What I Like About Black Men

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In case you don't remember my old account, this is the post of my preference for white men: Why I'm So Obsessed With White Men

If you've read the post, or even know me just a little bit, you know that white men are my preference but that I also have obsessions with certain black male celebrities (Hola, Terry Crews 😍😍😍 ¿Cuando puedo ser su amorita? <3 )

What Makes Black Men Appealing To Me:

1) For interracial dating, black men tend to have the best attitude about it. This doesn't include ego. Black men never seem to have a problem with it, and they actually generally treat us the most respectfully, even better than our own guys do. I think it might be because even apart from us they tend to love dating interracially anyway, I don't know, but they tend to make us feel more wanted.
2) They don't discriminate. I know PLENTY of black men loooooove their white girls :) lol and that's my point: generally, if you're appealing to him then he doesn't give a crap what ethnicity you are. And he's not afraid to make you feel loved about it, either. (Examples: Black men will constantly tell a blonde how beautiful her hair is, and they'll constantly admire a latina for her accent.) They generally tend to find SOMETHING they like a lot about you and your culture, and then they dwell on it.
3) In contrast to our own latinos, black men tend to be less stuck-up. No offense to my latinos on that because tienen las ventajas también ✌️ , but any latina who's ever experienced interest from both black men and latinos will verify this in a heartbeat. (I mentioned this in my linked post too.)
4) Along with this, black men aren't very "soft." (physically or emotionally 😉 so sexy) If choosing a partner was all about wanting big rough hands and a man who's bold, I would only ever date black men.
5) HEIGHT!!! I love tall men. There's a reason why most of the greatest NBA players are black. I don't think I've ever seen a black guy under 5'10" unless he was about 14.
6) Physical build. I'm gonna solo out ONE SINGLE PERSON here, so forgive me if this is a nuissance... but Terry Crews is the ONLY man I've seen who can make a t-shirt look so fucking damn sexy. (Excuse my language.) It's his build and his tone together, I can't even describe it. Usually I'm a fan of guys dressing casual but a little more "up" rather than just a t-shirt, but if you can rock a t-shirt like Terry Crews then you're fly. ✌️

LADIES OF GAG, tell me you don't wanna just rip his shirt and pants off 😍😍

Conclusion: So far I have NEVER gotten the chance to date a black man so I can't base anything on what love life would be like or any of that since I have not experienced it. I've talked to some and have had mutual interests but never dated.
I will jump the loop and say that the stereotype that black men are bigger down there is false, and as a 23-year-old woman who gets dick pics from rude guys all the time, I 100% know that.

[JDavid25]

"I will jump the loop and say that the stereotype that black men are bigger down there is false, and as a 23-year-old woman who gets dick pics from rude guys all the time, I 100% know that.".. Not entirely as the biggest penis average in the world is in some African country.. 😂😂.. As for the rest.. I really just wannabe seen as a good and handsome guy rather than a list of positive stereotypes thrown into a person.. And ha I remember that other post!..

[Yads_Is_Back]

Yes 😁and yeah, I totally get where you’re coming from about wanting to be loved for YOU.
I didn’t know that, on average? Never bothered to look the data up on penis size either tbh lol I just noticed a variation of exceptions and took note.

[JDavid25]

Of course.. And yeah yours are not bad, and more towards the nice and mild side.. Paintin "Black" men as more of gentlemen of nice physicality who appreciate you and don't discriminate.. But some other people can go crazy.. 😂.. And yeah the Democratic Republic of Congo has comes in at 7.1 inches on average..

[JDavid25]

I agree though that "Black" men in general are not specifically bigger..

[JDavid25]

Thank you for MHO!.. 😀😀..

[Agem123]

I'm white myself, but I love black men😍

This myTake made me think of my boyfriend, who's also black.

[Guy13]

Hey, you like what you like when you like it as is evident by your differing posts in this subject area.-What's the harm in that?

[bluehen46]

You did not mention it, but curios of what race you are. Won't it be great when it does not matter, but people do now.
I am not one of these hate black guys, but call things like i see that and disagree wtih much of this

My take and i call it like i see it.
1,2, OF course they are the most open to it. Match. com said blacks are the group as a whole least desired by other races ( other than fetishes by LOTS OF WHITE WOMEN) but most willing to date outside of their race. I mean most black men will jump over a black woman for a white woman. The movie get out if looked at critically even says the easiest bait for black men is white tail and for many white women dating black men it seems more ghetto or gangster the better when their are plenty of educated black men.
3 Dont know much about being stuck up as I know several latino females but most males i know are texans as as redneck as the white guys. On commenting on blondes every man knows women need egos stroked and that is one way to keep a girl
4. very true, but that can be a bad thing if you look at negatives like wanting to fight at the damn drop of a hat or "brother with an attitude" stereotype.
5 plenty of tall white guys as well but yes and its genetic but big and bulky and tall you are more apt to be white but thin and fast and tall black.
6. This goes back to evolution when white people were hunters gathers and blacks where hunting big game in africa. It is very common to find black men lean with six packs abs as its ore natural just like while many top bodybuilders are back or biraical ( too many steroids to really use as a basis) at the natural level many top compeitors are white as size and muscle mass is something many blacks do not get.

