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How to have a safe first date if you are a lady! (A good read for guys. (Page 2)
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This is actually really helpful. I was just gonna say carry a gun if you were just gonna suggest pepper spray and a gazer but these are legitimate tips. Bit over the top for my taste but I'm small-town so we don't get any rapes or murders
Finally! A person as paranoid as me.
Also, taking a concealable knife is a good idea if he/she forces anything physically.
Bodycams are very weird but also an option (to pass it off say you are a vlogger and vlog your daily life).
What do you mean safe? You’re never save woman. Think like that and it will be safe safer
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"You’re never save woman. Think like that and it will be safe safer" I have NO idea what that means.
Hope for the best plan for the worst
That is my advice to women for a first date.
Sounds like solid advice if you're trying to hide an entire second family.
Have a second phone. Take them on dates places no one knows you. Preferably out of state. Fake name. Fake job. Even with the second phone block the ID.
They don't go near your home. As things progress maintain the facade. Keep him guessing ladies!
Ideally it would be great if you could talk about him with someone who actually knows him, find out more about him.
Doesn't happen with online dating
Some women can be serial killers or have a group of thugs waiting. Always question why is she being to nice?
Well if you don't tell him your real name, you lied to him. Not very good trait there.
Hang of these things are huge turn offs if she doesn't do, like letting me walk her to her car, telling her name, etc.
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I never meant to suggest that a girl should lie about her name. But she can tell him her nickname, or her first name and not her last name, and that is enough for the first date.
First thing you should trust your partner then only go for a date
If boy try to kiss you you need to stop him
Dating is the process for people to get to know more about each other.
wait, you're not supposed to just whip it out as soon as you see her?
Actually, that is now illegal! :) :) :)
since when?🥴
2017!
lol, very funny
@yankees992012 Oh, I try!
I wonder how many guys going against this would give the very same advice to their young daughters. SMH.
Chaperone them instead.
If your really that afraid then don't date. There are many guys out there that are safe. What you see in the news doesn't happen on daily basis. Get over it and have fun.
"If your really that afraid then don't date." Do you take precautions against other drivers when you leave home in your automobile, or are you simply too afraid and never leave home? You have oversimplified the issue.
"There are many guys out there that are safe." And how does a woman KNOW that before she starts dating you?
It all comes down to what lifestyle you choose. If you hang out with people who are likewise not in the norms of the society then this is what you expect. If you are around with good people then your mindset may change. It quite safe to date and precautions defeats the purpose to get to know your date. As for women same reply to above, it all comes down what lifestyle you choose.
No your wrong there pal. Not getting over our Fear is the worst way you can live your life. Now you say at least maybe you get to live but that’s not a life I
Would want for any price
Late to the party here, When I was single, I date people I know. Those women knew me that I was safe. Living in fear isn't a life to live.
Good stuff for both a man and woman to know. This is very helpful material.
This is very good advice. Well written.
It's sad that women have to take such precautions, so I'd be glad to do what I can to help them feel safer.
Make a woman feel safe, and she will start trusting you, become more comfortable, and want to see you again.
But of course this is only useful if I ever do go on a date 😅😅
I clicked on this because it's a guy trying to tell a woman how to be safe on a date.
Please, tell us about all your experience being a woman, heading to a date!
I don't generally engage in conversations with haughty people named Crotch Rot. Especially when they only engage in name calling instead of commenting on the merits of the subject.
what's wrong with a man giving a woman advice on how to stay safe? his advice is very good. you should consider it. i will. maybe i won't do everything, but the whole fake name thing, i probably will do.
You forgot the most important tip. And thats pack a 38. Revolver under your skirt in case he gets handsy
I wouldn’t worry about being kidnapped on a date. I’ve never dated anybody and I’ve still got people in my basement…
All this tells me is the brotherhood are right for wanting to separate the sexes
I'll just get an arranged marriage.
I’ll marry you lol
Just don’t flash your assets. Then no thieves will come to steal it.
Actually Ted Bundy didn't kill the girls he dated, and he did have several girlfriends over time. It was always strangers. That is why the TV movie about him was called "The Deliberate Stranger".