All the Wrong Women: My Online Dating Experience (Page 2)
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"Hell, some women are even exaggerating their inboxes and how much mail they get just so they can seem like they’re a lot more special to men than they really are. 30 messages A DAY? I highly doubt that, even for the most attractive woman. I’ve even seen some women who are honestly very plain yet they’re claiming allllllllll these guys are blowing up their inboxes. Really not sure about that..." - It's true, though, that women receive a lot of messages a day; even the plain Janes, such as myself.
When I first joined a dating site, I would get over 20 messages a day and tried my best to answer them all, but I got sick of answering all the "hi" so I simply started opening the messages and deleting them if they weren't interesting or if the guy wasn't my type. Turned out that most of the guys would get offended that I didn't reply and would call me names. Funny days those were.
the anonymity of being behind a computer screen is what makes those guys comfortable doing that after you "reject" them so to speak. I bet they wouldn't do that to you in real life if they had asked you out and you kindly said no. I don't get guys like that, I mean what good does it do? Sure it MIGHT make you feel a little better because she "hurt" you but it does you no good and makes you look like a jerk in the process. if a girl doesn't respond I just leave her alone and call it good. no point in getting angry at someone who doesn't find me attractive lol.
I agree all the way brother!
I think dating itself is nothing but a joke. its like seriously do people actually waste their time and money on these type of bullshit? and what exactly do they get out of all this?
I agree. Although I've met some girls for actual dates through online dating. The problem is that the online part is 100% a waste of time. You have absolutely no idea whether you'll actually like them in person or not before you meet.
The guys on online dating are the worst though. You get lazy 400 lb assholes who want a virginal super thin sex goddess who'll fix them food, make them money and serve their nasty always on their gaming system of choice asses. Or the "nobody is good enough for me i'm such a wounded man boo hoo" types. It's better than my state in public however.
Yep agreed. It is a two road tbh
@10dsw Exactly! At this point I give up and let Morons be morons...
I bash women a lot but in all honesty, guys can be bad too. It amazes me I run into fat slobby unhealthy and unmotivated pieces of crap who complain that no women like them.
"Well yea... because women like men who chase after their dreams, men who are stoic, men who are devoted. A man sitting around at 200+ lbs, eating garbage and smoking weed isn't exactly sexy..."
My sister got a message from a guy whose account name was Weed420Kush. It's like... there's nothing wrong with smoking weed but do you think that username is going to get you a gf?
@10dsw Yeah. I get a lot of women have unrealistic expectations too though. I'm not fit but these guys beat me in unhealthy habits lol. At least I try to do something about mine...
@ShadowUnicorneTears No doubt, I'm sure some men on those dating sites are trash, but the bottomline is that these sites are ultimately a realm for narcissistic, self-important women. And whenever you see any commercials for these sites, the majority of them are from a woman's perspective and experience. The brutal truth is that a lot of these women really are pig-headed but want to make it like all the guys are.
Actually yea, I do agree with that. One great example is that episode of Shark Tank where the creators of CMB pointed out that most if not all men using these apps are creepy weirdos. It's amazing to me that the founders were so quick to pin all men as evil but not once acknowledge the fact that in many cases, women on the app are just as bad, just in a different way: i. e. narcissistic, manipulative, etc.
@10dsw Precisely.
" At this point I give up and let Morons be morons... " ... True , maybe set up your own site... Plenty of Morons !!
I'd much rather meet a girl that's into metal and horror with tattoos then the typical girl who is into "eating", "reading", "hanging out", "travel" "country music (most likely the shitty kind)", "sports", the outdoors.
Or the cringeworthy person who had a blank profile.
There are issues with online dating, but it's always refreshing to meet a cute girl who has similar tastes or is into obscure interests like me as opposed to 50+ versions of the same girl
I don't see how online dating can possibly work for you unless you at least pay the fee. Personally, I wouldn't waste my time contacting a women who wasn't paid up in full. You've gotta have skin in the game or else you're not serious...
Do you really care about a video that writes receive as recieve incorrectly?
