I have used both. It really is a bummer that Bumble is so much less mainstream than tinder. Living in a small town in the middle of nowhere really cramps its style as every girl is no less than 60 miles away while on tinder I still get plenty of more local women. I Love bumbles format and feel. Maybe it will be as popular as Tinder someđay. We're can only hope
I'm not a fan of dating apps anyway so I would not use them. Still, I think Bumble is one of the better ones because the girls message the guys. I would definitely feel more comfortable on Bumble than on Tinder.
Cheers. It's amazing. It was a slog. can't tell you how many people i swiped right on, matched and started talking to who ghosted. Had a couple of other first dates that didn't go anywhere. Only takes one though
I heard that girls on there do exactly what they complain about guys doing elsewhere: say nothing but "hi", "hello" as a first message. This basically returns the pressure of starting conversation back to the guy.
Its not because for guys like me who never get matches it removes the ability to initiate with a person if a blue moon match were to occur. that person on bumble who accidently swiped on me would unlike later on without anything being said
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If you're not getting matches then I think you should be more concerned about improving your profile tbh dude. If a girl accidentally swipes right on you then the chances of her entertaining a convo that you start are pretty slim anyway
honestly i agree with the concept of bumble. i don't wanna waste my time texting 1000 girls just to be ignored by 999 of them cause they're flooded in dick picks. however sadly in my area, bumble is pretty empty.
Guys need to to avoid dating apps. Women have an over supply of men. Men need to ignore women for a while. Being put on a pedestal for too long as made women incredible picky
I disagree, yes it makes the girls message you first. But when I used the app... Out of all the matches I got, only two messaged me and the messages were “hi”... and then they didn’t reply to my response. I get way more action on tinder
NO. I don't go on dating apps. Women on dating apps are the ones who are desperate and pathetic past expiry females who are desperate to find a partner now that they world won't hand things to them simply for being "pretty"... or young attractive females trying to fill their ego buckets with endless attention from males.
I'm on Bumble. I really enjoy the "ladies first" aspect of it. I am so much more relaxed knowing that the only reason we are talking is because she is interested.
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Most of my dates came from bumble, while most matches from tinder, but there are so few people on bumble that is isn't very useful
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Tinder's weird for me, I used to get way more matches on tinder but now have more success with Bumble. It might depend on your area too.
I heard you have to be that guy from the Avengers movie that plays Thor to get a match lol. They literally date that one guy. He's just a walking STI infecting the woman community
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I have used both. It really is a bummer that Bumble is so much less mainstream than tinder. Living in a small town in the middle of nowhere really cramps its style as every girl is no less than 60 miles away while on tinder I still get plenty of more local women. I Love bumbles format and feel. Maybe it will be as popular as Tinder someđay. We're can only hope
I'm not a fan of dating apps anyway so I would not use them. Still, I think Bumble is one of the better ones because the girls message the guys. I would definitely feel more comfortable on Bumble than on Tinder.
I need to check this out. hopefully will find someone
Good luck!
I was using bumble, met my girlfriend through it last year. We're expecting our first child next month.
Wow! That's awesome. Congratulations man.
Cheers. It's amazing.
It was a slog. can't tell you how many people i swiped right on, matched and started talking to who ghosted. Had a couple of other first dates that didn't go anywhere. Only takes one though
Ah yeah tell me about it. That's very true. All the best with everything!
I heard that girls on there do exactly what they complain about guys doing elsewhere: say nothing but "hi", "hello" as a first message. This basically returns the pressure of starting conversation back to the guy.
It's about half and half.
I've been asked some good ass questions though.
@TwoToTooTutu2 oh, that's nice to know.
Yeah, it's much better than tinder that's for sure
Its not because for guys like me who never get matches it removes the ability to initiate with a person if a blue moon match were to occur. that person on bumble who accidently swiped on me would unlike later on without anything being said
If you're not getting matches then I think you should be more concerned about improving your profile tbh dude. If a girl accidentally swipes right on you then the chances of her entertaining a convo that you start are pretty slim anyway
Oh just saw by your username, are you gay? I wonder how Bumble would even work for same sex matches.
Well before I realized Iwas a gay I tried pursuing women, there is nothing wrong with my profile its how I look.
I heard women were complaining because they rejected all the guys who were actually interested. Ha ha ha
Awesome take. This is really well done. I've tried bumble and had success!
Great to hear! Thanks.
honestly i agree with the concept of bumble. i don't wanna waste my time texting 1000 girls just to be ignored by 999 of them cause they're flooded in dick picks. however sadly in my area, bumble is pretty empty.
Guys need to to avoid dating apps. Women have an over supply of men. Men need to ignore women for a while. Being put on a pedestal for too long as made women incredible picky
I disagree, yes it makes the girls message you first. But when I used the app... Out of all the matches I got, only two messaged me and the messages were “hi”... and then they didn’t reply to my response.
I get way more action on tinder
That would be two more than I would get...
Your first two points are exactly why Bumble is NOT the best app.
You enjoy wasting your time messaging women first only to have them not respond?
NO. I don't go on dating apps. Women on dating apps are the ones who are desperate and pathetic past expiry females who are desperate to find a partner now that they world won't hand things to them simply for being "pretty"... or young attractive females trying to fill their ego buckets with endless attention from males.
Lol. I mean I won't argue with you, but there are some decent women on there. But they are definitely a minority, sure.
Oh for sure... there are lots of decent women out there, I just don't think they go on dating apps looking for love.
I'm on Bumble. I really enjoy the "ladies first" aspect of it. I am so much more relaxed knowing that the only reason we are talking is because she is interested.
Most of my dates came from bumble, while most matches from tinder, but there are so few people on bumble that is isn't very useful
Tinder's weird for me, I used to get way more matches on tinder but now have more success with Bumble. It might depend on your area too.
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I wouldn’t say it’s the best, but it’s a classier step above tinder.
My friend set it to guys to, I never match with women but matched with 8 guys in 10 min on tinder this day.
My response to this got me banned from tinder forever.
I heard you have to be that guy from the Avengers movie that plays Thor to get a match lol. They literally date that one guy. He's just a walking STI infecting the woman community
And he's a feminist
Feminist / freed the slaves / buys girl scout cookies
App dedicated to help women start the communication.
Actuality
First message is "hey" from profiles that say "just ask" & that's it.
you pretty much reveal with #1 an #2 that this app is basically an escort app for women.
that offer free services and bonuses of course!
I've used both but neither did anything but bumble was a more useable interface