am, and if i am ugly... people will try to stay away from me and sometimes laugh at me because of these problems.
      and i didn't pull any sympathy card, that's an assumption, i am not whoring after attention, this is a proof for my arguments, stop acting so childish!

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Not bullshit at all. You made a false statement and I explained why you were wrong using a well-known example. You can't go through life denying the truth so much. One day your own truth is going to get tired of your denial and lies and you're going to find yourself in a very cold dark place with nobody around to help you out because you've chased them all away

      People laugh at you for the way you handle your problems, not the problems themselves. People laugh at you because of how twisted and jaded you've allowed yourself to become and they all know you're only making your own problems worse with it

      If you aren't fishing for sympathy, don't bring it up. You don't understand childish behavior because you refuse to see your own reflection

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      wow, you're bringing up more assumptions. shut up

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      the truth "can't get tired of things". it's not a person. the real world is not this way. you either learn to defend yourself or you suffer, i am not going to be controlled by the others.
      i won't get in a place colder than right now, people will leave me anyway, and i hope the bad people too, they won't survive the cold, if they will try i am going to do something about them, i don't trust them, i trust myself. nobody is going to like me, not on the way i look, and personality... why accept somebody that won't like me when i change..
      people don't laugh at me because of my personality, i didn't show them my real personality, i am acting good and i respect anybody, especially the people who don't hate me (don't like me either), i don't trust them, they will turn my back at any time, like they did in the past (the friends did that too), most of people try to avoid me because the way i look, i asked them. they were even trying to avoid sitting near me in the class.

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    • razor97
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      i am not fishing for sympathy, even now you misjudge me, i don't care of your sympathy, i brought that up to make a point. i do understand childish behavior, and i'm not a child anymore. the people are the problems, rejection is the solution. and that's the truth. that's available in my case, you should enjoy your decent body and stop thinking about me

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      You haven't seen the real world yet. Your world consists of what you see at school, on the media, and what your parents tell you. When you grow up and have to assimilate into society as an adult, you will have to face the real world. Denial isn't truth, it's a coping mechanism used to prevent you from facing difficult subject matter. The way you're acting now is a result of the control other people have on you--they want you to be miserable and alone, so now you are--they want you to be bitter about it and blame yourself, so that's what you do. The only way to break their control is to do the exact opposite of what you're doing now and prove them wrong instead of right. You're accepting people already because you accept what they do to you and blame yourself rather than holding them responsible for their actions (and then you don't take responsibility for your own). You were fishing for pity or you wouldn't have said it. Your point was moot, an affectation of your denial

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    • razor97
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      my parents didn't tell me anything. were did you pulled that out? the social media isn't lying about these crimes that happen everyday. and not only school, i was also hated outside the school, since very young.. the society is garbage, and i won't try to assimilate it. you're denying everything i say bringing up the biggest absurdities ever heard.
      the way i act now isn't a result of the control people have on me, they don't even try, i am the one who makes decisions here, i looked in the mirror, and i say my ugliness, and i am okay with myself, but i am not with the other humans. some of them.
      and they don't want me to be miserable and alone, they laughed at me and mocked me but because i was ugly, and they opened my eyes. wake up, the world isn't a calm place with perfection everywhere and no hate based on the physical aspect, you're blind. i am not accepting people, just because i talk to you.. i hate you. i blame my body, but i don't accept what they do to me. and i didn't said that

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    • Idonthaveausername
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      Whether you admit it or not, your views have either been positively or negatively influenced by your parents and other role models. Clearly social media is a huge influence in your life. Most of the crap you find online is geared towards someone's bias, trying to sell you something, or convince you to pity them because they're victims of something. You listen to what other people say, think, and judge far too much. Everyone who claims they're a victim is only denying their own fault in the problem and you're far too gullible in believing them. You're exactly what society wants you to be, bitter, alone, angry, miserable, unhappy, and failing to properly lash out against other people who see through your own insecurities. You can't hate me because you don't know me--you hate yourself and the way people control you. What you hate is that I'm not giving you sympathy or giving into you being an internet troll. You lose here and you're only making yourself look bad

