Explain this to me: So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this: "sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't" and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this: "I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you" Is he lying wtf is going on?
Explain this to me: So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this: "sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't" and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this: "I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you" Is he lying wtf is going on?
I stopped reading at you brushing up on flirting skills - and then getting all angry at a guy you wanted to brush up on.
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Yeah, I know its stupid. I never said I did something smart, but I started developing feelings for him and things started to change and no longer looked at it that way. I wasn't angry that he was doing that more than I was heartbroken for thiinking that maybe he actually liked me you know?
But he very likely did actually like you - if it was all remote, him chatting hot with someone else doesn't mean he didn't like you, it means you were too far and not turning him on/keeping him occupied enough. Women of today regularly imagine guys should serve themselves on a plate, when the reality is the other way around - men are the more aggressive (testosterone, basically) and girls with all that estrogen are perfectly well equipped to keep them happy by giving.
Well I did flirt with him and everything, he told me how much he was attracted to me and all these nice things I don't know if they were really genuine, but honestly the only thing I didn't do was send nudes. Plus he said my messages were too long and he didn't like essay swaps. If me typing him something and telling him about myself, and learning about him, and just not sending nudes is the deal breaker, then I;m glad it's done. I have my own standards and I don't want to have to send him nudes to keep his attention. I want him to actually just focus on liking me and not just my body you know? If all he cares about is my body, it doesn't make me differnt from the other girls he gets nudes from. And he said he basically stopped talking to me for a few days because he he liked me, but was losing interest and wanted to basically talk to me later so he can still be interested in me. But he hasn't talked to me in a solid week and a half where as we used to talk almost everyday
So why do you think he's a fuck boy then - you didn't want to hear his life stories as you mentioned, he didn't want your essays. Sound to me like you're a f'ck girl just as much - and that is what you went in with from the start - to 'flirt'. Flirting's 'your hair looks nice' type stuff by the way, you've already gone sexual in that interaction, but emotionally neither sounds like you knew what you wanted or needed (which is also very common/nothing wrong with that - but you've venting anger here at yourself primarily, yet calling someone else names).
I know why he plays the sport he plays right now, I know about his family, the things he plans to eat everyday, the trips he goes on, how is training is, his fitness charts and stuff, how he dealt with depression, how his friend struggles with using drugs, the subjects he takes in school, the things he struggles with, the type of music he likes, . I care about his stuff but ask him how much he remembers about me. I try to show him my paintings and it's like he disappears off the face of the earth. In the beginning he didn't mind but he claimed to have "lost interest for a bit" and there was Not any sexual tension as there used to be and he hasn't talked to me in a solid week, so call me what you want but I dont think I'm being a fuckgirl
@GD247 you got it wrong. I'm a girl. I talk to a guy. I never asked for his nudes, he told me he wanted to send them. He even "accidently" sent me one.
I never disliked anything you wrote lol I don't ever really dislike stuff. But obviously I don't believed he accidently send one. Because on the same day in the morning, he was like "Oh yea I wanna show you my dick but I know you're not a fan of nudes" but sends one the following evening. like what in the actual fuck lol
I never asked either but he did it anyways. And I won't lie and say I didn't like it, and the attention he gives me and stuff, but honestly I don't want it, I think it's pointless if he's just some random guy who doesn't actually care about my well being and is just fishing for my nudes
If you decide you want to skim my paragraphs a bit longer, you'll find out why I called him a player/ f boy and maybe you'll get insight to why those girls called you that and whether or not it made sense. Some people misuse the term, but I don;t think I have
You should just focus on your study and your future, the dating part comes later
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This guy sounds like a tool
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but he still talks to me a bout life, and says I'm talented, and he tells me his personal stories. I like to think he's a good person, but a meh kinda guy. I thought he actually liked me, and maybe he does but that doesn't change the fact he's probably a player. But I wish he made it more clear that I was probably going to be a backup
Explain this to me: So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this: "sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't" and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this: "I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you" Is he lying wtf is going on?
