Why Does Everyone Say That Being Single is a Choice? I Don’t Think it is (Page 4)

[Anonymous]

I don't want to get married, don't want kids, don't want a relationship. I met a lovely girl a few months ago and weighed up all of the pro's and con's... still decided on being single. It's a choice.

[CubsterShura]

Being single is awesome when you make your life awesome. Don't care about what others say!

[Anonymous]

it can be a choice, but yea for some it isn't thats true.

i guess it also means that if you truly wanted to be with someone, you would take the steps to improve yourself to be more desireable?

[Namkrow]

I agree. I know I don't have the social skills necessary to find a girlfriend after all these years since my ex, so there is, in my mind, no point in trying.

[LasPlagas]

I'm looking for a girlfriend for a veeery long time now. So I'm not single cause its my choice but because I have a hard time talking to girls (I'm shy)

[DiegoO]

There are 7.6 billion people on earth (or something like that).

Personally I think been single is a choice. If you aren't able to have a SO by your own there is a problem.

[Anonymous]

I agree, it's not a choice, some people just don't have luck in finding the right person.

[MadManInBlueBox]

I'm not reading all that.

Its not always a choice, but who cares. It's great to be single. Serious relationships are overrated.

[Anonymous]

It's a choice for women who are mild to highly attractive.

Gross women and most dudes have to actually work at finding someone interested.

[Anonymous]

I've never been single by choice, I try all different ways of meeting someone but end up with no dates for years at a time, I have never been asked out by a woman either

[COCOCHANEL]

i agree with you on so many points. paralell lives.

[Anonymous]

You have to kiss a lot of frogs... problem is many singles have high expectations and run away from frogs

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Indeed, it takes two people to agree to the relationship.

[Myplace22]

I don’t know how to respond to this. It simply is a choice.

[Anonymous]

For some there is no option. I'm shy and women hate shy guys so Ill always be single

[myTake Owner]

Women do not hate shy guys. I’ve never heard that one. I don’t.

[nbbn5]

They don't hate but they don't get interested in them much unless they are good looking
@pink annon believe it or not

[Opinion Owner]

Well I didn't just make it up. They treat shy guys like shit!

[nbbn5]

Some doi (I agree , maybe you had some real bad encounter s , some girls are just bitchy ) but not all

[Fathippy]

It is we can all get someone if want maybe not who but we can

[rogermclain]

Had girl want relationship just couldn't be bothered

[Anonymous]

If you want to be single and u r single, it is a choice.

[Anonymous]

Of course it's a choice just as everything else in the world is a choice.

[opurba]

Just not ready for next wrong guy... that's y.