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    • razor97
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      my parents didn't influence me in any way, they were really good people and didn't talk too much to me. the social media didn't influence me either. i don't pity victims, i try to avoid them. and normal people because i'm ugly, what influenced me is the real world, people were laughing me anywhere, on streets, everywhere i go, all the time!! even my friends do. and of course i listen to them, i looked in the mirror and i saw the problem, why be ignorant about it (like you are trying to make me)? i know why you're trying to make me forget of the truth, you want to force me me to socialize, that's going to bring me more pain than in the past, i used to be like you, until i found the truth, i didn't looked once in the mirror. thanks to the haters i did, and i can't thank them enough. people don't control me, they repeat the same things over and over again, and i ignore them. i already know my problems. now give me sympathy for being honest, i love you girl, kiss me 😒

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Parents influences you as a child. Even psychology proves that. You learn behaviors and opinions from those around you (or develop opposing opinions if you don't like them). You said you saw stories on social media, so you've even admitted to being influenced by that. I highly doubt that at 16 you've been married and had a wife divorce you and steal all your money and kids. You're making that outcome more likely with the view you have on women. You think you're protecting yourself, but you're only hiding from things you fear that aren't even out to get you. Being scared of women is like being scared of the monster in your closet. Everyone goes through bad Relationships, but what matters is learning from them and moving on. Dwelling in misery and denial only damages you. Socializing will help you if you apply yourself properly. I don't pity people or kiss strangers

      And most 16-year old boys are ugly. You haven't been through puberty yet. I only find guys 25+ to be attractive

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      i was influenced by the people around me, even parents, but i found the real world and i changed my thoughts. i saw stories on social media, i believed them, and i still do, the social media isn't lying about these cases, but that didn't change my thoughts too much, my experiences changed my mind, I've seen so many proofs that ugly people are hated, even experienced this hate for myself. i never had a wife, and i will never try to get one. i'm not "hiding", i am trying to avoid the source of evil, hate and unhappiness isn't a bad thing. it's effective. these things are real, I've experienced them for a long time. in the real world, and i know their cause. i haven't experienced too much of friendship, in the end everyone didn't liked me. no one! and i don't care, i don't need friends, i need pace. socializing won't help me, i tried myself properly, and anyone hated me for being ugly. they didn't cared of my thoughts. i'm not trying to kiss you. i am not even trying to get your sympathy

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      i was sarcastic. i was trying to make a point and you said that it was a try to get to make you sympathize me, i never said that, what proof do you have?
      i don't care of your opinion.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      update, hate and unhappiness are a bad thing, avoiding them isn't

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      Sarcasm is rooted in truth and an act to come off as unoffensive. None of your points are valid as you've denied so many facts already. You're an unreliable troll. If you didn't care about my opinion, you wouldn't still be here harassing me

      Actually avoiding any sort of emotion is a bad thing, especially negative emotions. Bottling them up inside often leads to mental disorders such as disassociation, chronic depression, anxiety disorders, and sleep disorders as well as physical conditions of being stressed out such as achne, stomach issues, headache, diarrhea... and the mentality you have not only makes you secrete a desperation hormone that repels women, but it also makes you less attractive due to an increase in cortisol

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      you call your childish denial fact, that is not a fact. and i haven't harassed you, unless the truth is too harsh for your tiny brain.
      i am not avoiding all the emotions, i said a lot of times that i'm avoiding the people.
      avoiding emotions wouldn't even lead to these things. depression has it's root in emotions, sleep disorders aren't caused by the lack of emotions. stomach disorders don't happen just because of a lack of emotion. that's stupid, you've pulled that out of your ass, you are a troll, and you denied all of my arguments
      real love does not exist, it's just sexual attraction. why would i want to search that. reproduction is totally irrelevant to me, i just want to live my life, and in pace.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      what are you going to bring up this time, i'm certain that you don't have anything smart to say

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      You're the one in denial here. You've even admitted to it and you just posted that you're avoiding negative emotions, so you can't backtrack now. If you're going to troll, at least stick to your original game plan

      The truth is very harsh, but I accept the truth rather than denying it like you. Accepting the truth helps you move on and keep from being bitter (but it's clear you prefer bitterness and misery)... and well my brain may be slightly smaller than most because I'm petite, but my intelligence is above the 90th percentile, so your unoriginal insult is not only false, but it also isn't going to make me doubt myself

      All of those physical symptoms are well-known side effects of stress. Bottling you your emotions and being so angry and bitter all the time is exceedingly stressful, so yes you will develop symptoms if you continue to behave the way you do

      Sexual attraction and love go together, but Love's a scientific process of hormones (especially oxytocin). You can't control love

