Here's why women seek emotional connection before sex

[Mamamialetmego]

Women seek emotional connection before sex men rarely do that.

There are 3 major reasons behind it.

1. Women have potential of getting pregnant so they seek connection because they want commitment instinctively. If they get pregnant and can't get commitment they couldn't survive millions of years ago in the wild. So women evolved to seek connection from a man so she can get commitment. That's why women get really upset when a guy don't call or text after sex. Because instinctively they want relationship.

Women aren't like men they don't need to fuck a lot of men they seek quality not quantity. They want to get the best guy they can get and want to be in relationship with him.

2. Women don't desire a guy based on 100% visual factors. Yes they are visual they look for visual signs but not like men. They also want to know if a guy is confident enough. Because a man's value comes from survival potential and having confidence, having masculine traits is so important for that. So women has to know the guy little bit to see his truth personality.

3. Women were in great danger always. Even today they get beaten, they get killed unfortunately. Having sex with someone you don't know well is very dangerous, very vulnerable position specially for women. They can be kidnapped, they can be killed, they can be sold, anything can happen. We can't relate with women because generally men are stronger than women. We don't think like that. So women seek emotional connection, they seek trust. They want to trust you about you will be nice to them.

That's why women seek emotional connection before sex even if it is a simple hook up. They always seek trust first. They always want to know you before sex.

[Anonymous]

Casual hook-ups and one night stands don't involve emotional connection. A girl doesn't go home with a guy she just met in a club because they had such an amazingly deep emotional connection that she fell for him and decided to have sex with him right away. She goes home with him because he's hot, confident, and makes her horny. The idea that women need an emotional connection before sex is a myth. In those cases they just need to know that you're not a serial killer or something.

[Mamamialetmego]

Number 2

[Mamamialetmego]

Emotional connection can happen in 5 to 10 minutes it's a more mental connection rather than mechanic connection. Also alcohol helps women to be more courageous so their shields go down.

[MillenniumBill]

Now according to who you listen to, women are attracted to men with multiple partners as a sign of status.
And according to Vouge Magazine, "Modern" women require at least 30-40 sex partners before she can determine who her "soul mate" is.
However, according to an April 20 2016 article in Psychology Today, the more sex partners either person has drastically reduces chances of pair bonding throughout life.
So, whatever...

[Mamamialetmego]

Women are not made to hook up with a lot of men they seek quality. They want to get the best men that they can get and have relationship with him. These magazines, liberal media brainwash women.

[Sortofa]

30-40 sex partners, what the flying fuck?

[5yrup]

uh... no its because my vagina literally can't take a penis attached to someone i have no feelings for or significant attraction towards!

[Mamamialetmego]

that's second paragraph i already explained.

[DonCachondo]

But have you tried? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[CarrieLee]

Those facts are bs lol i do not relate to any of them

[Mamamialetmego]

Would you have sex with a completly stranger?

[Celtero]

Bruh, that is a myth that will get you cucked hard. There's women who will suck off a guy in a club bathroom, there are women who will bang an 80 year old because he's rich, there are women who will get gang banged by the highschool hocky team because her dad doesn't pay enough attention to her.

I doubt most women even have 'emotional connections.'

[Mamamialetmego]

I agree haha

[Mindwipe]

I agree with all your points, however they've been mostly made irrelevant in world where female empowerment, female sexual liberation, the pill and a welfare state exists.

[moststrangestguy]

I know why... Now explain to me why food technology is not used to fix world hunger and how to kill 70% of the population of idoits

[Mamamialetmego]

Because people don't care.

[some101]

Not applicable. Nowadays girls only care about sex. It is very hard to find a woman who can wait until marriage

[Mamamialetmego]

well eve they seek sex they seek connection, little bit rapport first like 30 minutes conversation or meeting in coffe shop to get to know the guy.

[some101]

Lol, that's enough. That's the problem.

[Massageman]

Yes. That's the way God made women! Viva la difference!

[Games_]

The girls who look for guys only based on looks are genetically fucked up in my opinion

[Primrose21]

Tell that to the Majority of Guys as well.