Ok run from him as fast as you can!! He is a player and he even stated he lost interest in you for a bit! This guy does not like you Iโm sorry. You deserve much better! He is a user. All players play nice until they get what they want from you. Have some self worth and realize that he is not someone you want to with or be around. A guy who likes you wouldnโt have you second guessing if he actually does or not. Respect yourself enough to tell this loser to hit the road and that you deserve better than him. He will be shocked!
Find someone who likes you for who you are and doesnโt try to change who you are or how you act! If he doesnโt like youโre long messages screw him lol
never said it wasn't my fault, but even if it is my fault it doesn't make him any less of a fuckboy. I didn't do this for someone to pity me, I did this to expose that mf. If he keeps playing his games imma send him my my take lmao
Honestly you'd be much better off just leaving it behind and not giving a fuck. He'll take offense to that rather than feeding him. He doesn't care lol
I guess. well, in my situation I never dated him. But I was vulnerable and so are other girls. no one wants to fall for a player. Not trying to be defensive, but cut us some slack, we don't want to get hurt either lol :)
Shy guys tend to be better for long term relationships, but it;s nice when a guy is more open and confident. I'm shy, and confident guys make me want to open up too! Don't worry the right girl will love you just the way you are :)
@TheUglyMan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mONYcV4JNc please explain this. They are both in their early 20s, bought their own house, and got married. People flirt with this dude's wife and ask how he got her. He said because he was patient, and wouldn't have gotten her if he just went fucking around. He's good looking, but that girl can definitely find more attractive guys to fuck if she wanted to. But guess what she didn't do that. People with like minds attracted each other, not because the guy is a fuckboy.
Lol that hot chick is a Christian musician. Most women don't have the Christian values she does. And that dude Gabriel is rich. Those are the elite and you know it. We all know how young marriages end up most if the time๐
@TheUglyMan okay, please don;t make it seem like all women do is wait to get fucked by rich dudes that are good looking. lol its not an accurate assumption
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Why not just be friends, date, get married, THEN have sex? isn't that so much easier?
That makes sense, but so does not eating Tide Pods.
@BigAl1982 I never had sex with nobody nor sent a nude before. lol that's true. have you seen the thing of people snorting some laundry powder stuff
I never said you did. It wasn't aimed at you.
@BigAl1982 lol the first part of the comment was for the opinion owner. I was just talking about the tide pods thing with you lol
my bad
@BigAl1982 it's all cool bro! :)
Drop him like a hot potato...
funny you say potato, his username has the word potato, and me and my friend call him rooted potato lol
*roasted potato
Lol!!
you mean telekinetic potato?
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Who talks to a girl like that though? And we Is it girls are tempted by these shit guys, then complain about it later. Itโs a dumb cycle.
I've got more texts I can tell you about lol
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
I stopped reading at you brushing up on flirting skills - and then getting all angry at a guy you wanted to brush up on.
Yeah, I know its stupid. I never said I did something smart, but I started developing feelings for him and things started to change and no longer looked at it that way. I wasn't angry that he was doing that more than I was heartbroken for thiinking that maybe he actually liked me you know?
But he very likely did actually like you - if it was all remote, him chatting hot with someone else doesn't mean he didn't like you, it means you were too far and not turning him on/keeping him occupied enough.
Women of today regularly imagine guys should serve themselves on a plate, when the reality is the other way around - men are the more aggressive (testosterone, basically) and girls with all that estrogen are perfectly well equipped to keep them happy by giving.
Well I did flirt with him and everything, he told me how much he was attracted to me and all these nice things I don't know if they were really genuine, but honestly the only thing I didn't do was send nudes. Plus he said my messages were too long and he didn't like essay swaps. If me typing him something and telling him about myself, and learning about him, and just not sending nudes is the deal breaker, then I;m glad it's done. I have my own standards and I don't want to have to send him nudes to keep his attention. I want him to actually just focus on liking me and not just my body you know? If all he cares about is my body, it doesn't make me differnt from the other girls he gets nudes from. And he said he basically stopped talking to me for a few days because he he liked me, but was losing interest and wanted to basically talk to me later so he can still be interested in me. But he hasn't talked to me in a solid week and a half where as we used to talk almost everyday
I know he still talks to other girls and flirts with them and probably 100% getting sexual with them as well
So why do you think he's a fuck boy then - you didn't want to hear his life stories as you mentioned, he didn't want your essays. Sound to me like you're a f'ck girl just as much - and that is what you went in with from the start - to 'flirt'.
