But society tells us all especially females nowadays that you dont need a man in your life to be happy so thats the mindset people approach dating with. So yeah i guess people have made it harder because the actual concept of dating hasn't changed.
If you listen to society, instead of yourself? Who's fault is that? Society , others don't define me, my sex life, my relationship. No that's between me and the person I'm with. If you let society interfer or determine your relationship or your views, that's really on you, noone else, no offense, just saying 🤷🏼♀️
Can we get past the whole he's interested but I'm leery to as why and overanalyze a guys intention and totally miss what a relationship is about first? Smh always thinking their are ulterior motives. always.
I started dating in 1962. Yeah I know. Things were VERY different back then because people respected other people. Dating was fun so dating relationships lasted many months. "Just because you buy someone dinner is no reason to expect to have sex with them." True, but back in the day a common question was "Did you get anything offa her?" So, the sex thing WAS a goal for males. We loved the girls labeled "easy". It IS harder now. I dated until age 69. Women have trust issues with everyone they meet. One potential partner said "Oh, by the way, I have an std. How nice. The honesty thing works both ways and it IS a jungle out there. I started dating men at age 55. Totally different. There was ALWAYS sex play on the agenda and a complete lack of bullshit. Good times complete with orgasms. Go figure. I wonder if it's the same for 2 women?
Ok that's just looking for sex. Not everybody is looking for just sex. Some people actually do date because they are looking for a partner. And sex should never be expected. If you expect it from me, try to make it an obligation, you can expect not to get it! Sex is not something to be bought and paid for. If it is, then go pay a hooker
A hooker is sage advice. Take it to a pro for a superior product. So many women STILL treat sex as a reward. We're supposed to believe that they don't enjoy it. Right...
Sex should not be a reward any more than an obligation. Women don't say they don't enjoy sex. Men are the ones that claim women don't enjoy sex. Funny cuz I haven't talked to women on here who said they didn't enjoy. But have talked to a lot who do. Again tho, when it's mutual. Buying me or any woman a drink or dinner obligates sex. And if you think that way, are you not the one treating sex as a reward? Not the woman?
"Men are the ones that claim women don't enjoy sex." Golly. I wonder why? by the way; dating, talking to, seeing, etc. ALL mean getting laid nowadays. I'm all for that for both parties. I don't treat it as a reward, I treat it as a gift from Almighty God to be mutually enjoyed. Don't tell me what I mean, ASK me what I mean.
Yeah and are you doing this with condoms? And you know STDs can be spread through just kissing and oral sex. And dating should not mean random sex with multiple people. That's hook up shit, not dating
I so feel you.. I did not find any apps good for dating to be honest. It's disheartening but yeah staying single has lot of benefits.. I would adopt a kid going ahead if I stay single for longer
I've never used a dating site and never would... And maybe you should adopt... So many kids out there needing a good home... I had mine already lol I'm in Grandma phase now lol have 1 two year old grandson 🥰🥰
Why maybe don't do the online dating thing. Hard to be catfished in real life. And take more time so you know not being fooled. The real person's true colors come through the more you get to know them
This is true but now days it doesn't necessarily have to be online to be fooled. Cell phones are just as dangerous and I feel like most the younger generation spend majority of their relationship on the phone.
Agreed. Should of put that in there. Text is no way to get to know someone. And data on phone makes it too easy to hide that you're texting other people. That really should of been part of the take. My bad
I believe you're extremely naïve to think online dating is an effective dating tool. Those who do online dating tend to be introverts , perverts, people with mental issues, attention whores. Another reason why it doesn't work is because people tend to solely judge based off of physical appearance as the first screening factor. I have online dated for 3 years and never had a successful relationship.
Umm hope that was hypothetical, because "I" don't believe nor engage in online dating, and I feel it's part of what wrong with dating these days which I covered in this take
From my experience, typically well adjusted, social people with enough time to date, who can get dates do not tend to date online. Usually when people do online dating, they have a reason for it. I've been on so many terrible dates, I know whats out there and who is using those apps.
Did you read the take? I said dating sites is one thing wrong with dating these days. And I'm not even trying to date and if I was, I sure wouldn't do dating sites or social media. Other than this, I'm not even on social media. No Facebook, Snapchat. Instagram, whatever.
Its harder. With feminist running around preaching their misandry and hate for men, females find it hard to trust men and now, it's vice versa with men also finding it hard to trust women.
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No i think its really harder people seem a lot more single minded nowadays and most seem to approach dating as expecting it to fail.
But, that's still people making it harder
But society tells us all especially females nowadays that you dont need a man in your life to be happy so thats the mindset people approach dating with. So yeah i guess people have made it harder because the actual concept of dating hasn't changed.
If you listen to society, instead of yourself? Who's fault is that? Society , others don't define me, my sex life, my relationship. No that's between me and the person I'm with. If you let society interfer or determine your relationship or your views, that's really on you, noone else, no offense, just saying 🤷🏼♀️
I totally agree but thats what seems to be happening
Only if you let it.
Can we get past the whole he's interested but I'm leery to as why and overanalyze a guys intention and totally miss what a relationship is about first? Smh always thinking their are ulterior motives. always.
I started dating in 1962. Yeah I know. Things were VERY different back then because people respected other people. Dating was fun so dating relationships lasted many months.
