Although I haven't dated yet, I will talk about what led me to feel disillusioned about dating & marriage.
1. The Odds of Dating Ends up In Heartache Is At Least 50%
Hellen Chen, the author of "Hellen Chen 's Love Seminar: the Missing Manual that Will Make Your Relationship Last" stated that in 18 countries, more than 85% of relationship ends in separation. If more than 50% of relationship ends in heartache, why bother dating someone.
2. Money as Source of Stress in Relationship
A poll in CNBC article "Money Is The Leading Cause of Stress in Relationships" discovered 35% of respondents stated money as the cause of tension in relationships. If money is the leading cause of tension in relationship, what chance do I have in making relationship work?
3. The Probability of Marriage Ending in Divorce is 40% to 50%
In the subsection "Marriage and Divorce" from the homepage of American Psychology Association, around 40 to 50% of marriage results in divorce. If around 40 to 50% of marriage ends in failure, then marriage is equivalent to financial suicide.
4. Custody Battle Between Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie
From the USA Today article "Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie Set to Take Custody Battle Over their Six Kids to A Private Trial", Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie could have a private trial since they can't resolve custody issue. If Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie have a nasty custody battle, then what chances do married couples have should their marriage falls apart?
Here are my 4 reasons why I am disillusioned with dating & marriage.
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