3 Things a Woman Should Never Do If She Wants A Man

[NoNutsSingingVoice1]

Guys making mistakes with women is completely natural and common as hell, but the other way round? It's actually more common than you think. But we make our mistakes from penile-induced stupidity, and they make theirs from instinctive survival instincts and, let's face it, lack of logic. But if you never do these three things, ladies, you've got a pretty good chance not to die alone.

#1) Rejecting date offers from guys who are obviously nice, smart and handsome, and Friendzone them.

Seriously? Girls you'll go for the fat ugly thug any day of the week, but never the nice tall smart guy, and then end up on welfare, in the ghetto with four children, and in a really shitty Ike and Tina sort of relationship. Plus how do you think the nice guy you rejected feels? Do you not have a soul you stupid cow?! When you tell a man, let's just be friends, we always interpret that as, "You're not good enough to even have a one-night stand with, so I'm just gonna torture you emotionally."

#2) Giving him your body too early (with the exception that he really needs it.)

By letting him put his tongue or willy inside you, or feeling you up too early, unless he would be very grateful and in your debt for the privilege, you are effectively telling him, "I'm too shitty of a woman to impress you with my looks and personality, so I'm just gonna do this all the time. *strips down, sits on his face and puts his hands on her boobies*." Then he'll take take advantage of you and probably start searching for a better woman.

#3) Making him spend heaps of money on you, and drive you around, and then give him nothing in return.

Do this, and you're raising red flags that you're a gold-digger. The men that need gold-diggers in their lives are men who are shitty and ugly as human beings, that they need money for women to desire them(which for a man, is a consolation prize for being unattractive and psychotic. Always offer to pay on dates, and then he'll insist to pay because he'll know you're genuine. If you can, drive HIM around instead.

I hope this will help you girls. And I am a man, so who better to give you advice on dating them?

[PrincessTashaaaa]

I did all these things.
I passed up 'nice guys' because 'nice guys' are mostly self entitled asshats that think that being nice to a girl means she has to like them, and then cry friend zone when she doesn't. Don't get me wrong, I know genuine nice guys. But they have never tried to put moves on me because they genuinely don't think being nice to me means I'll have sex with them.
Be realistic. Girls go for bad boys like men go for the girl with the biggest boobs.
I met a guy one night. He was pretty straight out and didn't beat around the bush. He said he wanted to take me out and because he was so direct, I agreed.
I had sex with him on the first date.
Three years later, we are married and deeply in love. He's loyal, caring and amazing.
Even before marriage, he always paid for everything. He spent a lot of money on me, even after he got what he wanted and knew he didn't have to impress me. I had always tried to decline and tried to at least return some of the cash or split the bill. But he would get offended and refuse to let me pay.
I did everything you said not to do, and I'm happily married :)
Great take. I do agree with the last two points however. Girls should never expect a guy to buy her things just like a guy should never expect a girl to go out with them.
But I'm just saying that there is always exceptions to the rules ;)

[timmy111]

@PrincessTashaaaa " Men go for the girl with the biggest boobs " genius
Exactly true, this whole Nice Guy/Bad Boy thing isn't a one way street, men definitely do it too

[PrincessTashaaaa]

@timmy111
Not sure if you're using sarcasm or agreeing with me hahahaha

[timmy111]

I agree with you !

[2tall2handle]

Nice guys do always end up last. Women always go for the bad boy jerk who treats them like shit then wants to complain to us. Hell no. You wanted him, he made you feel the way you do, now deal with it. No more crying on our "befriended" shoulders. We have feelings also that you seem to have no account for, so why should we have any for yours?

[btbc92]

No offense here, but I have to disagree with you on some things mentioned:

As for #1: This is not true for every man. It simply depends on your mindset. When I reject somebody, I have very good reasons why. And it's usually because there is something about them that I do not like. And looks have nothing to do with it. I study your every move and the things you say to me. If I don't trust you, forget it. Just because someone acts nice, it doesn't always mean he is nice. An act is an act. It's called acting for a reason. And trust me, I know when it's an act or when a male mocks me or other women. People end up on welfare because they choose to 9/10x. They get kids out of wedlock because they made that choice to have sex, and have kids with them instead of waiting. It is peoples choices. This is not how a woman will get a man. This is how she gets a man and never get married to him or keep him. In the end she loss. Looks are very deceiving. Always do background checks with who your looking to date.

