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Yea... doesn’t really matter on your look. I think it matters on your individualism. Being all out you. No excuses, no apology.
I can easily have sex with hot young chicks with a belly. The belly was the delusion I had in thinking why a woman didn’t want, and it gave me the excuse not to try. But I gotta say, working out boosts your confidence and mental state.
And yes though my body got better, nothing ever beats confidence in your self. Confidence to walk in this world out loud because you are an equal to all human.
Go out and try... adjust, aim and try. And keep doing this until you start getting it.
Crawl if you must,
walk if you can.
Run if you wish.
I think there are some valid points here like "work on yourself" and for sure, points for not being so annoyingly condescending in a mytake for guys like many girls have written here, but I think there is something very important missing:
The trick is to trade thirstiness for focusing on oneself until one is at least a decent level. If a girl wants to join a man at a decent level or even better, while he works to achieve that level, that should be on them, and if they come too late or never come at all, it is OK to say oh well and be forever single. If a man is beyond happy and content, why should a woman being involved with it matter at all?
Lastly, the last statement can also be applied to women in vice versa, but so can much of this mytake, don't forget. :)
The problem isn't men it's women as a woman has clearly shown. If a woman can't even get a date from women then I'm pretty sure I know where the issues lies and it's not with men.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/DZTIbHIsIYwInteresting video. The messed up thing is, the guy's not even that attractive, like a 6.5 out of 10, and had a woman helping him, and still got more matches than most men get in months. Which is like, three a month, if you're lucky!
@MCheetah Think it was just sheer luck because it was a new account they made and as you know with tinder when you sign up you get a few matches, to begin with, to entice you to keep swiping but then that's where it ends.
@daniel3035
I didn't even know that about Tinder because I literally only ever matched up with ads and bots. So even when I was new on it, I didn't get that boost on there. I've since deleted Tinder, though. Who needs that kind of depression?
@MCheetah Very true it's literally there for women to boost their ego that is all it is a self-esteem/validation boost. Men lining up at a desk for women just give it some time as you hit 25 you're the older guy, and she's the older women all the older guys will chase the new young 18+ girls leaving those older girls who played with men's hearts alone and then they realise "oh no I messed up" as they desperately search for some kind of beta male. In the end, men win.
Joker says it all on his channel he speaks the truth because everything he says I can honestly relate to from personal experience.
www.youtube.com/channel/UC9ctsJZ2aD1nCexfqj342NQ
Stage 1: Denial (It's all good, I'm sure if I wait patiently I'll find someone eventually)
Stage 2: Anger (Fuck this shit, all these hoes just want guys with big dicks anyway)
Stage 3: Bargaining (Maybe if I make more money and spend it on them, they'll have to love me)
Stage 4: Depression (How come they don't want me, man?)
Stage 5: Acceptance (It was never meant to be, just don't deserve that kind of happiness)
Me:
Stage 2 (these hoes just want men with money anyway)
Omit Stage 4
Stage 5 (Sure, whatever. Don't. I'ma go and have fun by myself. You keep sitting on instagram, I'll go to the beach)
I prefer small dicks and don't trust rich men who think they can get away with anything
Google is your friend... do your research
Not all... but gives the potential... and I don't trust
Say that to male cunts like you
I've been unsuccessful in the sense I tend to go for or attract the wrong partners. I come across a bit playerish where as I'm actually the type who wants a LTR. And due to that I tend to attract girls who want a fun time and not much else. And as a result when they figure out I want a relationship they either jump ship or lie like fuck to keep the fun times going.
It's something I'm trying to fix but finding if I'm more straight forward with my intentions it tend to drive women away quicker (and i don't get even sex out of it). It's a learning process finding the balance.
That's a strange unique situation I must say. I hope you find your balance soon
Rules For Dating as a Man:
Rule 1:
Don't listen to women when they give you dating advice. They have no fucking clue what they're talking about nor do they possess the capacity to develop a working comprehension of what they're talking about.
Rule 2: See Rule 1.
Rule 3: Rinse
Rule 4: Repeat
Mann respect. Your literally the only guy here that knows what he is saying. I even included ur message in my comment. Women want wage gaps to end but don’t have the audacity or the balls to approach a man or go for what they want
@Nades In reality, when you factor in all the shit women get away with there is no wage gap. That said. in their 20s women are out earning men by serious margins since men can't get started in career positions until our 30s if ever. Wage gap is a myth.
She is actually giving some solid advice.
But yes the wage gap is not real.
@ThisIsMyOpinion It doesn't matter if her answers are coincidentally "good", she's still a woman giving advice to men on a topic she couldn't have any real understanding of. There is no partial credit on this one, we need to throw the baby out with the bathwater here because any good advice she might give is shrouded in improper reasoning and other bad advice.
She is a girl. If someone can give us information on what they want is her.
@ThisIsMyOpinion if you honestly believe women know what they want you're insane.
