What I learned from attracting women over messaging or a first date (Page 2)

[TheSpaceGnome]

That is really is stupid advice, no advice that involves being manipulative or uses a cooker cutter approach is worth listening to.

There is no one way that women think or act or respond to anything.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yeah, my issue has always been the number 3, never know to what degree to do it (to much and your a creep not at all and they are not interested in you). But otherwise seems accurate.

[LeoElias]

The sex convo doesn't work with a virgin especially the ones waiting for marriage. Bring up sex and she'll shut it down. It's only because she's looking for something serious not some fun interesting guy atm

[Anonymous]

Congratulations on being physically attractive enough to draw shallow women in... because it's obviously not due to your personality, self-esteem, or charisma.
What you are trying to do is adorable in a transparent way but you are trying a tiny bit too hard to convince us of your studliness... and we all know there are no mightier studs than online studs

[Bratsondanielle]

30? That ain't that much really. Y would we hate?

And I tend to find that sex just happens if it's meant to. Don't chase it

Peace

[ChrisG30]

Lol, sex doesn't just happen. Do you realise the guy behind the scenes is trying to lift the relationship up to that point while trying to avoid being accused of rape?

[themythos]

Agree with @ChrisG30. Unless the girl extremely horny, shit dont "just happen".

[Bratsondanielle]

@themythos lol this is... we agree if the girl didn't get any for few weeks she's probably "extremely horny " as u say. I wonder how the hell you guys usually get your pussy... usually a boy and a girl are fooling around and it just ends up in bed at least in my world.

[themythos]

i usually dont fool around since im not into hookup culture. I assume you go to clubs bars parties etc.
I've gone out with 3 girls (much less then 30) and stayed with one for more about a year. We cuddled madeout then had sex. Not sure how people start grinding on stragers fuck and never talk again.

[Bratsondanielle]

@themythos assume all u want dude. I just said usually a guy and a girl would meet and talk etc and if they like each other eventually they will be alone in a house and eventually the clothes will come off. Usually I doubt the guy is afraid of being reported for rape when he's in that bed. I think if that's the case there's something seriously wrong with that situation

[themythos]

Its not a bad or rude assumption in anyway. The way you stated your comment made me think you go out a lot if you like to party good on you.

[PushOrganic]

@ChrisG30 I agree, you have rookie numbers

Nearly every girl has 2x that body by 21 and personally I went over that by 20-21. Counting bodies like that is really something inexperienced people I've noticed as I matured. Who the fuck wants to keep track of that all that? You must know by now to be outcome independent. Counting bodies like that, and your conversion ratio shows dependence to an outcome ""deerrrrrr i gotta get my body count up""

I sincerely hope this motivates you to do better

[themythos]

20 is low to you all? We livin in different worlds, 5 would be the max id ever want.

[themythos]

*edit "(30) is low to you all?"* continued... I hope to god not every girl sleeps around as much as you say. (Sorry for double reply phone died)

[Bratsondanielle]

@themythos ok so... just clarifying I said it wasn't much I just want to say I'm well below that. Also I live with my steady boyfriend and I don't go to bars or clubs except for sometimes driving my friends. The 5 minutes a month inside a bar that give me where some stinking loser is sure to enlighten me about his fantasy is more than enough bars for me. Peace and merry Christmas

[TessCasie]

all I read was sex sex sex sex and sexual questions
it looks like you only attract women to just have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

Mostly works on cheap girls that'd fuck a dog if they were paid enough. I feel sorry for guys who believe this shit actually works for more than a slut.

[BroWhyIsEveryName]

It depends on wether you are looking for aa long term relationship or not

[JosyJosy]

3 is a nope for me, then again maybe the girls are after short term dating, a hookup etc, that should work on them

[Alyssa11]

Lol I didn’t know men gave so much thought to these things.

[brennanhuff]

They shouldn’t. To think that much Is to overthink. I think guys can improve but cookie cutter approaches like this are not ideal. My opinion is this is what naturally playful funny witty guys do. If this isn’t really a guys strength or personality, he shouldn’t really focus too much on doing this as it more often might not come off as cute or smooth as he thinks it will be.

[Alyssa11]

@brennanhuff I agree. And most of the time to be honest, we can tell when a guy is trying too hard.

[Twinrova]

Most importantly though, be at least a 7/10 to avoid being creepy.

:^)

[Twinrova]

Not a bad article fr.

[PinkGiraffee]

So the point of this post was to explain your method for... the steps for.. getting a girl to sleep with you?

[DiegoO]

I have one better, be yourself and have the necessary social skills, and know who you really want to date.

[prince350]

Yeah. All good. Little bitches generally just want relevance through fighting. None seem to simply have it. I don't have the time to make them feel relevant if they have no guts to engage.

[FairEnough]

Does not count for every girl, it depends on the person.

[Daniel3035]

Oh trust me this won't work I got a lot of sex from bars and in person but online these girls are there for the attention.

[brennanhuff]

Yes they are

[Anonymous]

Okay and this is being a "devil" or "asshole" how exactly? This is just standard.

[Chriscunning]

It's a fine line between the 2. "The pickup artist" calls it "negging".

A neg is not an insult but a negative social value judgment that is telegraphed. It's the same as if you pulled out a tissue and blew your nose. There's nothing insulting about blowing your nose. You haven't explicitly rejected her. But at the same time, she will feel that you aren't even trying to impress her.

[ChrisG30]

A women who understands what's going on behind the scenes!

[MountAverage]

In other words, you're a total sociopath. Well, we already knew that.

[_Troian_]

Daaayum so thats how u hunt down chicks huh.. nice one man

[Anonymous]

Most of the time it seems it's the woman that loses interest instead of the guy, when after a first date.

[Apope16]

Take these steps above and it reduces that chance. if she's on a date she likes you. Your job is not to fuck up.

[Opinion Owner]

Because of that, it looks like there are far more ways for a man to screw up a date than there is for a woman