"Just because you buy someone dinner is no reason to expect to have sex with them."
True, but back in the day a common question was "Did you get anything offa her?" So, the sex thing WAS a goal for males. We loved the girls labeled "easy".
It IS harder now. I dated until age 69. Women have trust issues with everyone they meet. One potential partner said "Oh, by the way, I have an std. How nice. The honesty thing works both ways and it IS a jungle out there.
I started dating men at age 55. Totally different. There was ALWAYS sex play on the agenda and a complete lack of bullshit. Good times complete with orgasms. Go figure. I wonder if it's the same for 2 women?
Ok that's just looking for sex. Not everybody is looking for just sex. Some people actually do date because they are looking for a partner. And sex should never be expected. If you expect it from me, try to make it an obligation, you can expect not to get it! Sex is not something to be bought and paid for. If it is, then go pay a hooker
A hooker is sage advice. Take it to a pro for a superior product. So many women STILL treat sex as a reward. We're supposed to believe that they don't enjoy it. Right...
Sex should not be a reward any more than an obligation. Women don't say they don't enjoy sex. Men are the ones that claim women don't enjoy sex. Funny cuz I haven't talked to women on here who said they didn't enjoy. But have talked to a lot who do. Again tho, when it's mutual. Buying me or any woman a drink or dinner obligates sex. And if you think that way, are you not the one treating sex as a reward? Not the woman?
* don't obligate sex
No argument with that
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Thank you
"Men are the ones that claim women don't enjoy sex."
Golly. I wonder why?
by the way; dating, talking to, seeing, etc. ALL mean getting laid nowadays. I'm all for that for both parties. I don't treat it as a reward, I treat it as a gift from Almighty God to be mutually enjoyed. Don't tell me what I mean, ASK me what I mean.
Yeah and are you doing this with condoms? And you know STDs can be spread through just kissing and oral sex. And dating should not mean random sex with multiple people. That's hook up shit, not dating
And you are entitled to your opinion and can base your actions on that.
Me? No. I base my actions on MY values and have as much fun as I can handle.
No more from me here; you go your way, I'll go mine.
Yes a lot more both sides have demands off the bat can't be this age but can be this. They focused on the wrong things shallow things.
Very true well said
I so feel you.. I did not find any apps good for dating to be honest. It's disheartening but yeah staying single has lot of benefits.. I would adopt a kid going ahead if I stay single for longer
I've never used a dating site and never would... And maybe you should adopt... So many kids out there needing a good home... I had mine already lol I'm in Grandma phase now lol have 1 two year old grandson 🥰🥰
So cuteeee... How does it feel to be a grand mother 😍😍... U look beautiful at such age as well.. 😊
Thanks lol and he's a sweetheart and he looks so much like his grandpa it's like it's a piece of him still here ♥️
Love to him from my side 💓💓
Aww thanks 🙂
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Don't have that sorry
well clearly people are making it harder, as dating is comprised of people!
Lol right
I think it's so much harder to date today because there are so many different ways to be fooled and "catfished"
Why maybe don't do the online dating thing. Hard to be catfished in real life. And take more time so you know not being fooled. The real person's true colors come through the more you get to know them
This is true but now days it doesn't necessarily have to be online to be fooled. Cell phones are just as dangerous and I feel like most the younger generation spend majority of their relationship on the phone.
Agreed. Should of put that in there. Text is no way to get to know someone. And data on phone makes it too easy to hide that you're texting other people. That really should of been part of the take. My bad
Of course people make it harder than it needs to be, Why? Time, that's why, we somehow get dumber as the years go on
Social media has made us less social. The ability to just have a conversation has been reduced
I believe you're extremely naïve to think online dating is an effective dating tool. Those who do online dating tend to be introverts , perverts, people with mental issues, attention whores. Another reason why it doesn't work is because people tend to solely judge based off of physical appearance as the first screening factor. I have online dated for 3 years and never had a successful relationship.
Umm hope that was hypothetical, because "I" don't believe nor engage in online dating, and I feel it's part of what wrong with dating these days which I covered in this take
From my experience, typically well adjusted, social people with enough time to date, who can get dates do not tend to date online. Usually when people do online dating, they have a reason for it. I've been on so many terrible dates, I know whats out there and who is using those apps.
Did you read the take? I said dating sites is one thing wrong with dating these days. And I'm not even trying to date and if I was, I sure wouldn't do dating sites or social media. Other than this, I'm not even on social media. No Facebook, Snapchat. Instagram, whatever.
Tech is making people go false and makes them look for perfect things
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people complicate matters
I so agree. With their demands, sweating little things, preconceived notions, etc.
A lot of people have absurd expectations.
I agree
Honestly just date people to find what your looking for in someone
There are more choices for "dating" such as online relationships so we are not dependent on women who live in our area.
It’s hard but I mean complaining would do nothing so it is what it is to me.
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Its harder. With feminist running around preaching their misandry and hate for men, females find it hard to trust men and now, it's vice versa with men also finding it hard to trust women.
I love this my take. 😄
Thank you 🙂🤗
No its definitely hard in terms of finding what your looking for
Sometimes stop looking for what you think you're looking for and the real love happens
So true it's just harder than it looks
It's not only difficult, it's also very dangerous for men.