I have never really felt lonely...until now, I have no real family, I cutt off the rest of the friends I've had left and all I have is a 3 year old son. So i finally feel lonely. I'm "dropping my standards" if the guy is poor I will smoke and chill, have a half baked relationship and have at least 2 more "serious" relationships outside of that one. Abort any babies if one does pop up. And AT LEAST I can relieve stress and have someone to talk to and chill with. And when I ask for something and need or want something and he says no. I'm breaking up with him. I can at least have some adult entertainment. Lonely is a ROUGH feeling😂😂😂😂😂 if I'm gone only get the opposite of what I want. Might as well get something i can get satisfaction from. This is why they say.....NEVER SAY NEVER. I'm kinda over finding a well established decent men. They are all married or taken, so I'm over it now.
What Guys Said 16
Dating is about numbers, so get out and start meeting more people. Only thing guaranteed we have is death, everything else must be achieved by hard work and putting work into it wether that’s it finding real love, getting a great job or being the best you can :)
Sorry babe but once you had a kid it's not you that is settling. It's whatever schmuck is dumb and desperate enough to settle for such a shitty deal.
babe u sound like the perfect person for me to have a smoke with. i would luv the chance to make u smile again an maybe even laugh.
This should've been some kind of question.
I'm sorry but maybe you did this to yourself.
i know how you feel. i've kinda given up on finding a significant other. they're either taken, too hard to find, or assume you're an asshole. i have other problems to worry about but being lonely takes a toll.
You're making the same mistake most people do... thinking loneliness is mostly external. It's not, it's mostly internal and no amount of relationships or other people will deal with the root of it.
Who are you? what are you? why are you? these are the questions you should be asking and working on. Anything else will just be a quick fix and you will feel more lonely when it's over.
The reason why people automatically look for another is because it's much easier than looking at themselves. Introspection and really looking within can be very painful, but it's the only way.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with dealing with loneliness by seeking another, I'm just saying be careful of falling into the trap of thinking that is the root cause.
Oh... it's just a hairhat... nevermind.
You’ve been alone for a few months I’m guessing try being alone from birth
Family hates me
And the entire world is watching waiting for me to fail
What Girls Said 7
Best wishes honey. I'm lonely too. Men? I'm not limiting my options to just men. Any consenting human adult will do.
Dont look for men, the right one will come by. And if you do want to look for men, never ever settle for less. Its not fair to that to yourself or to the guy anyways. You have a son. That is a gift. If you ever feel lonely think about him. He loves you so much and he will love you even more because you are spending time with him, creating a stronger bond because your focus is on him. I understand that you feel lonely but you aren’t. Look for friends instead of men. Focus on yourself by building up yourself and you will attract established men with goals, a career etc. take care❤️
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Ummm good luck with that
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