#2: Having sex early, yes I agree with that. But does he need it? NO. He is not going to die without sex. It is not a need, it is a want. He may FEEL he need's it, but all he's going to FEEL is heartache when he realizes he's with the wrong kind of woman. And the girl takes the brunt of his and her actions. Then they want to know how could they have slept or dated a cheater, rapist, a criminal, liar, or whatever he is. The problem is that this isn't necessary a woman problem even though they do it. Its the man demanding that or thinking that it's OK to just touch a woman in general even when she doesn't mind. The hands just needs to stay to themselves. Your just going to provoke wanting to get into bed with them anyway. So both parties know what their doing. It's both at fault if they don't keep them.

#3: I agree mostly with this. However a guy will still shower a girl with gifts and then label her whatever he wants to, even when she hasn't even done anything. So what to do if she offers to do the same, but he rejects? You have to look on both angles and sides of the coin. Not everybody thinks like this, and I most certainly do not. A woman can do all the things you've point out and still get rejected. But just because your a man, it doesn't mean you are best suited to give advice on dating them, because you are not over 5.0 Billion men that has ever lived and is still living. The same applies to me as well. Other then that, this was a very interesting MyTake.

[Anonymous]

As a woman, if I reject a guy it's simply because I'm not interested. Their interests don't match mine. Or I'm simply not attracted to that guy. That doesn't make me a shitty person. If a woman is only looking for a one night stand with a dude-then A) she's not really girlfriend material and B) probably is just looking for a fun time-not being serious. I don't have to sleep with a guy because I feel sorry for them, that's worse! Just accept the rejection like a big boy and move on. And with the whole women who sleep with guys too early... isn't that a double standard? Can we say the same thing about men? That if they sleep with women too early, they're just whores and sluts too right?
And if a girl is spending all your money carelessly, and there is no love, it's called an escort dear. I think both parties should offer to pay and both parties should drive each other around, unless one insists on doing it more often.

[alor1an]

why are you generalizing all women? thugs annoy me to the point of madness. I would rather have someone like Sheldon Cooper, even with his selfishness and ego. And money? I have a job. I'm good. Please stop trying to put me in your b*tch box. It's annoying.

[Heera]

I agree except for #1 if a girls likes you and wants won't friendzone you, please understand that.
Liking a person doesn't mean you're attracted to them as well and if you really get along with them you'll keep in touch even if you don't want something more. Why is that so hard to understand? If she friendzoned you, she's not attracted to you end of the story

[WillowTree]

I agree with most of it except for a few glaring points:

#1 - We don't have to date anyone that we're not attracted to no matter how nice or gentlemanly they seem. There's likely more than what's on the surface (aka looks) that's deterring us from wanting a romantic relationship and no it's not money.

#3 Some men spend heaps of money to get women to like them. Is that actually the woman's fault or the idiot spending the money?

[QuestionzGirl]

Disagree with #1.
The girl doesn't analyse a guy like some scientist. They just date a guy that they are interested in.
I feel that the 'nice guy always ends last' is some sort of defence mechanism for guys. If the girl really likes you and you respect them back, it should be good.

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

FOr number 1 I totally agree, girls have a strange fascination for men that treat them like shit, look at Drew Peterson, drew in 4 women with charm, fucking killed them.

[NoNutsSingingVoice1]

And what do you think of the other two?

[waviddalck]

As a guy most of these opinions said seem kinda one sided and wrong. And lets not be calling ladies "cows", I'm pretty sure you're not going to get anywhere with the attitude you are putting out

[BiscuitesSwag]

"Do you not have a soul you stupid cow?"
Self proclaimed nice guy one-liner, cute.

[FanGirl67]

Definitely don't give your body up too early. And especially don't spend a lot of his money. Don't even spend lots of his money and then reward him with sex!

[slimstiffy]

tought this was gonna be a good take. disappointed.