I had a girlfriend who was kinda strong and bodybuilder type and I have been missing her a lot quite lately so I felt like I'll let my emotions rush through.
So I met this girl during my 11th grade. She was from a different stream but we had a few classes that were common to both of us. I was very infatuated towards this girl, she was very pretty, good looking and had toned body as well. She didn’t have a very strong body then as she had joined the gym recently. I tried to befriend her, make some conversations and somehow got close to her and it worked pretty well. We started dating and we found that we had a lot of interests in common and became close friends during our 12th grade. She was very friendly, intelligent and we used to laugh a lot. We were happy together and I loved spending time with her.
Though I had dated a few other girls in the past, it was never very pleasurable,long lasting and fun compared to the one that I had with her. But only interest that never matched between us was that she was a regular gym-goer and was damn oriented towards fitness whereas I had never stepped into a gym. We enjoyed each others company, shared our experiences and every damn thing that went through our life. We were in a typical bf-gf relationship for almost 4.5 years(most part of it was long distance) and I remember it as the most pleasurable and wonderful set of experiences.
During our under graduation we had shift to different cities quite far from each other, but the long distance relationship worked very well. Our weekends were very special, we used to converse a lot, go on trekking, hangover,hugs, kisses, sex everything was so fun.I enjoyed every minute during my weekends. I was very excited that I had discovered such a lady in my life.
So some things that vary from our relationships to other typical relationships are that she was more of a dominant force then me (though it can happen in other relationships without the girl being a bodybuilder). I am kinda tall, skinny and lean with not much of muscle mass, and she was strong bodybuilder(not the pro ones you see on women ifbb) . I have witnessed her complete body transformation process. I really felt soothing and comfortable in her muscular arms. I was fascinated by her abs, ass and her veins on forearms and neck.I really enjoyed submitting to her, and i felt kinda protected around her . She was always just in her opinions, kind and gentle in her actions and a calm personality. But if in case she found something immoral, unjust or unfair she was the most furious woman and her body supported to give a blow as well (haha..).
I could see men giving extra respect to her just because of her body and strength. I have seen many of them just giving up the argument and in a way surrendering to her points and being afraid of her. She was a ‘beauty beast’ in real sense.She was very cute, beautiful,fair, charming and those muscles just added more to her beauty. She was very soft spoken and gentle in her general conversations. But I liked it very much when she used to get angry and furious as well. Literally i even didn’t realize how strong she was until I got punched on my chest by her(though it was for fun). She had even pressurized me to join the gym and put some meat but it didn’t work long as I was just too bored of its time consuming process. But I really enjoyed the growth of muscles on her body though. I sometimes used to feel embarrassed around her as I used to look like a scrawny long stick in front of her, but our chemistry was excellent.
In a small incident of bar brawl, the way she took the incident to control and made the situation neutral was impressive.I realized that your physical strength also matters very much in these circumstances, though every aspect of this cannot be attributed to her muscular body but it plays a major role in how people treat you. I liked the way she managed things and circumstances.
We have had some unfortunate differences in the past and it has led to a tentative break up for around 6 months now( i have my regrets as well). Though we are in touch, we haven’t met in past 3 months or so.I really miss her sweet talks, little things, laugh, anger and her muscles for sure. I really love when she flexes and it makes me weak on knees.
So that is my experience dating and having a female bodybuilder as a girlfriend.