I know people say it is important to be confident and place your best foot forward, however, I feel as if I should not be assertive in who I am. I have experienced things in my life that made me come to the conclusion that I am a wallflower. I do not know what else to do about this.
In in middle school and high school, I was picked on by girls in my grade and did not fit in. While I was heavier, that does not mean I should be an automatic target to be ostracized. My physical appearance somewhat improved in high school when I learned to use a flat iron and had my braces removed.
Guys never noticed me and as a woman in her twenties, I am still unnoticeable. I have lost close to 100 lbs, treat everyone with respect (unless they give me a reason to act differently). My skin has cleared up. And to this day, women are bitchy with me.
What is the issue here? I don’t have any guys interested in me to my knowledge and the only attention I’ve gotten was from an online dating app, where I met a lot of worrisome individuals.
Women I know seem to have a lot of suitors, while I only seem to attract men that I would not even consider a first date with.
Im no supermodel, yet people tell me that I am pretty. Are they lying?
Men, what are you looking for a in partner? Will I have better luck in my thirties? I’m not too far
away from this age range. Do I need to move?
This is why I’ve given up on dating and will stay to myself eternally.