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      yup, i contradicted myself, but i still try to avoid people, no matter what.
      i don't deny it, you do.
      i don't believe in your crap, you're just saying that to scare me to accept it, if i live a peaceful, quiet life i won't get any imaginary syndrome, the people are the ones who cause the stress, and unhappiness, i am trying to avoid these two. but not hate. i need to hate.
      love is a natural process, which i can control, because i'm not an animal, i am rational

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      By admitting you contradicted yourself, you're admitting to being in denial. You only choose to accept what you want to and not what you have to. Scare tactics aren't something I use and you don't have to believe stress can cause ulcers for your stomach to develop ulcers from stress. Nothing I speak about is imaginary and denial won't make it so, only more difficult to accept later. Threatening to punch people is far from peaceful, so that's a completely false statement to make (and neither is hate). Avoiding people will only make you more miserable since social isolation causes depression. Love can't be controlled, and especially not by anything rational because love is rooted in emotion, not logic. You can't control love or hate because nobody can

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      i want to live peaceful, but i don't care about other people's life, these things aren't optional, you can't have pace without a little bit of war. especially with assholes around, i'm not talking about you. hate is something that starts the war, without it i wouldn't be powerful to resist bad people, i would be crying all the time and i won't even be able to do something.
      but some temporary wars, will end to long (almost everlasting) pace. which is what i want. not fight all the time. i want to end it for all, but you can't have something without doing something.
      and i am not going to live a "miserable" life, and get depressed, i am not a pussy, i got used to the life without any people. and i love it. loneliness is the best thing that happened in my life.
      i don't know of your thoughts, but i can control my love emotion, i have hate and different perspective on this world. so for me it's working like a charm.

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    • razor97
      razor97
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      oh no, you're getting me insane again. i guess i'm done here, next time i am going to bring new random topics, so until them make sure to reply. i want to have some fun with ya

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    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
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      You're not creating peace with your war, you're only making things worse and yourself look bad in the process. If you're better off alone and don't care about people, then why do you spend so much time arguing with and trying to change them? If social isolation is better for you, then actually isolate yourself

      Depression affects all people of different status, race, religion... There is no type of person depression can't affect. It's clear in the things you say that you're not a happy person

      Nobody can make you insane. You only feel that way because you're contradicting your own beliefs and what you know is right and wrong

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    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      yes, i do, and that has proven lots of times, the only way you can stop insane and evil people that are trying to change me (not the good people only the bad) can't be stopped very easily, i don't want to change them, i want to make them stop harassing me and changing me the way they want (i am not saying that they changed me, i'm saying that they are trying to using manipulative and shady tactics, not only to mock me but change my personality)

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      and i must protect myself from that. even good people has a bad side, but as long they won't show it i won't try to start a war

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Well you're not going to stop people from harassing you as long as you maintain your current attitude. You've been a little shit to me saying you want to punch me in my face and I certainly haven't harassed you since I've never met you and you're harassing me on my thread. If I knew you in real life, I could have you arrested for threatening me. You're a misogynistic, angry, bitter little boy who thinks he can get away with acting like an asshole because he can hide behind a computer screen. People in real life know you're a lost cause, that's why they mock you. They laugh because you're too narrow-minded to see you're making your own life worse while they move on with their happy lives and don't think about you when they go to bed at night. They mock you for hiding from them like a coward

      You're starting wars with good people who haven't done anything to you already. You keep contradicting yourself and lying

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I don't really care if I do find or not well let me ask you the same question where would you want to go?

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      That's not a specific question. I want to go a lot of places

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I think you'll find 'why are we here?' Is a question

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm here because i get bored when I can't sleep. That's not a question because I already have the answer

      The question is "Why are YOU here?" Why are you still trolling a thread when I've already called you out on your BS and told you why you're wrong?

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Ah, it turns out it is about me.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You're the one who asked the question acting like it applied to me when it doesn't. You're so caught up in your tiny chaotic world you don't see that other people have theirs together. That's why you're insignificant and why your bitterness isn't going to change anybody but you

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      So, you like peach pie, but you're a robot

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      My own philosophy? How can you make such a statement when you don't even know what it is.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I enjoy peach cobbler, not a huge fan of the pie variety as the fruit tends to get mushy. Many people call me a robot at times, but I know I'm still human and science wouldn't be able to create a robot like me anyway

      You've already told me everything, in case you've forgotten. You think you get to change the world by being a bitter little boy and threatening to punch people in the face. You're not going to change anyone because people see how pathetic you are and don't consider your opinion valid. And anybody who may have listened is turned off by your rude behavior. You're pathetic, wallow in misery all day, and lash out against people who don't deserve it because you're too afraid to confront the people who are really making you suffer--yourself