While I am sure some lie to themselves I am positive that some things they know they want, like loyalty, care, companionship, etc.
@ThisIsMyOpinion The way you can tell what a woman wants is to listen specifically for what she says she doesn't want. That is the exact guy they end up with 99% of the time.
You and I clearly have had different experiences and know very different people.
@ThisIsMyOpinion you've clearly never met a female in your life.
I am married dude. Also I have 3 sisters.
@DeltaCharlieEcho So yes, I know a thing or two about women.
@ThisIsMyOpinion sure you are and do...
@DeltaCharlieEcho Do you want me to change my picture to one of my wedding? No really I can do that easy.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I even have one with me, my wife my sisters and my brother.
@ThisIsMyOpinion whatever makes you happy.
@DeltaCharlieEcho backing off now?
Besides looking at both of us and considering our attitudes it's pretty obvious who from us doesn't have a problem getting girls attention.
@ThisIsMyOpinion No, I have two jobs and as much as I'd like to make you understand just how foolish you are, I don't have the time.
@DeltaCharlieEcho that coming from a guy with the motions about women that you do is a compliment.
@ThisIsMyOpinion I feel like you grossly overestimate the meaning or intention of what people say. Read what's written or remain a fool.
@DeltaCharlieEcho I just saw another post of yours. I can say with 100% sure you are the fool.
Tell me are you in a relationship? I can guess...
@ThisIsMyOpinion whatever you want to believe kiddo. I've got a chick hardcore hitting on me everyday right now, and she's more than likely hotter than any chick you've ever been with.
@DeltaCharlieEcho suuuuuuuuure!
@ThisIsMyOpinion believe what you want, I have nothing to prove to you.
@DeltaCharlieEcho looking at you, no one would believe.
@ThisIsMyOpinion heh, whatever you say champ.
No. I refuse to compete for somebody who doesn't have to undertake nearly the same effort or risk in return.
Relationships have been totally skewed to the net benefit of women over the last few generations! And ifyou don't believe me just compare the typical expectations across gender lines. Millennial men can be grateful just to get laid by a woman they find attractive on a one-time basis, whereas millennial women have the luxury to demand it all from a mythical man they expect to flaunt to their friends as a status symbol! In short, women want all the independence without any of the responsibility.
"Take a shower" come on bruh you're literally a meme. It really goes to show how lowly you think of men and how much you overlook average guys who take decent care of themselves but clearly aren't exciting enough for you to take notice of.
I think most of the frustration comes from unrealistic expectations and limited focus. A lot of guys focus on one girl, usually one who has dozens of guys interested in her. Most of those other men are taller, more muscular, better looking in her opinion, make more money, are more interesting, etc. When she chooses one of those others, guys with the aforementioned mindset get depressed and then, after awhile, repeat the cycle. They might spend years stuck on this hamster wheel, which gets them to the "bitter" stage.
The solution is to change the approach. I cast a wide net and don't let the numerous rejections bother me. If I ask a dozen girls and one says "yes" that is success to me.
And guys, be realistic. If you live with the folks and skateboard to your night shift job at Taco Bell, the Instagram models who are making six figures and getting hit on my multimillionaire sports stars are probably not going to reply to you.
"cast a wide net" means work your ass off like a door-to-door salesman for people who most likely won't ever give a fuck about you. I get why you might still want to sell something to those people, but why would ever want to date one of them?
@DonCachondo dating for men largely consists of approaching women that most likely won't give a fuck about them so its not that bad of an idea to cast a wide net. Plus why let yourself get attached? That way if one rejects you, move onto the next girl that you haven't went on a date with yet.
@Hunter7754 look, I'm not going to date fat or stupid chicks. Nothing worth having is easy to get. Be firm in your convictions and take what you want, and God be with anyone that stands in your way.
@DonCachondo "Cast a wide net" means ask a lot of girls, wannabe genius.
yeah, like a door to door salesman. What the hell are you getting on about? lol
@DonCachondo Dating for men is basically being a door-to-door salesman
@Hunter7754 yeah and it's BS!!! lol
The Game:
Yes some of us guys know about 'the game'. In all fairness it's not always 50/50. Ever been good looking and been messed around just because they know you like them. Sometimes there is no game it a matter of knowing when to stop because she's messing with you. It's not always a one stop shop.
Be your own master piece:
So if you not good looking, tough man. You gonna be single for life.
Change that mindset:
Aaa yes the "somethings off" card. No concrete evidence but you just "have a feeling". So as a guy we must "sense" (and yes woman like us guys so sense everything) what about us is off. I have seen guys with strong mindsets, it does nothing if you look like some animal from Animal Planet that's got a bad hair day.
How bad do you want it:
So again, we must just workout and look good. Screw the mindset, it's all about the body! It must be because we've covered good looks twice already.
I liked it. Do you think that someone without any confidence can train themselves to have this Big Dick Attitude you talk about?
