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You'll never know the real reason. It could be anything
60% of females have ended a relationship because of penis size. 40% of males never marry or have children. This coincides with penis percentage size charts 50% of white male penises are 5.1" and smaller.
Oh my gosh almost every guy I have rejected has said some variation of this!
“You just don’t like me because I’m too ugly for you, right?”
Low key calling you shallow and trying to make you feel guilty.
I honestly don't think they are calling you shallow. I did ask this to the first girl who ever rejected me (I was young and didn't know better and it stung more because it was the first time). I asked her tho because I was left just wondering why did she reject. She didn't give me a reason why. I just wanted something to give me closure on why. Having a reason gives you something you can maybe work on. And looks is a valid reason to turn someone down, if you aren't into them and all. Plus you also kind of believe it yourself as a guy. I mean your self esteem just took a big blow so you honestly do feel like you're to ugly for her.
Never use deodorant or brush my teeth. This is gonna be easy.
I like the take and agree with it all. I just feel like I'd be given complete h*ll if I were to use any of those 20 reasons as justification for turning down a girl.
They are legitamate reasons because you dont have to like someone for whatever reason you choose. Even if the reason is as shallow as thinking dhe doesn't dress nice enough, so long as your not rude to her then she should accept your opinion. I have been rejected before and I took what the guy said into consideration rather than getting mad because everybody has a choice regarding every aspect of their life. So long as the choice doesn't mentally or physically harm someone else then you have every right to reject a woman you dont like and vice versa. And their ego being crushed is not your problem its usually rhe cause of that persons lack of humility, which has little to do with you. Just saying
@Kibler Right. I totally agree with you on that. I'm just saying it sucks and it's hard not to feel for their feelings/ego/self-worth being crushed. If I get rejected, it's no big deal. Just accept it and move on. I haven't ever rejected someone but I'm pretty sure it sucks.
Either he lives with his mom, low testosterone, small peeter, aggressive, possessive boyfriend stereotype, girly, or just has no money.
How do you know a man has low testosterone? No facial hair? Girly voice?
@MrMysteryMan Low muscle mass.. Interest in yoga, better fathering to children, low sperm count.. and yes, girly voice.
LOL. I agree with most of these points. But, you don't want a good father to your children? Also, a shitty father is a prime example to having high testosterone? I see... So fathers who could care less for their child is what you're looking for eventually?
I was rejected all the time when I was in my teens but never insulted a woman. I just said to myself, hell with this and just gave up asking women. I think there is a lot more in life than insulting women.
i channeled all my negative energy to going to the gym, doing well in school, now i feel good.
Good mytake. Most of these are obvious though. I dont know why some dont get it. and umm i never knew the "Oh you must be a lesbian thing" was actually a thing.. like i never knew guys actually said that lol...
I knew a guy who said it while picking up a chick who was resistant to his charms.
@DonkeyRick69 Sounds like he was a major dick head
He puts an act in. Girls eat it up
Exactly!
You forget one important point though...
They're the same exact reason (s) why a man rejects a woman lol.
#1 Reason. Not enough $$$$
Above the lists of 10, I would never think that of a girl, I don't know I think some guys believe that they cannot be disliked lol, that's preposterous.
All these excuses are ok but if I tell a guy I wouldn't go out with him because he's bisexual... people lose their minds.
Good take if your a nerd.
Who gives a rats ass why she rejects you.
if a woman don't want you, that's good for YOU!!
Okay, us men won't talk to women at all period. If they show interest first, we'll just reject them. Sorry, I'm just partially venting.
Lol I did it just now over Tinder
@10dsw LOL well I can understand there are various reasons why she wouldn't be into you. Okay, so let's just say she's into the same things you are into, she likes what you like, she likes everything about you & you are totally her type,... my first thought would be,.."Okay, she's into me & I'm her type & she desires a relationship with me... Okay are you sure she is into me & she wants to date me? What if we date for a few months & BAM something stupid happens? For all I know, it could be the same sad results like a break up from her just like the rest."
Yea exactly. And of course this is why the smart man goes for the hook up first and then considers the idea of a relationship. No need to get into some sort of emotional clusterfuck as you have described
@10dsw LOL yep, which is why hookups & porn are often promoted.
always loved the "Big Lie". If you are ugly or fat, women reject you automatically. They never own up to it, because, apparently, only MEN are shallow.
I agree with the comments about "dodging a bullet." Being rejected can actually be a gift. The initial attraction to a female can literally be the gateway to Hell on Earth!
if you find out he where white socks with sandals and supports nickelback
I agree with what you are saying though I have never heard of a therapist or AA sponsor advising somebody to remain single. I would think they would only do that if she was abused/cheated on.
If you were an alcoholic and were to date, they might get you out of your sobriety.
People who have had addiction problems are always advised to not date for a year after they get clean/sober.
Honestly, the self-entitlement. If I approach a girl I'm usually just scouting to see if I even want to take her number or do I leave you to someone desperate enough to bang crazy.
Rejection can actually be a GOOD thing , you have also dodged a bullet... or a magazine full in some cases !!
However when I used to work as a bouncer , many groups of young women did dish out the " scornful, insulting, making fun of you and that sort of thing " type rejections as a form of sick " sport " , they were even having competitions to be the nastiest , most humiliating reject-er & laughing themselves into a hernia afterwards. I took pleasure in ejecting some of these groups , as they would have sparked trouble , they were abusive to me... but I just laughed at them.. saying " Go home girls... mummy's still waiting up for you !! "