Haha agreed
Dating sites are a load of crap. It's crap for the man because everything's stacked against you and crap for the girls because of all the guy's who just cut-and-paste the same message, or send dick picks. Not worth paying for.
career women aren't that bad, in my opinion
And there's more than being sexy in life
Oh I agree, career women can be very sexy, but we're talking about the narcissistic ones on those sites.
Then you should have written 'narcissistic women' instead of career women.
Ay ay ay.
Online dating is rough, like sifting ore. Not bad to do while in the restroom but real life is better.
Totally get you, been experiencing the same things, I'm still on OkCupid and eharmony for months and have yet to meet anyone, I get messages on rare occasions after sending hundreds to them. it's frustrating but I have no luck meeting them in person.
Dude that's one of the best thing I've read in a while. I live in a big city and that's like most of the female population there. When I was living in the countryside woman were different and used to love getting to know people.
When did OKCupid start charging for the men to reply? I thought that site was free to use most of the features?
No, that one is. I was talking about other ones.
Nice post for being honest, but why u have so much anger in you?
LMFAO! No anger, honey. Just clarity.
Yes but I get bald, fat poor losers hitting me on a daily basis, MEN do the same thing. They want someone far more attractive then they are. Often have loads of baggage, kids child support, a crappy job and a dirty house but they want the supermodel! Delusional morons!!
And as for you not spending a lousy $30 to get the messages, omg, lmfao, if you won't spend $30 to get your messages for no guarantee of real life p***y, good luck keeping your $30 but jerking off the rest of your life :)
@BrunetteNYC Oh I'm sure there are some men like that, but women on these sites who are as I described are much more common and notorious.
And I could spend the $30 and still get no pussy. Or I could, and really get the pussy, and be absolutely sorry I did.
Ok so... you don't want to fork over $30, and you hate women on dating sites even though you've never met one.
Right. I'll swipe left on this one.
Lol at the chicks getting so mad about this Take.
No one's mad. You're just a loser that no one wants.
@raspberry0416 LMFAO! It's the women no one wants, honey. I actually had quite a few be interested in me, I just wasn't interested in them.
And plenty of women who would never be interested in you are also on those sites.
@raspberry0416 And whether or not they do makes no difference to me and still doesn't change the facts of what was said in this Take, so get out of your feelings. Unless you ARE one of those women and are butthurt.
Charge of Irascibility (Code Red)
Discussion: The target is accused of having anger management issues. Whatever negative emotions he has are assumed to be unjustifiable.
Charge of Rationalization (Code Purple) – The Sour Grapes Charge
Discussion: The target is accused of explaining away his own failures and/or dissatisfaction by blaming women for his problems.
Charge of Fanaticism (Code Brown) – The Brown Shirts Charge
Discussion: The target is accused of subscribing to an intolerant, extremist ideology or of being devoted to an ignorant viewpoint.
Charge of Invirility (Code Lavender)
Discussion: The target’s sexual orientation or masculinity is called into question.
Charge of Overgeneralization (Code Gray)
Discussion: The target is accused of making generalizations or supporting unwarranted stereotypes about women.
Charge of Misogyny (Code Black)
Discussion: The target is accused of displaying some form of unwarranted malice to a particular woman or to women in general
Don't accuse women of being angry when we don't agree with you. We just don't agree with you.
@raspberry0416 You didn't just disagree with me, you pissed your panties about it with your very initial statement, and when a female responds in ways like that it's because you take it personally, and because you might be exactly one of the chicks I was talking about in the Take.
Most women do just fine on dating sites. It's the men that suffer. So stay off them, no one cares.
LMFAO! If women were doing so well on these sites they wouldn't be on them for months and months still waiting for the "right" guys to message them. What a joke.
Women like you are the reason online dating sucks. You attack men.
Thanks for this take. It's really great and interesting
If online dating does not work for you, then you should date in person. If that is not possible, then you may ask your Mom and Dad for a date arrangement.
I read the title and nothing else. You found out for yourself that online dating is a circus, well done. Step over the threshhold and into the real world :)
You people take this shit way too seriously. The whole point of it is to have fun and boost your ego, and if you don't know how to keep a conversation playful... well you're bound to fail at it.
you're not being neutral man. Seems like you're right and every girl on the net is wrong.
No, not all of them, just many of them.