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Break it off if you feel like cheating please no matter your gender.
but i have had girls throw away flowers right in front of me that I had given to her 15 minutes ago and i'm glad you called it humiliating because that's how I felt humiliated
but we are also growing in population of incels guys who hate women.
please don't humiliate a guy if he does something nice for you just tell him you're not interested
There are more males than females in the world but in the U. S Females out populate the males 6 to 5 .
Great post and clearly needed not sure a guy treating you like a bro is a bad thing most of friends do this. I prefer it, its a lot less awkward. I guess its different if your in if for a relationship. Thanks for the My Take don't worry about the haters. Can't please everyone. Rather your true to yourself and your beliefs
Thank you for that:(. I don't think that's a bad thing too (i mean, a guy treating you like one of his bro's) but many girls hate it.
What I was trying to say with my post is that some girls should appreciate more what they do in order to keep us happy and making us fall in love :(
That's awesome that you do
Now thats how you get some male approval, make excuses for them and justify them cheating. Way easier than making your dad proud.
Cheating is inexcusable for men and women.
A guy can do something inherently sweet in REALLY creepy ways, and no one is obligated to like somebody because they bought them something. Im a human being not a politician, you can't buy my affection.
Was she saying that we should buy women's affection? No. Was she saying that cheating is okay? No.
I assume to point 1 that the guys that probably aren't romantic are ones that have a lot or go through many relationships but those that have a hard time finding one and haven't had a lot of relationships and really do desire one like me will do those romantic things because they want that stuff too.
PS aspie in your username i assume is for Asperger's which i have aswell and definitely explains your very astute logical observation.
You're so right, indeed! Many of my male friends have problems with that because they haven't been in a relationship but they want to try and they do cute and romantic things for those girls and those girl behave horribly :(
Yeah! I'm autistic 😊 can we talk by private message? I wanna ask you a few questions if you're okay with that
Sure
I agree with pretty much everything, but would like to add that cheating is a piece of shit move, if you don't like something in a relationship and it's bothering you that much, just end it. But it's also true that guys often have higher sexual desires than women. I'm also not saying that you condone cheating btw😂, just wanted to add that 😄
Do you also agree with the point 4?
She accidentally numbered 2 topics 3, so do you mean the bro one, or the ignoring one?
Bro one. I dont understand why a guy is dating a masculine if he likes her being feminine
I think the point is more about the guy treating girls more like a bro, she doesn't actually say that guys prefer one or the other🤔 although I would like a bit more of an explanation from the poster on that point, it's rather a short point and hard to form an opinion on because it's not explained in full detail 🤔🤷♂️
Reading at the title alone, instant up vote. Bonus, I just read it and gladly a girl understands how society only demonizes men in society. How society sees couples "Don't abandon HER at all cost"
I mean I know a lot of girls understand it too but it's always great when someone specially a girl who brings awareness about it
Yeah, I understand. I just want girls to understand that we should appreciate more what guys do
I appreciate you
So it is mainly womans fault?
@kim45456 Did I say it's mainly woman's fault? No. I'm saying that's how society's brain is hardwired and biologically speaking.
She makes it seem like it is all womans fault. Look at the phrases " if you are a girl"( from point 1) "it is your fault if you are girl because many girls are not feminine anymore"( from point4) etc. She is clearly saying that all women trash except herself
@kim45456 "seem" It's how you interpret it. After all I'm just addressing that it's always men's fault when we get cheated on so she made her mytake to counteract the whole "women are wonderful" effect en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_are_wonderful_effect society has on you. So basically it's ok for society to blame men in break ups or when men gets abused but when she make a make a mytake like that, it's not ok? You're almost proving the double standards talked about here.
@kim45456 Also she can address it to girls who aren't grateful about guys. Are you one tho? If no then you don't have to react and make assumptions. <-- that reply was meant to be posted here.
There is nothing to interpret. The phrases she has used, make it clear that she is saying that. And i dont know where you live but It is opposite in the turkey or any oriental country. It is always womans fault because man "cant control their sexual urges"
@kim45456 Then don't look at me look at her. No body forced you to come here anyways. The only mistake she made is not to make any trigger warning for people like you. This is called freedom of speech so what do you want us do to about it? Make your own and I'll be there do debunk you but not to make any complaints.