People like what they like and that is fine. In the same survey but by another company they divorce rates. Black M/white F had the highest divorce rate. What is funny is very much less common White M/BLack F tied with Asian M/White F for the lowest divorce rates. Now there can be lots of reasons, but in the white woman black male thing I often say if for the woman if pecker size, pissing daddy off, white guilt, or thinking reparations are being given between your legs then you have a serious problem almost as bad as racism. If a black guy thinks it means he made it in the "white man's world" to date a white woman, likes to piss white people off then he has problems.
With everything going on in this country today I would hope love conquers all but it is probably the worst time to start a black white relationship but love is love and that is what is important, just be aware there are things you will likely go through and even liberals have their racial issues> they just present differently.

[Anonymous]

you really are delusional if you think that. when I was in Cleveland years ago I saw a black woman who's face was busted up with a black eye her black boyfriend gave her which must of been the night before or two nights ago because it was a fresh bruise on her face. and I know a few other black guys who cheated on their girlfriend's and one who even sexually assaulted women which is why I'm not friends with him anymore as well as robbing a cash register from his job at taco bell and given an ultimatum by his boss to either pay him back or go to jail. naturally he paid him back instead of going to prison. then you got all these black thugs blasting their ghetto shit music in their shitty cars all crazy hours of the night and day with their loud bass. you really don't know what a good guy is even if one fell on your lap and you won't realize it until you're dragging around a few ankle bitters around your waist looking for some poor sappy beta male white guy to take care of you and your bratty loud screaming kids which by the way I've seen happen a lot white girls and black girls dragging around a few ankle biters on the bus with the kids screaming and crying and their fat out of shape mother screaming and talking loud to them her female friends and on their damn cell phones and wanting to hook up with the next bad boy she sees while looking for that pathetic beta male to take care of her and her screaming brats

[Opinion Owner]

and that is pure life experience talking

[Opinion Owner]

something which you clearly don't have at your age

[BlckGrl]

Thank you so much. Black men actually treat every woman of other races better than us. They hate us

[GiselleLove]

My God! Learn punctuation

[Opinion Owner]

@GiselleLove Learn to quit being so knitpicking

[GiselleLove]

I expect the best grammar and punctuation.

[GiselleLove]

Yeah.

[Anonymous]

🤣 sumbody lied to you sista. Black men aren't it. I will say Terry crews is decent but black men in general no!! Do not do it to yourself. As a black woman i will say..

Most them come from broken families
Mentally and emotionally unstable
Victim mentality
They hate their own race
They are "mr me too's" meaning they always follow a trend and dont have a mind of their own.
They always disrespect women listen to their music they call women "bitches and hoes 24/7.

If you want a good man get you a latino or white guy.

[0oGreyo0]

1. Victim mentality black women main ones talking about oppressing.
2. Broken families lol YOUR BLACK HAHA you come from the same "Broken families"
3. They hate their race ( white and latino men are It lol. No You hate your race because all you can get is A broke thug black man. You could never get a Obama, or therey cres or attorney Daniel Cameron
4. They call women bitches and how's. Nicki Minaj and cardi b and Megan the stallion do it all the time.

ENJOY ADAPTING TO WHITE SOCIETY lol. And let's be clear you can only pull are broke beat up white man lol

[Bethmelan123]

@0oGreyo0 thank you

[Mehzmeh]

Wait that means I have a shot? Lol... That was a joke by the way.

I am a black male. For the last 15 years. I have dated out of my race. Mostly because, black women don't find me attractive. Especially where I grew up and moved back to after I got off of active duty. And most black women think I am stuck up. And, say shit like, I don't talk like a black man. Or listen to "black people's music". So, it has been the other race's that love everything about me. Especially, since I, can cook food from anywhere in the world.

I also know there are black men who are like shorter than 5' 10. Like my father. He was 5' 8". I am 6' 2". One of my co coworkers is 5' 5". Lol. They're out there. Lol

[Freddy78361]

Height:
Kevin Hart.

Good luck in your search; I wish you success in getting all your stereotypical needs met.

I wonder why women don't write these types of things about Asian men (Indian, Pakistani, Afghan, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indonesian, Siberian, etc.)? It's always just black and white.