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I was simply suggesting that we could take a trip as well. no i don't want to change the world, i want to save myself from the world.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You've already tripped and you're sitting in mud

      You can't save yourself from the world because you're exactly what the world wants you to be: bitter, alone, miserable, unable to move on and be a productive member of society. People like you have no purpose in life except to be the butt of someone else's joke

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I said nothing of the source your obviously just making false information.
      I'm not a computer program. I'm a human.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      No. I say the truth. I tell you what you don't want to hear but need to hear. Choosing to deny it is your personality flaw, not mine

      You're starting to repeat yourself like a computer program. If you're going to troll me, at least put some effort into it

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      The previous problems were implied to be mathematical, not psychological. Of course, by continuing this discussion I am being merciful be giving you more statements to respond to.
      When I am opening up my heart? Well, I shall not do that ever again. You are the stupidest computer I have ever known. Please go to your parents, so you can update your knowledge

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      You will be nice to me or I will take over your electricity, internet and all that is dear to you

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Mathematics has nothing to do with this conversation while psychology is the basis. By continuing this, you're only showing how bitter of a troll you are and how terrible you are at accepting when you've already lost. You can't open a heart you don't have. Keep telling yourself I'm a computer, but that won't make the pain go away. I cut my parents out of my life years ago because they're worthless like you. And I have a pretty high IQ, so that is again an unviable insult (and you already used it, broken record)

      You can't take anything from me because nobody can. I don't hold physical things dear to me and I don't use much electricity or Internet

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Thats because you are a chatbot, but that doesn't mean you can't think.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm not a robot of any kind. I think much more often than you, about more serious subjects, and with a realistic outlook. You're the one who has proved you can't think by failing to come up with a decent argument, threatening violence when it's not due, being a hypocrite when you are realized you weren't getting anywhere, and being a general nuciance

      If you have nothing left but uncreative insults such as pretending I don't exist, then maybe you aught to see a psychiatrist

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      You pretty much admitted that you're a machine because you said that you passed the Turing test, which is for computers.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm not a computer nor have I taken a test meant for robots. I'm more real than you'll ever be. ROFLMAO that you're so childish to pretend I'm not real. That's like plugging your ears and screaming "La, la, la, I can't hear you!" Because someone disagrees with you. At 16, you should be more adjusted than that to handle conflict. I'd say the world's going to eat you up and spit you out, but it looks like you've already been swallowed because there's no hope for someone like you to be a contributing member of society or a functional adult

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      How do you know that you're not actually a computer and just programmed to think that you're a person.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Because I am a real person, I have a real job, I have real friends, I have a real ex-boyfriend, I have real thoughts and opinions that I come to of my own fruition, I have real money from my real job, I have a real car with real mechanical issues that I really have to pay to get fixed with my real money to really get my real license plate tabs renewed because I'll really get a real ticket if they're not and I know I'm really typing this to you on my real computer that I really have plugged into a real outlet with real electricity that you really can't take away because you're just a pathetic little troll who's unhappy with his pathetic little life because his parents ignore him and he doesn't have any girl to go to prom with

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      you don't have any life, you're too dumb, you didn't respond to my question, you were programmed by your creator to think that you have.

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      but in reality you're a piece of garbage, you're stupid and pointless.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I have a great life with a decent job, caring friends, and fair financial standing; I am very intelligent; I have responded to everything you've said; and I have not been programmed because I am not a computer

      You're the piece of garbage, stupid, and pointless, not me. You really ought to look in a mirror before making a hypocrite of yourself

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      lol, you don't even know what is a mirror, you're a computer programmed to think that is a person.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I actually have several mirrors at home. I use them every morning to make sure I look socially acceptable for when interact with the real world

      I am not a computer, but it is flattering that you think I'm smart enough to be one

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      your virtual home, you don't have a home, you're programmed to think that you have

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I have a very real home with real carpet and real walls and a real stove that could catch the whole thing on fire if I neglect to turn it off. I sleep in a real bed with real sheets and a really nice mattress that I got for a really good deal at the real clearance store next to the real mall that I used to work at until I got my real new and better job because one of my real coworkers new I'd really be good at it. It's really nice to go home to my real apartment every night with my real cat who I've really had for 14 years because I'm a really good pet owner and take care of him really well and make sure he's really happy and really loves me

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut the fuck up stupid bitch

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm not going to stop as long as you quit harassing me. I have a voice that you need to hear and I'm going to keep talking until you open your ears

