3 Signs You Might Be Dating A Cheater (Page 2)

[Justinaveragedude]

Having been cheated on, I will say even in hind sight, I did not see any signs. She was really good at hiding things.

[fabulouspancakes]

The moral compass one is hit or miss, since people's morals can be all over the place. But the rest is pretty solid, and usually obvious. People just don't want to admit it to themselves usually.

[Kitty_Cat16]

I have been cheated on 5 times. So I know when I am dating a cheater.

[Anonymous]

as long as you are good looking person and has nice body, you will be safe from being cheated on

[Idonthaveausername]

Lol not true at all. My ex said I was the best looking girl he'd ever been with and that I was his dream girl, physically and personality wise yet he still cheated on me. Because cheaters are going to cheat on everyone they're with no matter how perfect the person or the relationship

[fabulouspancakes]

Not true. Just look at the celebs who have been cheated on.

[coachTanthony]

Not even close... a person's personality can turn someone off and lead them to cheating... looks don't matter. Huge myth... stay away from myths.

[Opinion Owner]

@Idonthaveausername well, its because what he said was a lie, just like the whole relationship a lie.

[Idonthaveausername]

Lol. The relationship itself wasn't a lie, just his faithfulness. He wasn't willing to wait for me to be ready for sex, so he tried to find it elsewhere. He loved me, he just had a weak character and wasn't good enough for me--a simple incompatibility issue. If the relationship itself was a lie, he wouldn't have gotten so upset when I dumped him and he wouldn't have tried to get me back or start self-destructing when I declined

Cheating is a character flaw in the cheater. Most cheaters want relationships, that's why they try to cover up their cheating. Nobody lies themselves into a relationship they don't want to be in--they lie to keep themselves in a relationship because they don't want to be alone

[Opinion Owner]

@Idonthaveausername if you love him so much, why you are not giving him what he wants? relationship is a give and take thing. if you expect the guy to put out but you are not giving him what he wants, you dont love him. so at the end, you can't blame him, you are responsible for his action more or less.

[Idonthaveausername]

Lol because I'm not a slut. Sleeping around isn't showing people you love them, it only shows you don't love yourself. I'm not going to just open my legs for anybody, and especially not after only being with them a short time. Lol that you're saying I'm responsible. All cheaters are responsible for cheating. He told me he was willing to wait, so I have absolutely no responsibility in him cheating on me. I told him in the beginning he could go after hoes or have me. He decided to try and get both, but life doesn't work out like that, so he ended up losing me, the best girl he ever had and his dream girl

Relationships aren't about giving someone what they want, they're about giving someone what you have to give. Sex isn't something that I have to give until he gives me a ring first. If a guy really loves a girl, why doesn't he marry her?

[Opinion Owner]

@Idonthaveausername... nobody talks about sleeping around, we are talking about sleeping with this particular man you were with. if you see yourself sleeping with this person is considered "sleeping around" then he is just a passerby to you. So why wasting his time if that is what he is to you? So don't you think you are a little too full of yourself? You called yourself him "dream girl"? You judge people and at the same time, people judge you, so please don't think other men's lives will be ruined without you in them, ok? ^_^

[Idonthaveausername]

Considering the length of time we were together, it would be sleeping around if I had slept with him. Virgins are 35% more likely together 5 years into marriage than non-virgins, and that gap increases with every sexual partner you have. He was not a passerby to me--he was the only man I've ever been with and the only person I've been able to love

I didn't waste his time--he wasted my time by being my boyfriend when he knew he'd cheat on me and it wouldn't last because of him. He told me I was his dream girl and the best he ever had

And I don't have to think his life is ruined without me. I ran into him this weekend, he tried to get me back and looks like shit, lost weight and he was a skinny guy before (I think he's back on drugs), to the point where I almost didn't recognize him. 3 people asked me if we were still together because he hasn't told anybody I broke up with him yet. He also told me he had a new girlfriend, but she isn't real either. I know his life is ruined without me

[jennyPuss]

fairly accurate if generalized. i learned nothing new here.

[momo770]

Yeah that and the endless dodging. I've learned my lesson and ty.

[Abe90]

"Might be a cheater"? so I guess your reason is full proof then.

[NatalieIsHere]

I'm glad I don't see any of these signs...

[serious]

Excellent my take.

[coachTanthony]

Thanks!

[goaded]

Not sure if spam. Not a bad take, though.

[Anonymous]

You make some pretty good points.

[chrismarie5589]

Number two is the biggest sign

[IHaveLists]

They're very easy to spot

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Good take here

[coachTanthony]

Thanks dude!

[KaylaJoy]

Wow, thank you for future reference

[Chanel1981]

Well said

[Tanairy328]

I like this👍

[BertMacklinFBI]

done

[birds]

great article

[Mahaim123]

interesting