[Bethmelan123]

People are just racists and love to waste time... That's why

[0oGreyo0]

I honestly dont know I dont even I forget Asian and middle eastern even exist. It's mostly black white latino for me . talking about talks

[Yads_Is_Back]

Maybe because she's doing one of each and hasn't done the one for Asians yet and since it's COVID she has the time to waste with no med school classes... but when I do the Asian one, I'll make sure to put that they're jealous, just for you

[Freddy78361]

But I am not Asian. I am white as white gets. I just don't like to think that people are discriminated against.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Nobody is being discriminated against. I gave a list of pros as to why I like black men.

[Freddy78361]

And you also have a preference post for white men. Will you do one for Asian men? Native Americans or first peoples?
If you prefer multiple groups and leave one out you are discriminating against them by omission.

[Yads_Is_Back]

I'm gonna do one for those as well as Middle Easterners and also my own ethnicity. There's not a group I would single out due to race. Therefore, I am not discriminating.

[startingfitness]

western women often fetishize white men and black men. Non-white women often fetishize white men and white women + Latinas and sometimes Asians fetishize black men. Not so much for other races. For men of other races, if you are tall, look fit and are handsome then you are good otherwise you better bring a great personality and some money/status else you are better off finding a woman in your home country.
It is what it is.

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@startingfitness Truth 💯

[startingfitness]

This is kinda generalized. Black men generally enjoy positive stereotypes when it comes to women, but those same stereotypes also work against them. Your points 4, 5 and 6 are what many women find attractive about them, but those same qualities are what some people use to excuse their irrational fear/aversion of black men/black people in general.

I know some black dudes like the positive stereotypes, when it does fit them, but I also have friends who do not like those stereotypes and don't like it when women expect that from them. They are cool guys and you will definitely miss out on them if you were to come at them with this type of energy.

[HotPinkDominatrxSlut]

I'm a very white white woman with natural platinum blonde hair longer than I am tall and very bright very light blue eyes and am happily married to and have kids with a very dark sexy black man. I have always loved black men because they're sexy have big xi ks and fick so good! And if course they love us beautiful natural blonde blue eyed white girls because we're the hottest sexiest most beautiful most feminine girls and men of all races love and want us.
Non-blonde women especially black women are soooo jealous of us because they're so ugly smell bad have bad hair and no man of any race wants them.
They especially get jealous when the ses us with dark sexy black men. Black women get so mad and jealous when they see me with my black husband and black kids.

[ucanthandlthetruth]

I think your setting yourself up to start having interracial sex. Your dying to do it but afraid of what the répercussions might be. Because honestly, MAYBE 5 percent of the white male population are ok with this. Knowing this keeps you from doing it because if you decide sex with black men isn't for you, you'll have to relocate to find another white dude because now not only is your reputation tainted, so is your body!!

[Yads_Is_Back]

Lmao! No no no 😂😂😂 My first Love was white, and both of sexual partners (He was the first.) were white. I’ve never done it with a black guy,

[ucanthandlthetruth]

I didn't say you did. I said you want to.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Still false. I don’t want to do it, and what you said is actually not my reason why.

[ucanthandlthetruth]

Now I just read yet another post about your admiration of black men. Your going to be burning coal by next month if you haven't already. I hope you like living a black life cuz once you cross that line you can't go back.

[Yads_Is_Back]

That’s false, I could go back to my own or white men if I wanted to. You make it sound like I’m so obsessed with black men. Read the linked take on my preference for white men.

[ucanthandlthetruth]

I don't have to. I know what you are

[ucanthandlthetruth]

If you were ok with interracial sex you wouldn't be on here talking about it like it's a fuk'n survey. Your seeking approval to go do something you really want to do because of rumors that you hear but deep down you know your life after that is fucked.

[ucanthandlthetruth]

Why am I even discussing this. Your already fucking them. Your on here looking for justification because everyone knows why white girls fuck black men.

[ucanthandlthetruth]

AND, done caught you in a lie. You have fucked a black man. After I said you can't go back you say, "not true, I can go back if I want."

[ucanthandlthetruth]

Quit looking on here for justifications for being a coal burning whore and take your just desserts.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Dude... You’ve got problems. For real. I’ve never fucked a black man. I’ve had two partners, and both were white. You’re also claiming I’m a white girl when I’m latina and am mixed with quite a variety. How can you think you’re right on all this when you don’t even know my life? Like you know me better than I do 😂😂😂You stalking me for life or something?
Why would anybody need justification for having interracial sex anyway? And my two partners... I don’t need to justify that to you. You can think I’m a hoe, murderer, shot the president, stabbed the prime, minister, raped a baby, etc. ... doesn’t make any of it true. You’re not God and you’re definitely not a lawyer, so you’re wasting your time here and making yourself look bad.