Flirting's 'your hair looks nice' type stuff by the way, you've already gone sexual in that interaction, but emotionally neither sounds like you knew what you wanted or needed (which is also very common/nothing wrong with that - but you've venting anger here at yourself primarily, yet calling someone else names).
I know why he plays the sport he plays right now, I know about his family, the things he plans to eat everyday, the trips he goes on, how is training is, his fitness charts and stuff, how he dealt with depression, how his friend struggles with using drugs, the subjects he takes in school, the things he struggles with, the type of music he likes, . I care about his stuff but ask him how much he remembers about me. I try to show him my paintings and it's like he disappears off the face of the earth. In the beginning he didn't mind but he claimed to have "lost interest for a bit" and there was Not any sexual tension as there used to be and he hasn't talked to me in a solid week, so call me what you want but I dont think I'm being a fuckgirl
Apparently fuckboy is the new player, I'm not a good choice, never has been
Damn, he sounds like a massive a-hole. I'm really sorry this has happened to you. If I knew the guy, I'd beat him up.
Wow... that's stupid.
Girls love the guys they are either rich or got a big dick and fuck them so hard or else they want the man they fist them. sorry but this is the truth
I just liked our interaction together, I never asked for his nudes, he told me he wanted to send them. He even "accidently" sent me one.
You must be dating shallow girls. You must be looking in the wrong places. Most girls Iโve met are not like that
@GD247 you got it wrong. I'm a girl. I talk to a guy. I never asked for his nudes, he told me he wanted to send them. He even "accidently" sent me one.
no men do anything accidentally Just giving ideas sure you can dislike it I give no shit.
@GD247 Well I know what you mean and yeah there are nice girls exist but not many.
I never disliked anything you wrote lol I don't ever really dislike stuff. But obviously I don't believed he accidently send one. Because on the same day in the morning, he was like "Oh yea I wanna show you my dick but I know you're not a fan of nudes" but sends one the following evening. like what in the actual fuck lol
men like sending their dick pic to girls my girl asked never I told her do you want one she said no not really cause she does not like it that way :)
I never asked either but he did it anyways. And I won't lie and say I didn't like it, and the attention he gives me and stuff, but honestly I don't want it, I think it's pointless if he's just some random guy who doesn't actually care about my well being and is just fishing for my nudes
yeah, men send no matter what, Just my suggestion be wise if he asks for sex and all that, guys can break hearts easily.
You're talking to an under age girl ya know!
@villageidiot 18 is not under age ya know?
You're probably top bumkin in your class
@villageidiot If you call 18 as underage who has no freedom over her life then you better study your whole school again.
I'll just pretend that was coherent
@villageidiot Your name talks a lot about you i dont know why I still reply you, maybe the last one. ;)
LOL did you think of that all by yourself? Give that boy a lolly pop.
@villageidiot Sorry Village Idiot give me a lollipop i would shove it in your A*** youd love it im sure ;)
Aahh! A sodomite!
@villageidiot I am sure a 17 years old would love a lollipop in his A** shove by a 32 years old man with big D*** :D
So you have this thing for minor boys?
I didn't read it was too long but..
>a picture of me with a retarded dog filter
that's disgusting
lol he's the one he thinks it was attractive
could you TLDR? I got called a fuckboy once and it makes no sense
If you decide you want to skim my paragraphs a bit longer, you'll find out why I called him a player/ f boy and maybe you'll get insight to why those girls called you that and whether or not it made sense. Some people misuse the term, but I don;t think I have
Sounds like my ex boyfriend who I sent nudes to. But I've moved on from that and am now with a guy that can gladly kick his ass. :)
There are many men out there for you that will treat you better, just make this experience a life lesson
This is me trying to care about this take
While Iโm getting the future generation slurped and sucked out of my balls
Here for the XP BABY and I want a MHO now (pretty plz).
