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Is It Really Harder To Date These Days? Or Are People Making It Harder Than It Needs To Be? (Page 2)
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Well I will definitly say that this take was worth all my time reading and well designed , truthful and with all do respect... literally how most questions on gag should be. I am in total agreement with your level of moral understanding. Furthermore , your perspective is also Biblically a standpoint that merits behaviors suggested through understanding and committed relationships through GODS wisdom and portrays good morality. Well done...
Wow one of the nicest compliments ever on here. Thank you "so" much ♥️
The way I see it, dating is (unnecessarily) harder today because people expect more and are willing to put less effort and time into it. If anyone should argue, 'Life is short, getting to know someone takes a while', then they shouldn't date; because the harsh reality is that that's the way it is.
That's it exactly
I fully agree with this MyTake. I think both are true. Dating is harder today due to cultural issues that were not considered before. Also, people make it harder with expectations and not knowing the true purpose of dating.
Thank you ❣️ Wish dating meant what it used to. But there's people saying dating means sex and it's okay to be having sex with more than just one person too you're fully committed. I'm not okay with that. So if that's what dating is these days, no thanks
I have given up on dating. It seems pointless to me today.
Ok at my age, no big deal. But breaks my heart to see someone your age feel that way
This was pretty good! But if you don't find people on dating sites where do you look where girls will actally want to date and not be annoyed with you for asking
Out in the world. People say dating is so hard, but more people seem to be on social media then out living life. That's how you find people. People are everywhere around you. Put the computer down put the phone away. Not every female is going to get annoyed. I always talk to people, men and women, and if I'm hot on I don't act rude, unless they get really out of line, then that's little different. Are people really that way? Or do people just think people are like that 🤔
Dating has always been scary. I once had woman who called the police because she was convinced I was a wanted criminal. I also had the misfortune of dating a woman who thought I was Satan.
Being intelligent and good looking is not a crime, so, needless to say, I was released immediately with fall down to your knees apologies.
Face it. You chicks are weirdos and man are taking their chances by going in the deep grass with you. Once you learn you can't ride us like donkeys, you look for the nearest depository to dump us.
It is really pretty sick on your part, but, again somehow we survive.
Simple
S. Cowell quote is funny given I think he was chasing a lot of chicky doodles at one point...:) Good quotes though.
These days, it's harder for men to date because a lot of women have learned from their mothers, grandmothers, etc. that too many men aren't dating material. As it says in "Woman to Women" (free from kobo books), too many men are selfish and just want to use women for what they can get out of a woman. Women are tired of being deceived and getting their hearts broken because, too often, after the woman falls in love with the man, she realizes he doesn't love her (even though he acted like he did). So women are more cautious when it comes to dating and getting into relationships, now.
I think people tend to put their hoipes of happiness in other people instead of taking responsibility for their own happiness. Then they break up when the other person doesn't deliver immediately (istant gratification issues)
Very good point?
Sorry that was supposed to be!! Not?
Thank you :)
No, thank you 🙂
It is hard to date now a days. For me it is anyway... just came out of a 9 yr relationship... and I guess I forgot how to date lol. And meeting new guys is a challenge... ur either looking for the same guy u were with or someone totally opposite... it's doesn't work either way...
Dating isn't hard at all
You get to learn for every single date you go, you build your character as well as know what you need in your life from a significant other to be whole.
Always explore and you'll find the one
F* male standards are astronomically high to the point where 30% of men are incel and 80% are considered below average.
F*males mostly use dating apps to get free food
Funny the only time I've ever heard the term incel is from men using that term, never a woman. And maybe it's not the women that's the issue, but your preconceived, gender labeling that's the issue. I'm not going to want to date or have sex with someone that has those views of all women. But thank you for responding
Awesome My Take. I think people have high expectations when it comes to dating. Maybe have realistic standards when it comes to dating and get to know the person your dating for a year before getting serious more with them.
Exactly. Nobody wants to take time for another to get to really know. If a man don't have time to call me, but text here and there, how's that getting to know me? And then wanting things to develop so fast. I'm sure there's women guilty of that as well, only said men cuz I don't date women lol
most often making it harder then it needs to be. since a lot of people get sucked into there phone or social media quickly.
Yes that's another thing that should be on there. Wish could edit, but can't edit mytake
It's harder in my experience because it's too impersonal and vanity based.
Impersonal and dating sound like oil and water, dang.
@Boppy
Right?
I think people are making it harder than it needs to be. And it's really unfair to the other person because they may not be like the same guy or girl that they were with before. I think that people don't give the other person the benefit of the doubt as they should. And also because they probably have issues from previous relationships that they never got over.
My biggest problem is finding the right person. I try getting to know people but then find out they only want to hook up
Yeah I don't like this hook up culture
I've never thought Dating was difficult not now or back in the I always found it to be fun and easy... Relationships now that's a different story!! Nothings changed over time still depends on the Individual how Dating and Relationships go.
You are at a restaurant you like say 20% of what's on the menu and there are 12 main course options. Is it easy to pick a meal? (Yes probably, your choosing between 2 or 3 things you like).
Same scenario now the menu has 1200 main course options... Good luck with that decision.
That's the difference between traditional dating and modern dating.
Both. It is harder and people are making it harder. Internet dating definitely added layers of complexity that did not exist prior to the net.
That is so true
So my sons mother and I have been broken up but always there like. She left with her sister n brotherinlw. House burned down I helped as much as I could. We have gotten into quickies and all on occasion as she would lead into it. I have been in love with her ever after break up. I help with groceries and all. I said happy to be working on things but she got mad said she's not trying to. get back with me. Its been 6 years and why do I still care and want more quickies also. I've been there.. going through a court issue with complete different matters on Friday. I want to spend the time and all but want to ask for a quicky but I don't know the way she had been acting. So lost n confuse worried about court.
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