To Men: Please Don't do These Things if You Want to Attract a Woman (Page 3)

[Thatoneguy5526]

What if I sent two texts to someone, but the second text was just me correcting a mistake from the first text?

[myTake Owner]

That's totally fine :)

[Skadouchebag]

about #1: you really can't blame men for this when other women deliberately play hard to catch. ask the site if you don't believe me.

[myTake Owner]

You're right, SOME women do play games, just like some men play games. It's best to avoid such people. If a woman plays games like that, she is not worthwhile and not a catch. Avoid them like the plague! :P

[Skadouchebag]

I'd actually have to agree.

[CubsterShura]

I LOVE THIS TAKE THANK YOU

[myTake Owner]

Wow girl thank you so much <3 Really means a lot to me. Thank you!

[CubsterShura]

You're welcome :) <3

[RedThread]

This guy sounds like he was really insecure and clingy. I can't really deal with that type of behavior either.

We all need space to breathe!

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for reading :)

[RedThread]

You're welcome ☺️

[Deep-Sea]

Don't think guys are the only offenders that do these things. Plenty of females have done similar things to people I know.

You should have made this guide unisex.

[myTake Owner]

I addressed this very point in the MyTake :) I based everything off MY experience with A guy. I even said it can be used vica versa :)

[ArabianPwincess197]

Interesting Take, you make good points

[myTake Owner]

Thank you so much <3 Thanks for reading!

[ArabianPwincess197]

No problem :)

[levantine99]

just say "dotn date me" and you are clear. everyone is saved from drama and headache.

[HikerDude]

This doesn't make you sound like much of a catch. Too many "rules" to be happy.

[myTake Owner]

It's called common sense hehe.

[HikerDude]

Yeah, some of it is, but that begs the question why you feel the need to write it down and post it like a 1st grade teacher tacking a list of rules to the bulletin board. You clearly don't think very highly of men on the whole. That's just as bad as guys who claim that all women are whores and gold diggers.

[myTake Owner]

I enjoy writing and just wrote a MyTake for leisure and it got really good feedback :) There was no other ulterior super secretive motive other than having fun :) No need to take life so seriously!

[HikerDude]

I get that. I just get tired of the finger always being pointed at guys, like it's our job to make relationships work. Too many girls see themselves as judges in some competition who think their only job is to sit back and judge guys. I accepted that as fact when I had low self-esteem and questioned my own worth, but now I won't even humor girls who think that way.

[Anonymous]

2 and 5 just aren't even a thing to me... Social media can destroy relationships if you yourself can't deal...

[myTake Owner]

Thanks for the comment and read :)

[knight_55]

Great myTake but I feel these things are something which the guys already know, only really foolish/immature ones don't know.

[myTake Owner]

I thought so too but apparently not :) Thanks for the comment and read :)

[knight_55]

🙂👍

[backtoblackkkk]

Awesome take. Some guys don't realize "no" means "no" and clinginess is a major turn-off.

[Anonymous]

YES! Thank you for sharing this, all men should follow this advice.

[myTake Owner]

My pleasure! Thanks for reading and commenting :) <3

[HeatNation1]

and here we have another group of sheepish men who will be a slave to what women say. women own men and its so disgusting.

[Blake0048]

Yes it is

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

To be fair apply all that she said with you in the equation with a chick that nags and stocks the living delights out of you. How would you react?

[emerald77]

The first one is the most important one in my opinion.

[Gsxrj]

Wow i need to avoid you and people like you. I've dated girls who were more open and way less uptight as you. Just go with the flow. Let the guy like you.

[myTake Owner]

You may think I am uptight it's OK. If not wanting a clingy partner makes you uptight then I guess majority of human beings are uptight and you are just the special snowflake :)

[name_is_christian]

These are a known fact. But I don't get #4, it seems to combine with 3 and a bit of 5 to me.

[RealDarkeyes]

I mean ill always hold the door for a girl but im not sending $40+ flowers just because i ate with you twice
by the way thanks for the advise

[heeeygurlheeey]

I hate it when guys are arrogant, and seem more into themselves than the person they're with.

[myTake Owner]

Yup instant turn off! Thanks for the comment :)

[Tasos96]

Never done any of these things.
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Yet still have never had a girlfriend 😂

[Robertinho]

Same here bro, if it makes you feel better at least your 20... i freaken 32!!! If there is one thing i've learned... is that things are not what they seem to be.

[myTake Owner]

Awh man I'm sorry! But you know, you're 20! I know many people including myself who didn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend that age either. Just keep things chill and enjoy your own company for a while. Much less drama :P

[myTake Owner]

@Robertinho I know some really amazing catches who are int their 30's. Pity I cannot introduce them to you as I am from South Africa :(

[Robertinho]

Thanks for the sympathy but i kind of gave up already. I was just trying to cheer the young guy up... like i said things are not what they seem to be... oh well. :-(

[Tasos96]

I'm 20 and I know I shouldn't compare with others but everyone else is having relationships at fucking 16 years old. Makes me feel worthless and that something is wrong with me. And despite me knowing that their are other people in my situation, it's hard because everyone else expect you are experienced or some kind of shit and then you might disappoint some girl in the future. Especially it's harder for me as a guy because of the social stigma and double standards and all the pressure on the man to do everything right just for a woman's attention

[Tasos96]

Plus as an introvert I've enjoyed my own company for about 20 years I don't think any more time is necessary 😂

[AlwaysBelieving]

Good thing I do't do any of these

[myTake Owner]

Yes! Hehe thanks for the comment :)

[AlwaysBelieving]

My pleasure. Hopefully your current interest (if you have one) doesn't do any of these either

[myTake Owner]

No interest at the moment nor see any prospects of it any time soon :(

[AlwaysBelieving]

sorry to hear that. Hopefully you do know what would attract you though