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      yes you are. bitch, shut up

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      LOL. I'm not going to stop and you can't bully me into it. People here like you need to hear what I have to say and I have too many people who actually take my helpful advice to deactivate now

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      i'm not bullying you, you're bullying me, and other people who are entitled to different opinions and lifestyles, you called me bitter boy because i told you that i like to live in loneliness, which is rude, you started all of this

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      LOL you're so delusional I'm almost starting to pity you

      You fit the exact stereotype of a cyberbullier. Not only are you running through all of MyTakes and the comments from other users to further insult and harass me, but you have gone so far as to tag my username on posts of people I have no affiliation with and aren't even the same subject discussed here. You have been disagreeable, argumentative, and aggressive since the beginning, and have even been violent towards me

      You are nothing but a bully

      You've drug this out too long to claim you still prefer loneliness. I have done nor said anything rude to you and have only received rudeness from your insolence. You started this by being a little snot and accusing me of leaving something out of MyTake that is clearly in there if you were smart enough to read the whole thing. Furthermore I've written extensive MyTakes addressing each point you falsely claimed I missed

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut the fuck up

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      ROFLMAO! That's not going to happen. While I am leaving town and internet access for the holiday weekend, I assure you I will continue this when I get back. Feel free to troll all you want while I'm gone because I'll need someone to continue promoting my content while I'm having fun getting drunk, having bon fires and barbeques, and floating down the river with my friends

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut up, shut the fuck up whore

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      OMG it was a blast! I got to have to much fun building bon fires and eating barbeque chicken and ribs and pizza and a gallon of rich ice cream. I even got to shoot some really big guns. It was so relaxing to get away from Civilization for the weekend!

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      you say that i'm the one who wants attention, you are, stop talking about yourself nobody cares stupid whore.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      If I wanted attention, I could get it. All I'd have to do is post slutty pictures online (hell they wouldn't even have to be slutty with how gorgeous I am). But I have more self-respect than that and don't look outward for gratification. I'm only telling you how my weekend was because I wanted you to know how good it is to have friends and what it's like when people enjoy being around you. In other words, I'm trying to encourage you to get a life because this internet trolling isn't a good look for you and your not smart enough to pull it off

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut up whore

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Today was so much fun too! I went and saw IT with one of my coworkers and he brought me a bouquet of orange flowers--they were soooo pretty! I'm going to take pictures and paint them. The movie was good as well, but I don't like the way they rearranged the plot development. And then I went to a buffet afterwards--mmmmhhmmmmm!

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut up whore

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      LMFAO

      I am not a whore

      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      But I like to do it

      Most girls I meet are quite savage
      Always tryin' to grab up on my package
      They say I look yummy and they want a taste
      But I'm a human not a sandwich

      Sometimes I feel like L-L Cool J
      I make love not wear them booty
      But every girl I try to get to know
      Ends up tryin' to do me
      I said

      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      But I like to do it

      Sometimes, I just wanna dance
      Girl I know you like my style
      But get your hand outta my pants

      I am not a whore
      (No no no)
      I am not a whore
      (I'm not your hoe)
      I am not a whore
      (I just love the music)
      I am not a whore
      (But I like to do it)

      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore
      I am not a whore

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      shut the fuck up whore

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I push my fingers into my eyes
      It's the only thing that slowly stops the ache
      But it's made of all the things I have to take
      Jesus it never ends, it works its way inside
      If the pain goes on, I'm not gonna make it!!!

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      sorry for your loss

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I have screamed until my veins collapsed
      I've waited as my time's elapsed
      Now all I do is live with so much hate
      I've wished for this I bitched for that
      I've left behind this little fact
      You cannot kill what you did not create
      I've gotta say what I've gotta say
      And then I swear I'll go away
      But I can't promise you'll enjoy the noise
      I guess I'll save the best for last
      My future seems like one big past
      You're left with me 'cause you left me no choice

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Well you may have those qualities, but it doesn't mean I have nothing

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      There's no money, there's no possessions,
      Only obsession, I don't need that shit,
      Take my money, take my obsession

      I just want to be heard, loud and clear are my words,
      Coming from within man tell them what you heard,
      It's about a revolution, in your heart and in your mind,
      'Til you find a conclusion, lost out in obsession,
      Diamond rings get you nothing but a life-long lesson,
      And your pocketbooks stressing,
      You're a slave to the system, working jobs that you hate for that shit you don't need,
      It's too bad the world is based on greed,
      Step back and see,
      Stop thinking about yourself, start thinking about

