Why men can't bring themselves to approach women anymore. (Page 2)

[Guy13]

Very well stated...
The Feminists made their bed AND now they either lay alone in it... Lay with another girl in it... and/or lay beside the child that the missing sperm donor left her.

This is the Leftist world where everything that is Good is tainted AND all that Is Right is made Wrong... AND All that is Wrong is made Right.

[myTake Owner]

I don't talk about this with a left vs right perspective, but social justice has contributed to this and largely finds its roots in leftist academics. However, I don't think the Right's response has been very helpful, since it mostly just results in both sides playing the blame game.

I think a lot of sexual violence against women is largely rooted in the relationship between masculinity and sexual dominance over women. This is most obvious in pornographic material. This creates a lot of pressure on men to conform to the resulting expectations. Men with severe insecurity about their masculinity almost always have some preexisting mental health problem. This may also explain why men who commit rape and sexual harassment usually have severe mental health problems. In other words, most men who commit these crimes do so out of desperation to prove their masculinity to themselves. The exceptions mainly being men in positions of power who abuse their privileges.

I base my theory on the conditions in other cultures with different expectations for men and women. Like the Mosuo society in China, for example. For the Mosuo, sex and dominance over women is unrelated to masculinity. Men are not under any social pressure to have as much sex as possible. This coincides with the fact that rape is extremely rare among the Mosuo. So rare in fact that in their own native language, they don't even have a word for it.

Maybe a there's a valuable lesson to be learned from the Mosuo.

[Passportbro5999]

However, I like Harris because she wants to decriminalize prostitution and marijuana. This is actually pro-men and pro-woman

[Tomcat68]

Women should really learn how to approach guys. Guys know what it’s like to not only get rejected but to also be purposely embarrassed. I think because of this most guys are going to be considerate and avoid embarrassing them. The risk is much lower for women.

[MattMattMattMattMatt]

I often read that guys are affraid to behave incorrectly. I feel it's false, we know what is okay or not okay, but we are affraid that women will overeact/exagerate/humiliate us for whatever reason because most of us experienced it. And when it happens, there is consequences. I'm perfectly able to approach a girl respectfully at a party and leave the instant she tells me she's not interested. The reason I'm not doing it is not the fear of rejection but the fear of beeing called a creep if not worse because she just feels like it

[Passportbro5999]

If you’re at a party that’s not a bad place to approach a woman as long as it’s not a bar.

[Anonymous]

It's easy to approach women, but I no longer see it as a good use of my time so no longer do so. There is no doubt that approaching has the potential to destroy my freedom in some way and that is also an unworthy risk. Anything that risks my freedom in anyway is simply not worth it. But as one woman said, plenty of men of other cultures are approaching so there is no problem anyway...

[KrakenAttackin]

I have heard women say some crazy shit. One girl I overheard said "guys never approach hot women, guys only approach 'medium-ugly' women, so if a guy approaches you, that's disrespectful".

This is the crazy shit men have to deal with.

[fonduegirl]

I understand.

Is it okay if we approach you? That's something I've often done, not necessarily in a romantic context, but I wanna know if it annoys you if a woman were to ask you out.

[Xrynx]

I wouldn't be annoyed to to be asked out id be happy to know someone was interested in me to ask me out and i would be pleased to know they have confidence to do so.

[fonduegirl]

@Xrynx you can count on us.

[Xrynx]

i feel happy hearing you say that anon1903🤗

[fonduegirl]

@Xrynx anytime. I hope I can help men pave a smoother road for dating :D and if he doesn't approach, maybe I will!

[myTake Owner]

I know some men are a bit iffy about women approaching them, at least in a romantic sense, probably because they're stuck in the mindset of "must be manly at all costs!" But I don't see what's unmanly about being approached, so I welcome an increase in women doing the approaching.

[fonduegirl]

Good for you

[fonduegirl]

Is there any way for me to know as a dominant woman ifa man wants to be approached or not?

[myTake Owner]

I'm afraid not. For men, approaching a woman is often a blind stab in the dark. It will be for you as well. Unless you like shy guys, in which case, see if he acts flustered around you. Looking at you then immediately looking away as soon as you notice, blushing when you smile at him, etc. Then you can probably chance it.

[fonduegirl]

I've a thing for submissive men 💕💕💕

[myTake Owner]

Noice! I did a poll on that a while ago:
Girls, (see details first) do you like Dom or sub boys? ↗

That's kind of nice to see. A break from the same boring pattern of gorilla men and doll women. Nice to humans once in a while.

You know, since I started Uni, I don't think I have met even one "submissive" woman. They are all ambitious and take no sh*t from anyone. All but 2 of my 20 or so classmates are female too.