lmao nah man, I only give MHO to people who share meaningful options lol
Mine was meaningful
A lotta girls hurt guys and use them for sex and lead them on stop being so sexist
Never said girls didn't do this. just saying that I've never encounter anything like this in my life and he treated me like that
Who cares?
okay, well if people don't care I never asked them to read my My Take or leave an opinion. They made the choice to do that. It's not on me
You should just focus on your study and your future, the dating part comes later
This guy sounds like a tool
but he still talks to me a bout life, and says I'm talented, and he tells me his personal stories. I like to think he's a good person, but a meh kinda guy. I thought he actually liked me, and maybe he does but that doesn't change the fact he's probably a player. But I wish he made it more clear that I was probably going to be a backup
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Ok run from him as fast as you can!! He is a player and he even stated he lost interest in you for a bit! This guy does not like you Iโm sorry. You deserve much better! He is a user. All players play nice until they get what they want from you. Have some self worth and realize that he is not someone you want to with or be around. A guy who likes you wouldnโt have you second guessing if he actually does or not. Respect yourself enough to tell this loser to hit the road and that you deserve better than him. He will be shocked!
I should add this, he also said he lost interest for a bit because my texts were too long, and he just wants a chilled conversation with me
Find someone who likes you for who you are and doesnโt try to change who you are or how you act! If he doesnโt like youโre long messages screw him lol
That's your own fault you got played lmfao.
never said it wasn't my fault, but even if it is my fault it doesn't make him any less of a fuckboy. I didn't do this for someone to pity me, I did this to expose that mf. If he keeps playing his games imma send him my my take lmao
Honestly you'd be much better off just leaving it behind and not giving a fuck. He'll take offense to that rather than feeding him. He doesn't care lol
This is what makes us want to be single.
me 2
Wow this is so damn true
It's true. Women love jerks!
Could clean up the statement a little more :) I think it's more like "Women love the way those "jerks" make them feel until they realize the truth"
But who would want you in the aftermath. Once you see a girl dating a douche, she become soooo much less appealing.
I guess. well, in my situation I never dated him. But I was vulnerable and so are other girls. no one wants to fall for a player. Not trying to be defensive, but cut us some slack, we don't want to get hurt either lol :)
Sorry, did't mean to be offensive. We shy guys are use to getting ignored and have to watch the jerks get the girls. It sucks
Shy guys tend to be better for long term relationships, but it;s nice when a guy is more open and confident. I'm shy, and confident guys make me want to open up too! Don't worry the right girl will love you just the way you are :)
Being shy with girls does not cancel out confidence
You're right, but some shy guys don't approach girls, so they will never find out that guy is confident
True. All we really have is pornhub. com
it's not just shy guys lol you should see those confident guys they're all up in that stuff
Being a fuckboys works. Courting doesn't.
@TheUglyMan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mONYcV4JNc please explain this. They are both in their early 20s, bought their own house, and got married. People flirt with this dude's wife and ask how he got her. He said because he was patient, and wouldn't have gotten her if he just went fucking around. He's good looking, but that girl can definitely find more attractive guys to fuck if she wanted to. But guess what she didn't do that. People with like minds attracted each other, not because the guy is a fuckboy.
Lol that hot chick is a Christian musician. Most women don't have the Christian values she does. And that dude Gabriel is rich. Those are the elite and you know it. We all know how young marriages end up most if the time๐
@TheUglyMan okay, please don;t make it seem like all women do is wait to get fucked by rich dudes that are good looking. lol its not an accurate assumption
No they fuck around with fuck boys as well when they young.๐
@TheUglyMan you're wrong. I've never done that in my whole life I'm 16 and I don't plan on doing the whole sleeping around thing
Come to me when you've become older than 25. Then you'll be telling me a different story.
@TheUglyMan can't promise; I might be happily married by then :)
I do believe he made my point for me!
Na women don't marry young much anymore.
Fuckboys suck! I hate them when they just use you!
Fuckboys suck you and you hate them when they just fuck you
@djmzes pft lmao
It is true and that is the summary of everything
@djmzes IQ much?
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