That whole man "cant control their sexual urges" <-- It is in fact we can't control it if we don't have to. But only we're living in a modern society that we really have to. A biological fact is a healthy man can impregnate hundreds of girls and can father thousands of children as we produce millions of sperm cells everyday. And it is unacceptable for men to harass any women or "cat call" and saying "we can't control our self" or "it's because of our hormones" is not an excuse. However, you can slap men, insult and nag at him but ok because you're on your period? That's society for you.
So a man can't control his sexual urges?
@kim45456 Read again.
Goddamn, you made me think of mortal combat on this one, flawless victory. I'm thinking that round 1 is getting you a whole slew of people hissing and clawing at your eyes now though. I don't agree 100%, but basically I agree.
boyfriend / girlfriend , husband / wife - all should appreciate and show their appreciation for each other - ! for God made man and then he saw that man needed a help mate ( not a maid , servant , door mat or just a sex partner either ) so God made Eve ! They were to reproduce too ! Thanks
Goes without saying. Although i personally don't mind (or in some cases even like it) if women "behave like men". Like being career oriented, performing male dominated jobs, fixing cars or computers, getting the right tattoos...
there's nothing attractive in smoking, using excess profanity or drinking buckets of beer.
There are good female hackers, you know? For example Constanze Kurze from the famous German CCC is one. She can fix a computer than you, I guess. Sure, smoking is not nice in them, their pussies taste worse (PH value drops) and it isn't health-promoting anyway. Oh, I was blamed for saying that smoking is unhealthy, bad boy me!
@roland77 hahahaha, true that. The PH levels are a good indicator 😀
Now how many male hackers are there for every female hacker? 1000 at least. I think even much more.
Yes, more males than females. Still I found it okay, if she likes programming, too. I would directly ask her about which languages she uses.
@roland77 yep. I love breaking free from stereotypes (because often they're just toxic) - especially with genders.
first off: Thank you for this. Not too many females see a male point of view.
Men are just adapting and overcoming. Many news articles on this. Usually written by women, saying no feminism didn't kill chivalry. Men are tired. No matter what we do, its not right or enough.
if you ever read any MGTOW/red pill stuff, some of this is their gripe. id don’t totally agree with most of it, but they have a point here.
Claps* Thank You* Salute* Blessings and Joy to you this season whomsoever you are wherever you be.
Aw, thank you! Same goes for you! 💛
How annoying when people write in different languages. Ghetto in my opinion.
Anyhow, I am grateful for my boyfriend everyday! He is the sweetest most awesome strongest yet vulnerable person ever! He is like a giant baby!! With muscles and a strong appearance but soooo fragile beneath the surface and I believe most men are like this.
men love eye candy but if they love you they respect you and can be so easily hurt... I think even more so than most of us girls can ever be.
are you serious? do you speak/write any other languages? do you know how difficult that is? ghetto? grow up! that was nasty and mean thing to say!
@kymberz I speak 4 languages 3 fluently and one intermediate. It is ghetto.
fuck you you're ass is ghetto bitch
you fucking racist old hag
yeah sure you speak 3 - 4 languages fluently one or two sentences don't count lady
@Rob19777 ouch! I hit a nerve I see 😂 even more ghettos 🤦🏼♀️
Wow nice and quite big post it was intresting some spicy comments some butter absolute ly tasty topic😜
What Made you think of this topic as you have put so much of effort on this topic? Curious to know!
I like controversial topics, hahaha. And it's just that I forking hate when girls keep complaining about guys not doing those little things. But come on, many girls don't even say "Thank you". I hate it.
I always say "thank you" to my boyfriend for anything he does for me or just because. I know it's not easy to deal with an autistic who hates physical contact, and still he tries his best to make me feel comfortable and make me smile all the time. I do really appreciate what he does! And of course I do the same in return. If he's treating me like a queen, the least I can do is to treat him like a king. We respect each other, and being grateful is important
@aspiegirl_ Same with my girlfriend. She is saying "Thank you" very often, same with me.
I see the exact women who should listen to you are the ones who attack you... that type will never take any responsibility for what they do, it's much easier to just blame men.