[fonduegirl]

Thanks

[fonduegirl]

I've reverse daddy kink too. I dunno how many men would be okay w that tho.

[Xrynx]

Whats a reversw daddy kink

[fonduegirl]

@Xrynx i like being called daddy

[Bl0n6eguy]

I don't know a single guy that would be annoyed if he was approached by a woman, especially if she likes him (unless she was Really mean to him before etc.)

[fonduegirl]

@Bl0n6eguy that's good to hear

[Xrynx]

@ anon1903 you can call me mama , or mama bear. 😊

[fonduegirl]

@Xrynx I don't have that kink. Sorry.

[Xrynx]

Thats fine, just thought id come up with something similar 😅

[Kel89]

So umm you make this thing about men not wanting to be called creeps so you call those dumb enough to still do that creeps and perverts? How many of who you still wish to aproach you are creeps and perverts in your eyes? 99%? Honestly you sound like you just want to keep calling them that and now the option is gone. 🧐

[Anonymous]

I’d encourage all men to stop looking at, checking out, hitting on, or speaking to all women. Most of them don’t want to be approached and in fact we’re doing nothing but bothering them with our attention. Start respecting women and leave them alone.

[Anonymous]

there is no point

women are prostitutes
and women only want like 20% of the male population

and if you are not in the top 20%
they think they are better than you

yet the bum on the street
could fuck them if he wanted

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Women are going after the top 10-5% if you’re in the top 20% below the top 10% you’re not going to have a good time. Women shouldn’t be on the internet and we are at a point now where women need to be institutionalized in female hysteria wards until men can get shit under control again.

[Opinion Owner]

@DeltaCharlieEcho

no you are wrong
men just need to sexually abuse women

women need to be judged end of story
they do not want to change

so let the words of the most high come to pass

[Passportbro5999]

Woman are not prostitutes but we wish more woman were prostitutes in America but we’re to puritanical for that to happen lol

[Sharkstealth]

I have low self esteem in approaching women because of very hateful rejections. Mean things and events towards me. And now harassment and fraud are huge issues.

[SenseiSeptred]

My teachings are not based on gender, they are based on the Code of Bushido, and the attainment of the state of nirvana, period. Live by the Code, die by the Code, remain as essence of the Code.

[msc545]

The safest, best thing a man can do is to avoid women altogether as much as possible. If you want sex, use prostitutes - a lot safer and actually less expensive.

[Passportbro5999]

Exactly my man

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

"When they discuss this among themselves, the overwhelming conclusion they reach is that men are just wimps and don't have confidence anymore."

And where did you got this?

[myTake Owner]

That is what I have legitimately heard from heard from far too many women over the years. My university is over 70% female. It is alarming how often I hear this kind of talk.

[Passportbro5999]

A university is a familiar environment and its men’s best opportunity to meet and date woman. Men in this environment DO NEED to approach woman. Where is this university i need to go to college there lol

[zagor]

LOL I guess you're not a math major. When I was in school maybe 1 in 20 of my post-general-ed classmates were female.

[Slartybartfast]

Try electrical engineering, we had zero women.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Why would we? We can be charged with sexual assault without even saying anything to a woman.

[Xrynx]

Has it actually happend to you before?

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

@Xrynx it has happened to many men. I’ve had false claims leveraged against me in workplaces by people I don’t even interact with. Women are psychotic and we need to start institutionalizing them again and brow beat them into being normal.

[myTake Owner]

@Xrynx While, as it is rare (about 4% of cases in the UK) it does happen and I have met victims of false allegations as well as make harassment victims.

[myTake Owner]

*Male harassment victims.

[Xrynx]

Oh sorry to hear that friend, though not all women are monster obviously, it is best to be careful who you trust some people are very dangerous. not sure why you would be falsely accussed though.
If it were because they didn't like your or, because they wanted something from you. Weird but take care out there

[Passportbro5999]

Thats probably a little extreme but you can get kicked out of places like a bar or gym if a woman wants to complain. You will definitely be embarrassed as hell

[EarthRealm]

I don’t care What Females Think of me. And I sure as Hell ain’t gonna apologize for something.

[joeldalton]

If a guy didn't act like a puss and manned up, he'd probably be swimming in pussy since it's so rare.

[Passportbro5999]

Disagree 100% unless your in a familiar environment. My friends get rejected all the time in unfamiliar environments

[Shiningtempest]

To be honest, I can't bring myself to approach a woman because I don't know if she will falsely accuse me of sexual harassment.

[Anonymous]

You've got a lot of issues. I feel for you on one hand, but I consider most of this to be rubbish.

[Jouth]

because they're cowards