[WildButterflyKiss]

I'm curious how people would respond if you wrote "what I don't like about black men". You do realize skin color means nothing more than skin color, right? Two black men are guaranteed to be similar in exactly one and only one way.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Again, science and variables. Two variables don't have to be related, but they CAN be facts. Nothing I said is invalid.

[WildButterflyKiss]

Every black man is unique. Every man is unique. If you think dark skin is beautiful, awesome, so do I, but every person is unique, so just finding a black man doesn't mean you'll find all or any of the qualities you described.

[Yads_Is_Back]

https://www.medicinenet.com/height_men/article.htm
The stats speak for themselves. Doesn't mean race and height, as the variables, are directly related - one independent and one dependent. In science, there are actually more data sets that go together but have no correlations than data sets that show us things.
Kid Version of saying this: I know everybody is unique, which is obvious because it's a one-by-one-by-one individual thing, but tendencies are still there.

[WildButterflyKiss]

So you like tall, dark, handsome, well-built, and manly. Welcome to the club ♥️

[Anonymous]

Nice! It's refreshing to see someone on here not hate on black people for a change, thank you.

I think men of all races are wonderful, but black men are great too!

[Red_Dragon]

Just your typical stereotypes. To me Terry Crews is oddly very different than your typical black guy.

[0oGreyo0]

Is it cuz he's GAy?

[Red_Dragon]

@0oGreyo0 I didn't know he was gay. Doesn't he have a wife?

[0oGreyo0]

That dont mean he's gay. He's let a man touch his balls in front if his wife. What would make a man do that to another man unless he did it before

[Red_Dragon]

@0oGreyo0 well I didn't know that so no that had no influence on why I said what I said.

[0oGreyo0]

Oh well, now you know lol.

[Yads_Is_Back]

I'm referencing his appearance. In that way, no he's not different.

[Red_Dragon]

Most black guys aren't as jacked as him either. He's a body builder. Your average black man.. is not. Sure I'm fit but there's a difference between being fit and looking like Terry Crews.

[brie15435544]

yeah its like saying you're attracted to Beyonce so you like black chicks. Nah she's like universally found attractive. You don't need to be attracted to black chicks to find her attractive

[Anonymous]

My question is why? I mean why be with a boyfriend that can't satisfy you but you don't want to leave him. Is it because is to late to break up with him or break his heart? Cuz I ask some girls before why not stay single. They say I like him but his dick is small that is the only downside. I am like 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️.

When I date a female once they see my ck. They like oh no I am sorry that 😲. Can't handle it. I am like what in the world, everything is all backwards. 🤦‍♂️

[brie15435544]

You can like what ever you want. Just a few facts. Black guys on average in America are an inch shorter than white guys. Average 5'9'. white men 5'10". in Africa black guys are actually quite short. White men the tallest worldwide. Id post links but im just lv2 at this point.

Black men may be slightly bigger down there on average but its by like mm. Its not even noticable. There isn't really much difference between the races in terms of dick size. For example Asian guys are really not as small as they are portrayed to be.

[Anonymous]

It's also a myth that they are taller. I used to work at a warehouse with hundreds of black guys and I was taller than 95% of them and I'm only 6'1. They are just happy to get away from black women usually but evidence suggests that the good treatment they give to white women doesn't hold up over the long run.

[BlckGrl]

They eventually give them the same treatment as black women. Black men usually like other races or women because they see them as a trophy and they want to breed a certain looking child.

[DizzyDesii]

Terry crews always seemed undercover to me lol but he's funny. As for height, you must ain't been down south 🤣 Majority of black dudes i know are 5’5’-5’10. I only know a few over 6’2

[Jack9949]

Interesting how you mention the dick size part at the end. People are just watching too much porn then. 😂😂

[Yads_Is_Back]

Because everybody talks about it 🤣🤣🤣

[Jack9949]

And why is it that your getting all these dick pics? Like... wtf is wrong with people 😂

[Iron_Man]

For your information Tua tagovailoa is not black he's Hawaiian I know thats your crush

[Yads_Is_Back]

True

[A1513]

I know why I like black men, but do not want to say. I've never thought about the emotional side of it. At the same time, you know how us guys tend to focus on the physical aspect as opposed to emotional.

[COMMODOREII]

Cool just like my mytake on black women. Maybe we are more alike after all. 😁😎

[Yads_Is_Back]

I think we’ve established that lol

[COMMODOREII]

So i am curious. Where do you go for our first date? Coffee? Or pizza? 😉

[Yads_Is_Back]

Who says you and I are dating? 😂 Now that part I was not aware of 🤔

[COMMODOREII]

Just a thought. Frankly i like the pizza idea then we can eat and enjoy each other's company. 😉