I agree with blue anon that women don't care about looks much, they just think they do. I wouldn't have dated 8's and 9's if women care about looks more lol.
No amount of rationalizing changes the fact that women simply don't know what they respond to.
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Lol at your wishful thinking. Ok whatever makes you feel better 🤗 Are you sure you're not overrating them or something? Other women don't represent me. Every guy I liked was more attractive than me and I rejected every ugly and average looking guy who tried to be so confident.
I argee my ex girlfriend hates potheads amd controling men yet she's now dating one so very funny, when. We were friends she always talk about how she would never date a pothead.
For me it's personality I can take an average looking girl/guy if their personality is amazing
Obviously if someone is butt ugly, you don't care about the personality because you're not going for them, but if someone is a complete bitch, you won't care about looks, will you?
Find someone you are attracted to physically and personally. They exist.
But I guess you're trying to say that you'd rather find someone who's more attractive to you but has less in common with you, compared to someone who's slightly attractive to you but has more in common with you?
i don't think they need to be mutually exclusive. attraction draws you in and their personality is what keeps you with them. They blend-but a relationship certainly needs both
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There are a lot of fatherless children out there because there are shitty men AND because there are a lot of stupid women willing to have their children.
He gotta have both. Looks are the first things that catch the eye but looks have to be backed up by a great personality. I won't date cute guys with horrible personalities and neither guys with an amazing personality but whose looks are not to my liking.
I'm pretty safe thinking you don't wanna be with an asshole either. It is equally important, just in different time. You won't date an ugly guy. You won't keep dating an asshole. That's pretty simple.
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I agree with blue anon that women don't care about looks much, they just think they do. I wouldn't have dated 8's and 9's if women care about looks more lol.
No amount of rationalizing changes the fact that women simply don't know what they respond to.
Lol at your wishful thinking. Ok whatever makes you feel better 🤗 Are you sure you're not overrating them or something? Other women don't represent me. Every guy I liked was more attractive than me and I rejected every ugly and average looking guy who tried to be so confident.
I argee my ex girlfriend hates potheads amd controling men yet she's now dating one so very funny, when. We were friends she always talk about how she would never date a pothead.
Looks first, personality after. That's how it works.
For me it's personality
I can take an average looking girl/guy if their personality is amazing
Obviously if someone is butt ugly, you don't care about the personality because you're not going for them, but if someone is a complete bitch, you won't care about looks, will you?
Well, I have always said that looks and personality both are equally important. However you have some good points in your my take as well.
Well let me simply something.
Find someone you are attracted to physically and personally. They exist.
But I guess you're trying to say that you'd rather find someone who's more attractive to you but has less in common with you, compared to someone who's slightly attractive to you but has more in common with you?
Finding both is hard but worth it!
both those guys in the pictures above look really hot
personality, if someone is attractive but their personality is bad then they are automatically ugly to me
i don't think they need to be mutually exclusive. attraction draws you in and their personality is what keeps you with them. They blend-but a relationship certainly needs both
There are a lot of fatherless children out there because there are shitty men AND because there are a lot of stupid women willing to have their children.
Use your brain.
*stupid and/or irresponsible.
He gotta have both. Looks are the first things that catch the eye but looks have to be backed up by a great personality. I won't date cute guys with horrible personalities and neither guys with an amazing personality but whose looks are not to my liking.
"Personality won't produce a healthy, attractive child. "
I mean. Technically if that gets him a hot wife, then her 50% of the genetics just might lol
@PurityEvelyn well that's awkward lol
I think in the long run, personality is more important. But the problem is, if a guy looks unattractive physically, then...
then... the whole world treats him like shit then they act surprised when he kills himself or others.
@PurityEvelyn I sent an email to w. s. evelyn. williams @ gmail
first impression is looks , then second is personality if you follow to the categories of that then your in luck
@mimiblondychick i need your help. please message me.
I think looks come first but then personality is more important
personality can make you soo ugly / or really beautiful
I honestly would struggle to date a plank, i would get bored and it'd be difficult to maintain interest. Personality is under rated
Good looks won't disguise a poor personality.
I say 75% personality, 25% looks. Just my opinion though.
Thanks for posting this. +1 Truth wish more people would admit it.
Looks could also be good because some can tell if it's a nice person or a bad person.
https://i.stack.imgur.com/eQ20E.jpg
@PurityEvelyn Why should I.
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I'm pretty safe thinking you don't wanna be with an asshole either.
It is equally important, just in different time.
You won't date an ugly guy. You won't keep dating an asshole.
That's pretty simple.
Tinder didn't get to be as popular and successful as it is off anyone's personality.