1 Alone after rejecting 5 guys a week for years because they were not being hot enough?
Men are shallow!!!
2 Can't get the super hot guy because you weigh 260lbs?
Men should care about inner beauty because it's what important!!!
3 The same woman is approached by a chubby guy (220 lbs)?
Fat men are disgusting!!! Why should I settle?
And my favorite:
A man says something true that women don't like and/or want to admit to?
You must be a desperate incel loser!!! (you'll gain more adjectives the more correct you are, those women hate that shit)
Sorry That i dont support man hoes who think they can cheat
@kim45456 He doesn't say that.
@kim45456 nice try to redirect the conversation... we both know I'm right
She is always like that, see her other comments here and elsewhere, too.
THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!! I really needed someone to say that. I am so grateful you are a friend. You hit it on the dot. I have tried my hardest to everything you said and then more and got thrown out like trash. Because of that i feel sometimes i don't know what to do anymore. I try to follow my heart and i am often treated like shit. Thank you. *big hug* 💓💓💓💓
That's what I tried to say, that girls should appreciate more what guys try to do for us. But apparently many girls disagree, I received lots of messages with hate today because I shared my opinion, haha
You good with me my friend. 😊💓💓🌹🌹
@aspiegirl_ Just block these feminazis!
Sex isn't a need , there is no excuse for cheating. I would never do that. I'd break up with her before I'd ever do that. It's a cowardly pathetic thing to do.
It was an example, haha
Maybe in an asexual relationship, sex is no need. I know that to good from my parents. But in a relationship with both having a high sex-drive, sure number one priority sex is. I guess @aspiegirl_ agrees?
@roland77 yeah, I agree
@aspiegirl_ Thank you.
I have a ball sac, and I approved this message.
Girls get that big head at a young age from feeling all the young guys falling at their feet. They act shitty to guys as their birthright and then complain when guys adapt accordingly.
So you are agreeing with cheating?
About the cheating part. There is a disgusting mental quirk women have about being more attracted to taken men. I noticed this crap in every relationship I’ve been in. Other all of the sudden they act much more interested.
I don’t know about other guys but I’m personally not more attracted to a taken girl vs an available one. The only exception would be if the boyfriend is a douche. But if he’s a decent guy I respect that and move on. I’m not more turned on just because she’s taken.
With that said I’ve only cheated once in my entire life. I was 16 and it was on my first girlfriend. The neighborhood girl (who was more attractive) knew I had a girlfriend and her along with her friend got much more aggressive trying to seduce me. I gave in, got dumped for it and made a vow never to do it again and I haven’t.
He still does not have a right to cheat
@kim45456 no. He should break up first I agree. But taken men get tempted more than taken women.
@kim45456 How about women? Are they allowed to cheat?
In western countries not, but in eastern or islamic countries, yes
Girls should do romantic things too. Guys need to feel cared about just as much as girls do, but often they never feel that way in a relationship.
I agree. Guys have feelings too. I always do romantic things for my boyfriend ☺️❤️. I always try to show him how much I love him and how much he means to me by listening when he talks about anything, I always plan a surprise for him once a week, haha. I plan a date, with a romantic dinner and candles! And I'm there basically all the time whenever he needs me ❤️. For his birthday I made a painting of both of us, I wrote him a letter and gave him a lot of cheesy stuff.
Not everything is about presents, there are little things that can mean a lot to guys as well. I always remember his Starbucks order, that's something you remember if when someone is important to you ☺️💛
The handmade painting and letter are really cool. I hope someday I find someone that would do stuff like that.
A lot of girls have become way too entitled these days. They make the guy do all the work. They call themselves feminists, but when it comes to dating they will cherry pick and go, "I'm old fashioned!"
I'm so glad you're old fashioned!
Same here, I avoid those women a lot. And boy, can I call myself lucky finding a kind and non-feminist woman? She wants equality and harmony, too.
Very interesting and realistic.
I had a similar experience. The relation was LD, for 3y. After writing a poetry book for her (basically all the poems I wrote for her during all those years) I thought she wanted to at least read the book, but nothing... We supposedly we ended in good terms.