Regardless of that, the Change that Mindset section was my favourite. Great positive vibes there
Sure you can! The looking good part adds to that. On top of that you can reach personal goals. Achievements will also boost your confidence
Thank you :)
youve basically told guys to change their appearance and work out 😂
you know girls are absolutely switched off post lockdown, nothing will change that.
The only positive would be a change of attitude, not being negative. But that eludes most people.
I've always hated having to approach women.
I was raised Catholic by a single mother so I had no one to teach me how. Frankly women's advice on how men should approach is litteraly the exactly wrong way lol.
So I never asked anyone and only date women who asked me out which hasn't happened in a decade. Oh well, such is life.
This shit only works for women.
Think about this for a sec. If the modern woman can get any hot guy she wants then chances are she won't waste time on you no matter how much you better yourselves.
Average looking women on average can get 500PMs a month on dating sites
Handsome men get 2PMs a year.
Genetically hot guys get 100PMs a year
Basically if you aren't genetically hot then don't bother. Women have so many options these days.
This was actually good advice.
Too many guys giving up without trying. I also think nofap would benefit a lot of these guys. Chromic pmo is lowering a lot of males' testosterone to the point of causing excessive stress and anxiety which they shouldn't be having.
It also lowers motivation, making self improvement look like a chore.
That being said, dating and finding a partner has been getting harder for men more than in previous times. So there is a social factor involved in this as well.
All this effort just to get a date/sex while women just have to exist. Maybe do their hair and make-up. You can do all the self improvement you want and go from a 5 to a 6 or maybe 7 but women can still just hop on a site like Tinder and find an 8 in 5 minutes.
I'm sorry you feel like this, but maybe you haven't met the right girl for you. I put in the effort when I like a guy when a woman wants you most of them will tell you or give you hints and men do swipe on almost every girl on Tinder, so it's easier for them that way
@nerdybutlazy oh hints woooow so much effort
@DonCachondo It's easier than flat out saying I like you cause some guys can't handle that kind of information
@nerdybutlazy that's the most insecure bullshit I've ever heard. What a lazy excuse. If guys can handle rejection, they can handle requests. Have you actually even tried to make an effort before?
@DonCachondo I've been in a relationship for the past 6 months because I made moves stop trying to drag people you don't know, I didn't even respond to you in the first place you just came out of nowhere and came for me, maybe this is why women don't make a move on you...
@nerdybutlazy lol weak
@nerdybutlazy and you did actually respond to me lol you tagged me even
@DonCachondo I'm sorry you're lonely bitter little man
@nerdybutlazy omg laaaaame
Nice little piece. The only thing I'd add is that dating isn't for everyone. There are plenty of other ways to get into relationships.
And another, a relationship is not the definition of happiness. There are so many more things to add
What are the other ways I’m curious if you don’t mind me asking
Do men really need love or rather sex? I am really curious how men body and brain work. I dont mean to hurt anyone. However, i often heard that men rather want sex and avoid commitment except they want kids. So if this is true, man that is fucking cool. That means you dont need anyone to be happy or any love from someone. You just can buy a fucking sex doll and that is it. But i dont know if men really wants it, if yes, i can't understand these lonely men then since they can buy sex or provide for themself a sexdoll.
Is that a joke? Are you mentally disabled?
Dont mistake with yourself fag
😂bihubil
Stop generalizing
OK what I don't understand is that I thought every single man -even if he feels that he is looks challenged - can get a woman. Granted they won't get the one that he feels is his type. But I feel that where many men fail is that they discard a blessing because it is not wrapped up in the package that they want.
That goes for women too actually.
Actual incels literally wouldn't be a thing if that was even remotely true. They are willing to date crazy homeless women, 90 year old widows, and serial killers as long as they're biologically female, and they still can't get a woman.
@MCheetah There are many women who are intellectually disabled and men take advantage of them.
We are genetically wired to seek out the best genes for replication. Women are no different, other than they are also wired to seek survival traits, which today only means one thing. $$$$$$
The bottom of the barrel of women are always looking. Men have standards. We should be allowed to have a healthy woman. Not this I like food and don’t work out shit. Not the ima bitch and I know it brand I’m so tired of that one... there’s almost no such thing as average when women judge other women. But with men all men are average except the ugly ones and the top 10%ers.
Her heart. Have you ever asked a man on a date? Have you ever accepted a date from someone you thought you could do better than? Not a horrible person but you just thought you could do better than. i would rather be single than tap dance to women anymore.
Thanks for your bullshit answer. As a guy who gets rejected and ghosted a lot this is good advice. I do get frustrated sometimes with dating. I'm going to try for the rest of the year to be a better version of myself. So, hopefully next year I will finally get my first girlfriend.
Male frustration may be our salvation, from the decadent nation we've become in relation, to the meaningful era of mutual relations, between men and the women who've gone on vacation... with the top ten percent of the men's population, relegating the others to enjoy masturbation...