[Games_]

That's our nature lol, ur suppost to look for providers as women, men go for who they find attactive. there's no 50 50

[Games_]

The stupid girls who focus on looks whole are the same ones who complain about wanting s nice guy and end up settling at 30

[Primrose21]

@games Exactly. U should stop complaining coz men are also a total assholes. Nature or whatever is not a good enough reason to validate your actions. It would be really unfair if a man can do it but a women can't. Well guess what? It is also Womens Nature to seek out good looking ones. In biology, women looks for excellent potential mates so that she gets a better offspring.

[Primrose21]

@Games_ like as if all men wants to provide. Some men are frugal and stingy.

[Primrose21]

Add it to the fact that some men are a jerk for ditching their pregnant girlfriend.

[Games_]

I'm not complaining, women dont provide. They look their best and look for the best candidate that will help protect. That's how it is biologically

Go ahead fuck a guy who's hot but has no job no life low intelligence. Go do it, see where it ends up.

I dont care how you feel

[Games_]

The shitty men's are from you women blindly going for looks and not taking stuff into consideration, or if it's not looks, you dont test your men, you just get easily deluded by manipulative ones. When ur choose a man u need to be thinking straight

If ur wity a jerk, most of the time its women fault because you never tested him

[Games_]

Sorry for that terrible grammar, typing on this phone sucks

[Primrose21]

I know a lot of not good looking guys who are actually jerks. Real talk. A mans attitude can't be base on looks alone.

[Primrose21]

Some unattractive men are actually the ones who have unrealistic beauty standards for a woman.

[Games_]

Well yeah, what I said isn't true for every single person on the planet but again, those are pretty shitty unattractive men who aren't worry ur time either way. They can't provide genetically and personally so filter them out.

Why waste ur time with a unattractive guy who is a terrible provider, looks bad

But hot guys with terrible personalities are the same still lol.

So go ahead and look for guys who are only hot, if they end up having a terrible character and dont help you when ur pregnant, dont complain about our standards.

Ur the gatekeeper, be wary of who the hell you let in

[Games_]

A mans attitude isn't based off looks alone, but if ur gonna ignore the fact a guy is arrogant/terrible because he looks hot as fuck then when ur pregnant and he's gone, ur gonna look stupid, not him

[Primrose21]

Same only for men. Men would leave a nice girl for a bitch with big boobs and ass.

[Games_]

It's the hard truth but yeah I actually agree with that, because men are so visual, but women wouldn't do the same for a shitty attractive guy, if they are smart and not sluts.

Plus the reason some nice girls dont get guys is because they look too good to be true or they are ugly.

[Games_]

You seem to have had a lot of troubles with guys

[Primrose21]

Nope. Never even been in a relationship. I'm just stating with the obvious bcoz u are justifying that "It's normal for men, but not for women" which is totally fucked up.

[Games_]

Yeah it is, women dont provide anything but looks and nurture.

[Games_]

That's the hard truth, what guy goes for a girl for her personality.

I seen more women date guys for plenty of other reasons, but guys? Nope u gotta look attractive to them because we are stupidly more visual

[Primrose21]

So u just admitted that guys are stupid? Anyways. Girls can also be visual, coz we also got Eyes you know? And there is nothing wrong with that, with how you make it to be.

[Games_]

I didn't admit anything. I just said it how it is. We dont give a shit about personality unless she looks good to us. We start only caring about that after we are physically attracted to her.

[Games_]

It's somewhat wrong for women because she's the gatekeeper. Were not gatekeepers, we dont get effected emotionally as much as women if we pick a girl with a shit personality.

I'm not telling you to go fuck unattractive guys or guys ur not into.

Just women shouldn't just easily let a guy in the door if he's hot.

[suncookie]

This is really accurate... than you😊

[Mamamialetmego]

Your Welcome

[JermalTheBlackDog]

Yep. That's how I see it

[Manuel2]

I totally see your views

[livingthelife19]

Sounds about right

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Good take

[Gedaria]

Sounds good...