That's all to do with cultural traditions and education but the tendency now tend to be splinting between both in some countries like Spain for example.
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''It is just a chivalrous tradition which makes you a gentleman and hence attractive.''
Agree. The women are all about 'equality' and think if you pay then they owe you sex. Ridiculous.
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So far every guy has paid for the 1st date I've been on and I wasn't expecting it. I thought guys were all about splitting the bill or no paying since he may not get sex out of it... glad to see that's not the case
No one down voted though! ๐ I like it because it is an opinion and it is quite flexible unlike some other opinions who say "he has to do everything for her" or "she has to do everything for him", like this it is more relax โ
the first date should always split the bill. the second date and beyond the man pays unless she states that its her treat
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Number 1 & 6 are the biggest factors in this gesture, it definitely sets a certain impression.
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I agree that if he's interested it sets a much better impression if he pays on the first date and I'm more likely to go for a second with him since it demonstrates an attractive character trait in him. However, if I'm not interested in him then I'll insist that we split the bill as I wouldn't want to feel like I may be taking advantage of him.
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That's all to do with cultural traditions and education but the tendency now tend to be splinting between both in some countries like Spain for example.
''It is just a chivalrous tradition which makes you a gentleman and hence attractive.''
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No one ever spends time with men just for money/gifts. ๐
Sounds like prostitution to me, whores are cheaper too. Just go 50/50
This is a very confusing topic and no one can agree on the same thing lol. But nice take!
Agree. The women are all about 'equality' and think if you pay then they owe you sex. Ridiculous.
So far every guy has paid for the 1st date I've been on and I wasn't expecting it. I thought guys were all about splitting the bill or no paying since he may not get sex out of it... glad to see that's not the case
Guys shouldn't pay for the first date
That's the most deceptive answer I've ever read
Why?
I believe in what i said
I'm sure you do. Mind elaborating why!
I feel like its unfair to them. Everyone should pay for their own food
I knew the guys would eat you up in the comments because of this. And rightfully so 😂
LOL.
The trials and tribulations just to get vagina. Why even go on a date? Plenty of free vaginas if you are a Chad or Tyrone.
hmm the guy im kinda seeing I have paid for everything lol
Anyone with half a brain can see through this shit. It's ALL about sexism.
Everyone agrees yey!
Only 5 out of 36 lmao
No one down voted though! ๐
I like it because it is an opinion and it is quite flexible unlike some other opinions who say "he has to do everything for her" or "she has to do everything for him", like this it is more relax โ
Look! Someone disagrees that everyone agrees aww... I should have wrote everything first! ๐
* have written
Maybe people can't downvote opinions...
@Tasos96 yeah ๐
Great take
I think both can pay with understanding
Depends on the girl. If she's some tinder hoe, then I'm not going to pay for her meal.
l always want to pay girls are like gold dust you always want more
the first date should always split the bill. the second date and beyond the man pays unless she states that its her treat
Number 1 & 6 are the biggest factors in this gesture, it definitely sets a certain impression.
I agree that if he's interested it sets a much better impression if he pays on the first date and I'm more likely to go for a second with him since it demonstrates an attractive character trait in him.
However, if I'm not interested in him then I'll insist that we split the bill as I wouldn't want to feel like I may be taking advantage of him.
I think it would be sweet for a guy to pay, but I wouldnโt force him to...
The man is supposed to pay, but itโs 2018, dudes are pretending to be girls now... so I guess things are changing for the better or worse
Did you know that you canโt downvote things?
Of course I Know that