I was saying (IF marriage and kids are important to you - they aren't to everyone) that girls should start planning and working towards marriage MUCH EARLIER. The idea is to NOT rush, but instead to start the process earlier (perhaps much earlier) so they have plenty of time to pick a quality man while they can still attract the highest-quality guys out there. Too many women are waiting until their 30s before they take things seriously, and by then, on average, they can no longer attract the attention of the men they want - and who they could easily attract a few years earlier.
A lot of women who want marriage and families simply don't understand how important it is to make those things happen in their 20s rather than start working on it in their 30s.
It's the same reason I tell guys that they need to make changes to themselves, their clothes/style, their bodies, and their attitudes if they want to get female interest: because it's the truth, but it's not something that most people are ever really told. People are too afraid to offend people to tell them the truth, and in the long run, the results are much worse. You may have spared their feelings in the moment, but in the long run, their lives are much worse for not hearing the truth.
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What the hell is this and how did anyone come up with such bullshit as a "social market"?
Women severely overvalue themselves. Tinder has caused this. Him wanting to use your pussy for 30 minutes=/= he wants you as a person.
I say many hang ups we all have from height weight beauty to am I good for them so you never know
Most interesting myTake I've read in awhile
I'm surprised you didn't mention anything about the pill.
Marked for later read.
please post the link for men's version
This will be a fun one to watch! *gets popcorn*
What's your point though?
I was saying (IF marriage and kids are important to you - they aren't to everyone) that girls should start planning and working towards marriage MUCH EARLIER. The idea is to NOT rush, but instead to start the process earlier (perhaps much earlier) so they have plenty of time to pick a quality man while they can still attract the highest-quality guys out there. Too many women are waiting until their 30s before they take things seriously, and by then, on average, they can no longer attract the attention of the men they want - and who they could easily attract a few years earlier.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ux-WKpjzs38
A lot of women who want marriage and families simply don't understand how important it is to make those things happen in their 20s rather than start working on it in their 30s.
Why Do you feel the need to tell them these things? Do you not realise how patronising it sounds?
It's the same reason I tell guys that they need to make changes to themselves, their clothes/style, their bodies, and their attitudes if they want to get female interest: because it's the truth, but it's not something that most people are ever really told. People are too afraid to offend people to tell them the truth, and in the long run, the results are much worse. You may have spared their feelings in the moment, but in the long run, their lives are much worse for not hearing the truth.
A lot of Truth to this
You're on point as always Mr. Oracle.
Society is sexist. Nothing new here...
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