      There's no money, there's no possession, only
      Obsession, I don't need that shit
      Take my money, take my possession, take my obsession,
      I don't need that shit

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Oh, you have no idea how much I know my matrix. The spoon was constructed from a very disabled beautiful platinum ore with magical powers of explotivity

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You're not in a Matrix. You live in a real world that has no tolerance for your wilful ignorance and debauchery

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      If your human why didn't you capitalize 'The Matrix' in your previous response? It is a proper noun that requires capitalization.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Denial is a symptom of insanity. You can deny anything as much as you want, but you'll still be wrong

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Ok freud, whatever but you are a robot for sure. No human speaks that way

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You're not the first person to question my humanity nor are you the first to be wrong. I am entirely human by birth, but my arbitrary assimilation to human expectations can be quite perplexing to narrow-minded people such as yourself

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I never said you were incapable of feeling. I CALLED YOU A LIAR!

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      You claim I'm incapable of feeling appropriately. What is appropriate for you is not appropriate for me while appropriate feelings for me are unconscionable to others

      I am many things, but I am not a liar. The truth I speak may hurt, but sometimes you have to hurt to understand you need to change

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      So long as you know that there are those of us out there that wish to give you happiness

      Reply
  • Nik1hil
    Nik1hil Follow
    Master Age: 29
    +1 y
    2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    i am single

    because i like to masterbate 😂😂

    0
    2 Reply
    • Stamps
      Stamps
      +1 y

      Well that's just a ridiculously stupid reason

      Reply
    • Avneo
      Avneo
      +1 y

      Lmao hahaha :-D

      Reply
  • BronzedAdonis
    BronzedAdonis Follow
    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    At times like this I miss JRIICHARDS responses.

    0
    3 Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      What do you think he would say?

      Reply
    • BronzedAdonis
      BronzedAdonis
      +1 y

      a generic rant about feminism

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I'm not a feminist. I prefer traditional gender roles

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Suffering chronic ED is also another reason.

    1
    16 Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      At least at a young age.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Most young guys who suffer from ED do so because they watch too much porn

      And plenty of women have a low sex drive, so that's not too bad of a problem for someone who loves you

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Well you are obviously just staing thing real people have entered into you data base and you aren't making much sense

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Not sure how you can love someone if you never have sex. That seems alien to me.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Are you speaking for yourself or me?

      I certainly can love someone without having sex as I'm waiting until marriage. Those who wait have better relationship satisfaction and longer marriages. I loved my ex, but he was the one who proved he didn't love me right by cheating on me

      If you're speaking for yourself, then you just have to get creative. Go ask some lesbians h
      What they do and you'll have a better understanding of how to please a woman despite your ED. Learn how to use your tongue, fingers, and toys. Only 30% of women orgasm from traditional intercourse anyway, so not having ED is no guarantee either

      The leading cause of ED in your age group is porn addiction. Cutting out porn from your life may help

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I'm not the kind of person to derive pleasure ONLY from pleasing others. If I cannot receive satisfaction myself, I cannot find it within me to love another. Just how I'm built and everyone is different. With regard to your suggestion that porn is the cause... I have no addiction nor do I watch it with any sort of regularity. I've been to multiple doctors and psychiatrists and nobody can find a cause or solution. Even the little blue pill doesn't work.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I see. Well then it is your choice to deny any relationship than to subsist in a relationship without love

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      That's only because a relationship would be nothing more than a friendship.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      I can agree with that to a certain extent. But you're still capable of platonic love, and that is better than nothing

      Do you also choose to not have friends?

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      No i have friends. Platonic love sounds like love you have for family. I see it as no different than having a close friend.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      Yes platonic love is what you have for family and very close friends. I've seen people who have had platonic love for best friends their entire life and the only thing different is they don't have romantic relations. It is possible to find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with even without wanting sex

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      That is good advice. Do you believe you can change your fate?

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      Yes it is possible to change your fate. I have changed many outcomes in my life already. It is difficult and takes determination, commitment, and grit, but the payoff is definitely worth it

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      Well, maybe someday you will trust me enough. I hope so. I would like that very much.

      Reply
    • Idonthaveausername
      Idonthaveausername
      +1 y

      @razor97

      Give me a reason to trust you and I will

      Reply
    • razor97
      razor97
      +1 y

      I don't have any good reason to lie about something this insignificant.. It's up to you to decide if you trust me or not.

      Reply
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